{"id":153839,"date":"2022-06-20T15:58:57","date_gmt":"2022-06-20T15:58:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=153839"},"modified":"2022-06-24T08:37:00","modified_gmt":"2022-06-24T08:37:00","slug":"por-que-los-chicos-dejan-de-enviar-mensajes-y-luego-empiezan-de-nuevo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-los-chicos-dejan-de-enviar-mensajes-y-luego-empiezan-de-nuevo\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los chicos dejan de enviar mensajes y vuelven a hacerlo? 19 razones"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hmm… Por qu\u00e9 los chicos dejan de enviar mensajes de texto<\/a> and then start again? I\u2019m sure it all starts like this:<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a1Felicidades! You\u2019ve been texting for weeks\/months now and you\u2019re 99% sure your relationship is on its way to becoming something more.<\/strong> Y entonces \u00a1BUM!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ya no te responde. Ha dejado de enviarte mensajes de repente sin decirte por qu\u00e9, para que sepas si debes alarmarte o tom\u00e1rtelo a la ligera.<\/p>\n

Como mujer, seguro que s\u00e9 que el p\u00e1nico es lo primero que nos viene a la cabeza en estas situaciones.<\/strong> I mean, it\u2019s really a BIG DEAL when someone you really like suddenly stops texting you for no reason!<\/p>\n

Do you know what\u2019s even more confusing?<\/strong> Cuando empieza a enviarte mensajes de nuevo despu\u00e9s de un cierto tiempo (tiempo que solemos pasar pensando demasiado y dramatizando).<\/p>\n

Yes, in our head there isn\u2019t one valid reason for such a selfish act but today, we\u2019ll try to look at things from a different perspective.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Today we\u2019ll answer the famous question: Why do guys stop texting and then start again? Take a deep breath and let\u2019s get to work! ?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los chicos dejan de enviar mensajes y vuelven a hacerlo?<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

I would be more than happy if there was only one reason why guys stop texting and then start texting you again. Unfortunately, there is a list of common reasons why they do that. I\u2019m sure the following reasons will bring you some clarity:<\/p>\n

1. He\u2019s mentally preoccupied with other things<\/h3>\n

One of the most common reasons why guys suddenly stop texting is that they are bad at multitasking! I can confirm the validity of this statement because the guy I\u2019m seeing right now is going through this.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s preoccupied with other things and that\u2019s why we no longer text as frequently as we did before.<\/strong> A veces, me manda mensajes al cabo de dos o tres d\u00edas, o incluso de una semana.<\/p>\n

He admitted that he\u2019s really bad at multitasking and he needs to redirect all his focus on the thing he\u2019s doing at the moment. He also told me that, once he\u2019s done with it, he\u2019ll go back to his normal texting behavior. ?<\/p>\n

2. He\u2019s scared of how much he likes you<\/h3>\n

\u00bfTe preocupa su h\u00e1bitos de env\u00edo de mensajes<\/a>? Puede que est\u00e9 preocupado por sus sentimientos. Sus altos niveles de afecto hacia ti en realidad lo asustan.<\/p>\n

Yup, that\u2019s actually possible. There are guys who are afraid of their feelings because vulnerability is not their strongest attribute.<\/strong> They\u2019re simply not ready to admit to themselves that they are crazy about you.<\/p>\n

Por eso, optan por ignorarte durante un tiempo y luego vuelven. Muy molesto, estoy de acuerdo.<\/p>\n

3. He\u2019s testing you<\/h3>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Why do guys stop texting for a few days, back off, and then start texting you again? It could be that he\u2019s actually testing you. Espera, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 har\u00eda eso?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because he\u2019s not sure whether you like him or not. Then, why doesn\u2019t he simply ask you? Porque los hombres.<\/strong> ?<\/p>\n

So, if you show concern when he stops texting you, he\u2019ll take this as confirmation that you like him. He knows that a woman who is not interested in a man would never bother about him not texting her any longer.<\/p>\n

4. Jugar duro para conseguirlo<\/h3>\n

We all know that playing hard to get is primarily a woman\u2019s sport but men are not excluded either.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSe est\u00e1 haciendo el duro?<\/a> \u00bfCree que no enviarte mensajes durante unos d\u00edas har\u00e1 que le persigas?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, he\u2019s probably right about it. We women are really suckers for men who shower us with attention and then make us beg for it.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s playing hard to get, you can do the same!<\/strong> Fortunately, two can play this game and it\u2019s only a matter of time before someone will admit that they\u2019ve had enough. That\u2019s when the real game begins!<\/p>\n

