{"id":156454,"date":"2022-07-27T20:06:12","date_gmt":"2022-07-27T20:06:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=156454"},"modified":"2023-03-31T09:28:46","modified_gmt":"2023-03-31T09:28:46","slug":"etapas-del-divorcio-de-un-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/etapas-del-divorcio-de-un-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"13 etapas del divorcio de un narcisista y c\u00f3mo superarlas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>Sabe que su pareja tiene un <\/i><i>trastorno narcisista de la personalidad<\/i><i>y despu\u00e9s de todos los <\/i><i>luz de gas<\/i><i>, <\/i><i>falta de empat\u00eda<\/i><i>, and other problems you\u2019ve faced, it\u2019s time for a divorce. It\u2019s good you are thinking of your <\/i><i>salud mental<\/i><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Recuerde que puede necesitar un abogado de divorcios y alguien con quien hablar cuando se trate de asesoramiento jur\u00eddico en el proceso de divorcio.<b> Don\u2019t forget to talk about <\/b><b>custodia de menores<\/b><b> y <\/b><b>pensi\u00f3n alimenticia<\/b><b> con su <\/b><b>abogado de divorcios<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Cuando conoces las etapas del divorcio de un narcisista, el proceso se vuelve m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil y sabes a qu\u00e9 atenerte. <\/b>Por lo tanto, mant\u00e9ngase en sinton\u00eda para aprender m\u00e1s acerca de divorciarse de un narcisista y c\u00f3mo es el proceso.<\/p>\n<h2>Etapas del divorcio de un narcisista: 13 fases por las que se pasa<\/h2>\n<p>Estas son las etapas del divorcio de un narcisista:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Preparaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-156456 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child.png\" alt=\"una mujer juega con un ni\u00f1o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-1024x684.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-960x641.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-1080x721.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-1200x801.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-1536x1025.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-735x491.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-335x224.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-347x232.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-640x427.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-720x481.png 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-1280x854.png 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-is-playing-with-a-child-150x100.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSabes lo que el<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/patron-de-relacion-narcisista\/\"> patr\u00f3n de relaci\u00f3n narcisista<\/a> y deber\u00edas ser capaz de prepararte para ello junto con tus hijos. Aseg\u00farate de tener un espacio seguro al que acudir incluso antes de hablar de un acuerdo de divorcio.<\/p>\n<p><i>La preparaci\u00f3n a la hora de divorciarse de alguien con tendencias narcisistas es inmensamente importante.<\/i><b> Es esencial que cuides de ti mismo y de tus hijos antes de pasar por este proceso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Los narcisistas son conocidos por su comportamiento egoc\u00e9ntrico. A menudo se anteponen a los dem\u00e1s y dan prioridad a sus propias necesidades por encima de las de las personas que les rodean.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Confrontaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p>Confrontation is a stage you\u2019ll face when divorcing a narcissist, and it is common for a narcissist to go through this phase. Once you tell them you want a divorce, they are sure to confront you and be upset about the matter.<\/p>\n<p><b>Intentar\u00e1n convencerte de que est\u00e1s equivocado, de que no se les escucha y de que hay que tener en cuenta sus sentimientos.<\/b><i> Para poder enfrentarte a tu narcisista, necesitas saber cu\u00e1les son sus desencadenantes.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Esto le ayudar\u00e1 a evitarlos y le facilitar\u00e1 hablar con ellos de forma no conflictiva. Recu\u00e9rdeles que a\u00fan pueden ser llevados por la v\u00eda judicial, lo que podr\u00eda desinflar su caso de divorcio.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Ira<\/h3>\n<p>Por \u00faltimo, usted es el<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-ocurre-cuando-un-empatico-deja-a-un-narcisista\/\"> emp\u00e1tica que dej\u00f3 al narcisista<\/a> por su comportamiento narcisista. <i>La ira tiene muchas <\/i><i>banderas rojas<\/i><i>y siempre existe la posibilidad de que el narcisista intente herirte o quitarte... <\/i><i>aprovecharse de los dem\u00e1s<\/i><i>...especialmente a tus hijos.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Anger is a normal and natural response to the pain of divorce. It is hard not to feel angry when going through a divorce yourself, especially when someone\u2019s trying to take your children away.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Recuerde, ponga su bienestar y el de sus hijos en primer lugar. Aseg\u00farese de ir a trav\u00e9s de una consulta gratuita con un abogado de derecho de familia que sabe lo que est\u00e1n haciendo y c\u00f3mo lidiar con el comportamiento narcisista.