{"id":15557,"date":"2020-11-02T09:09:05","date_gmt":"2020-11-02T09:09:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15557"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:55:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:55:34","slug":"felicidad-no-sentir-eleccion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/felicidad-no-sentir-eleccion\/","title":{"rendered":"La felicidad no es un sentimiento, es una elecci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfQu\u00e9 es la felicidad? La gente ha debatido esta cuesti\u00f3n durante siglos. Pero aunque no sepa c\u00f3mo definirla, definitivamente sabes lo que es la felicidad cuando la sientes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And although happiness is not the same for everyone, there is no person alive who doesn\u2019t strive for it.<\/p>\n

Todos deseamos la felicidad, pero son raros los que saben c\u00f3mo alcanzarla realmente.<\/p>\n

Most of us spend our life waiting for happiness to knock on our door and for it to magically happen to us. But what we don\u2019t know is that happiness will never choose us, until we choose it.<\/p>\n

Si quieres ser feliz, eres t\u00fa quien tiene que elegir ser feliz.<\/strong> Tu felicidad est\u00e1 en tus manos.<\/a><\/p>\n

La felicidad, aunque sea el objetivo final, no es un destino. No es un resultado, es un viaje y una forma de vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vives una vida estresante, rodeado de diferentes tipos de negatividades y piensas que es imposible que seas feliz en estas circunstancias.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Your family is always criticizing you, you are not satisfied with the relationship you are in, your job doesn\u2019t fulfill you, you have financial problems and your friends are not the best either.<\/p>\n

And you blame destiny for everything. You think that you are simply not born to be happy and although you won\u2019t admit this to yourself, you\u2019ve come to terms with it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve accepted that you will have good and bad moments in your life but that you will probably never achieve the ultimate happiness. So, you\u2019ve given up.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve decided to handle life the best way you can, without expecting to ever be truly and completely satisfied with it. Y<\/p>\n

ou are actually just going with the flow, thinking you wouldn\u2019t be able to change anything, even if you tried.<\/p>\n

Y estoy aqu\u00ed para decirte que es la peor decisi\u00f3n que podr\u00edas tomar.<\/p>\n

Maybe you don\u2019t know it but eres t\u00fa quien ha renunciado a su propia felicidad.<\/a> Eres t\u00fa quien se proh\u00edbe ser feliz y eres t\u00fa quien ha elegido ser infeliz.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

No es que no hayas nacido bajo una estrella de la suerte, no es que el universo te odie y no es que sufras de mala suerte.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres quien elige qu\u00e9 y a qui\u00e9n permites entrar en tu vida. Eres el \u00fanico que tiene el poder de elegir c\u00f3mo te afectan las cosas y las personas.<\/p>\n

Y lo m\u00e1s importante, t\u00fa eres el \u00fanico que tiene el poder de elegir c\u00f3mo reaccionar ante todo lo que la vida te pone por delante.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to understand that you\u2019ll never be happy until you realize your happiness is in your hands. You are the creator of your own destiny.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres el \u00fanico que tiene el poder de influir y dirigir tu propia vida.<\/p>\n

I know it is probably easier for you to blame some higher force for the way you are feeling but it\u2019s time to carry some responsibility on your shoulders as well.<\/p>\n

La vida siempre ser\u00e1 estresante y siempre te har\u00e1 pasar por situaciones dif\u00edciles, pero s\u00f3lo depende de ti c\u00f3mo dejes que te afecte. Tu actitud ante la vida determina tu felicidad.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

You can choose whether you\u2019ll focus on the bad things that are happening to you and evitar ser feliz<\/a> or you\u2019ll think of them as valuable lessons.<\/p>\n

There is good and bad in everything and that is something you can\u2019t have an impact on but it is up to you whether you\u2019ll choose to see the good in everything or vice versa.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s up to you to train your mind to think positive thoughts and when you accomplish that, you\u2019ll be happy\u2014not because everything is good but because you chose to see the good in everything.<\/p>\n

A veces, las cosas no ir\u00e1n bien, pero eso forma parte de la vida y no hay que huir de ello.<\/p>\n

Sometimes you\u2019ll experience negative emotions but it is your choice whether you\u2019ll allow those negative emotions to take control of you and to completely consume you, turning you into a bitter, pessimistic person or you\u2019ll face these negative things that are happening to you, embrace those emotions as a part of life and focus on making the best of things.<\/p>\n

Pero recuerda, la felicidad no es algo que puedas simplemente elegir sentir, sin trabajar en ello. No es un regalo del universo, requiere esfuerzo y tiempo.<\/p>\n

Eventually, when you experience it, you\u2019ll see that everything was worth it.<\/p>\n

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