Between men and women, men are more likely to cheat on their long-term relationship partners. Here are the common reasons 3 types of men have affairs, as well as tips on recognizing the signs when it\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n
\u00bfQu\u00e9 3 tipos de hombres tienen aventuras?<\/h2>\n
\u00bfTodos los hombres enga\u00f1an? M\u00e1s exactamente, \u00bfenga\u00f1ar\u00edan todos los hombres si tuvieran la oportunidad?<\/p>\n
Seg\u00fan un Encuesta Social General <\/a> y el an\u00e1lisis demogr\u00e1fico de la infidelidad en EE.UU., los hombres casados son m\u00e1s probable<\/em> than married women to cheat, but the gap isn\u2019t as wide as you\u2019d think: 20% of men and 13% of women reported that they\u2019d had extramarital affairs.<\/strong><\/p>\n Even assuming that some men lied and didn\u2019t admit to unfaithfulness in the above-mentioned survey, it still doesn\u2019t mean that all men cheat.<\/p>\n De hecho, s\u00f3lo 3 tipos de hombres tienen aventuras: hombres que no se sienten queridos y temen dejar a sus esposas, narcisistas y hombres inmaduros<\/b><\/a> que quieren tenerlo todo.<\/strong><\/p>\n Things are more complex than that, of course, so let\u2019s take a closer look at these 3 types of men who have affairs.<\/p>\n Calling him a coward might be harsh, but it\u2019s not as bad as him cheating on his wife. This type of cheater is usually a married man who has become disconnected from his wife but doesn\u2019t have the courage to end the relationship or work on repairing it.<\/strong><\/p>\n Things aren\u2019t always black and white. A man in an unhappy relationship isn\u2019t the only person to blame for the things that aren\u2019t working.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, hab\u00eda problemas de intimidad <\/a> y opt\u00f3 por afrontar los problemas de su relaci\u00f3n traicionando a su pareja cuando otras soluciones podr\u00edan haber conducido a resultados diferentes.<\/strong><\/p>\n El problema con estas otras soluciones, como enfrentarse a su pareja y comunicarse abiertamente, es mucho m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil. Requiere vulnerabilidad emocional y esfuerzo<\/b>. It\u2019s far easier to start over and look for closeness elsewhere, potentially forcing the relationship to end.<\/p>\n \u00bfQu\u00e9 ocurre aqu\u00ed? Estas son las etapas por las que pasa.<\/p>\n \u2022 Something is missing from his relationship and his marriage<\/strong>. La vida pas\u00f3 y \u00e9l y su mujer se distanciaron. La cantidad de amor y afecto que sol\u00eda recibir de su esposa se ha desvanecido con el tiempo.<\/p>\n \u2022 His wife isn\u2019t who she used to be.<\/strong> She\u2019s not as loving, as caring, or as sexy as she once was. She doesn\u2019t give him the attention he needs. He feels like she no longer cares about his emotional and sexual needs or what’s going on with him.<\/p>\n \u2022 The falta de intimidad emocional y sexual<\/a><\/strong> le hace sentir resentimiento hacia su mujer y desilusionarse con su matrimonio.<\/p>\n \u2022 He misses being desired.<\/strong> He wishes his wife would meet his needs, but he\u2019s afraid to talk to her. Maybe she\u2019s a nag or a bully, or she\u2019s kind and sweet. Either way, he\u2019s unhappy with her and fantasea con otra persona <\/a>.<\/p>\n \u2022 He decides to turn to affairs to fulfill his needs<\/strong>. He\u2019s looking for someone who seems interested in him as a person. He wants validation. He needs his ego stroked and for his sex life to become more exciting.<\/p>\n \u2022 The marriage is crumbling<\/strong>. Instead of communicating with his partner and working on his relationship or, if they can\u2019t work out, ending things, he decides to cheat. When he\u2019s caught, it\u2019s over.