{"id":15601,"date":"2018-03-02T11:11:34","date_gmt":"2018-03-02T11:11:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15601"},"modified":"2022-10-03T10:29:36","modified_gmt":"2022-10-03T10:29:36","slug":"7-signos-atascado-mala-relacion-tiempo-dejar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-signos-atascado-mala-relacion-tiempo-dejar\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales de que est\u00e1s atrapado en una mala relaci\u00f3n (y es hora de dejarla)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Parece casi redundante buscar las se\u00f1ales de una mala relaci\u00f3n. Pero, en realidad, permanecemos en malas relaciones mucho m\u00e1s tiempo del que deber\u00edamos. Una de las razones principales es que estamos tan acostumbrados a que las cosas vayan mal, que incluso lo malo se convierte en normal. La otra raz\u00f3n, a\u00fan m\u00e1s poderosa, es que queremos a esa persona y seguimos esperando que las cosas se arreglen y que toda la situaci\u00f3n cambie a mejor.<\/p>\n

We have to realize that getting used to being unhappy is not a solution. You need someone whose main objective is to make you happy as yours is to make him happy. We also have to realize that sometimes love isn\u2019t enough although it\u2019s the most important. Las relaciones necesitan<\/a> trust, honesty, respect, mutual efforts and constant work. Otherwise, love can\u2019t survive.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why sometimes we need a little bit of help and signs that will open our eyes and see the harsh reality of things:<\/p>\n

1. Tu pareja es demasiado controladora.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

You feel like you lack freedom. He is watching your every move and doesn\u2019t allow you to breathe. In these situations, you are dealing with a toxic manipulator or with a highly jealous person. Relationships with any of them will suffocate you, alienate you from your friends and inevitably cause you pain. Relationships are built on trust and both partners should have their own space and time. If you don\u2019t have trust, respect, and freedom, it\u2019s time to say the final goodbye.<\/p>\n

2. Disfraza los insultos en chistes.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s a joke.\u201d, \u201cDon\u2019t be mad.\u201d ,\u201cWhy do you take everything so close to heart?\u201d are some of the sentences he uses as cover for plain insults. But you know that it\u2019s not a joke if you both aren\u2019t laughing. Don\u2019t allow him to put you down or treat you like a joke.<\/p>\n

3. Su comunicaci\u00f3n se reduce a peleas.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Fighting from time to time can be constructive and make a relationship grow, but that can\u2019t be your only form of communication. If fights become a part of your daily routine, you are in trouble. You and our partner clearly can\u2019t find the same language and you are unable to solve anything. The best thing to do here is to realize that you simply fail to understand each other and in spite of your feelings, you shouldn\u2019t stay with him.<\/p>\n

4. You can\u2019t remember why you are together to begin with.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

You lack everything in your relationship. Simple gestures of kindness and affection are not existent. You try holding on to the \u2018good old days\u2019 but they are so far behind that you can\u2019t recall them clearly anymore. You ask yourself how did you end up here and why are you putting up and tolerating everything. But the real question is why aren\u2019t you packing your bags? Life is too short to be with someone who makes you unhappy.<\/p>\n

5. Te quedas por costumbre.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Esta es la trampa de relaciones duraderas<\/a>. People stay together for so long that they, themselves, are not sure if they are staying in a bad relationship out of love or out of habit. Sure you have feelings after such a long time but is that person standing next to you really somebody you can see your entire future with? Are they ready to work on things and fix things that can be fixed? Are they the ones for you? If the answer is \u2018no\u2019, the sooner you end things the better for both of you.<\/p>\n

6. Es abusivo.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Whether it\u2019s physical or emotional abuse there is no reason at all to stay. Period. The person you are with should treat you with respect and tenderness. It should never cross their minds to use or abuse you in any way. If their love is true, they wouldn\u2019t even think of harming you. Leave immediately.<\/p>\n

7. Ya has intentado arreglar las cosas m\u00e1s veces de las que puedes contar.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Ya has probado todo lo que se te ocurre. Has tenido tus m\u00e1s y tus menos. Tu pareja suele intentarlo durante poco tiempo y luego vuelve a las andadas. Si las cosas en tu relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1n rotas sin remedio, es in\u00fatil que te quedes. Tu intento de reparar las cosas s\u00f3lo prolonga el inevitable final.<\/p>\n

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It seems almost redundant to look for the signs of a bad relationship. But in reality, we stay in bad relationships way longer than we should. One of the main reasons is that we are so used to things going bad, so even bad becomes normal. The other even more powerful reason is that we…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":15615,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15601","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/brooke-winters-579062-unsplash-2.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15601","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15601"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15601\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15615"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15601"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15601"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15601"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}