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Denegaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-156457 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man.png\" alt=\"una mujer discute con un hombre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-1024x684.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-960x641.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-1080x721.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-1200x801.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-1536x1025.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-735x491.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-335x224.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-347x232.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-640x427.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-720x481.png 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-1280x854.png 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-woman-argues-with-a-man-150x100.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La negaci\u00f3n es una de las etapas del divorcio de un narcisista. Es el momento en el que todav\u00eda intentan convencerte de que debes perdonarlos por sus errores pasados. Tratar\u00e1n de ser encantadores, dulces y cari\u00f1osos durante este per\u00edodo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Los narcisistas son a menudo muy buenos en la negaci\u00f3n porque tienen un sentido inflado de <\/b><b>autoestima<\/b><b> y piensan que nadie podr\u00eda dejarles.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Puede que est\u00e9n tan atrapados en esta creencia que sigan adelante con el proceso de divorcio y luego se den cuenta de que es demasiado tarde para salvar su relaci\u00f3n. <i>Esta etapa puede durar semanas o meses, pero suele terminar cuando el narcisista se da cuenta de que la relaci\u00f3n no va a funcionar.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>5. Negociaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p><i>Los narcisistas suelen utilizar el regateo para prolongar la <\/i><i>proceso de divorcio<\/i><i>. Si est\u00e1s en la etapa de negociaci\u00f3n con tu narcisista, entonces debes saber c\u00f3mo tratar con \u00e9l.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>They will make a deal with their spouse to avoid and delay the inevitable. Don\u2019t give in to their needs and wants. <b>Esta etapa es cuando intentan prolongar la <\/b><b>proceso de divorcio<\/b><b> haciendo tratos o incluso <\/b><b>devaluaci\u00f3n<\/b><b>, proporcionando <\/b><b>admiraci\u00f3n excesiva<\/b><b> u odio hacia su ex c\u00f3nyuge.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Los narcisistas son expertos en esto y utilizar\u00e1n todos los trucos del libro, como retrasar y posponer los procedimientos judiciales, no pagar la manutenci\u00f3n de los hijos, etc.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Ignorar<\/h3>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo durar\u00e1<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuanto-tiempo-te-ignorara-un-narcisista\/\"> narcisista ignorame<\/a>? It\u2019s up to their NPD. It is essential to understand that narcissists will not change their behavior until they are faced with an ultimatum.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando te ignoran, demuestra que te tienen miedo a ti o a tus t\u00e1cticas.<b> No debes morder el anzuelo y darle al narcisista lo que quiere, lo que le har\u00e1 sentirse m\u00e1s poderoso de lo que ya se siente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Seguir\u00e1n intentando acosarte, manipularte y controlarte hasta que sepan que no hay salida para ellos. Los narcisistas tienden a ser muy manipuladores y s\u00f3lo se preocupan por s\u00ed mismos.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>7. Tristeza<\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s true, narcissists can be sad about losing you. In fact,<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-hacer-que-un-narcisista-te-eche-de-menos\/\"> realmente te echan de menos<\/a> and the rush you gave them. This sadness can be caused by many things, such as the realization that your partner doesn\u2019t love you anymore or that you are no longer in love with them.<\/p>\n<p>This stage can be tough to get through because it&#8217;s not easy to overcome feelings of loneliness and rejection. <b>Still, all of this can be a hoax to lure you back in, so don\u2019t be their shoulder to cry on.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Divorcing a narcissist is an incredibly difficult and draining process. It&#8217;s not uncommon for the divorcee to feel sad, angry, and frustrated.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>8. Venganza<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-156458 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2.png\" alt=\"mujer pensativa sentada junto a la ventana \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-1024x684.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-960x641.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-1080x721.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-1200x801.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-1536x1025.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-735x491.