{"id":155878,"date":"2022-07-14T21:38:53","date_gmt":"2022-07-14T21:38:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=155878"},"modified":"2023-04-06T06:09:13","modified_gmt":"2023-04-06T06:09:13","slug":"gustos-y-aversiones-en-una-relacion-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/gustos-y-aversiones-en-una-relacion-2\/","title":{"rendered":"La intimidad de expresar lo que te gusta y lo que no en una relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

El compromiso es uno de los fundamentos de las relaciones sanas a largo plazo. Demuestra willingness to find a common ground and accommodate your partner\u2019s needs, wants and preferences in a way that keeps both of you happy<\/b>.<\/p>\n

It sounds like this would be easy enough, but it isn\u2019t. People often continue to do things that bother their partners for one simple reason: they don\u2019t know how their significant other feels about their actions. Siguen haciendo algo que su compa\u00f1ero <\/b>no le gusta<\/b> because they\u2018re unaware that their behavior might be a problem.<\/b><\/p>\n

Unless you let your partner know about your likes and dislikes in a relationship, they can\u2019t know how the things they do affect you. This issue is caused by a lack of communication, which is the other pillar of happy relationships. When partners don\u2019t tell each other things, resentments accumulate until they cause even bigger problems.<\/b><\/p>\n

Siga leyendo para averiguar qu\u00e9 tipo de gustos y aversiones influyen en una relaci\u00f3n, y c\u00f3mo hablar de ellos con su pareja puede acercarles m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Expresar lo que te gusta y lo que no en una relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Identificar sus preferencias depende en gran medida de lo consciente que sea de sus valores, necesidades y l\u00edmites. <\/b>Puedes invertir algo de tiempo en pensar qu\u00e9 te gusta, pero la forma m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de saber lo que sientes por algo es tomar nota cuando surge.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to enter a new relationship with a list of likes and dislikes \u2013 paying attention to your partner\u2019s actions and speaking up immediately will suffice.<\/b> Comunicaci\u00f3n abierta<\/a> sobre c\u00f3mo te sientes marca la diferencia.<\/p>\n

The way you relate to your partner influences how your relationship progresses. When you hold back and hide positive or negative feelings, you\u2019re robbing yourself of the chance to connect to your partner and make your relationship grow.<\/p>\n

El mayor error que puedes cometer en la forma de relacionarte con tu pareja es esperar que te lea el pensamiento. <\/b>Anticipating your needs and wants and already knowing what you like doesn\u2019t prove that your partner loves you and cares for you.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 expresar lo que te gusta y lo que no en una relaci\u00f3n?<\/h3>\n

Unmet needs create resentment and broken boundaries create distance. It\u2019s important not to ignore those needs that are not being met and boundaries being crossed because you otherwise like your relationship.<\/p>\n

Sus necesidades no suelen ser negociables, y algunos de sus gustos y <\/b>no le gusta<\/b> son flexibles. <\/b>Esto significa que puedes transigir en ciertas cosas y al mismo tiempo satisfacer tus necesidades.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re honest and openly let your partner know who you are, what you need, want, like and <\/b>no me gusta<\/b>, you\u2019re giving them a chance to love you for who you are.<\/b><\/p>\n

Saber discutir de forma productiva es mucho m\u00e1s sano que guardarse las cosas. Los argumentos destinados a resolver problemas son<\/b> herramientas de comunicaci\u00f3n<\/b><\/a>. <\/b>Por el contrario, guardarse las cosas para uno mismo conduce al resentimiento.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo expresar lo que te gusta y lo que no en una relaci\u00f3n?<\/h3>\n

Lo mejor es hacerlo de inmediato, directamente y sin acusaciones.<\/p>\n

Trying to get your partner to do something through manipulation isn\u2019t the way to establish a connection. Pedir cosas directamente y expresar su <\/b>no le gusta<\/b> son mucho m\u00e1s eficaces para conseguir lo que quieres. Adem\u00e1s, te acerca m\u00e1s a tu pareja.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sometimes you might not even be aware that you\u2019re being manipulative with your partner. Examples of manipulation include not saying \u2019yes\u2019 to keep the peace when you want to say \u2018no\u2019, and saying \u2018no\u2019 to punish or get something from your partner when you\u2019re fine with saying \u2018yes\u2019.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s far better to just say what\u2019s bothering you or what you need from your partner to make you happy. <\/b>Disagreements in a relationship aren\u2019t a problem. Hiding how you feel and expecting your partner to just know, is.<\/p>\n

