{"id":153979,"date":"2022-06-21T20:49:37","date_gmt":"2022-06-21T20:49:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=153979"},"modified":"2022-06-22T10:54:53","modified_gmt":"2022-06-22T10:54:53","slug":"senales-de-que-una-aventura-se-esta-convirtiendo-en-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-una-aventura-se-esta-convirtiendo-en-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"19 se\u00f1ales claras de que una aventura se est\u00e1 convirtiendo en amor (\u00bfy ahora qu\u00e9?)"},"content":{"rendered":"

When your affair started, the last thing you thought about was that you\u2019d be looking for se\u00f1ales de que una aventura se est\u00e1 convirtiendo en amor<\/strong>. Or maybe I\u2019m wrong.<\/p>\n

If we\u2019re talking about infidelidad emocional<\/a>entonces hay muchas posibilidades de que se convierta en algo m\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As you can see, this is a non-judgemental zone for people who, for some reason, are having an affair. I won\u2019t go into detail about por qu\u00e9 se producen los amor\u00edos<\/a>, and I won\u2019t play the blame game by calling you a cheater.<\/p>\n

Cada persona tiene sus propias razones para hacer algo (o no hacerlo), y yo lo respeto.<\/strong> I\u2019m here to help you figure out whether your affair is turning into love so that you can prepare yourself.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll also learn how to deal with it. I hope you\u2019re ready! ?<\/p>\n

Se\u00f1ales de que una aventura se est\u00e1 convirtiendo en amor (\u00a1cuidado!)<\/h2>\n

If the majority of the following signs an affair is turning into love resonate with you, then you know you\u2019re about to enter the zone of \u201cbeing something more\u201d:<\/p>\n

1. Est\u00e1n en tu mente 24\/7<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Constantemente fantasear con otra persona<\/a> than your current partner is a telltale sign you\u2019re starting to develop strong feelings for them.<\/p>\n

A menudo te acuerdas del famoso dicho coger vuelos, no sentimientos<\/a><\/em>, but it simply doesn\u2019t work.<\/strong> You already know that you\u2019ve caught feelings for your affair partner, and now you have no idea what to do.<\/p>\n

Your affair is turning into something more because you can\u2019t stop thinking about them no matter what you do. And every time they text you, you can\u2019t help but smile like a little child.<\/p>\n

2. You\u2019re spending more and more time together<\/h3>\n

Hay muchos tipos de asuntos<\/a>Pasar cada vez m\u00e1s tiempo con su pareja es uno de los signos de una aventura emocional. Rara vez piensas en pasar tiempo con tu pareja actual o en tu relaci\u00f3n actual.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The main source of your joy has become spending time with your affair partner. You\u2019re constantly thinking of new ways to have fun and spend quality time with them.<\/p>\n

Ya no s\u00f3lo os veis por la noche; las citas diurnas tambi\u00e9n han empezado a ser tendencia.<\/strong>. Of course, there\u2019s still the fear that your current partner might figure out what exactly is going on.<\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t bother you much because you already know that your relationship has come to an end.<\/p>\n

3. You\u2019ve started sharing A LOT OF personal details<\/h3>\n

Compartir demasiado con tu pareja es sin duda una de las etapas de los asuntos emocionales<\/a>. It\u2019s when you share everything with them just like you once did with your current partner.<\/p>\n

Te sientes c\u00f3modo hablando con ellos de tus miedos, sue\u00f1os, cosas que te han pasado en el trabajo e incluso problemas en tu relaci\u00f3n actual.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sharing a lot of personal details leads to building a deep emotional connection. The more you share with one another, the more connected you become. That\u2019s how you know your affair is slowly but surely turning into love.<\/p>\n

4. Comparar a su pareja con su pareja actual<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Once you find yourself comparing the behavior of your affair partner with your current partner\u2019s behavior, then you know it\u2019s not only an affair.<\/p>\n

De repente, empiezas a notar todo lo que le falta a tu pareja actual.<\/strong> Encontrar todas esas cosas en un compa\u00f1ero sentimental es lo que hace que te sientas tan atra\u00eddo por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Compara su personalidad, sus objetivos vitales y tu compatibilidad general con ellos.<\/strong> If you\u2019re more compatible with your affair partner, then you know you\u2019re more connected to them than your current partner.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019ve started putting extra effort into your appearance<\/h3>\n

Hitting the gym, updating your wardrobe, and always looking fresh have become your main concerns. You\u2019ve clearly started putting extra effort into both your well-being and appearance.<\/p>\n

\u00bfA qu\u00e9 se debe? \u00bfLo haces para impresionar a tu pareja o a tu pareja?<\/strong> I\u2019m sure the former is the case.<\/p>\n