5. He\u2019s busy texting others<\/h3>\n

Or maybe the reason why he\u2019s ghosting you is that he\u2019s busy texting other ladies. That and him being a player are the two worst reasons for his selective texting.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say that he no longer texts you because he suffers from the el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In other words, he thinks there are more attractive and prettier women out there and he doesn\u2019t want to miss out.<\/p>\n

Because of that, he\u2019s sitting on multiple chairs until he falls down.<\/strong> Luego se levanta de nuevo y empieza a mandarte mensajes otra vez. El consejo del d\u00eda: Don\u2019t be anyone\u2019s second choice<\/a>.<\/p>\n

6. Por algo que hiciste<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los chicos dejan de enviar mensajes y luego vuelven a hacerlo? Puede que el motivo seas t\u00fa. Quiz\u00e1 le dijiste algo que le enfad\u00f3 o le insultaste involuntariamente.<\/p>\n

Literally, it could be anything, and since I\u2019m not a seer by profession, you\u2019ll have to find the reason on your own<\/strong>. You\u2019ll do that by evaluating previous communication and any arguments that you might have had.<\/p>\n

If you find out that you\u2019re the reason why he stopped texting you, make sure to apologize to him.<\/strong> And remember that this is totally okay. We all make mistakes because we\u2019re human beings, right?<\/p>\n

7. Quiere ir un poco m\u00e1s despacio<\/h3>\n

Every single one of us has our own pace when it comes to dating and relationships. What\u2019s fast for him may not be fast for you and vice versa.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que una de las razones por las que dej\u00f3 de enviar mensajes de texto es que decidi\u00f3 ir m\u00e1s despacio con los mensajes de texto y todo eso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, presta atenci\u00f3n a los tiempos. Un chico nuevo que conoc\u00ed sol\u00eda dejar de enviar mensajes a mitad de la conversaci\u00f3n. Cuando le pregunt\u00e9 por qu\u00e9 lo hac\u00eda, me dijo que quer\u00eda ir m\u00e1s despacio.<\/p>\n

8. Se te acabaron los temas interesantes<\/h3>\n

\u201cHe texted me every day, and then he stopped.\u201d What\u2019s up with this guy? Why did he suddenly decide to ghost you after so many interesting conversations you had?<\/p>\n

Puede que simplemente se te acaben las cosas interesantes y emocionantes de las que hablar.<\/strong> Si a tu chico no le gustan las conversaciones triviales, lo entiendo perfectamente.<\/p>\n

Tal vez algunos textos coquetos<\/a> will tickle his imagination and you\u2019ll no longer have to worry about him stopping texting you.<\/p>\n

9. Necesita espacio<\/h3>\n

\"tel\u00e9fono<\/p>\n

\u00bfNecesita espacio<\/a>? Maybe that\u2019s the reason why he decided not to text you for a couple of days.<\/p>\n

Ten en cuenta que no todos los hombres hacen esto cuando necesitan espacio.<\/strong> Algunos te lo dicen de verdad (como uno de mis amigos).<\/p>\n

Shout out to all those guys who tell honestly what\u2019s on their minds!<\/p>\n

10. He\u2019s just not that into you<\/h3>\n

I always say: If he\u2019s not that into you, his texting behavior will show it.<\/p>\n

Or maybe you went on a date but it didn\u2019t go well. If that\u2019s the case with you, then you know he\u2019s just not that into you<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And yes, he\u2019s kind of a coward for not telling you honestly how he feels but he chooses to ghost you. That\u2019s why you\u2019re better off without him anyway.<\/p>\n

11. Quiere que anheles su presencia<\/h3>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa que un chico deje de enviarte mensajes todos los d\u00edas? Podr\u00eda significar que quiere que le eches de menos.<\/p>\n

Because of that, he no longer texts you, and he\u2019s no longer responsive on social media (he no longer likes your posts) and things like that.<\/strong> Hace todo esto para que anheles su presencia.<\/p>\n

He wants you to miss him because he\u2019s either unsure about your feelings for him or he\u2019s seeking attention.<\/p>\n

12. He\u2019s unsure of your compatibility<\/h3>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u201cDej\u00f3 de mandarme mensajes<\/a>.\u201d \u201cI have no idea why and what I should do about it.\u201d Maybe you should give him some time because he might be unsure of your compatibility.<\/p>\n

Do you think that you\u2019re compatible? Is there any reason why he would think otherwise?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve noticed that, when men are unsure of their feelings or your overall compatibility, they immediately pull back.<\/p>\n

Van a pasar tiempo en su cueva de hombres para aclarar las cosas.<\/strong> After doing that, they either text you back or subtly let you know that you\u2019re simply not meant for each other.<\/p>\n