For example, tell your partner, \u201cI don\u2019t like it when you leave your dirty socks on the floor, please put them in the hamper instead.\u201d When they do as you asked, thank them. After expressing yourself in this way enough times, you\u2019ll see the power of open communication.<\/p>\n

Rather than feeling passive-aggressive, you\u2019ll have the power to change things in your relationship for the better.<\/b><\/p>\n

La base de lo que gusta y lo que no gusta en una relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Una persona tiene dos tipos de preferencias en lo que se refiere al romance: lo que le gusta y lo que no le gusta a la hora de elegir pareja y lo que le gusta y lo que no le gusta en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Gustos y <\/b>disgustos en una relaci\u00f3n<\/b> est\u00e1n estrechamente relacionados con los valores, las necesidades y los l\u00edmites. <\/b>Even if you never openly discussed these important issues \u2013 and you must if you want a healthy relationship \u2013 your likes and dislikes will make them clear.<\/p>\n

Lo que buscas a la hora de elegir pareja rara vez se sostiene con una persona real que conozcas. Lots of very specific preferences become unimportant when you meet someone who doesn\u2019t fit the image you built up in your head and you still like them.<\/b><\/p>\n

Valores<\/h3>\n

Most people are okay when their partner doesn\u2019t check all the boxes when it comes to their likes and dislikes. This usually includes things like physical features and other qualities you\u2019d use to describe your \u2019type\u2019.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, los valores no coincidentes pueden convertirse en un problema grave, que a veces puede significar una incompatibilidad irremediable.<\/b> Los valores no suelen ser negociables<\/a> in a relationship because they\u2019re crucially important to a person and rarely change.<\/p>\n

Ciertos valores permanecen inalterables durante la mayor parte de la vida:<\/p>\n

1. Familia<\/h4>\n

Family matters are one of the core values that can mean the end of a relationship if they don\u2018t match. Las parejas rara vez son capaces de llegar a un acuerdo sobre cuestiones relacionadas con la familia. <\/b>Si intentan hacerlo, una persona suele ceder, lo que provoca resentimiento.<\/p>\n

Los valores relacionados con la familia incluyen preguntas como lo importante que es la familia extensa, lo cerca de ella que quieres vivir y lo implicada que est\u00e1 en tu vida. Sin embargo, la cuesti\u00f3n realmente importante es tener hijos.<\/b><\/p>\n

Whether or not you want to have them, when, how many \u2013 your attitudes about these can make or break a relationship.<\/p>\n

2. Religi\u00f3n<\/h4>\n

Muchas personas tienen un fuerte sentimiento religioso y \u00e9ste desempe\u00f1a un papel importante en sus vidas. Algunos s\u00f3lo quieren casarse con personas de su misma fe, pero Incluso cuando una persona religiosa est\u00e1 abierta a tener una pareja con creencias diferentes, es f\u00e1cil que surjan tensiones.<\/b><\/p>\n

Esto resulta especialmente problem\u00e1tico si tienen hijos. Se plantea la cuesti\u00f3n de c\u00f3mo educarles y si dejarles elegir por s\u00ed mismos. <\/b>If the partners\u2019 religious extended families are involved, how will that influence their lives?<\/p>\n

3. Estilo de vida<\/h4>\n

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Algunos estilos de vida chocar\u00e1n, mientras que otros pueden coincidir a pesar de las diferencias. D\u00f3nde y c\u00f3mo se vive puede ser un compromiso si ambos miembros de la pareja est\u00e1n dispuestos a hacer concesiones y a encontrar formas de pasar tiempo de calidad juntos.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re someone who loves to travel, while your partner doesn\u2019t like to leave the city they live in, you can probably compromise if your other values fit. Still, certain lifestyles can\u2019t really be reconciled, so make sure to talk to your partner about what\u2019s important to them.<\/b><\/p>\n

4. Finanzas<\/h4>\n

Puede que la forma en que te gusta gastar tu dinero no sea un tema de conversaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntico, pero los problemas de dinero arruinan los matrimonios<\/b>. If you like to save up and your partner likes to live large, it\u2019s very important to establish rules from the start.<\/p>\n

Tomar decisiones financieras juntos es necesario para<\/b> mantener la confianza<\/b><\/a> y mostrar inter\u00e9s por la relaci\u00f3n<\/b>. A menudo, cuando las actitudes hacia las finanzas son diferentes, una persona oculta a su pareja gastos, cuentas, ingresos, etc., lo que puede causar una profunda ruptura y numerosos problemas en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

5. 5. Roles de g\u00e9nero<\/h4>\n

Attitudes towards gender roles have a direct impact on your relationship. Even if they\u2019re not immediately obvious, las diferentes ideas sobre c\u00f3mo debe comportarse la pareja en la relaci\u00f3n en funci\u00f3n de su sexo pueden causar problemas <\/b>por el camino.<\/p>\n