Quieres que se fijen en ti, que te feliciten y que les gustes. Poner un esfuerzo extra en tu apariencia siempre tiene un motivo<\/strong>. En este caso, el motivo es que te has enamorado de tu pareja y quieres que ella tambi\u00e9n se enamore de ti.<\/p>\n

6. You\u2019re drifting apart from your current partner<\/h3>\n

\u00bfEs amor o enamoramiento?<\/a> Spending less time with your current partner definitely means that your affair is becoming serious. It\u2019s no longer just an infatuation like you might have thought.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re clearly drifting apart from your current partner in every aspect of its meaning.<\/strong> Ya no ten\u00e9is citas, y vuestra falta de intimidad y afecto son algunos de los signos de que os est\u00e1is distanciando.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re no longer interested in doing anything with your current partner because you enjoy doing things more with your affair partner. Yes, this is one of the signs an affair is turning into love.<\/p>\n

7. Sientes que tu pareja te entiende mejor<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando piensas en compartir tus pensamientos m\u00e1s profundos con alguien, lo primero que te viene a la mente es ELLOS. Sabes que tu compa\u00f1ero sentimental es quien mejor te entiende, y quiz\u00e1s tu compa\u00f1ero sentimental tambi\u00e9n te quiere.<\/p>\n

Slowly but surely, you\u2019re building a strong emotional connection without even being aware of it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When something bad happens to you, or you need a piece of advice, you don\u2019t go to your current partner. Instead, you contact ELLOS<\/strong> porque son los que mejor te entienden.<\/p>\n

Este es probablemente el mayor indicio de la seriedad de tu aventura.<\/p>\n

8. Hablar a horas intempestivas se ha convertido en la norma<\/h3>\n

Las llamadas telef\u00f3nicas a horas intempestivas son sin duda una de las se\u00f1ales de que una aventura se est\u00e1 convirtiendo en amor (o deber\u00eda decir se\u00f1ales de advertencia). You can\u2019t wait to talk to them at night and share every single detail of your life with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Talking at odd hours has become your guilty pleasure. You might feel guilty for doing this behind your partner\u2019s back, but you simply can\u2019t help yourself.<\/p>\n

Salir a escondidas de madrugada s\u00f3lo para o\u00edr que su voz es m\u00e1s fuerte que la tuya.<\/strong> That\u2019s how you know your \u201crelationship\u201d is becoming more intimate than before.<\/p>\n

9. Se te han despertado mariposas en el est\u00f3mago<\/h3>\n

Cuando uno de mis amigos admiti\u00f3 que estaba teniendo una aventura extramatrimonial, tambi\u00e9n a\u00f1adi\u00f3 que le hab\u00edan vuelto las mariposas al est\u00f3mago. \u00bfEs eso posible? Supongo que s\u00ed.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s possible when you aren\u2019t only having a physical affair but are also connected emotionally.<\/strong> Las mariposas en el est\u00f3mago son el resultado de la excitaci\u00f3n, la compatibilidad y el entendimiento mutuo.<\/p>\n

Estas mariposas te lo dicen:<\/strong> \u201cYou can\u2019t wait to see that person again. You\u2019re under the influence of happy chemicals, and you know your affair is turning into something more serious.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

10. Su pareja se ha convertido en su confidente<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Do you feel a strong urge to share every single detail of your life with your affair partner? If yes, then you know they\u2019ve become your confidante. Esto es m\u00e1s popular entre mujeres infieles<\/a> que los hombres infieles.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfSabes cu\u00e1l es la raz\u00f3n principal por la que se convierten en tus confidentes? Conf\u00edas en ellos, te comprenden y tienes una conexi\u00f3n especial con ellos.<\/p>\n

Todas estas cosas son en realidad se\u00f1ales de que una aventura se est\u00e1 volviendo seria.<\/strong> It\u2019s practically impossible to build something more meaningful without healthy communication and emotional intimacy. I\u2019m sure you already know that.<\/p>\n

11. Empiezas a sentirte abrumado<\/h3>\n

\u201cOMG, I\u2019m in a long-term relationship, and I\u2019m starting to develop feelings for my affair partner.\u201d<\/em> Perhaps you didn\u2019t want to have a love affair, but it just happened.<\/p>\n

Your love life has become more complicated than ever before, and you\u2019re perfectly aware of it.<\/strong> As a matter of fact, you\u2019re completely OVERWHELMED<\/strong> por ella.<\/p>\n

You beg the universe to give you a sign about what you should do about the situation you\u2019re in. If all this creates such confusion in your life, then you know you\u2019re already in the middle of something more serious. You\u2019re in the middle of falling in love with your affair partner.<\/p>\n