13. Intentos de validaci\u00f3n y b\u00fasqueda de atenci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n

\u00bfSabes qu\u00e9 tipo de hombres suelen buscar validaci\u00f3n y atenci\u00f3n? Hombres con baja autoestima<\/a>. Chicos que buscan constantemente la atenci\u00f3n femenina<\/a> puede ser una verdadera carga.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1n literalmente dispuestos a hacer cualquier cosa para obtener una dosis de validaci\u00f3n y atenci\u00f3n de los dem\u00e1s.<\/strong> No mandarte un mensaje y volver a mand\u00e1rtelo al cabo de un tiempo es uno de sus m\u00e9todos favoritos para llamar la atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

To us, it\u2019s one of the most annoying things we have to deal with but that\u2019s just how it goes. We\u2019re talking about a vicious cycle that isn\u2019t easy to break.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about one of the verdades psicol\u00f3gicas sobre el ghosting<\/a> by Psychology Today: \u201cPeople who are ghosted become more likely to do the same to someone else.\u201d<\/p>\n

14. He\u2019s intimidated by you<\/h3>\n

Is it possible that he doesn\u2019t text you back because he feels intimidated by you? Sure. There are many guys nowadays who feel intimidated by a successful and independent woman.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s what I have to say to them: \u201cIf you feel intimidated by me, then you definitely don\u2019t deserve me. If you play texting games with me, I won\u2019t be interested in you.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Only weak men are intimidated by powerful women. Don\u2019t fall to their level. Find a man who is strong enough not to be intimidated; someone who is proud of you.<\/p>\n

15. He\u2019s bad at texting<\/h3>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los chicos dejan de enviar mensajes y luego vuelven a hacerlo? Mi primer encuentro virtual con un chico que es malo enviando mensajes de texto<\/a> was truly annoying. I thought the guy didn\u2019t like me at all!<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo puede gustarte alguien y no tener ganas de mandarle un mensaje?<\/strong> A m\u00ed me parece contradictorio, pero para ellos tiene mucho sentido.<\/p>\n

If that\u2019s what\u2019s happening to you at the moment, then face-to-face communication or phone calls are great alternatives.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, just don\u2019t force him to text you back because this can only make things worse.<\/p>\n

16. He wants to see how you\u2019ll react<\/h3>\n

Seriously? Are you telling me that he wants to see how my reaction will be once he stops texting me? I bet that\u2019s what you\u2019re thinking right now. ?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa que un chico deje de enviarte mensajes?<\/strong> Sometimes it means that he wants to see whether you\u2019ll become overly needy or clingy.<\/p>\n

When he no longer sends you good morning texts or those random texts he used to send you, he wants to see whether you\u2019ll notice it. He wants to see how you\u2019ll cope with it.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSeguir\u00e1s adelante inmediatamente? \u00bfTe enfadar\u00e1s con \u00e9l? \u00bfO te desesperar\u00e1s?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Como siempre, la elecci\u00f3n es suya.<\/p>\n

17. Quiere ser misterioso<\/h3>\n

Why do guys text less after a while? Well, one of the reasons is that they want to add some mystery to the equation. Perhaps he\u2019s scared that he\u2019ll start boring you; hence all those disappearing acts.<\/p>\n

I know this is one of the weirdest reasons why a guy would stop texting you, but it\u2019s definitely one of the possible reasons.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Advice to guys: There are other ways to preserve the mystery. You don\u2019t need to ghost a woman in order to get her attention.<\/p>\n

I hope they\u2019ll understand the absurdity of their actions.<\/p>\n

18. Indisponibilidad emocional<\/h3>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You\u2019re being ghosted because he\u2019s emotionally unavailable<\/a>y, por lo tanto, no est\u00e1 preparado para algo serio.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not ready for a new relationship, he has some major overthinking sessions in the background, and that\u2019s when he decides to stop contacting you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve had a fair share of dealing with emotionally unavailable guys and my only advice to you would be: CORRE POR TU VIDA.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even think of texting him until he figures out exactly what he wants at the moment. If he\u2019s not ready for something serious at the moment, don\u2019t wait for him.<\/p>\n

19. He\u2019s a player<\/h3>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los chicos dejan de enviar mensajes y luego vuelven a hacerlo? \u00bfTe enviar\u00eda un jugador un mensaje de texto todos los d\u00edas<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Si he\u2019s playing mind games with you<\/a>, chances are he\u2019ll text you intensely in one moment, and in the other, he\u2019ll ignore you completely.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Muchas mujeres acaban enviando mensajes a un jugador sin ni siquiera saberlo. Una cosa es segura: If you\u2019re dealing with a player, heartbreak is inevitable.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This kind of guy will text you only when it\u2019s convenient for him because he doesn\u2019t care about other people\u2019s feelings. You deserve better.<\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9 hacer cuando deja de enviarte mensajes de texto<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Bombarding him with \u201cI love you\u201d texts is not a solution. Mensajes dobles<\/a> tampoco es una soluci\u00f3n, ya que esto podr\u00eda dar lugar a un mont\u00f3n de mensajes de texto sin respuesta de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t make this complicated because there\u2019s no need for that. Instead of offering you a list of possible things you could do when he stops texting you, I\u2019ll summarize it all into two choices:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 Talk to him.<\/h3>\n