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-335x224.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-347x232.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-640x427.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-720x481.png 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-1280x854.png 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/pensive-woman-sits-by-the-window-2-150x100.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Dealing with sadness can be difficult at first because it often feels like you&#8217;re drowning in your own emotions. <i>But you&#8217;ll start to see the light at the end of the tunnel once you realize that sadness is just one stage in what will be a long and challenging process.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Still, for your ex, it\u2019s different<b>. All they want is to take their revenge. They will do so by trying to show that you\u2019re the <\/b><b>loco<\/b><b>abusando de tu <\/b><b>n\u00famero de tel\u00e9fono<\/b><b>o tratando constantemente de demostrar su val\u00eda.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, la venganza no siempre es la mejor opci\u00f3n. Para algunos puede ser un mecanismo de supervivencia, y no tendr\u00e1 buenos efectos a largo plazo en la persona que se venga. En lugar de vengarte con m\u00e1s venganza, ign\u00f3rala y<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-hacer-que-un-narcisista-te-tema\/\"> deja que te teman<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>9. El juego de la culpa<\/h3>\n<p>Este es un comportamiento com\u00fan que los narcisistas utilizan para hacer que sus parejas se sientan culpables y sacar a relucir el pasado para manipularlas. Intentar\u00e1n que admitas que te equivocaste o que cometiste errores. Adem\u00e1s, intentar\u00e1n que te sientas mal contigo mismo, con tus decisiones y con tu cuerpo.<\/p>\n<p><i>Un narcisista puede utilizar el juego de la culpa para hacer que su pareja se sienta culpable por no ser lo suficientemente perfecta o por las cosas que ha hecho mal.<\/i><b> El juego de la culpa tambi\u00e9n puede utilizarse como un intento de vengarse de su pareja para recuperar el control de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Do not give in to this! It&#8217;s no surprise that narcissists would use blame games to make their partners feel bad. It&#8217;s a way for them to keep them on the hook so they can continue to control and manipulate them.<\/p>\n<h3>10. Insultos<\/h3>\n<p>Los narcisistas suelen utilizar los insultos para sentirse mejor y parecer superiores. <b>This is also a tactic to get the narcissist&#8217;s partner to react and provide them with <\/b><b>validaci\u00f3n<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Los insultos son la forma m\u00e1s com\u00fan de abuso durante un divorcio y pueden causar ansiedad, estr\u00e9s y depresi\u00f3n. <\/b><i>It can be an effective way for the narcissist&#8217;s partner to identify when the behaviors have become too much, and they need to take action.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>11. Acusaciones falsas<\/h3>\n<p>Recuerde, si su<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-un-narcisista-se-calla\/\"> el narcisista se calla<\/a>creen que significa que has ganado. Por eso te bombardean con acusaciones. <i>Esta es una de las etapas finales del <\/i><i>proceso de divorcio<\/i><i> cuando el narcisista ha perdido toda esperanza de que su c\u00f3nyuge cambie, y no le quedan m\u00e1s opciones.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Un narcisista a menudo hace falsas acusaciones<\/b><b> para intentar vengarse de su c\u00f3nyuge por algo o como intento de ganarse la simpat\u00eda de los dem\u00e1s.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They may also be made by mistake or out of fear that their spouse will harm them if they don&#8217;t make any false accusations. They are not always easy to spot because they can be subtle and manipulative.<\/p>\n<h3>12. Manipulaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-156459 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking.png\" alt=\"un hombre est\u00e1 sentado a la mesa con una mujer y est\u00e1n hablando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-1024x684.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-960x641.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-1080x721.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-1200x801.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-1536x1025.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-735x491.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-335x224.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-347x232.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-640x427.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-720x481.png 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-1280x854.png 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-is-sitting-with-a-woman-at-the-table-and-they-are-talking-150x100.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Los narcisistas suelen intentar controlar a sus ex utilizando t\u00e1cticas como la luz de gas, los juegos mentales y el abuso emocional. Tambi\u00e9n pueden utilizar estas t\u00e1cticas para vengarse de sus ex por haberles abandonado.