{"id":156433,"date":"2022-07-27T19:20:52","date_gmt":"2022-07-27T19:20:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=156433"},"modified":"2022-07-27T19:20:54","modified_gmt":"2022-07-27T19:20:54","slug":"deberia-seguir-a-la-persona-que-me-gusta-en-instagram","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deberia-seguir-a-la-persona-que-me-gusta-en-instagram\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfDeber\u00eda seguir a mi enamorado en Instagram? 14 pros y contras"},"content":{"rendered":"

Deber\u00eda <\/b>Sigo a mi amor en Instagram<\/b>? I think no one in this world hasn\u2019t struggled with this question. I know I have, and the good news is that I\u2019ve come up with a solution.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you read on, you\u2019ll find the answer to this and other related questions.<\/p>\n

Deber\u00eda <\/b>Sigo a mi enamorado en Instagram<\/b>?<\/b><\/h2>\n

I\u2019ll be honest with you: there is no universal answer to this question. It all depends on different factors, including the nature of your relationship and many other things.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean I won\u2019t help you resolve this dilemma. In fact, I\u2019ll give you 14 yays and nays for doing it.<\/b><\/p>\n

8 Reasons It\u2019s A Good Idea<\/h2>\n

Si te sientes identificado con la mayor\u00eda de estas cosas, seguir a tu crush en Insta es imprescindible:<\/p>\n

1. You\u2019ve met in real life<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Ya os conoc\u00e9is en la vida real. It doesn\u2019t matter if they\u2019re your coworker, someone you hang out with in the same crowd, or just someone you\u2019ve met once. In these cases, there is absolutely nothing wrong with adding them on <\/b>Insta<\/b> en otros <\/b>plataformas de medios sociales<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re safe from looking like a stalker if you send them a friend request, even if their account is private. You\u2019re not behaving like a groupie, and it doesn\u2019t have to mean that they\u2019re your crush.<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re just expanding your network, or they came up as a suggested friend.<\/p>\n

Of course, it would be better if you two were good friends. In that case, it doesn’t really matter who followed whom first. They\u2019ll definitely accept your follow request.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re not sure whether they remember you or not and you see that they\u2019re not accepting your request, don\u2019t <\/b>dejar de seguir<\/b> enseguida. S\u00f3lo tienes que deslizar en su <\/b>DMs<\/b> y recu\u00e9rdales qui\u00e9n eres.<\/b><\/p>\n

Esto puede resultar \u00fatil si tu perfil es privado, tu nombre de usuario no coincide con tu nombre real y tu foto de perfil es poco clara.<\/p>\n

2. Ten\u00e9is muchos amigos en com\u00fan<\/h3>\n

Don\u2019t ask yourself, \u201cShould I follow my crush on Instagram?\u201d if you two have a bunch of mutual friends. The answer is undoubtedly yes!<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t know many of these people in person, your crush is likely to accept you and follow you back if they see that you have a lot of mutual followers.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Bueno.., this is proves that you\u2019re not a fake profile trying to catfish them. What are the chances that so many people they know friended you if they didn\u2019t know who you were?<\/b><\/p>\n

Also, they\u2019ll assume that they know you \u2013 they just can\u2019t remember you clearly. It would be best if these mutual friends could be grouped in a way.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa esto? Pues que estos seguidores mutuos deben estar conectados.<\/p>\n

For example, if you have a lot of friends from high school, your crush will assume that you went to high school with them as well, and they\u2019ll follow you back without hesitation.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s a pro tip: Even if you\u2019re trying to follow someone you don\u2019t know, make sure to follow some of their followers before. Some of them will accept you, and you\u2019ll give your crush a better first impression when they get a request from you.<\/p>\n

3. Se siguen mutuamente en otras redes sociales<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s another sign you should definitely follow your crush on Insta: vosotros dos ya sois amigos en otros <\/b>plataformas de medios sociales<\/b>. Los tienes en <\/b>Snapchat<\/b>Facebook, Twitter o TikTok.<\/b><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que tampoco hay nada malo en a\u00f1adirlos a Instagram. Despu\u00e9s de todo, sabemos que ah\u00ed es donde est\u00e1 toda la diversi\u00f3n y el jugo.<\/p>\n

De una cosa no hay duda: they\u2019ll accept your request and follow you back right away<\/b>. Sin embargo, no es la mejor noticia que cab\u00eda esperar.<\/p>\n

Odio ser el que te lo diga, pero esto es probablemente una se\u00f1al de que... don\u2019t have a crush on you<\/a>. De lo contrario, habr\u00edan aprovechado esta oportunidad y te habr\u00edan seguido hace tiempo.<\/p>\n

However, that doesn\u2019t mean the situation can\u2019t change in the future, now that you have this powerful tool (Instagram) in your hands!<\/p>\n

