{"id":15468,"date":"2020-07-28T13:52:08","date_gmt":"2020-07-28T13:52:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15468"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:54:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:54:57","slug":"no-se-puede-salvar-a-un-hombre-que-no-quiere-ser-salvado-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-se-puede-salvar-a-un-hombre-que-no-quiere-ser-salvado-2\/","title":{"rendered":"No se puede salvar a un hombre que no quiere ser salvado"},"content":{"rendered":"

What we want for others doesn\u2019t work unless they want it for themselves. – Bryant McGill<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Por desgracia, hay tanta gente rota en este mundo y tanta gente que necesita ser salvada o al menos guiada. Hay tanta gente que quiere sanar pero no tiene ni idea de c\u00f3mo hacerlo.<\/p>\n

I think that we\u2019re all a little bit broken. We\u2019ve all been through hell at some point <\/strong>de nuestras vidas y ca\u00edmos tan hondo que nos desesperamos y nos permitimos pensar que no hab\u00eda salida. <\/strong><\/p>\n

La conclusi\u00f3n es que todos pasamos por un infierno y sobrevivimos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tal vez debido al pesado camino que nos vimos obligados a recorrer en nuestras vidas, sentimos que tenemos que facilitar el camino a quienes amamos.<\/p>\n

Pero la verdad es que todos necesitamos caminar por nuestras propias verdades<\/a> y destinos para que podamos crecer y estar preparados para las cosas m\u00e1s grandes de nuestras vidas.<\/p>\n

A veces, cuando la vida somete a las personas a demasiadas pruebas, deciden no luchar contra ellas y se dejan llevar por la corriente.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

But if you allow the things you go through in life determine what your life is going to look like, then what are you living? It\u2019s your task to take care of yourself and make sure you\u2019re happy.<\/p>\n

Por desgracia, no mucha gente est\u00e1 dispuesta a hacerlo.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s even worse than letting life carry you like the breeze carries the fallen leaf is this idea that people plant in their minds about how they can save everyone.<\/p>\n

Okay, yes, there are some people worth saving, there are people who need just a little bit of guidance, but not everyone can be saved and that\u2019s the ugly truth.<\/p>\n

Those who don\u2019t want to be saved can\u2019t be convinced into saving themselves.<\/p>\n

They say that you can only love broken people and hope they\u2019ll respond to that treatment. But sometimes even love can\u2019t make a man heal if he doesn\u2019t want to change.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si se niega a ver que le pasa algo, \u00bfqui\u00e9n eres t\u00fa para convencerle de lo contrario?<\/strong><\/p>\n

We\u2019re all aware of ourselves and if he thinks that there is nothing wrong with him, if he thinks he\u2019s okay, you\u2019ll just lose yourself in trying to convince him that he\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n

Si le gusta donde est\u00e1, \u00bfqui\u00e9n eres t\u00fa para intentar cambiarlo?<\/strong> Perhaps he doesn\u2019t know better, but perhaps he doesn\u2019t want better.<\/p>\n

It can be the case he\u2019s settling for less, but it can also be that he\u2019s perfectly happy with the place where his mind is at.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t want to be saved, who are you to save him?<\/strong> There are people who are okay with their toxicity; there are people who\u2019d rather look away than face the truth.<\/p>\n

Hay personas que quieren seguir huyendo de lo que les hace da\u00f1o antes que enfrentarse a su dolor y as\u00ed hacer que desaparezca.<\/p>\n

And there isn\u2019t a person whose loving or caring in this world who could change that.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

I know you\u2019re scared but you need to superar el miedo a perder a alguien<\/a> who isn\u2019t good for you.<\/p>\n

And you need to stop giving all of you to someone who\u2019s toxic.<\/p>\n

Because if there is something wrong with him and he\u2019s refusing to acknowledge it, there is a high probability you\u2019ll get sucked into the vortex of his toxicity, too.<\/p>\n

Por mucho que quieras a esa persona, debes anteponerte a ti mismo. Siempre debes cuidar de ti primero. Porque puede que no haya nadie que te salve cuando lo necesites.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And you need to stop believing that story about how life has been too harsh on someone. It has been too harsh on all of us, but that\u2019s not an excuse to just go with the flow and be an asshole towards others.<\/p>\n

Todas las personas que conoces est\u00e1n librando alguna batalla interior. Y aunque ser\u00eda m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil rendirse, vinimos a este mundo como luchadores.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que abandonar la negatividad<\/a> and the futile battle of trying to save a man who doesn\u2019t want to be saved.<\/p>\n

\"Ri\u00f1a<\/p>\n

If your love doesn\u2019t make him want to change, if having you next to him doesn\u2019t changes things, if your efforts are in vain and he\u2019s oblivious to his state, it\u2019s not your task to save him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You should never lose yourself in trying to save others. You should love them and if love isn\u2019t enough, then there isn\u2019t much more you can do.<\/p>\n

Ernest Hemingway dijo: Lo m\u00e1s doloroso es perderse en el proceso de amar demasiado a alguien y olvidar que uno es especial.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Don\u2019t allow anyone, regardless of how much you love them, break you or change who you are.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let other people\u2019s pain make your spark shine a little less. Don\u2019t lose yourself in the process of trying to save a man who doesn\u2019t want to be saved. Save yourself.<\/p>\n

You cannot make someone understand a message they aren\u2019t ready to receive.<\/em> – May this be the lesson you\u2019ll remember for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

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What we want for others doesn\u2019t work unless they want it for themselves. – Bryant McGill Unfortunately, there are so many broken people in this world and so many people who need saving or at least guidance. There are so many people who want to heal but have no idea how to get there. I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":95951,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15468","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/You-Can\u2019t-Save-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-Want-To-Be-Saved.jpg",800,547,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15468","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15468"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15468\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95951"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15468"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15468"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15468"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}