<\/p>\n<p><b>La manipulaci\u00f3n es una etapa en el divorcio de un narcisista. Utilizar\u00e1n muchas t\u00e1cticas para conseguir lo que quieren, como mentir, enga\u00f1ar y <\/b><b>abuso emocional<\/b><b>. <\/b><i>It\u2019s not always easy to detect when you\u2019re being manipulated by your <\/i><i>ex narcisista<\/i><i>-socio porque pueden ser muy h\u00e1biles en ello.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>13. Aceptaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p>Ya sabes c\u00f3mo<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-te-cambia-salir-con-un-narcisista\/\"> esta relaci\u00f3n te cambi\u00f3<\/a> and that you\u2019re not the same person anymore. <i>Your narcissist knows you won\u2019t give in if you\u2019ve gone through all these stages of divorcing a narcissist. They finally give up.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>They have been controlling your life, and now you are free to live it how you want. It&#8217;s hard to let go of what they have given you and accept that it&#8217;s over for good.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Acceptance is when you finally realize that this person isn&#8217;t going to change and that they are never going to be there for you again.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard for the narcissist to accept that their partner does not love them unconditionally and will not be there for them to torment. This is why acceptance is so important in divorcing a narcissist. Until they reach it, you won\u2019t be able to relax.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-el-narcisista-te-ve-con-otra-persona\/\">Cuando el narcisista te ve con otra persona, sigue caminando<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Cu\u00e1ndo divorciarse de un narcisista: Lo que hay que saber<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-156460 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other.png\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer se alejan el uno del otro\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-1024x684.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-960x641.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-1080x721.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-1200x801.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-1536x1025.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-735x491.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-335x224.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-347x232.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-640x427.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-720x481.png 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-1280x854.png 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-and-a-woman-walk-away-from-each-other-150x100.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A narcissist is someone who has an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for admiration, and a lack of empathy. They can be difficult to live with because they don&#8217;t listen to others&#8217; needs or feelings.<\/p>\n<p><b>En<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lista-de-divorcio\/\"> <b>\u00bfdeber\u00eda plantearse el divorcio?<\/b><\/a><b> Si su pareja es un narcisista, hay varias se\u00f1ales a las que debe prestar atenci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Hay muchos factores que deben tenerse en cuenta a la hora de decidir si divorciarse de un narcisista. El factor m\u00e1s importante es su seguridad y la de sus hijos.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Suelen tener problemas para hacer frente a las cr\u00edticas y reaccionan mal si se sienten atacados.<b> They are also very sensitive and may lash out at you emotionally when they feel like you\u2019re not giving them enough attention or adoration.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>El divorcio nunca es una decisi\u00f3n f\u00e1cil. <b>Es un momento dif\u00edcil que puede ser a\u00fan m\u00e1s complicado cuando tienes hijos con tu<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-te-cambia-salir-con-un-narcisista\/\"> <b>c\u00f3nyuge narcisista<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Si<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-un-hombre-tiene-problemas-de-ira\/\"> tienen problemas de ira<\/a>, are sensitive, and always feel attacked, it\u2019s time to get out because it can become potentially dangerous for you and the kids.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Los narcisistas no siempre son malas personas, y no siempre abusan de sus parejas emocional, f\u00edsica o sexualmente. <\/i>They may simply be selfish and self-centered individuals who don&#8217;t care about others.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s important to know the difference so you can make an informed decision about whether or not you want to stay with them for the sake of your children.<\/p>\n<p>Incluso cuando el divorcio de un narcisista encubierto, aseg\u00farese de que est\u00e1n dispuestos a hacer co-parenting con usted y que \u00e9l no es gaslighting usted o sus hijos.