4. Sabes que tambi\u00e9n acechan tu perfil<\/h3>\n

Some people will watch your Instagram stories, reply to them, and even slide into your DMs from time to time. However, they won\u2019t try following you.<\/p>\n

Piensan que no tiene sentido, sobre todo si tu cuenta es p\u00fablica. Pueden ver lo que quieran.<\/p>\n

Besides, they\u2019re probably obsessed with the number of people they\u2019re following. They\u2019re scared that you might not send them a <\/b>volver<\/b>o simplemente tienen la pol\u00edtica de no seguir a nadie primero.<\/b><\/p>\n

Foolish, I know. But if your crush is one of these people, be braver than them. Make the first move, and send them a follow request. I promise that you\u2019ll get a follow back the very next day!<\/p>\n

5. They\u2019ve asked for your Instagram<\/h3>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

What if your crush specifically asked for your Instagram username IRL but never sent you a follow request? Well, on the one hand, you should wait for a notification from them because they\u2019re the one who brought the subject up.<\/p>\n

No obstante, if you\u2019re too impatient to wait for it, just be the first one to follow them. <\/b>Don\u2019t worry, it won\u2019t make you look desperate. On the contrary, it will show them that you\u2019re not in the mood for mind games.<\/p>\n

6. Hablaron de sus perfiles en las redes sociales<\/h3>\n

Lo mismo puede decirse de situaciones en las que acabas de hablar de Instagram u otros perfiles de redes sociales. Maybe your crush mentioned the vacation they went on last summer and told you they\u2019d captured some amazing <\/b>fotos<\/b> para <\/b>Insta<\/b>. O tal vez te pidieron consejo sobre un <\/b>Pie de foto<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

If that isn\u2019t an invitation to follow them, I don\u2019t know what is.<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t it obvious? They\u2019re clearly beating around the bush because they\u2019re too shy to ask for your Insta profile directly or to follow you first.<\/p>\n

This is another situation where you should take the lead and take things into your own hands. Show them that you\u2019re not scared to take the initiative.<\/p>\n

7. Tu instinto te lo dice<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You keep asking yourself, \u201cShould I follow my crush on Instagram?\u201d But that\u2019s not the end of it. You ask all of your friends the same question. You toss coins and look for signs that they\u2019re thinking about you<\/a> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

But despite everything, you can\u2019t seem to come up with an answer. The moment you decide to follow them, something inside of you stops you from actually hitting that button.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, when you think you\u2019ve given up on the idea, a tiny voice appears in the back of your head, telling you that you should have done it.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, a fin de cuentas, tu instinto te dice que lo hagas. Y no s\u00f3lo eso: su <\/b>intuici\u00f3n<\/b><\/a> is also telling you that you two should be together. And that\u2019s what you should listen to!<\/b><\/p>\n

Tu intuici\u00f3n rara vez se equivoca, y si te dice que los sigas, probablemente haya una raz\u00f3n m\u00e1s profunda para ello. Espera y ver\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

8. \u00bfQu\u00e9 se puede perder?<\/h3>\n

Let me ask you the most important question regarding this issue: what is the worst thing that can happen? I won\u2019t lie to you, it\u2019s possible the\u2019ll decline your request, not follow you back, or even worse \u2013 follow you just to see who you are and then unfollow you immediately.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, todos estos temores son razonables. Pero, \u00bfy si ocurren todas estas cosas? \u00bfEs el fin del mundo? Por supuesto que no.<\/b><\/p>\n

I mean, what is there to lose? No, you won\u2019t lose your dignity because you\u2019ve followed someone who didn\u2019t follow you back.<\/b><\/p>\n

Remember that this is the virtual world, not real life. It\u2019s not like you\u2019ve shown up in front of their house. You weren\u2019t begging them to be with you \u2013 you\u2019ve tried following their Instagram account, and that\u2019s it.<\/p>\n

Trust me, it\u2019s not such a big deal. BTW, even if the worst-case scenario happens, at least you\u2019ll know you tried.<\/p>\n

6 razones para no hacerlo<\/h2>\n

\u00c9stas son cinco se\u00f1ales de que enviar una solicitud de seguimiento a la persona que te gusta es la peor idea del mundo:<\/p>\n

1. No tienen ni idea de qui\u00e9n es usted<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This person is completely unaware of your existence. I\u2019m sorry to say it like this, but it\u2019s only the truth.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know who you are, you two don\u2019t have any <\/b>amigos comunes<\/b>, they\u2019ve never watched your <\/b>Historias de Instagram<\/b>, they\u2019ve never sent you a <\/b>mensaje directo<\/b>y ustedes dos nunca han hablado <\/b>IRL<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

