{"id":15642,"date":"2020-08-02T13:38:10","date_gmt":"2020-08-02T13:38:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15642"},"modified":"2022-01-17T15:33:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T15:33:20","slug":"lo-dio-todo-y-no-obtuvo-nada-a-cambio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lo-dio-todo-y-no-obtuvo-nada-a-cambio\/","title":{"rendered":"Te Lo Di Todo Y No Recib\u00ed Nada A Cambio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fuiste el primer hombre al que am\u00e9 de verdad. Tuve novios antes de ti, pero ninguno consigui\u00f3 despertar las emociones que t\u00fa despertaste dentro de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

While I was with you, I only belonged to you and nothing and nobody else existed. You had me completely. It was like I ceased to exist \u2014 I was no longer a woman, a daughter, a friend.<\/p>\n

Mi \u00fanico papel en la vida era el de tu novia. Y ese fue mi error n\u00famero uno.<\/p>\n

Le diste sentido a mi vida.<\/b> I simply forgot that I existed before I met you \u2014 I thought I couldn\u2019t breathe without you around me and you convinced me that you felt the same. You convinced me that you needed me and that you could never picture your life without me in it.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, mi prop\u00f3sito en la vida era hacerte sonre\u00edr <\/a> . Tu bienestar era lo \u00fanico importante para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Me olvid\u00e9 de mis amigos e incluso de mi familia, pero de quien m\u00e1s me olvid\u00e9 fue de m\u00ed. Me olvid\u00e9 por completo de m\u00ed misma y de mis necesidades, centr\u00e1ndome solo en ti.<\/p>\n

Y tard\u00e9 mucho en darme cuenta de que no me dabas nada a cambio.<\/p>\n

I guess I was blinded by the intensity of my love for you and I didn\u2019t notice how badly you were treating me.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

People close to me kept telling me that you didn\u2019t love me and that you were only using me but I didn\u2019t believe them.<\/p>\n

Although everything was pretty much clear, I simply refused to believe that you didn\u2019t deserve all of the sacrifices I made for you. I refused to admit that you didn\u2019t deserve me <\/a> .<\/p>\n

Pero con el tiempo, me di cuenta de que en realidad nunca correspond\u00edas a mis esfuerzos. Me di cuenta de que yo era el \u00fanico que daba constantemente y no recib\u00eda nada.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing clear \u2014 I am not talking about anything material here. I gave you my time, my love, my patience, my energy\u2026 my everything. I didn\u2019t want expensive gifts, all I wanted was your loyalty and love.<\/p>\n

Y no obtuve nada a cambio. En realidad, me utilizaron y se aprovecharon de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Me di cuenta de que s\u00f3lo te serv\u00eda cuando me necesitabas. Cuando ten\u00edas alg\u00fan problema o pasabas por momentos dif\u00edciles, yo era la primera persona a la que llamabas.<\/p>\n

You knew I would leave everyone and everything behind to be there for you. You knew you were the center of my universe and that there was nothing I wouldn\u2019t do for you. And you used it very well to your advantage.<\/p>\n

But the moment the storm was over and as soon as you\u2019d get back on track, you would forget about me.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, segu\u00edas teni\u00e9ndome a tu lado, pero de repente todo y todos eran m\u00e1s importantes que yo.<\/p>\n

I was always there when you needed someone to share your sadness with but when you were happy, I wasn\u2019t even in the back of your mind.<\/p>\n

Y cuando te necesit\u00e9, no estabas en ninguna parte.<\/b> To you, my problems and issues were irrelevant and foolish. I didn\u2019t want to admit it but deep down, I knew I could never rely on you.<\/p>\n

Yo soy todo lo contrario. Para m\u00ed, es natural ayudar a los que quieres. Soy el tipo de chica que estar\u00e1 al lado de su hombre y ser\u00e1 su pilar de fuerza, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00edas que nunca te abandonar\u00eda y que estar\u00eda a tu lado en las buenas y en las malas.<\/p>\n

But what you obviously didn\u2019t know is that you were expected to act the same. You should have at least tried to match my efforts but you couldn\u2019t do even that.<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n debe basarse en la colaboraci\u00f3n mutua. Por supuesto, hay veces en que uno de los miembros de la pareja da m\u00e1s y recibe menos, y viceversa, y no hay nada malo en ello.<\/p>\n

But this wasn\u2019t our situation; I was ready to move mountains for you and you weren\u2019t ready to move your finger for me.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Me negaba a admitirlo, pero ahora s\u00e9 que nunca me quisiste de verdad. Disfrutabas de mi atenci\u00f3n y disfrutabas de tener a alguien que te amara incondicionalmente.<\/a><\/p>\n

Me abr\u00ed a ti completamente y siempre fuiste una prioridad para m\u00ed.<\/b> Y nunca ped\u00ed mucho. Puedes decir que era insegura, pero la verdad es que necesitaba alguna validaci\u00f3n por tu parte. Necesitaba sentirme importante para ti, necesitaba alg\u00fan gesto que me demostrara que me quer\u00edas y que apreciabas todo lo que hac\u00eda por ti.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY qu\u00e9 consegu\u00ed? Un novio que nunca estuvo a mi lado cuando m\u00e1s lo necesitaba. Consegu\u00ed un novio que siempre me consider\u00f3 su hombro sobre el que llorar, su red de seguridad.<\/p>\n

Tengo un novio que siempre me trat\u00f3 como Yo era s\u00f3lo una opci\u00f3n para \u00e9l <\/a> . Tengo un novio que siempre acud\u00eda a m\u00ed cuando no ten\u00eda ad\u00f3nde ir.<\/p>\n

I got a boyfriend who obviously couldn\u2019t love me the way I expected. And a boyfriend who was never sincere enough to tell me that and to let me go.<\/p>\n

No tengo nada. <\/b>
\n<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Te<\/p>\n

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