For example, when a man has a traditional view of a relationship, he might be less involved in raising children as he believes that it\u2019s the wife\u2019s role. He might also not show appreciation to her efforts because he considers raising children and house chores her duty as opposed to hard work.<\/p>\n

6. Compromiso<\/h4>\n

Commitment doesn\u2019t have the same meaning for everyone. Comprometerse significa prometer ciertas cosas a tu pareja, como amor, honestidad, confianza y lealtad.<\/b><\/p>\n

Some people don\u2019t believe in having only one sexual and romantic partner, while it\u2019s a core value for others. Trying to compromise on this can lead to betrayal and cheating. For some, loyalty means standing behind your partner no matter what, while others have limits to what they accept.<\/p>\n

Definir qu\u00e9 significa exactamente para ti el compromiso y expresar tus actitudes y expectativas es vital.<\/b><\/p>\n

Necesita<\/h3>\n

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Aparte de las necesidades f\u00edsicas, todo el mundo tiene necesidades emocionales y espirituales que deben satisfacerse para tener una vida feliz.<\/p>\n

People enter romantic relationships to have some of these needs met by their partner \u2013 needs such as love, appreciation and validation \u2013 but we\u2019re often unaware of what it is exactly that we <\/b>necesidad en una relaci\u00f3n<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

En una relaci\u00f3n, tu pareja tiene que ser capaz de satisfacer tus necesidades, pero antes de que eso ocurra, tienes que saber cu\u00e1les son esas necesidades.<\/b> Las necesidades pueden cambiar a lo largo de la vida. Hay necesidades b\u00e1sicas que la mayor\u00eda de la gente comparte, pero otras tienes que descubrirlas por ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Algunas necesidades b\u00e1sicas que tiene la mayor\u00eda de la gente son:<\/p>\n

1. Afecto<\/h4>\n

La mayor\u00eda de las personas necesitan afecto de su pareja y lo esperan. Comunicar c\u00f3mo quieres que tu pareja te muestre afecto es la \u00fanica forma de conseguirlo.<\/b> Tell your partner what you need and how often, and what it is that you don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

Some people love grand romantic gestures, gifts and surprises, while others don\u2019t. Haz saber a tu pareja si quieres que exprese su amor con palabras, de qu\u00e9 manera y con qu\u00e9 frecuencia.<\/b><\/p>\n

Afecto f\u00edsico<\/a>La pareja puede no darse cuenta de que necesita algo, como abrazos y apretones de manos, hasta que usted se lo hace saber, y puede que est\u00e9 m\u00e1s que dispuesta a proporcion\u00e1rselo.<\/p>\n

2. Aceptaci\u00f3n<\/h4>\n

When your partner accepts you, they make you feel like you\u2019re an important part of their life. Ser aceptado significa que se respeten tus opiniones, ideas y puntos de vista, pero tambi\u00e9n tener un sentimiento de pertenencia a tu pareja.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sentirse aceptado significa sentirse libre para ser uno mismo y compartir sus sue\u00f1os y esperanzas con su pareja sin temor a ser juzgado.<\/p>\n

3. Conexi\u00f3n<\/h4>\n

Para establecer una conexi\u00f3n, ambos miembros de la pareja tienen que estar dispuestos a abrirse, vincularse y compartir sus sentimientos m\u00e1s profundos con el otro. Conexi\u00f3n emocional<\/b><\/a> is more than physical attraction and having fun together. It\u2019s about not feeling alone in this world.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you feel connected to someone, you have deep understanding with the other person, and feel secure that they will always be there for you. It\u2019s a level of care that goes beyond the superficial \u2013 it\u2019s a genuine investment in the other person\u2019s needs, desires and emotions.<\/b><\/p>\n

4. Agradecimiento<\/h4>\n

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When your partner makes you feel appreciated, they show their gratitude for your actions and how you treat them. When you know that your efforts aren\u2019t taken for granted, it motivates you to keep doing things that your partner appreciates.<\/p>\n

Las formas de expresar aprecio son los elogios, los regalos considerados, las palabras de gratitud y la reciprocidad. <\/b>Cuando los dos miembros de la pareja est\u00e1n dispuestos a hacer cosas que le gustan al otro y a expresar sus sentimientos de agradecimiento, la relaci\u00f3n se vuelve m\u00e1s satisfactoria para ambos.<\/p>\n