<\/p>\n \u2022 It\u2019s much easier to cheat to end his relationships<\/strong> instead of dealing with the issues directly. Even if they stay together, they won\u2019t be the same married couple they were before he had an affair.<\/p>\n Este tipo de comportamiento es lo mismo que abandonar el matrimonio sin informar a su mujer, con el a\u00f1adido de herirla y traicionar su confianza.<\/strong><\/p>\n En pocas palabras, narcissists are people who are so selfish that they completely disregard other people\u2019s importance.<\/strong> This doesn\u2019t mean that they\u2019re sin saberlo<\/em> of other people\u2019s needs and feelings, only that they\u2019re completely irrelevant to them unless they can be used.<\/p>\n Una persona con trastorno narcisista de la personalidad se siente con derecho<\/strong> \u2013 to admiration and attention, to things and people \u2013 and he gets upset when he doesn\u2019t get what he believes he deserves.<\/p>\n Manipular y perjudicar a los dem\u00e1s <\/a> le resulta natural. He doesn\u2019t think about the impact of his behavior<\/strong> on other people \u2013 because other people aren\u2019t important.<\/p>\n This leads to behaviors that hurt his partner, and he doesn\u2019t see what the problem is.<\/p>\n He\u2019s capable of emotional compartmentalization and separates love from sex.<\/strong> In his case, separating love and sex doesn\u2019t mean that he can have sex with people he doesn\u2019t love, which isn\u2019t a problematic behavior in itself \u2013 it\u2019s that he considers sex completely inconsequential.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00bfC\u00f3mo se aplica esto al enga\u00f1o?<\/p>\n \u2022 He doesn\u2019t consider sex a matter of consequence<\/strong> and doesn\u2019t get why his partner would take his cheating to heart. He\u2019s capable of having sex with anyone without feeling anything, not only about the person but also the repercussions.<\/p>\n For example, he wouldn\u2019t understand why his one-night stand might hurt his primary relationship any more than simply having a conversation with another woman would. This doesn\u2019t excuse him \u2013 he still knows it\u2019s wrong, but he simply doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n \u2022 Sex in the affair means nothing to him<\/strong> \u2013 it just happens. When he sees an opportunity, he takes it. If a woman is open to his sexual advances, he sees no reason he shouldn\u2019t pursue an encounter or affair with her. It\u2019s just sex, after all, and instead of being a big deal, it\u2019s simply available.<\/p>\n Esto tambi\u00e9n puede conducir a la adicci\u00f3n al sexo.<\/p>\n \u2022 Because sex is such a casual thing<\/strong> para \u00e9l, subestima cu\u00e1nto puede herir a su pareja con su comportamiento. Su falta de empat\u00eda hacia los dem\u00e1s y su enfoque distante y oportunista del sexo pueden llevarle a enga\u00f1ar a varias parejas.<\/p>\n When he\u2019s involved in several affairs, he\u2019s using the women he\u2019s cheating with to meet his needs without considering theirs. Necesita atenci\u00f3n constante de las mujeres <\/a>y elige lo que le gusta de cada uno de ellos, creando una relaci\u00f3n a medida.<\/p>\n \u2022 Even though he has no moral qualms<\/strong> de herir a su pareja con su comportamiento, este tipo de ad\u00faltero sigue siendo consciente de que est\u00e1 mal y de que tendr\u00e1 ciertas consecuencias. No tiene remordimientos, sino que se excita al comportarse mal.<\/p>\n He sees himself as a thrill-seeker, and the risk of getting caught makes him enjoy his affair even more. He likes it that he could get caught, but the fact that it\u2019s a chance to screw up his whole life doesn\u2019t matter to him.<\/p>\n This kind of cheater is in a relationship or marriage with someone he doesn\u2019t see as a partner but as a caretaker. In a way, \u00e9l ve a su mujer como su madre, y \u00e9l doesn\u2019t have the maturity<\/b><\/a> para trabajar en sus problemas.