{"id":156666,"date":"2022-08-03T20:41:19","date_gmt":"2022-08-03T20:41:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=156666"},"modified":"2022-08-12T16:45:00","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T16:45:00","slug":"senales-de-alarma-en-las-redes-sociales","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-alarma-en-las-redes-sociales\/","title":{"rendered":"35 se\u00f1ales de alarma en las redes sociales de las que hay que cuidarse"},"content":{"rendered":"

The good thing about social media is that it allows insight into people in your life you wouldn\u2019t have otherwise. Algunas personas act\u00faan de forma distinta en las redes sociales que en la vida real porque separan su personalidad online de su vida real.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In romantic relationships, this can uncover some things that will make you question your choice of significant other. If they post things they wouldn\u2019t say to someone directly, or if they act in a way that they don\u2019t offline, these are social media red flags in relationships.<\/p>\n

Cualquier coach sentimental dir\u00eda que esto puede causar problemas porque todo lo que se publica en Internet nunca desaparece realmente.<\/strong> Even if something is deleted, there’s always some evidence somewhere that can lead to discovering a side of your partner that you can\u2019t accept.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s what you should be watching out for.<\/p>\n

Se\u00f1ales de alarma en las redes sociales<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The best relationship advice is that you should always be honest with your significant other \u2013 if your partner is doing sketchy things on social media, it\u2019s the exact opposite of that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If instead of dealing with your problems in private, they\u2019re showing the whole world what\u2019s going on or if they\u2019re flirting with other people hoping you won\u2019t see, you might have a problem.<\/p>\n

Busca estas se\u00f1ales de alarma en las redes sociales para saber a qu\u00e9 atenerte.<\/p>\n

1. They’re always online<\/h3>\n

All of us probably spend too much time on social media, but if your partner is chronically online to a point where they get out of touch with reality, it\u2019s a definitive red flag. People who live like this have a completely warped worldview and forget what life among real people is like porque la mayor\u00eda de sus interacciones son con personas esencialmente an\u00f3nimas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. They’re on social media a lot even when you\u2019re together<\/h3>\n

Constantly checking social media accounts even while you\u2019re spending time together could mean that they consider their feed more important than your relationship or have something going on that they prefer to being with you.<\/p>\n

Otra raz\u00f3n para comprobar constantemente su tel\u00e9fono podr\u00eda ser una adicci\u00f3n a las redes sociales:<\/strong> utilizar las redes sociales para dejar de lado los problemas de la vida real y olvidarse de ellos en lugar de resolverlos.<\/p>\n

3. Tienen varias cuentas secretas<\/h3>\n

Algunas personas tienen varias cuentas en las redes sociales porque las utilizan para fines distintos, como tener perfiles privados y profesionales, pero las cuentas secretas son otra historia. Esto suele significar que tienen algo que ocultar,<\/strong> and if it\u2019s your significant other hiding something from you, it\u2019s a definite cause of concern.<\/p>\n

4. Inician peleas en Internet o escriben mensajes poco claros.<\/h3>\n

Most people get into an internet argument at some point, but if your partner has a habit of starting them, it\u2019s a red flag. People who enjoy online trolling and bullying aren\u2019t looking for constructive arguments, but personal satisfaction from defeating their opponent at any cost.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Escribir posts con el prop\u00f3sito de provocar a la gente es quiz\u00e1s a\u00fan m\u00e1s problem\u00e1tico porque demuestra premeditaci\u00f3n e intenci\u00f3n de molestar a la gente.<\/p>\n

5. Retuitean a personas o publicaciones con las que no est\u00e1s de acuerdo<\/h3>\n

Que te guste un post que te haga mirar de reojo una vez puede pasarse por alto, pero si a su pareja a menudo le gusta y se relaciona con personas y publicaciones con las que usted no est\u00e1 de acuerdo, puede que sea una persona diferente de la que usted pensaba que era<\/strong>. If these opinions are something they know you wouldn\u2019t approve of and they\u2019re hiding them from you on purpose, it indicates an even bigger problem.<\/p>\n

6. Publican cosas que chocan con tus valores<\/h3>\n

Yendo un paso m\u00e1s all\u00e1, si tu pareja crea publicaciones o adopta una personalidad en Internet que choca directamente con tus valores, es una seria se\u00f1al de alarma en la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Cuando ciertos valores y creencias de una persona son incompatibles, es muy dif\u00edcil mantener una relaci\u00f3n sana.<\/strong> This especially applies if they don\u2019t express such opinions offline and you only learned about them from social media.<\/p>\n