5. Validaci\u00f3n<\/h4>\n

En una relaci\u00f3n, la validaci\u00f3n significa que te sientes escuchado y comprendido incluso cuando no est\u00e1s de acuerdo con tu pareja. When the other person is able to accept your opinions and ideas even when they don\u2019t agree with them, they\u2019re<\/b> hacer que te sientas valorado<\/b><\/a> y aceptado.<\/b><\/p>\n

Lo contrario de que validen tus pensamientos y sentimientos es sentirte desestimado y menospreciado. Cuando tu pareja rechaza lo que le dices sobre c\u00f3mo te hace sentir o se burla de algo que te emociona, te aleja y te hace reacio a volver a compartirlo.<\/p>\n

6. Seguridad<\/h4>\n

Feeling safe with your partner and secure in your relationship in the moment and in the long term is the basis of trust and love. Not being secure in your partner\u2019s commitment to you and your relationship can lead to stress and anxiety.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to feel both emotional and physical safety around your partner. <\/b>Knowing for sure that your partner won\u2019t hurt you emotionally or physically plays a great role in feeling secure in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Si tu pareja muestra signos de maltrato emocional y f\u00edsico, busca ayuda lo antes posible.<\/p>\n

7. Lealtad<\/h4>\n

Ser leal va m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de la fidelidad. Un socio leal es alguien en quien siempre puedes confiar para que te apoye. <\/b>When you\u2019re sure that your partner always has your back, your relationship makes you feel like you don\u2019t have to face anything alone.<\/p>\n

A algunas personas les resulta m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil que a otras confiar en la lealtad de su pareja. <\/b>Depending on your previous experience, it might be difficult to fully let go of doubts and to accept your partner\u2019s loyalty.<\/p>\n

L\u00edmites<\/h3>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Boundaries are what separate you from other people, including your partner. Don\u2019t think of this as a bad thing \u2013 no matter how much you love your partner and feel like a unit, you are still different people. Honoring each other\u2019s boundaries is a sign of love and respect.<\/b><\/p>\n

Los l\u00edmites nos mantienen a salvo<\/a> y hacer que las relaciones sean felices y sanas. They define expectations and limits in your partner\u2019s behavior, which can change over time.<\/b> Los l\u00edmites rotos conducen a problemas en la relaci\u00f3n, por lo que la comunicaci\u00f3n es especialmente importante.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t always know your own boundaries, but you can recognize that they\u2019re being violated by identifying the areas in your life where you\u2019re experiencing issues. There are several types of boundaries.<\/p>\n

1. L\u00edmites f\u00edsicos<\/h4>\n

Los l\u00edmites f\u00edsicos est\u00e1n relacionados con tu espacio y tu cuerpo. Incluyen cosas como:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your personal space. <\/b>Lo cerca que alguien puede estar de ti f\u00edsicamente.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Having privacy. <\/b>Pasar tiempo o hacer algo que te apetece a solas, sin intrusiones ni preguntas.<\/p>\n

\u2022 How it’s okay to touch you<\/b> y c\u00f3mo no lo es.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Being able to meet your physical needs <\/b>en tus propios t\u00e9rminos, por ejemplo, c\u00f3mo descansas o qu\u00e9 comes y bebes.<\/p>\n

2. L\u00edmites sexuales<\/h4>\n

Respecting your sexual boundaries isn\u2019t only limited to consentimiento<\/b> \u2013 it also means that you have full control of all aspects of your sexuality.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Sexual acts <\/b>you’re comfortable with.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Whether, when, where, and with whom you have sex.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Communication<\/b> about your sexual likes and dislikes and your partner’s sexual history.<\/p>\n

\u2022 How often<\/b> quieres tener sexo.<\/p>\n

\u2022 The kind of sexual contact <\/b>you’re comfortable with.<\/p>\n

\u2022 No pressure<\/b> to do anything sexual you’re uncomfortable with.<\/p>\n

3. 3. L\u00edmites emocionales<\/h4>\n

Emotional boundaries are about your right to your own thoughts and feelings and not being held accountable for other people’s feelings.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not feeling responsible <\/b>for your partner\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not having to talk <\/b>about something you’re not comfortable with.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not sacrificing your own needs <\/b>for your partner’s.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not having someone else’s feelings dictate yours.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Not being blamed <\/b>for other people’s problems.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not having your feelings dismissed<\/b> e invalidado.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Being able to say ‘no’ <\/b>y que se respete.<\/p>\n

4. 4. L\u00edmites personales<\/h4>\n

Otros l\u00edmites personales<\/a> incluyen varios aspectos de su individualidad. Entre ellos:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Valuing your time. <\/b>Por ejemplo, con qu\u00e9 frecuencia ve a su pareja o cu\u00e1nto tiempo la espera.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not having to apologize <\/b>por pedir que se cumplan tus l\u00edmites.<\/p>\n