<\/p>\n<h3>Cuando te divorcies de un narcisista, recuerda estos consejos<\/h3>\n<p>Los narcisistas suelen ser dif\u00edciles de divorciar porque har\u00e1n todo lo que est\u00e9 en su mano para que el proceso sea lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil posible. <b>Pueden amenazarte con quitarte a tus hijos, acosarte e incluso intentar manipularte para que te quedes con ellos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Si est\u00e1s pasando por un divorcio con un narcisista, estos consejos pueden ayudarte a mantenerte a salvo:<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 Document everything: <\/b>Los narcisistas utilizar\u00e1n cualquier excusa que encuentren para acosarte o manipularte durante el proceso de divorcio. <b>Documentarlo todo le ayudar\u00e1 a protegerse contra este comportamiento y evitar\u00e1 que se convierta en un problema para su caso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 Have a support system: <\/b><i>It\u2019s important to have someone on your side during this difficult time who is willing<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/un-dia-te-daras-cuenta-de-que-uno-siempre\/\"> <i>para estar a tu lado<\/i><\/a><i> cuando sea necesario.<\/i> Esta persona puede ser un familiar, un compa\u00f1ero de trabajo u otra persona.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 Don\u2019t trust them: It is important to remember that, in many cases, the narcissist has not changed and may still be abusive or neglectful of their children.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 Keep your guard up:<\/b> <i>Los narcisistas son personas manipuladoras acostumbradas a conseguir lo que quieren.<\/i> Cuando empiezan a perder su poder, suelen volverse m\u00e1s agresivos y abusivos con sus ex c\u00f3nyuges o ex parejas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/puede-un-narcisista-ser-fiel\/\">\u00bfPuede un narcisista ser fiel? Todo lo que debe saber<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>C\u00f3mo superar un divorcio con un narcisista<\/h2>\n<p><i>El divorcio nunca es f\u00e1cil y, a veces, puede ser a\u00fan m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil cuando el narcisista implicado es tu ex.<\/i><b> Sin embargo, los siguientes consejos le ayudar\u00e1n a superar este dif\u00edcil momento:<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>\u2022 Don&#8217;t feel guilty about anything.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 Don&#8217;t try to change the person you&#8217;re divorcing.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>\u2022 Be positive and focus on yourself.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 Don\u2019t change your mind because you might be a victim of their<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/bombardeo-de-amor\/\"> <b>bombardeo de amor<\/b><\/a> <b>o f\u00edsico o <\/b><b>abuso emocional<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>El divorcio es un momento dif\u00edcil para todos los implicados, pero puede serlo especialmente cuando hay que<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-tratar-espiritualmente-a-un-narcisista\/\"> tratar con un narcisista<\/a>. <i>Los narcisistas no siempre son f\u00e1ciles de tratar, pero hay esperanza. En este art\u00edculo, vamos a discutir c\u00f3mo superar un divorcio con un narcisista.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>The first step in divorcing a narcissist is understanding just what it means to be one. It\u2019s important to understand the personality type to know what you are getting into before you sign on the dotted line.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Don\u2019t fall for their <\/i><i>t\u00e1cticas de manipulaci\u00f3n<\/i><i> o cualquier otro tipo de <\/i><i>abuso narcisista<\/i><i> donde bajan su <\/i><i>autoestima<\/i><i> y busca tu <\/i><i>validaci\u00f3n<\/i><i> al tiempo que maximizan su <\/i><i>sentido del derecho<\/i><i> para su atenci\u00f3n. <\/i>Es s\u00f3lo tu ex narcisista, recuerda.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfQu\u00e9 hace un narcisista durante un divorcio?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-156461 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman.png\" alt=\"un hombre discute con una mujer\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-1024x684.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-960x641.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-1080x721.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-1200x801.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-1536x1025.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-735x491.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-335x224.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-347x232.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-640x427.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-720x481.png 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-1280x854.png 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/a-man-argues-with-a-woman-150x100.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i>Narcissists often do not acknowledge their spouse&#8217;s pain or make an effort to help them cope with it. <\/i><b>Tambi\u00e9n pueden culparles del fracaso matrimonial y hacerles sentir que tienen la culpa de todo lo que ha ocurrido desde que comenz\u00f3 el divorcio.