12. Tu pareja te hace m\u00e1s feliz<\/h3>\n

Despu\u00e9s de pasar tiempo con tu pareja, tus niveles de positividad se disparan y te sientes genial. Claramente te sientes m\u00e1s feliz pasando tiempo con ellos que con tu pareja.<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s a major red flag of an affair turning into something more. The sole fact that you can\u2019t stop thinking about when you\u2019ll see them again tells you a lot about what exactly is going on here.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019re on your mind, and you enjoy spending time with them. When they\u2019re not together, you can\u2019t wait to see them again. Their presence makes you happier than your current partner\u2019s presence.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s only a matter of time before you admit this to yourself and realize you ought to make some big changes. Life is too short to be with someone who makes you unhappy, right?<\/p>\n

13. Empiezas a replantearte tu futuro<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u00bfDe repente has empezado a pensar en tu futuro? \u00bfSigues vi\u00e9ndote con tu pareja actual a largo plazo, o han cambiado las cosas?<\/p>\n

Si las cosas han cambiado, tambi\u00e9n es una de las se\u00f1ales de que una aventura se est\u00e1 convirtiendo en amor.<\/strong> Ten en cuenta que no todas las parejas (o matrimonios) son felices. A veces, las aventuras se convierten en nuevas relaciones.<\/p>\n

If you start thinking more about your future (or about the signs your affair partner loves you), it\u2019s clear that something has changed. You can\u2019t imagine spending the rest of your life with your current partner and neither in multiple affairs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your current affair partner is actually someone who means a lot to you, and that is why you\u2019re reconsidering your choices and replanning your future.<\/p>\n

14. Le cuesta concentrarse<\/h3>\n

\u00bfLas relaciones sentimentales se convierten en amor? Cuando las relaciones sentimentales se convierten en amor, inmediatamente te resulta dif\u00edcil concentrarte en otra cosa que no sea en ellas.<\/p>\n

Recuerdo cuando mi amiga una vez me pregunt\u00f3 \u00bfExtra\u00f1an los hombres casados a sus compa\u00f1eras sentimentales<\/a><\/em>? Se lo dije: S\u00ed, los echan de menos si desarrollan sentimientos m\u00e1s fuertes hacia ellos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lo mismo se aplica a las mujeres. Si le resulta dif\u00edcil concentrarse en otra cosa, sabr\u00e1 que su mente se ha desviado hacia su aventura.<\/p>\n

You know you miss their presence when they\u2019re not around.<\/strong> \u00bfPuede decir lo mismo de echar de menos a su pareja actual? Si no es as\u00ed, ya conoce la respuesta a todas sus preguntas.<\/p>\n

15. You\u2019re arguing more than before with your current partner<\/h3>\n

Constant arguments in a relationship are always an indication that something\u2019s not right. In this case, they are an indication of your internal battle regarding your affair.<\/p>\n

Deep down in your heart, you know you\u2019re more drawn to your affair partner than your current partner, and this has become the source of your frustration.<\/strong> Cuanto m\u00e1s tiempo pases con ellos (tu pareja amorosa), m\u00e1s feliz y, al mismo tiempo, m\u00e1s desgraciado ser\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

You know you\u2019re not in a healthy relationship if arguments have become how you talk to one another.<\/strong> You\u2019re arguing more than before because you\u2019re deeply unhappy with them, which can\u2019t be said about your affair.<\/p>\n

16. You\u2019re hiding everything from your current partner<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Of course you\u2019re hiding because you\u2019re having an affair, right? It\u2019s also because you know you\u2019re in the middle of emotional cheating. That\u2019s why you\u2019re looking for signs an affair is turning into love.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re hiding everything from your current partner because you wouldn\u2019t survive them finding out about your affair.<\/strong> Evidentemente, este asunto significa mucho para ti.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to get caught at the moment, but you\u2019re convinced that everything will fall into place at some point. Until that happens, you\u2019ll continue hiding everything from your current partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n

After all, you wouldn\u2019t survive them asking you things like: \u00bfLes quieres? \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo llevan vi\u00e9ndose? \u00bfSignifico algo para ti?<\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019re simply not ready to tell them the truth (or admit it to yourself either).<\/p>\n

17. Sigues acosando a tu pareja en las redes sociales<\/h3>\n

Relaciones sentimentales y mensajes de texto<\/a> se han convertido en dos t\u00e9rminos interconectados hoy en d\u00eda. Vivimos en la era de las redes sociales, donde la comunicaci\u00f3n instant\u00e1nea casi ha sustituido a las conversaciones cara a cara.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to say is the following: If you\u2019re having an affair and you find yourself stalking their profile on social media, then you know things are getting serious.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You like their every post, you comment on their every post, and you\u2019re the first to see all their stories. You do that because they\u2019re constantly on your mind.<\/p>\n

So, when you\u2019re thinking about someone, it\u2019s completely natural to constantly check their social media profiles. By doing that, you feel closer to them.<\/p>\n