In that case, the answer to the question: \u201cShould I follow my Crush on Instagram?\u201d is \u201cNo, you shouldn\u2019t.\u201d Or at least, it wouldn\u2019t be a good idea to do so.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll just think of you as one of their stalkers and ignore your Insta existence completely.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s some relationship advice: do your best to capture your crush\u2019s attention<\/a> en la vida real antes de a\u00f1adirlos a las redes sociales.<\/p>\n

2. Su perfil es privado<\/h3>\n

La gente marca sus cuentas como privadas por una raz\u00f3n: they don\u2019t want to give the entire world the opportunity to gain insight into their lives. <\/b>They don\u2019t want to rack their brains trying to figure out if their ex is trying to stalk them or if someone is just trying to be nosy.<\/p>\n

Basically, what I\u2019m trying to say is not to send your crush a follow request if their account is private. You\u2019re risking your request being denied \u2013 especially if your profile is private too.<\/p>\n

3. … and they don\u2019t have a lot of followers<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

There is nothing worse than seeing that someone follows exactly the same number of people following them. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 there is absolutely nothing wrong with this type of account. However, it does send you a certain message.<\/p>\n

If you can relate this kind of Instagram behavior to your crush, one thing is for sure: you\u2019re dealing with a private person. They use Instagram to stay in touch with their closest friends and family members, and that\u2019s about it.<\/b><\/p>\n

I mean, they\u2019ve definitely received tons of requests. Nevertheless, it\u2019s more than clear that they don\u2019t accept ones they don\u2019t know.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t even follow their favorite celebrity, so why would you be an exception?<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019ve already tried following them, and it didn\u2019t end well<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re wondering, \u201cShould I follow my crush on Instagram?\u201d ask yourself this as well: \u201cIs this the first time I\u2019m sending them a request?\u201d<\/p>\n

If the answer is yes, there is no problem. On the other hand, if you\u2019ve already tried following them, but it didn\u2019t end well, don\u2019t do it again, even if your life depended on it.<\/p>\n

Tal vez hayan rechazado tu petici\u00f3n o simplemente hayan decidido no seguirte. En ese caso, acepta la derrota y sufre en silencio.<\/b><\/p>\n

What do you think will change this time? They won\u2019t suddenly realize they have a crush on you, will they?<\/p>\n

I hate to break it to you, but in this case, you\u2019ll have to find another way to get closer to them and haz que les gustes<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I know what you\u2019re thinking right now: \u201cThey might not have seen my request the last time. I should probably send it again.\u201d Wrong! If you keep following and unfollowing them, you\u2019ll just seem like a lunatic who is stalking them.<\/p>\n

5. They\u2019re in a committed relationship<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be honest with you: you have no business following someone who is in a serious, committed relationship. Of course, they\u2019re allowed to have friends, and there is nothing wrong with that.<\/p>\n

However, the truth is that you\u2019re not trying to be their friend, are you? We\u2019re talking about your crush here, and your primary goal is to haz que te quieran<\/a>.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, es injusto para su pareja. \u00bfC\u00f3mo te sentir\u00edas si alguien fuera a por tu novio o novia? Apuesto a que <\/b>ser\u00eda<\/b>\u2019t be pleasant.<\/b><\/p>\n

But what is more important is that you\u2019ll look desperate. I mean, you\u2019re hitting on someone who is involved in a serious relationship.<\/p>\n

Besides, even if you eventually get them to cheat on their SO, what will that tell you about them? Who says they wouldn\u2019t do the same to you?<\/p>\n

IDK, pero si yo fuera usted, me dar\u00eda por vencido en esto hasta que rompen con su pareja actual.<\/p>\n

6. You\u2019ll come out as a stalker<\/h3>\n

At the end of the day, it doesn\u2019t really matter what people think or say. However, if you know there is the slightest chance your crush will think of you as a stalker, you shouldn\u2019t follow them on Insta.<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re dealing with the type of person who can\u2019t wait to tell the world that you\u2019re their number one fan. Of course, that is a huge sign of their<\/b> inmadurez emocional<\/b><\/a> y una bandera roja para correr por tu vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, before you answer the question \u201cShould I follow my crush on Instagram?\u201d make sure to look at things as realistically as possible.<\/p>\n

If there are more cons than pros, you know this move isn\u2019t a good idea.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo conseguir que tu enamorado te siga en Instagram?<\/h2>\n

Siga esta gu\u00eda paso a paso y su enamoramiento le seguir\u00e1 en un abrir y cerrar de ojos:<\/p>\n

1. Ver sus historias<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t follow your crush, and their account is not private, you can still watch their stories. No, don\u2019t watch every story of theirs, and don\u2019t do it the minute they post one. If you do, it\u2019ll look like you\u2019re obsessed.<\/p>\n