7. Sus intereses son cuestionables<\/h3>\n

The internet is great when you want to explore and learn about things that interest you, but for the same reason it\u2019s also terrible. Unfortunately, it\u2019s easy to find groups centered around certain interests which are immediate major red flags, such as anything involving violence, hate and abuse. If you notice that your partner\u2019s online interests include some of these, be wary.<\/strong><\/p>\n

8. Sus estados y publicaciones son mayoritariamente negativos<\/h3>\n

If their posts are mostly concerned with how much someone sucks or how much they hate something, it\u2019s a red flag that points to unhappiness with their own self. The danger of being excessively negative on the internet is that it tends to draw in people with similar opinions.<\/p>\n

Cuando las personas que tienen actitudes pesimistas y hostiles similares se encuentran en Internet, tienden a crear un bucle de retroalimentaci\u00f3n<\/strong> \u2013 they feed one another\u2019s ideas and escalate them.<\/p>\n

9. Sus mensajes llaman la atenci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n

La b\u00fasqueda de atenci\u00f3n es un rasgo clave de los narcisistas. Because of their low self-esteem, they need constant external validation, and there\u2019s no better place to get it than on social media, which thrives on glorifying an image.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If your partner is presenting themselves in an insincere way designed to give them a certain type of attention, pay attention to other possible signs that you\u2019re dealing with a narcissist.<\/p>\n

10. Presumen de hacer algo desinteresado<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Being kind should be its own reward, so if your partner does seemingly selfless things only to get recognition and praise, it\u2019s a sign of a less-than-genuine person. This shows that they\u2019re calculated and cold and that they don\u2019t really care about the person or the cause they appear to support, but they\u2019re actually using them. Kindness for personal gain isn\u2019t kindness at all<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

11. Nunca publican nada sobre ti<\/h3>\n

You never feature on your significant other\u2019s social media, but is there a reason to worry? Whether or not it\u2019s a cause for concern depends on the content of their account. If they mostly repost things they find interesting or share links and memes, then it\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n

Si publican detalles sobre su vida en sus redes sociales y han compartido especialmente sus relaciones anteriores, entonces su ausencia podr\u00eda ser un problema<\/strong> unless you\u2019ve specifically decided to have a relaci\u00f3n privada<\/a>.<\/p>\n

12. They don’t tag you in pics<\/h3>\n

Usually the person you\u2019re in a relationship with wants to show you off to the world and let everyone know that you\u2019re together. However, this is another issue that depends on the context and how important it is for the both of you.<\/p>\n

As long as you\u2019re both on the same page when it comes to the visibility of your relationship online, you\u2019re good, but if you\u2019re tagging them and they\u2019re not tagging you, it may be a warning sign.<\/strong><\/p>\n

13. Se comunican activamente con un ex<\/h3>\n

Staying friends with an ex after a breakup is possible for some people, but whether or not that\u2019s all there is isn\u2019t the issue here: la verdadera pregunta es qu\u00e9 opinas de que tu pareja siga en contacto con su ex.<\/strong> If you\u2019re okay with it, then this isn\u2019t a red flag. On the other hand, if they\u2019re doing it even though you dislike it or even behind your back, it\u2019s something to watch out for.<\/p>\n

14. Hacen comentarios malintencionados sobre un ex<\/h3>\n

Ending a bad relationship is a relief, but holding a grudge and clinging to hard feelings even after starting a new one isn\u2019t a good sign. They might have moved on too soon \u2013 or haven\u2019t really moved on.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s also a peek into your future: if they\u2019re still angry at an ex after enough time has passed that they\u2019re in a new relationship with you, what will it mean if you ever break up with each other?<\/p>\n

15. They\u2019re stalking an ex<\/h3>\n

Following what their ex is up to on social media is a definitive red flag. This means that your partner isn\u2019t over their ex, no matter how much they might be trying to convince you and themselves of it. If they didn\u2019t care about their ex any more, they wouldn\u2019t be interested in what\u2019s going on in their lives.<\/strong><\/p>\n

16. Parece que mantienen sus opciones abiertas<\/h3>\n

If your partner is keeping dating apps installed and even still talks to people they meet, they\u2019re looking to replace you with a better option.<\/p>\n

El objetivo de citas en l\u00ednea<\/a> es lo mismo que las citas normales, conocer a alguien con quien puedas tener una relaci\u00f3n, por lo que la gente deja de buscar una vez que conoce a una persona que le gusta. If your partner is still looking, it means that they\u2019re not taking your relationship seriously.<\/strong><\/p>\n

17. Their social media activity hints that they’re into someone else<\/h3>\n

If your partner is invested in another person and their posts more than others, it could be a hint that they\u2019re interested in them. Is there someone they follow and religiously keep up with? Someone whose every post gets a like and a comment, and those comments often have a flirty note? Your significant other might already be a lost cause.<\/p>\n