18. You don\u2019t mind if your current partner cheats too<\/h3>\n

You don\u2019t care if your current partner\u2019s coworker is hitting on them. You also don\u2019t mind if they\u2019re going to have a one-night stand, emotional affair, or sexual affair.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re okay with all of that. Why? Because you\u2019re having an affair as well. But it\u2019s not only that. It\u2019s because you no longer have feelings for your current partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you did, you would show at least a little bit of jealousy and disappointment when thinking about them cheating on you. If you\u2019re okay with that, it just shows how indifferent you actually are about your relationship.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n demuestra que tu aventura se est\u00e1 convirtiendo poco a poco en algo m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

19. Your affair partner\u2019s media files are accumulating<\/h3>\n

It\u2019s no longer just a physical affair. It\u2019s more than physical attraction, and you know it too. Some legit evidence of that is your affair partner\u2019s media files on your phone.<\/p>\n

Tienes m\u00e1s fotos y v\u00eddeos de ellos que de tu pareja actual. As\u00ed que, cuando tu pareja no est\u00e1 mirando, compruebas en secreto todas esas fotos y v\u00eddeos de tu pareja.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You do that because you miss them. You don\u2019t delete anything they send you because every single text is like a keepsake. Well, that\u2019s how you know things got serious.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Normally, if you didn\u2019t have feelings for your affair partner, you wouldn\u2019t think twice about deleting their texts, pics, or anything else. Am I right?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 debe hacer si su aventura se est\u00e1 convirtiendo en amor?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Okay, you\u2019ve just realized that your affair is turning into love, and you have no idea what to do about it. I\u2019ll skip writing all those novelty-length paragraphs and try to simplify things.<\/p>\n

So, here\u2019s my ultimate advice: Take it or leave it. You have two options here:<\/p>\n

\u2022 End the relationship with your current partner.<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re 100% sure that your affair is turning into something more, and you\u2019re catching feelings for them, then end the relationship with your current partner. Easier said than done, right?<\/p>\n

Piensa en c\u00f3mo te sientes en tu relaci\u00f3n actual.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfEs usted feliz? \u00bfCrees que t\u00fa y tu pareja actual pod\u00e9is arreglar todos los problemas que se han acumulado en vuestra relaci\u00f3n? \u00bfTodav\u00eda les quieres? \u00bfCrees que podr\u00edas volver a quererles?<\/em><\/p>\n

Las respuestas a estas preguntas te ayudar\u00e1n a decidir qu\u00e9 es lo mejor que puedes hacer.<\/strong> Ten en cuenta que tanto t\u00fa como tu actual pareja merec\u00e9is ser felices. Si terminar la relaci\u00f3n con ellos os har\u00eda felices a los dos, hazlo.<\/p>\n

\u2022 End the affair.<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re still unsure whether your affair is turning into something more serious, but you have feelings for your current partner, then end the affair.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re thinking of fighting for your current relationship, sooner or later, you\u2019ll have to end the affair.<\/strong> Antes de hacerlo, le sugiero que aprenda c\u00f3mo poner fin a una aventura con integridad<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Cuando se trata de salvar su relaci\u00f3n actual, ejercicios para generar confianza tras una infidelidad<\/a> o terapia de pareja<\/a> se recomiendan.<\/p>\n

Es especialmente recomendable si a su pareja le cuesta aprender c\u00f3mo perdonar a un infiel.<\/a> <\/strong>Recuerde que su relaci\u00f3n tardar\u00e1 alg\u00fan tiempo en sanar y en perd\u00f3nate por haberte enga\u00f1ado<\/a>.<\/p>\n

In addition, here\u2019s one consoling fact on infidelidad y amor\u00edos por el Instituto Zur<\/a>: \u201cMany couples, in fact, come out of the infidelity crises stronger and more committed.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Interesante punto. ?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPuede una aventura convertirse en un amor duradero?<\/h2>\n

Yes, affairs can turn into true love, but this doesn\u2019t happen overnight. As you spend more and more time with your affair partner, your emotional connection becomes stronger.<\/p>\n

Through time, your affair can turn into something more serious because real love doesn\u2019t choose.<\/strong> It\u2019s true that most physical affairs end up as such, while emotional affairs have a chance of turning into love.<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that this doesn\u2019t happen often, but it can happen for sure.<\/strong> No puede equivocarse si sigue tu instinto<\/a> y sigue a tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/a><\/p>\n

Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I hope these signs an affair is turning into love have helped you figure out what exactly is going on in your love life. I understand if you\u2019re feeling confused and lost at the moment.<\/p>\n

Que sepas que esta confusi\u00f3n no durar\u00e1 para siempre.<\/strong> Sooner or later, you\u2019ll have to choose between your affair and your current partner.<\/p>\n

If your affair is turning into love and you\u2019re deeply unhappy in your current relationship, I think you already know what the best thing to do is. Whatever you decide to do, I wish you good luck and send you a big hug!<\/p>\n

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