\u2022 How you’re spoken to.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Being able to work<\/b> sin interferencias.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Right to personal belongings <\/b>e independencia financiera.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Being listened to.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Not being judged <\/b>por negarse a hacer algo.<\/p>\n

Ejemplos de lo que gusta y lo que no gusta en una relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Esto nos lleva a lo que te gusta y lo que no en una relaci\u00f3n. Tus valores, necesidades y l\u00edmites crean tus preferencias en las relaciones, tanto en lo que se refiere a c\u00f3mo quieres que sea tu pareja y c\u00f3mo quieres que te trate y se comporte en determinadas situaciones.<\/b><\/p>\n

Algunas de las cosas que te gustan y te disgustan son decisivas, mientras que otras no son m\u00e1s que man\u00edas o te hacen sentir m\u00e1s satisfecho con una relaci\u00f3n. He aqu\u00ed algunos ejemplos de preferencias en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Being on time and not keeping you waiting.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Not staying in touch with their ex-girlfriend or boyfriend.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Giving you time to play video games or watch TV shows when you need to recharge on your own.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not posting your pictures on <\/b>redes sociales<\/b> a menos que lo consulten contigo primero.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Not demanding you to talk about your previous relationships if you’re not emotionally ready.<\/p>\n

- Mimos<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Being on good terms with your best friend.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Giving you gifts on special occasions, or giving you gifts for no reason.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not calling you certain nicknames.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Cleaning up after themselves.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Celebrating the anniversary of your <\/b>primera cita<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Making effort in the relationship.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Responding to your questions in a polite way even if they’re upset.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Telling you about any turn-offs they might have.<\/p>\n

\u2022 When they don’t agree with you on something, instead of being angry, asking you <\/b>preguntas relacionadas<\/b> y buscando formas de resolver sus problemas.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Letting you know in advance when they want to go out with their bros or girlfriends on the day you usually go out.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Being comfortable discussing any of your behavior they <\/b>no me gusta<\/b> y <\/b>viceversa<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Making you laugh.<\/p>\n

- No te estoy insultando<\/b><\/a> en argumentos.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Visiting your extended family over the weekend.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not comparing you to their <\/b>instituto<\/b> novio, ex-c\u00f3nyuge u otras parejas anteriores.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Showing empathy to others.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Being understanding.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Setting aside time to bond with each other.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Honesty.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Expressing their feelings in words.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Respecting your boundaries.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Working on their career.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Doing chores you don’t like and you doing chores they don’t like.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not trying to convince you of their religious beliefs.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Not judging your interests and hobbies.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Having deep conversations.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Showing forgiveness.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not making big financial decisions without you.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Surprising you with thoughtful gestures.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Letting you know if there’s a problem and discussing it.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Respecting it when you need space.<\/b><\/p>\n

Como puede ver, los gustos y aversiones en una relaci\u00f3n abarcan una amplia gama de acciones y comportamientos, y enumerarlos todos ser\u00eda imposible. La \u00fanica forma de saber lo que sientes por algo y de afrontarlo es prestando atenci\u00f3n a tus sentimientos y comunic\u00e1ndote con tu pareja.<\/b><\/p>\n

La intimidad de la comunicaci\u00f3n sincera<\/h2>\n

Expresar lo que te gusta y lo que no en una relaci\u00f3n fomentar\u00e1 la confianza, la conexi\u00f3n y la intimidad entre t\u00fa y tu pareja. Una vez que te des cuenta de que puedes conseguir lo que quieres de tu relaci\u00f3n simplemente hablando, tu relaci\u00f3n experimentar\u00e1 un cambio.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you\u2018re honest instead of bottling up negative emotions or trying to manipulate your partner into doing something, arguments will become a problem solving tool and not a way of getting the upper hand.<\/p>\n

Cuando establec\u00e9is que pod\u00e9is deciros el uno al otro cuando algo os molesta sin juzgaros, a <\/b>muchas cosas<\/b> that you considered problems will only be topics that you still haven’t talked about.<\/b><\/p>\n

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Compromise is one of the fundamentals of healthy long-term relationships. It shows willingness to find a common ground and accommodate your partner\u2019s needs, wants and preferences in a way that keeps both of you happy. It sounds like this would be easy enough, but it isn\u2019t. People often continue to do things that bother their…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":155879,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-155878","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Intimacy-Of-Expressing-Likes-And-Dislikes-In-A-Relationship-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155878","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=155878"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155878\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/155879"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=155878"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=155878"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=155878"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}