Pero de vez en cuando, hazles notar tu presencia. Esta es una buena manera de <\/b>crush\u2019s attention<\/b> and make them wonder who you are. I\u2019m sure that they\u2019ll follow you right away.<\/b><\/p>\n

2. Enviar respuestas y reacciones adecuadas<\/h3>\n

Otro buen truco para hacer que tu crush te siga en Instagram es responder a sus historias. Pero antes, puedes enviar un par de reacciones.<\/p>\n

Once again, don\u2019t come out looking like a boring stalker who replies to every one of their stories. Just do it from time to time and make sure to come up with witty responses.<\/b><\/p>\n

Puedes enviarles un emoji o un meme apropiado. Ambas cosas son incre\u00edbles temas de conversaci\u00f3n para mensajes de texto<\/a>. If your crush is interested, they\u2019ll reply, and voila, you two will start texting!<\/p>\n

3. Como algunas de sus fotos antiguas<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

The moment your crush posts a new selfie, your first impulse is to like it right away. Well, don\u2019t do it!<\/p>\n

Why? Let me tell you the truth: they won\u2019t notice. They\u2019re getting a bunch of likes now, and yours will likely get lost among the others.<\/p>\n

En su lugar, utilice una de estas dos opciones: puedes esperar un par de d\u00edas hasta que esta foto sea antigua.<\/b> That way, your notification will be the only one. At the same time, they won\u2019t realize that you\u2019re spending all of your free time refreshing their page and waiting for some kind of update.<\/p>\n

But what if they\u2019re not posting anything new? In that case, opci\u00f3n n\u00famero dos es aleatoriamente como algunos de sus viejos <\/b>fotos<\/b>.<\/b> Don\u2019t go crazy \u2013 a couple will be more than enough.<\/p>\n

Make sure to like the ones with the least reactions. Yes, they\u2019ll know that you\u2019ve been going through their profile, but so what?<\/p>\n

4. Utiliza a tus amigos comunes como compinches<\/h3>\n

If you have a bunch of mutual friends, it\u2019s time to use that to your advantage. No, don\u2019t won\u2019t ask them to hook you up.<\/p>\n

Pero empezar\u00e1s a aparecer en sus historias, publicaciones y comentarios. All of a sudden, your crush will feel like they\u2019re following you because you\u2019re on their feed all the time.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even if they didn\u2019t intend to do so, they will surely follow you.<\/p>\n

5. Haz p\u00fablico tu perfil<\/h3>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

\u00bfDebo seguir a la persona que me gusta en Instagram? \u00bfO debo esperar a que me env\u00eden una solicitud de seguimiento?<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019ll be straight with you: they\u2019re unlikely to follow you out of the blue if your account is private. This is especially true if your profile picture is unclear or you have a funny username that has almost nothing to with your real name,<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., ser\u00eda estupendo hacer p\u00fablico tu perfil para aumentar las posibilidades de que te sigan.<\/b><\/p>\n

6. Bromea con tus mensajes y fotos<\/h3>\n

Once you\u2019re sure that your crush can see your profile, it\u2019s time to start teasing them with selfies and posts. Keep in mind that they\u2019re more likely to see your feed than your <\/b>Insta<\/b> as\u00ed que aseg\u00farate de publicar tus mejores fotos en tu feed.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be too provocative, but don\u2019t post every bit of nonsense that pops into your mind either.<\/p>\n

And here\u2019s the most important part of the process: make sure your los selfies tienen pies de foto incre\u00edbles<\/a>!<\/p>\n

7. Compartir sus intereses<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

D\u00e9jame revelarte un peque\u00f1o secreto: Instagram tiene algoritmos especiales que conectan a las personas con intereses similares. Por eso tienes que averiguar m\u00e1s sobre lo que le gusta y lo que no le gusta a tu crush.<\/p>\n

Sigue las p\u00e1ginas que ellos siguen, dale a \"Me gusta\" a las publicaciones que a ellos les gustan y publica m\u00fasica similar a la que ellos publican. Ser\u00eda a\u00fan mejor si pudieras visitar los mismos lugares que ellos.<\/p>\n

That way, Instagram will connect the two of you, and you\u2019ll likely show up as a suggested friend to your crush. When they open your profile and see all the shared interests you two have, they\u2019ll assume <\/b>you\u2019re their soulmate<\/b><\/a> Ahora mismo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Para terminar:<\/b><\/h2>\n

When I was wondering, \u201cShould <\/b>Sigo a mi amor en Instagram<\/b>?\u201d these pros and cons helped me a great deal. And I hope they\u2019ll do the same for you.<\/b><\/p>\n

But at the end of the day, the choice is all yours. If you want to do it, go for it. On the other hand, if you think this might look desperate, find another way to grab your crush\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s importante es no pens\u00e1rselo demasiado. Haz lo que te parezca correcto en cada momento.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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