{"id":15386,"date":"2020-04-28T08:57:53","date_gmt":"2020-04-28T08:57:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15386"},"modified":"2022-02-10T01:59:51","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T01:59:51","slug":"esta-es-la-razon-por-la-que-se-rindio-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esta-es-la-razon-por-la-que-se-rindio-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que renunci\u00f3 a ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ten\u00edas una chica que te quer\u00eda incondicionalmente. Ten\u00edas una chica que se esforzaba, una chica que siempre ve\u00eda lo mejor de ti.<\/p>\n

Tuviste una chica que crey\u00f3 en ti incluso cuando t\u00fa dejaste de creer en ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Una chica que te empuj\u00f3 hacia adelante y que intent\u00f3 hacer de ti un hombre mejor.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00edas una chica dispuesta a sacrificarse por tu bienestar, una chica que siempre antepon\u00eda tus necesidades a las suyas.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00edas una chica que te cubr\u00eda las espaldas, pasara lo que pasara, una chica que te apoyaba y estaba a tu lado contra todo y contra todos.<\/p>\n

And the best part was that she never asked for anything in return. She didn\u2019t want your gratitude\u2014s\u00f3lo quer\u00eda que le correspondieras.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And you couldn\u2019t do even that. <\/strong>La alejabas constantemente, como si la estuvieras poniendo a prueba. Quer\u00edas ver cu\u00e1nto pod\u00eda aguantar.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Llegaste a estar tan seguro de ella que pensaste que nunca te dejar\u00eda<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Y entonces finalmente se rindi\u00f3 contigo. Tuvo una larga batalla consigo misma. Le cost\u00f3 m\u00e1s valor y fuerza de lo que puedas imaginar, pero lo consigui\u00f3. Y por primera vez, you became aware of what you\u2019d lost<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 contigo porque<\/a> se cans\u00f3 demasiado.<\/strong> Intent\u00f3 quedarse, pero estaba agotada.<\/p>\n

Se cans\u00f3 de llorar hasta dormirse, de esperar a que llamaras o vinieras.<\/p>\n

Se cans\u00f3 de resolver tus problemas, de intentar cambiarte, de vivir tu vida, mientras se desentend\u00eda completamente de s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n

Se dio cuenta de que era la \u00fanica que se esforzaba en vuestra relaci\u00f3n y eso la cans\u00f3 emocional y f\u00edsicamente.<\/p>\n

Se cans\u00f3 de esperar a que entraras en raz\u00f3n, se cans\u00f3 de que la abandonaras y volvieras a ella a tu antojo.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., perdi\u00f3 la esperanza.<\/strong> Durante mucho tiempo, pens\u00f3 que cambiar\u00edas.<\/p>\n

She accepted you for who you really were but she hoped that you\u2019d change the way you treated her.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

But after a while, she saw that wasn\u2019t happening and that it would never happen. So she accepted the harsh reality and moved on with her life.<\/p>\n

Ella te abandon\u00f3 porque dejaste de hacerla feliz. Al principio, cuando intentabas conquistarla, hac\u00edas todo lo posible por hacerla feliz.<\/p>\n

Pero con el paso de los a\u00f1os, fue como si olvidaras que su felicidad tambi\u00e9n importaba.<\/p>\n

Everything was only about you, her well-being wasn\u2019t relevant anymore.<\/p>\n

You know she never asked for much, she didn\u2019t ask you to take her out to fancy restaurants nor did she ask for expensive presents.<\/p>\n

Podr\u00edas haberla hecho feliz f\u00e1cilmente con muestras de tu afecto, porque era alguien que sab\u00eda disfrutar de las peque\u00f1as cosas. Pero dejaste de hacer incluso eso.<\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 porque nunca fue una prioridad para ti.<\/a>. Todo y todos en tu vida eran m\u00e1s importantes que esta chica. Y t\u00fa siempre fuiste una prioridad para ella.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Se trataba de una chica que siempre estaba a tu lado pero a la que dejaste colgada en numerosas ocasiones.<\/p>\n

Nunca la elegiste por encima de nadie y eso la hizo sentir como si estuviera mendigando tu atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 contigo porque finalmente decidi\u00f3 que ya era hora de dejar de priorizar a alguien que s\u00f3lo la consideraba una opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

She gave up on you because you took her for granted. You thought that there was nothing you could do that would make her leave you. And you acted that way\u2014you took her for granted and made it very clear that you would never chase her.<\/p>\n

Supusiste que pod\u00edas ser el mayor imb\u00e9cil con ella y que seguir\u00eda a tu lado.<\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 contigo porque se dio cuenta de que se merec\u00eda algo mejor.<\/strong> After many years, she finally came to her senses and admitted to herself that you didn\u2019t deserve her love.<\/p>\n

Se dio cuenta de que se merec\u00eda un hombre maduro que estuviera a su lado, alguien que la quisiera y apreciara todo lo que ten\u00eda que ofrecer.<\/p>\n

She knew she deserved someone who wouldn\u2019t play mind games and someone who would respect her enough not to mistreat her. Even though you played with her confidence, she managed to see her true worth.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te abandon\u00f3 porque ten\u00eda que salvarse a s\u00ed misma.<\/strong> Durante muchos a\u00f1os, intent\u00f3 luchar contra tus demonios.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda arreglar todos tus problemas emocionales. Siempre que te romp\u00edas en pedazos, ella estaba ah\u00ed para recomponerte.<\/p>\n

But finally she realized that there are some people who simply don\u2019t want to be healed. And she realized there was nothing she could do for you anymore.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo la estabas arrastrando a la oscuridad contigo mismo. Ella sab\u00eda que ten\u00eda que salvarse y la \u00fanica forma de hacerlo era abandon\u00e1ndote.<\/p>\n

She felt guilty for leaving you, even after everything you\u2019d put her through.<\/p>\n

Pero ella sab\u00eda que hab\u00eda llegado el momento de elegir entre los dos. Y por suerte para ella, que ella misma eligi\u00f3.<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo cuando viste que realmente te hab\u00eda dejado, te diste cuenta de todo. Y ahora, har\u00edas cualquier cosa por tenerla de vuelta.<\/p>\n

Sigues intentando reconquistarla, prometiendo que esta vez ser\u00e1s un hombre mejor.<\/p>\n

Pero por favor, d\u00e9jala ir.<\/strong> For once, don\u2019t be selfish. Allow her to find her own happiness because it is obvious that you couldn\u2019t give it to her.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/strong>Carta al hombre que me quiere de vuelta: ya es demasiado tarde<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Esta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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