<\/strong><\/p>\n Quiere tenerlo todo: una relaci\u00f3n estable en casa con alguien que cuide de \u00e9l y una relaci\u00f3n excitante fuera de su matrimonio. Por esta raz\u00f3n, act\u00faa como un adolescente o, m\u00e1s exactamente, an immature mama\u2019s boy <\/a>.<\/p>\n \u2022 He says he’s in love with his wife, but he really likes the convenience<\/strong> and what he gets from her. He behaves like an adolescent: he\u2019s looking for independence, but he still wants his \u201cmom\u201d (his wife) to take care of him at home.<\/p>\n He enjoys the sneaking around that comes with cheating \u2013 he sees it as rebelling against the rules that his mom-wife has imposed<\/strong>. Todo el esfuerzo y el complot necesarios para tener una aventura secreta le dan la emoci\u00f3n de salirse con la suya.<\/p>\n \u2022 To him, cheating is also a way of taking control.<\/strong> Because he sees his wife as someone responsible for him who does so much for him, making a decision without her feels like he\u2019s in charge. He\u2019s seeking validation and trying to increase his self-esteem by proving that he exists outside of his marriage.<\/p>\n \u2022 He doesn\u2019t like his daily life.<\/strong> He might be married to a wife who makes him feel inadequate, or he simply sees her that way because he doesn\u2019t like that she reacts when se comporta de forma inmadura<\/a>.<\/p>\n \u2022 If su pareja tiene poco apetito sexual<\/a> or isn’t interested in sex<\/strong> tanto como \u00e9l, puede acabar sintiendo una frustraci\u00f3n sexual que busca solucionar fuera del matrimonio. En lugar de hablar con su mujer e intentar resolver este problema, decide ponerle los cuernos.<\/p>\n \u2022 He\u2019s another kind of cheater who compartmentalizes his sex life.<\/strong> He separates people into those he loves and those he has sex with, or more accurately, he thinks that there\u2019s \u2018wife sex\u2019 and \u2018lover sex,\u2019 or believes that his esposa es para el amor, y su compa\u00f1ero de aventura es para el sexo.<\/strong><\/p>\n He judges people by their sexual behavior, and he\u2019s ashamed of some of his desires.<\/strong> Because he doesn\u2019t want to be married to a woman who does certain things and behaves in a certain way, he\u2019d never talk to his partner about his desires or ask her to fulfill them.<\/p>\n Esto le lleva a tener relaciones sexuales aburridas e insatisfactorias con su mujer<\/strong>. Si a esto le a\u00f1adimos que ve a su mujer todos los d\u00edas en una variedad de contextos poco sensuales, la relaci\u00f3n con su compa\u00f1era sentimental parece una comida para picar mientras se est\u00e1 a dieta.<\/p>\n The woman he\u2019s cheating with seems like a glamorous, sexual being who wears lingerie and perfume and is willing to do that thing he\u2019d never ask his wife to. El sexo con ella es genial por su falta de inhibiciones con el aspecto a\u00f1adido de la fantas\u00eda y la transgresi\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n Los hombres que tienen aventuras muestran muchas banderas rojas y se\u00f1ales que pueden pasarse por alto f\u00e1cilmente. Sometimes the person who\u2019s being cheated on subconsciously turns a blind eye and plays ignorant on purpose.<\/strong><\/p>\n Keeping up with an affair isn\u2019t simple \u2013 trying to keep it hidden means lots of acting, strategizing, and remembering to keep his story straight. Still, when you don\u2019t want something to be true, it becomes easy to ignore the warning signs that he\u2019s cheating<\/a>.<\/p>\n When a man displays several of the following signs, there\u2019s a chance that he\u2019s engaging in an affair.<\/p>\n \u2022 Lack of interest in sex<\/strong>. If he\u2019s suddenly less interested or not interested in sex with his wife at all, it can mean that he\u2019s getting what he needs elsewhere.<\/p>\n \u2022 Different sexual behavior.