{"id":15493,"date":"2020-04-01T09:01:18","date_gmt":"2020-04-01T09:01:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15493"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:16:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:16:32","slug":"10-senales-seguras-quiere-algo-serio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-seguras-quiere-algo-serio\/","title":{"rendered":"10 se\u00f1ales inequ\u00edvocas de que quiere algo serio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Relationships are hard. And I mean, really hard. You are doing your best, trying to find a way to make it work, but sometimes, regardless of how hard we try, it just doesn\u2019t work out: he is not interested in a relationship; he is a player; there is no chemistry.<\/p>\n

There are countless reasons, but let\u2019s face it girls\u2014almost relationships and commitment phobes are the worst of them all.<\/p>\n

Te hacen sentir la mujer m\u00e1s afortunada del mundo y desaparecen cuando las cosas se ponen serias.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not because something is wrong with us; it\u2019s because they are not ready to commit.<\/p>\n

Y nos hace preguntarnos si todos los hombres son iguales; nos hace preguntarnos si tal vez nosotras no somos adorables.<\/p>\n

Y hacer que alguien sienten que no se les quiere<\/a> es lo peor que le puedes hacer a la persona.<\/strong> Cr\u00e9eme, yo lo sabr\u00eda.<\/p>\n

\"novia<\/p>\n

We have all found ourselves stuck in front of the wall called \u2018what the hell do I do now?\u2019.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the point of a relationship where you are no longer dating casually, but you\u2019re still not sure if he is interested in getting serious.<\/p>\n

Y las citas ya son dif\u00edciles de por s\u00ed sin tener que preguntarnos si somos compatibles o no.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, si no est\u00e1s preparada para esa seria e inc\u00f3moda conversi\u00f3n y para ayudarte con este problema, hemos reunido se\u00f1ales de que \u00e9l quiere algo serio.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t find any of these, feel free to walk away. No one deserves your time, unless they are willing to give you theirs.<\/p>\n

Hace tiempo para ti<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t mean that kind of time where he comes to you late at night to have some action or that kind of time where you have to let him know days in advance, so he can fit it in his schedule.<\/p>\n

Cambia sus planes por ti porque realmente disfruta pasando tiempo contigo.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 por ah\u00ed con sus amigos y se da cuenta de que no te encuentras bien y, antes de que te des cuenta, est\u00e1 a tu lado haci\u00e9ndote compa\u00f1\u00eda hasta que te recuperes.<\/p>\n

Cancela sus planes para pasar la noche contigo. Y sigue respetando tu tiempo a solas y tus l\u00edmites.<\/p>\n

En fase de luna de miel<\/a> is amazing, we all know it. But even when it is over, he is still there\u2014making plans and going out of his way to make you happy.<\/p>\n

This is a sure sign he wants something serious with you because he already made you a part of his life even if he didn\u2019t say it to you. Sometimes, actions can tell so much more than words do.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l te muestra<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

En todas partes y con todo el mundo. Los jugadores te exhibir\u00e1n en restaurantes elegantes y en el bar, pero nunca te sacar\u00e1n con sus amigos.<\/p>\n

O, pasar\u00e1n todo el tiempo en casa contigo porque hay una gran posibilidad de que tenga otras ligues.<\/p>\n

Pero el hombre que ve un futuro contigo nunca te ocultar\u00e1. Te llevar\u00e1 a todas partes porque est\u00e1 verdaderamente orgulloso y feliz de tenerte a su lado.<\/p>\n

Te presentar\u00e1 a sus amigos y familiares o seguir\u00e1 presumiendo de ti ante ellos e insistir\u00e1 en que est\u00e1n deseando conocerte.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s a good sign he is up for a long-term relationship and not just enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If introducing you to his family is something he can\u2019t wait to do, there is no reason for you to worry anymore about him being serious.<\/p>\n

