{"id":15322,"date":"2020-07-27T09:21:28","date_gmt":"2020-07-27T09:21:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15322"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:01:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:01:36","slug":"6-maneras-en-que-el-infiel-se-hace-la-victima","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-maneras-en-que-el-infiel-se-hace-la-victima\/","title":{"rendered":"6 maneras de tratar a un infiel que se hace la v\u00edctima"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ya es bastante malo que te enga\u00f1en, pero que te retraten como un villano y te acusen de ser la raz\u00f3n de su enga\u00f1o es otro nivel de maldad.<\/p>\n<p>And the worst part is that most of us know how it feels to be blamed for someone\u2019s cheating, how it feels to feel guilty for it.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.everydayhealth.com\/emotional-health\/10-tips-confronting-cheater\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Enfrentarse a un infiel<\/a> is bad as it is but when you\u2019re planning on doing it, you need to get ready for his victim card playing as well.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let him convince you that you are the one to blame, don\u2019t let him guilt-trip you into apologizing. Follow these steps when confronting him and get him out of your life as quickly as possible.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sadness doesn\u2019t justify cheating\u2014make sure he hears it loud and clear<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97292\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre intentando hablar con mujer alterada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por muy duras que sean las rachas, enga\u00f1ar nunca es la soluci\u00f3n. Si hay un problema, resolvedlo juntos. Si falta algo, encontradlo juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Ir a tus espaldas para encontrar lo que sea que le falta es la peor clase de traici\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, it\u2019s easier to go around fucking others and blaming it on your relationship but if you truly want your relationship to make it, you stay and you fight.<\/p>\n<p>Nosotros <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/dont-give-people-easily-youre-no-longer-worth-fight\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">don\u2019t give up on people easily but sometimes they\u2019re just not worth the fight<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dile c\u00f3mo se siente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97293\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Man-and-woman-have-serious-conversations.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre y mujer mantienen conversaciones serias\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Man-and-woman-have-serious-conversations.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Man-and-woman-have-serious-conversations-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Man-and-woman-have-serious-conversations-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Man-and-woman-have-serious-conversations-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Man-and-woman-have-serious-conversations-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be afraid of sharing your emotions; tell him all about it. He went on a cheating spree because he was down? Then let him know how you feel now.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know how it feels to be broken by the one person who\u2019s supposed to hold you together.<\/p>\n<p>Dile lo que se siente cuando la \u00fanica persona que pod\u00eda evitar que lloraras es la persona que te hizo llorar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cuando estabas deprimido, segu\u00edas siendo fiel<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97294\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/couple-talking-at-cafe-and-drinking-tea-1.jpg\" alt=\"pareja hablando en un caf\u00e9 y bebiendo t\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/couple-talking-at-cafe-and-drinking-tea-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/couple-talking-at-cafe-and-drinking-tea-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/couple-talking-at-cafe-and-drinking-tea-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/couple-talking-at-cafe-and-drinking-tea-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/couple-talking-at-cafe-and-drinking-tea-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Everyone has rough days, everyone has days when they don\u2019t think they can make it out of bed. But it still doesn\u2019t mean that you cheat on him because that\u2019s not what love is about.<\/p>\n<p>Since when is it okay to cheat just because you\u2019re missing something in your relationship? It\u2019s not. Nor will it ever be.<\/p>\n<p>Aseg\u00farate de que lo sabe. Aseg\u00farate de que lo recuerda bien porque est\u00e1is juntos en esa relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Si a \u00e9l le faltaba algo, a ti tambi\u00e9n, y aun as\u00ed seguiste siendo fiel.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Haz que se pregunte sobre la situaci\u00f3n inversa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97295\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking.jpg\" alt=\"hombre mira confundido mientras la mujer habla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-looks-confused-while-woman-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There is a possibility that he actually feels like a victim, so ask him how he would feel if you cheated on him. He won\u2019t be feeling like a victim much longer, trust me.<\/p>\n<p>Porque, sea cual sea el problema, si quieres solucionarlo, puedes. Enga\u00f1ar es directamente asesinar la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Utilice pruebas si las tiene<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97296\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/girlfriend-showing-her-cheating-boyfriend-his-cellphone.jpg\" alt=\"novia ense\u00f1ando el m\u00f3vil a su novio infiel\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/girlfriend-showing-her-cheating-boyfriend-his-cellphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/girlfriend-showing-her-cheating-boyfriend-his-cellphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/girlfriend-showing-her-cheating-boyfriend-his-cellphone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/girlfriend-showing-her-cheating-boyfriend-his-cellphone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/girlfriend-showing-her-cheating-boyfriend-his-cellphone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si tienes alguna prueba de que te enga\u00f1a, \u00fasala. Si tienes una foto de \u00e9l disfrutando de la compa\u00f1\u00eda de otra mujer, \u00fasala en su contra.<\/p>\n<p>The happy-looking man on the photo sure as hell doesn\u2019t look like a victim.<\/p>\n<p>Lo s\u00e9, duele ver a alguien que amas con otra persona, pero que \u00e9l juegue la carta de v\u00edctima en ti es a\u00fan m\u00e1s doloroso.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t listen to him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97297\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Man-apologizes-to-upset-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Un hombre se disculpa ante una mujer disgustada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Man-apologizes-to-upset-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Man-apologizes-to-upset-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Man-apologizes-to-upset-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Man-apologizes-to-upset-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Man-apologizes-to-upset-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfHay algo que realmente pueda decir para compensar lo que ha hecho? \u00bfHay algo que pueda reparar tu coraz\u00f3n roto y tu confianza?<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo puede herirte m\u00e1s y hacer que te sientas peor por haberte enga\u00f1ado. Cari\u00f1o, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/truth-nothing-will-stop-pursuing-truly-wants\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">nada le impedir\u00e1 perseguirte si realmente lo desea<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Just because he is incapable of loving and committing to you, doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re not worthy of being loved.<\/p>\n<p>If you already made up your mind about walking away, don\u2019t waste another second on him. He\u2019s not worth it anyway.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-97298 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/6-Ways-To-Deal-With-A-Cheater-Who-Plays-The-Victim-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"6 maneras de tratar a un infiel que se hace la v\u00edctima\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/6-Ways-To-Deal-With-A-Cheater-Who-Plays-The-Victim-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/6-Ways-To-Deal-With-A-Cheater-Who-Plays-The-Victim-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/6-Ways-To-Deal-With-A-Cheater-Who-Plays-The-Victim-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/6-Ways-To-Deal-With-A-Cheater-Who-Plays-The-Victim-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/6-Ways-To-Deal-With-A-Cheater-Who-Plays-The-Victim-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/6-Ways-To-Deal-With-A-Cheater-Who-Plays-The-Victim-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/6-Ways-To-Deal-With-A-Cheater-Who-Plays-The-Victim-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s bad enough to be cheated on but to be portrayed as a villain and accused as the reason for their cheating is a whole other level of bad. And the worst part is that most of us know how it feels to be blamed for someone\u2019s cheating, how it feels to feel guilty for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":97299,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15322","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/6-Ways-To-Deal-With-A-Cheater-Who-Plays-The-Victim.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15322","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15322"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15322\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97299"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15322"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15322"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15322"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}