Todos sabemos que una comunicaci\u00f3n sana es la clave para evitar dramas. You\u2019re two adults and if your affection is mutual, I don\u2019t see a reason why you couldn\u2019t solve this through an honest and open conversation.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dile lo que piensas de que ignore tus mensajes. Se lo dije a un chico y me dio toda la raz\u00f3n. Lo entendi\u00f3.<\/p>\n

So, what you need to do is let him know what he\u2019s doing is just not right (unless he has a valid explanation for it).<\/strong> After you\u2019re done talking, then it\u2019s up to him how he\u2019ll take it.<\/p>\n

\u00bfDecidir\u00e1 cambiar? \u00bfSer\u00e1 capaz de llegar a un acuerdo?<\/em><\/p>\n

Por supuesto, esto depende en gran medida de los niveles de su afecto hacia ti.<\/strong> Cr\u00e9eme, si de verdad le importas, har\u00e1 lo que sea para hacerte feliz. (En realidad no cualquier cosa, pero me entiendes).<\/p>\n

\u2022 Walk away from him.<\/h3>\n

If talking to him doesn\u2019t bear fruit and his reasons for ghosting you are not valid, then consider walking away from him. You don\u2019t deserve to be someone\u2019s second choice.<\/p>\n

Te mereces un hombre que siempre encuentre tiempo para responderte. Un hombre que no te preocupe ni te haga pensar demasiado. Merece la pena quedarse con un hombre as\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If he stops texting you for no apparent reason, his message to you is very clear: \u201cI stopped texting you because I don’t really care about how this will make you feel.\u201d<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give him the benefit to stop texting you whenever he wants. Instead, marcharse<\/a> y haz que suplique tu atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me ha vuelto a enviar mensajes de repente?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The most common reason why guys suddenly text you again is that they\u2019re interested in what\u2019s going on in your life. They want to know about your love life, future plans, you name it. They text you again to see whether they have a chance with you or because they\u2019re legit players.<\/p>\n

Dicho esto, aqu\u00ed hay dos sub-razones por las que los chicos de repente te vuelven a mandar mensajes:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Because he likes you.<\/h3>\n

Obviamente, un chico al que le gustas te enviar\u00e1 un mensaje porque le gustas y quiere formar parte de tu vida.<\/p>\n

Depending on the reasons why he stopped texting you, now he wants to see whether you\u2019re still available<\/strong>. More importantly, he wants to see whether you\u2019re still interested in him.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re interested in him, then feel free to text him back. Still, you shouldn\u2019t ignore the fact that he ignored you for some time<\/strong>. P\u00eddele que justifique su comportamiento y luego decide si debes o no darle una segunda oportunidad.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Because he\u2019s playing with you.<\/h3>\n

Another reason why a guy might text you again is that he\u2019s playing games with you. He doesn\u2019t like you but he needs you to like him.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs un narcisista disfrazado?<\/a>? It\u2019s definitely not excluded. What he\u2019s doing is soplando fr\u00edo y calor<\/a>. Te da lo suficiente para mantenerte interesado y luego desaparece.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As you\u2019re craving his presence, he comes back again. I\u2019m pretty sure every single woman on the planet is sick and tired of such behavior from men.<\/strong> Yo primero.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s playing with you, don\u2019t think twice about cutting off all communication because life is too short to be surrounded by gente t\u00f3xica<\/a>.<\/p>\n

No se preocupe<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Le ruego que no se preocupe demasiado por esta cuesti\u00f3n, \u201cWhy do guys stop texting and then start again?\u201d<\/em> Let me explain\u2026<\/p>\n

If he likes you, he will text you back or he will have a valid explanation why he didn\u2019t.<\/strong> If he isn\u2019t into you or he\u2019s a player, he will text you when it\u2019s convenient for him and he won\u2019t care about how you feel.<\/p>\n

En lugar de preocuparte por los chicos que dejan de mandarte mensajes y luego vuelven a empezar, preoc\u00fapate por tu bienestar.<\/strong> Make sure that you\u2019re living your life to the fullest and everything else will fall into place (including your love life).<\/p>\n

Y s\u00ed, te mereces que te contesten<\/a> and if he doesn\u2019t know it, then he\u2019s not worthy of being with you. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n

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