Te lleva a sus lugares favoritos<\/h2>\n

\"encantadora<\/p>\n

Todos tenemos lugares favoritos a los que vamos cuando nos apetece contemplar y pensar, lugares a los que vamos cuando estamos tristes y lugares a los que vamos cuando queremos divertirnos.<\/p>\n

Sharing those places with someone new in our lives is like sharing something deeply personal; it\u2019s like taking them to our childhood home. You don\u2019t take just everyone there.<\/p>\n

Uno quiere estar seguro de que van a estar ah\u00ed a largo plazo y de que son realmente el tipo de persona con la que queremos compartir nuestro lugar.<\/p>\n

If he took you to his favorite bar, appreciate the gesture, because it\u2019s kind of like letting you into his heart.<\/p>\n

Se sinti\u00f3 lo suficientemente c\u00f3modo contigo como para compartir algo tan \u00edntimo.<\/p>\n

And even if his favorite bar isn\u2019t the type of place you would go to, trust me: his love for it and enthusiasm for bringing you there will make you see it in a whole new way.<\/p>\n

Ya no ser\u00e1 el bar de la esquina; ser\u00e1 un lugar s\u00f3lo para vosotros dos. Algo as\u00ed como vuestro propio pedazo de cielo.<\/p>\n

Muestra iniciativa<\/h2>\n

\"close<\/p>\n

Tanto si se trata de planear citas como de comunicarse, no tiene ning\u00fan problema en ser \u00e9l quien las inicie.<\/p>\n

You regularly wake up to the \u2018good morning\u2019 texts and there is no way you can go to sleep if he doesn\u2019t send you \u2018good night\u2019.<\/p>\n

Puede parecer que lo hace con todo el mundo y que s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 siendo educado, pero cr\u00e9eme: lo hace porque quiere demostrarte que se preocupa por ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n

No man will text multiple times without an answer if he isn\u2019t seriously hooked up to you.<\/p>\n

And with all of these ghosting trends, he makes sure that you don\u2019t have to worry about him disappearing.<\/p>\n

Se asegura de que te sientas querida y especial porque realmente lo eres.<\/p>\n

Y cuando se trata de citas, siempre se las arregla para sorprenderte. Si no te apetece salir, se presenta en tu casa con un helado, vino y una lista de pel\u00edculas que ver.<\/p>\n

Si le comentas las ganas que tienes de ir al cine, te sorprender\u00e1 con las entradas.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s because he listens to you when you are talking and even when what you are saying seems like nonsense, he will still remember it.<\/p>\n

Comparte su pasado contigo<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest here, no one feels like talking about their past with just anyone.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, hablaremos de recuerdos del instituto, de enamoramientos y de algunas cosas mundanas, pero cuando la cosa se pone seria, nos callamos la boca hasta que llegamos a conocer a la otra persona.<\/p>\n

And sometimes, not even then do we decide to open up because they show us that they\u2019re not really worthy of sharing.<\/p>\n

Pero si comparte contigo su pasado, y me refiero a sus amantes pasados, sus miedos y sus mayores sue\u00f1os, es que va muy en serio contigo.<\/p>\n

Men don\u2019t usually open up, but if he opened up to you, that\u2019s the only sign you really need.<\/p>\n

Unless he did it like on the first date because that is a whole new level of seriousness. I\u2019m thinking more like seriously messed up.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t really want that kind of man who is too pushy and too eager about getting serious.<\/p>\n

Amor y compromiso<\/a> requieren tiempo y algo m\u00e1s que una cita.<\/p>\n

Perd\u00e9is la noci\u00f3n del tiempo cuando est\u00e1is juntos<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Ya sea en un restaurante de lujo, de excursi\u00f3n o simplemente relaj\u00e1ndose en casa, el tiempo pasa volando.<\/p>\n

You genuinely enjoy each other\u2019s company and you make memories every step of the way.<\/p>\n

La conversaci\u00f3n fluye y no hay silencios inc\u00f3modos, porque incluso disfrutas del silencio cuando puedes compartirlo.<\/p>\n

He makes it all look so easy because he is truly interested in everything you have to say\u2014including your opinions, your memories and fears.<\/p>\n

