{"id":15624,"date":"2020-03-02T12:34:30","date_gmt":"2020-03-02T12:34:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15624"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:26:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:26:13","slug":"5-cosas-que-disfraza-de-manipulador-emocional","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-disfraza-de-manipulador-emocional\/","title":{"rendered":"Si hace estas 5 cosas, es un manipulador emocional disfrazado"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve heard this story millions of times before. A girl meets a boy, the boy is perfect, the girl falls helplessly in love, the boy reveals his true face, and the girl is heartbroken.<\/p>\n

I bet not only you\u2019ve heard this before, but you\u2019ve been through this shit and you got hurt. You got hurt badly.<\/p>\n

You probably don\u2019t want to have anything to do with men anymore. You\u2019re disappointed and you\u2019re angry with yourself. You\u2019re frustrated because you let yourself fall for his tricks.<\/p>\n

You let him deceive you and lie to you. You\u2019re furious because you didn\u2019t see it in time. You baje la guardia<\/a> y se col\u00f3 en tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to move on after someone takes your heart and tears it into thousands of shreds. The pain is enormous.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You want to smile\u2014you have to smile because you don\u2019t want anyone to see how much you\u2019re hurting.<\/p>\n

Pero cada sonrisa tuya te duele a\u00fan m\u00e1s. Cada sonrisa forzada en tu cara atraviesa tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Pero tienes que saber que nadie tiene ese poder sobre ti. Nadie tiene derecho a controlarte y manipularte.<\/p>\n

He did, for a moment, but you\u2019ve seen it and you got out.<\/p>\n

This time, it was too late to save yourself from all the pain, but hopefully, by reading these signs, you won\u2019t make the same mistake next time.<\/p>\n

Te har\u00e1 sentir culpable<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He will make you feel like shit in anything that you do. You\u2019ll have the constant feeling that your every move is completely wrong.<\/p>\n

La culpa es su mayor arma contra ti para conseguir lo que quiere.<\/p>\n

Si quieres hacer algo por ti mismo, te dejar\u00e1, pero con ojos de cachorro triste.<\/p>\n

Se har\u00e1 la v\u00edctima<\/a>, so you feel sorry for him and once more choose to ignore your feelings to force you to be with him and take care his feelings don\u2019t get hurt.<\/p>\n

He would be perfectly fine if you didn\u2019t stay with him, but his ego would be hurt because things didn\u2019t play his way.<\/p>\n

He will respect you \u2013 in the beginning<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why his act is so brilliant. He will be perfect from the beginning.<\/p>\n

He will give you the world. He will respect you and move mountains for you. He will be the man you\u2019ve always dreamed of being with.<\/p>\n

Prestar\u00e1 atenci\u00f3n a todo lo que digas, pero no porque le importe, sino porque es un gilipollas que quiere manipularte para que hagas todo lo que \u00e9l quiere, para que te comportes como \u00e9l quiere.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll think he is listening to you because yes, he is that perfect of an actor, when actually, he is just a manipulator in disguise, lying and deceiving to get what he wants.<\/p>\n

He will promise you the world and do\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Nada. De su boca s\u00f3lo salen palabras vac\u00edas y pat\u00e9ticas falsas promesas.<\/p>\n

Al principio, te promete todo y \u00bfsabes lo que obtienes? No consigues nada y, para empezar, nunca quiso darte nada.<\/p>\n

He will always say one thing to get your hopes up and then he\u2019ll walk all over his words and do whatever he was planning to do anyway.<\/p>\n

Your feelings don\u2019t matter\u2014they never mattered.<\/p>\n

His \u2018help-mask\u2019 is on<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be gentle, sweet. He\u2019ll be the stranger on the street that helps you get your things together after someone knocked you over in a hurry.<\/p>\n

He will be your \u2018Hollywood moment\u2019 of love at first sight.<\/p>\n

Only your story won\u2019t have a happy ending. Your story will be heartbreaking and painful. And he?<\/p>\n

Seguir\u00e1 adelante, encontrar\u00e1 otra v\u00edctima con la que jugar al bienhechor.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l es la v\u00edctima<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Su favorito t\u00e1ctica<\/a> para manipularte, su arma m\u00e1s fuerte. Estas personas son muy inteligentes y astutas.<\/p>\n

Saben exactamente qu\u00e9 decir y cu\u00e1ndo. Saben sacar provecho de cada situaci\u00f3n porque saben mentir justo en el momento en que lo necesitan.<\/p>\n

He will play the victim every time he wants something and he sees he can\u2019t have it.<\/p>\n

Presta atenci\u00f3n si ves esto: cada vez que est\u00e1s ganando una discusi\u00f3n en la que \u00e9l tiene la peor posici\u00f3n porque est\u00e1 equivocado, de repente, te encuentras sintiendo pena por \u00e9l y te sientes como una mierda.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s because he played you and made himself a victim.<\/p>\n

At the end of every situation similar to this one, you will feel bad because you\u2019ve hurt him and you\u2019ll forget why you were mad in the first place\u2014what he\u2019s wanted all along.<\/p>\n

La manipulaci\u00f3n emocional es horrible porque las heridas se curan, los moratones se desvanecen, pero las palabras duras y los trucos psicol\u00f3gicos dejan tu mente templada y una vez que tu mente est\u00e1 templada, toda tu configuraci\u00f3n ha cambiado, tu personalidad no es la misma.<\/p>\n

Ese dolor se queda para siempre y te deja cauteloso y asustado para el resto de tu vida.<\/p>\n

You can heal, but you\u2019ll never forget. You can tell yourself that you are okay, but you are not.<\/p>\n

No hasta que decidas perdonarte a ti misma y perdonarle a \u00e9l. No hasta que decidas seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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