para definirte<\/a>sin ni siquiera ser consciente de ello.<\/p>\nYour past happened and your pain is still present but it shouldn\u2019t be the only thing someone sees in you. And most importantly, it shouldn\u2019t be the only thing you see in yourself.<\/p>\n
No, you can\u2019t erase this pain, as much as you would like to, but it can serve you as a life lesson, instead of being a roadblock.<\/p>\n
All the pain you are feeling is just a test of your strength and it\u2019s about time you start perceiving it that way. It is a part of your life journey and it is up to you whether you\u2019ll choose to hold on to it or you\u2019ll use it as fuel to drive forward.<\/p>\n
Esto puede resultarte chocante, pero el dolor tambi\u00e9n puede servirte de motivaci\u00f3n. Puede empujarte a hacer algunos cambios necesarios en tu vida o a apartar de ella a personas t\u00f3xicas.<\/p>\n
But most importantly, it can teach you to put yourself first. It can help you see that you don\u2019t actually need anyone in your life and that you could fight all of life\u2019s difficulties on your own.<\/p>\n
Y definitivamente te ayudar\u00e1 a ver a las personas que merecen un lugar en tu vida y en las que nunca deber\u00edas ni siquiera intentar confiar. Te ayudar\u00e1 a quererte a ti mismo, incluso cuando est\u00e9s roto en pedazos.<\/p>\n
Sentir dolor no tiene nada de vergonzoso, porque es lo que te hace humano. Lo que tienes que saber es que este sentimiento desaparecer\u00e1 cuando menos te lo esperes. Puedes pensar que te perseguir\u00e1 para siempre, pero cr\u00e9eme, es solo temporal.<\/p>\n
There are great things waiting for you\u2014you just need to be patient. And there will come a day when you\u2019ll realize that everything you were going through right now was worth it. Just be patient. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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But the worst thing for you to do is to start perceiving it as more than just a part of your personality. And this is exactly what you\u2019re doing. You are holding on to it like you have nothing else to offer.<\/p>\n