<\/strong> When you do have sex, he does things he\u2019s never done before, even if he\u2019s not usually the experimental type.<\/p>\n \u2022 Suspicious phone use.<\/strong> Some examples are: hiding his phone, always keeping it on silent, not answering when you\u2019re around, always texting, being unable to reach him on the phone at certain times, change in use of social media apps, and receiving calls he says are from the wrong number, etc.<\/p>\n \u2022 Suspicious computer use.<\/strong> Podr\u00eda ocultar su uso del ordenador, apagarlo o minimizar una ventana cuando te acerques, utilizar el ordenador a altas horas de la noche mientras duermes, borrar el historial de su navegador, dejar de utilizar dispositivos compartidos, etc.<\/p>\n \u2022 Sudden interest in his appearance<\/strong>. Si empieza a vestirse mejor o a ponerse colonia, se hace un nuevo peinado, empieza a hacer ejercicio o se pone a dieta, podr\u00eda ser a warning sign that he\u2019s cheating on you<\/a> y quiere quedar mejor con su pareja.<\/p>\n \u2022 Works longer hours,<\/strong> pero cuando le preguntas c\u00f3mo van las cosas en el trabajo, s\u00f3lo tiene respuestas vagas.<\/p>\n \u2022 Starts going out with friends.<\/strong> If he says that he\u2019s meeting friends more often than he used to, he might not be meeting them at all.<\/p>\n \u2022 Suddenly can\u2019t account for his time.<\/strong> He might pick up new hobbies or interests that require his time but doesn\u2019t want to talk about it.<\/p>\n \u2022 Suspicious money issues.<\/strong> He suddenly spends more money but doesn\u2019t talk about it, or he stops making plans that would require you to spend a higher amount of money, such as going on vacation together.<\/p>\n \u2022 You stop doing things together.<\/strong> You don\u2019t hang out, visit other people together, or spend time with family. You feel like he avoids you.<\/p>\n \u2022 You know he lies to you.<\/strong> He obviously lies or acts secretive. He\u2019s anxious when you ask him questions.<\/p>\n \u2022 He behaves oddly.<\/strong> Something is off in his behavior. He\u2019s negative, defensive, distant, and critical. He picks fights and has mood swings.<\/p>\n \u2022 Gaslighting.<\/strong> He gets angry if you ask him about cheating. He tells you you\u2019re imagining things, or he accuses you of cheating.<\/p>\n \u2022 Your gut feeling says he\u2019s cheating.<\/strong> Even if you don\u2019t acknowledge the things you\u2019ve noticed out loud, if you pick up suspicious changes in his everyday behavior, your intuition will tell you that something is going on. Trust your instincts.<\/p>\n La \u00fanica respuesta real es porque as\u00ed lo deciden.<\/p>\n Puede haber un mill\u00f3n de excusas que pueda utilizar para enga\u00f1ar, un mill\u00f3n de formas de justificar por qu\u00e9 era lo \u00fanico que pod\u00eda hacer, pero ninguna de ellas es la verdadera raz\u00f3n. Hay muchas causas subyacentes que pueden llevar al enga\u00f1o, pero al final, la gente enga\u00f1a<\/b> porque eligen hacerlo<\/b><\/a>.<\/p>\n He might claim that he\u2019s not built for monogamy, that he has mental issues that caused it, or it was in the heat of the moment. Yes, there\u2019s always a problem with the relationship or a problem with the person that leads to cheating, but la raz\u00f3n por la que los hombres tienen aventuras es simple: <\/strong>porque deciden hacer trampas, y lo hacen.<\/strong><\/p>\n El hecho es que most men don’t stop cheating because they feel guilty or because they don’t want to be that person anymore but because they get caught<\/strong> te cuenta todo lo que necesitas saber sobre lo que los hombres infieles piensan en realidad.<\/p>\n Men who don\u2019t cheat are men who have chosen not to cheat.<\/strong> Instead, they deal with the problems that cheaters claim are what lead them to having affairs in emotionally mature and productive ways that don\u2019t cause their wives pain.