He is all ears when you are talking and it seems like it\u2019s all he ever wanted to do.<\/p>\n

Quiere saber m\u00e1s de ti y no s\u00f3lo c\u00f3mo te ha ido el d\u00eda. Quiere conocerte m\u00e1s a fondo y abrirse a ti es como hablar del tiempo.<\/p>\n

And he has no problem with opening up to you, too. This is a sign that spending time with you is something he wants to do for a longer run and he wouldn\u2019t mind if it ends up being a lifelong commitment.<\/p>\n

Te tiene en cuenta a la hora de tomar decisiones<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Si has reconocido este signo, \u00a1enhorabuena! Has encontrado a un hombre que te quiere y desea tenerte cerca.<\/p>\n

Siempre tendr\u00e1 en cuenta tus deseos y necesidades a la hora de hacer planes porque tambi\u00e9n quiere que seas feliz.<\/p>\n

Even if it\u2019s deciding when to take days off, he will ask you about it, because he wants to spend them with you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just another way of him showing how much he cares about you and how much he is actually serious about being with you.<\/p>\n

Los hombres que no est\u00e1n ah\u00ed para una carrera m\u00e1s larga nunca te tendr\u00e1n en cuenta, porque s\u00f3lo se preocupan por s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\n

They will do as they please and just let you know what they decided. And, sometimes, they won\u2019t even do that.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s definitely not the type of man you want to have in your life because no matter how much you love them and how hard you try, they will never change.<\/p>\n

Son verdaderos narcisistas<\/a> who only care about themselves. He will convince you otherwise and make you believe that he is truly there for you, but if you failed to find any of the signs from this list, I\u2019m afraid that he\u2019s only there for himself.<\/p>\n

A menudo te pide tu opini\u00f3n y la respeta<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

The foundation of the strongest relationships is respect. It\u2019s the mutual admiration and trust we have in each other and without it, it\u2019s hard for a relationship to work out.<\/p>\n

If he asks for your opinion quite often and actually listens to what you have to say, you have his respect and it\u2019s a great sign of you two making it together.<\/p>\n

And if he changes his own opinion because of yours, it\u2019s even better.<\/p>\n

Significa que no es un eg\u00f3latra que se cree el mejor de todos.<\/p>\n

It means that he respects your knowledge and isn\u2019t afraid to admit that he is not the smartest person on the planet.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be real girls, we have all met someone like that. But if your man is truly amazed with your passions and the way you think, est\u00e1 enamorado de ti verdadera, loca y profundamente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And I\u2019m not talking just about your body; I\u2019m talking about the whole package here. Body, heart AND mind.<\/p>\n

No tiene ning\u00fan problema en hablar del futuro<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Una buena forma de saber qu\u00e9 demonios pasa por su cabeza es preguntarle por el futuro, y no por el futuro de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Ask him about his plans for work, about holidays and stuff like that. If he\u2019s already counted you in those plans, you don\u2019t have to look any further for signs of getting serious. He already is.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s truly amazing if you don\u2019t have to ask him about the future. If he talks about it with you and makes plans for a longer run, he already made up his mind.<\/p>\n

To him, it\u2019s no longer casual dating and it\u2019s not questionable if he is going to stay or not.<\/p>\n

He is sure of his feelings and all he does now is make sure you\u2019re on the same page with him. It\u2019s making you feel loved and safe in the relationship.<\/p>\n

\u2018YOU\u2019 and \u2018I\u2019 became \u2018WE\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

He no longer talks about \u2018his\u2019 wishes and needs and there is no \u2018I\u2019. It\u2019s \u2018we\u2019 and you can actually feel he means it.<\/p>\n

He already sees you as one because that\u2019s what love is truly about. You are two individuals who are pieces of art for themselves, but together you make one hell of a masterpiece.<\/p>\n

Together you create something so much more than just two people being together, and that\u2019s something he already feels and makes sure you feel it too.<\/p>\n

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