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Los narcisistas son famosos por su ego\u00edsmo y egocentrismo. Tienden a distanciarse emocionalmente de los dem\u00e1s, especialmente en tiempos de crisis. <i>Cuando est\u00e1n pasando por un divorcio, su comportamiento puede ser a\u00fan m\u00e1s extremo debido a las emociones que est\u00e1n sintiendo.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Los narcisistas tienen un <\/b><b>sentido del derecho<\/b><b>ven el mundo como una competici\u00f3n, son incapaces de empatizar con los dem\u00e1s y son manipuladores.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Se negar\u00e1n a hablar de la situaci\u00f3n econ\u00f3mica de los hijos o de cualquier otro asunto relacionado con ellos.<i> Adem\u00e1s, plantear\u00e1n exigencias escandalosas en un intento de demostrar lo duros y fuertes que son durante este<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-formas-de-aliviar-el-estres\/\"> <i>momento dif\u00edcil<\/i><\/a><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>They will try to control their spouse&#8217;s access and contact with their children by using guilt or manipulation to control them. And that\u2019s not the worst part: if your high-conflict divorce is full of court orders and divorce proceedings, they might try to guilt trip you into staying with them.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los narcisistas retrasan el divorcio?<\/h2>\n<p><i>Narcissists delay divorce because they don&#8217;t want to lose their status as a &#8220;good&#8221; person. <\/i><b>Piensan que merecen el beneficio de la duda y que se les debe dar m\u00e1s tiempo para cambiar su comportamiento.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Narcisismo<\/i><i> is a personality disorder, which means it&#8217;s not something you can just stop through sheer willpower. There are many reasons narcissists delay their divorces.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Quieren evitar tener que admitir que se equivocaron, lo que significa admitir sus errores y responsabilizarse de ellos. <\/b><i>En cualquier caso, lo m\u00e1s probable es que tenga que soportar muchas <\/i><i>acusaciones falsas<\/i><i> y<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/patron-de-relacion-narcisista\/\"> <i>comportamiento narcisista<\/i><\/a><i> patrones.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Los narcisistas suelen ser reacios a divorciarse porque creen que ser\u00e1n estigmatizados si lo hacen. <\/b>Tambi\u00e9n creen que un divorcio les afectar\u00e1 negativamente en el futuro e incluso podr\u00eda hacerles perder algunos de sus amigos o c\u00edrculo social.<\/p>\n<p><i>Para evitar estas consecuencias negativas, los narcisistas suelen retrasar el proceso de solicitud de divorcio hasta que es demasiado tarde para salvar su matrimonio.<\/i><\/p>\n<h2>Run Before It\u2019s Too Late<\/h2>\n<p>Los narcisistas son personas que tienen un grandioso sentido de la autoimportancia y una necesidad de admiraci\u00f3n. <i>A menudo se les describe como poseedores de un sentido exagerado de la importancia, una profunda necesidad de admiraci\u00f3n y un <\/i><i>falta de empat\u00eda<\/i><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Las etapas del divorcio de un narcisista pueden ser dif\u00edciles de navegar porque son muy manipuladores y controladores. <\/b>They will try to make you feel guilty about leaving them, or they will try to make you feel like you&#8217;re the one who is wrong for leaving them. Don\u2019t lose faith!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/13-Stages-Of-Divorcing-A-Narcissist-And-Getting-Through-Them-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"13 etapas del divorcio de un narcisista y c\u00f3mo superarlas Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-162694\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/13-Stages-Of-Divorcing-A-Narcissist-And-Getting-Through-Them-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/13-Stages-Of-Divorcing-A-Narcissist-And-Getting-Through-Them-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/13-Stages-Of-Divorcing-A-Narcissist-And-Getting-Through-Them-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/13-Stages-Of-Divorcing-A-Narcissist-And-Getting-Through-Them-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/13-Stages-Of-Divorcing-A-Narcissist-And-Getting-Through-Them-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/13-Stages-Of-Divorcing-A-Narcissist-And-Getting-Through-Them-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/13-Stages-Of-Divorcing-A-Narcissist-And-Getting-Through-Them-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/13-Stages-Of-Divorcing-A-Narcissist-And-Getting-Through-Them-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You know your partner has a narcissistic personality disorder, and after all the gaslighting, lack of empathy, and other problems you\u2019ve faced, it\u2019s time for a divorce. It\u2019s good you are thinking of your mental health. Remember, you might need a divorce attorney and someone to talk to when it comes to legal advice in&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":156455,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-156454","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/13-Stages-Of-Divorcing-A-Narcissist-And-Getting-Through-Them-1024x684.png",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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