<\/p>\n Existen distintos tipos de aventuras porque las personas buscan cosas diferentes fuera de sus relaciones primarias. There are things that some people don\u2019t even consider cheating, while they can cause heartbreak in others.<\/strong> He aqu\u00ed algunas tipos de enga\u00f1o<\/a> que la gente practica.<\/p>\n Una aventura emocional<\/a> carece de intimidad sexual pero implica una conexi\u00f3n emocional con otra persona. Puede desarrollarse entre compa\u00f1eros de trabajo, amigos o conocidos y, con el tiempo, puede crear da\u00f1os duraderos en la relaci\u00f3n con la pareja enga\u00f1ada.<\/p>\n At first, it can be justified as being \u2018just friends,\u2019 but the emotional intimacy involved in this kind of relationship often oversteps the boundaries of friendship.<\/strong> When he\u2019s closer and more fond of his \u2018just friend\u2019 than his wife, cuenta como trampa <\/a>, and it can\u2019t be denied that it\u2019s an affair.<\/p>\n Una aventura rom\u00e1ntica puede desarrollarse a partir de una aventura emocional o porque un hombre inicie una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica y sexual con otra mujer. It\u2019s a love affair that would be considered normal if he didn\u2019t have a wife who he is knowingly hurting by being in another relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n He can try to justify it by blaming it on the magic of falling in love or claiming that his wife doesn\u2019t understand him as much as the other woman. This type of affair often lasts for a long time and can be on and off.<\/p>\n Una relaci\u00f3n puramente sexual, como una aventura o un rollo de una noche, rara vez ocurre una sola vez. Un hombre que enga\u00f1a a su mujer de esta manera a menudo desarrolla un patr\u00f3n de conducta y sigue involucr\u00e1ndose en este tipo de asuntos.<\/strong><\/p>\n En muchos casos, no hay problemas en su matrimonio, pero la raz\u00f3n por la que practica sexo extramatrimonial es porque tiene una oportunidad y la aprovecha.<\/strong> A veces se arrepiente de estas aventuras e intenta parar, pero al final vuelve a ellas.<\/p>\n Esta es la aventura cuando un hombre quiere seguir casado y continuar con su aventura durante mucho tiempo. Cuando un hombre quiere relaciones tanto con su esposa como con su pareja<\/strong>, he\u2019ll jump through hoops to keep his affair hidden.<\/p>\n Quiere todos los beneficios que ofrecen estas dos relaciones.<\/strong> His affair partner doesn\u2019t understand that he\u2019s using her <\/a>. She often believes that he\u2019ll eventually leave his wife, but if forced to choose, he\u2019ll stay with his wife.<\/p>\n Este es el tipo de aventura en la que el infiel quiere conseguir algo teniendo una aventura.<\/strong> Una de las razones podr\u00eda ser vengarse de su mujer si le ha enga\u00f1ado.<\/p>\n Another situation is if he\u2019s trying to get caught and cause the end of his marriage. If he doesn\u2019t have the courage to leave his wife, he might get her to leave him by cheating on her and making it easy for her to find out.<\/p>\n1. El cobarde descuidado<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. El narcisista oportunista<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n3. The immature mama’s boy<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00bfCu\u00e1les son las se\u00f1ales de advertencia de un infiel?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los hombres te enga\u00f1an aunque te quieran?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00bfCu\u00e1les son los distintos tipos de asuntos?<\/h2>\n
1. La aventura emocional<\/h3>\n
2. El romance<\/h3>\n
3. El asunto del sexo casual<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. The \u2018mistress\u2019 affair<\/h3>\n
5. The \u2018make a point\u2019 affair<\/h3>\n
It\u2019s All About Choices<\/h2>\n