18. Their relationship status isn’t “in a relationship”<\/h3>\n

They don\u2019t have to explicitly state on their profile that they\u2019re in a relationship if that\u2019s not something that matters to the both of you, but if they\u2019re pretending that they\u2019re single, it\u2019s a red flag for sure.<\/strong> There\u2019s a difference between staying private and hiding.<\/p>\n

19. Dejan y reciben comentarios coquetos<\/h3>\n

If their comments consist of ??\ufe0f?\ufe0f?\ufe0f emojis and flirty or sexual comments, it might be harmless fun, but usually it isn\u2019t. It\u2019s one thing to post something like this under a picture of a sexy celebrity or in a clearly joking manner, but si flirtean con la misma gente<\/a> repeatedly and seriously, they\u2019re being disrespectful to you at best and ready to cheat at worst.<\/strong><\/p>\n

20. They don’t follow you or let you follow them<\/h3>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Some couples like to keep certain parts of their lives separate, which is healthy because it\u2019s necessary to stay your own person in a relationship.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, insistence on keeping your online life separate is a definite red flag unless it\u2019s something you mutually agreed on.<\/strong> If your significant other doesn\u2019t want you to see what they\u2019re up to or isn\u2019t interested in the things you post, it usually means they have something to hide.<\/p>\n

21. They’re hiding your relationship from people who know them<\/h3>\n

Not telling their family members or friends that you\u2019re together is a symptom of toxic behavior. This is different from being in a private relationship in which you\u2019re not hiding each other, but simply discreci\u00f3n<\/a>. No dejar que sus seres queridos sepan de ti es una se\u00f1al de advertencia<\/strong> that your partner doesn\u2019t have good intentions when it comes to you.<\/p>\n

22. You find out what they’ve been up to from their social media<\/h3>\n

Enterarte de que tu pareja est\u00e1 de viaje por una foto en Instagram es chocante. Cuando tu pareja hace publicaciones sobre su vida en las redes sociales y t\u00fa solo te enteras entonces, definitivamente tienes problemas de pareja. Puede ser una se\u00f1al de que tu pareja se est\u00e1 alejando de la relaci\u00f3n e intenta crear distancia contigo.<\/p>\n

23. Sus fotos sugieren un problema de alcoholismo o drogadicci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019ve been dating someone for a while but you still don\u2019t know them that well, noticing that all of their posts include pictures or stories of drinking or doing drugs is a warning sign that they could have a problem. Talking to them about it might prove difficult, so be gentle when you decide to breach this subject.<\/p>\n

24. Suelen postear mientras te dejan en read<\/h3>\n

If you text them and they don\u2019t reply, but you see that they\u2019re active on social media, they can\u2019t be bothered to talk to you or they don\u2019t know how to reply. Either way, they\u2019re choosing not to reply but aren\u2019t trying to hide that they\u2019ve seen your message.<\/strong> Unless you have a relationship in which you don\u2019t insist on immediate replies, it\u2019s likely a sign that they\u2019re losing interest.<\/p>\n

25. Sus cuentas son privadas<\/h3>\n

La transparencia en una relaci\u00f3n es necesaria para mantenerla sana. If your partner uses an excuse of having a private account, you can\u2019t help but wonder why the secrecy<\/strong>. There\u2019s something that immediately says shady about having a private account that\u2019s kept locked even from their significant other.<\/p>\n

26. Les pillas en una mentira en una foto etiquetada<\/h3>\n

Catching your significant other somewhere where they weren\u2019t supposed to be because they were tagged in a photo or doing something they swore they weren\u2019t doing is a red flag. Mentir en una relaci\u00f3n es a la vez s\u00edntoma de problemas y conduce a m\u00e1s problemas<\/strong>. Confronting your partner if they don\u2019t admit that they were lying on their own has a chance of turning into an argument.<\/p>\n

27. Siguen muchas cuentas con contenido sexy<\/h3>\n

If your partner is following one or two accounts that post sexy content, it\u2019s probably harmless. However, there\u2019s a certain limit to the number of accounts where it stops being fun and could be a symptom of a problem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cuando tu pareja tiene un feed completo que consiste en nada m\u00e1s que personas que les resultan atractivas<\/a>, it\u2019s a red flag to watch out for.<\/p>\n

28. Les gustan o comentan fotos inapropiadas<\/h3>\n

Liking or commenting on someone\u2019s overly sexualized pictures or nude selfies then passing it off as not a big deal is a red flag, especially if done repeatedly.<\/p>\n

Liking many photos posted by the same person means that they\u2019re trying to establish some kind of contact with them. Liking pictures posted by many people is una se\u00f1al de que tu pareja est\u00e1 pescando cualquier cosa que pueda picar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

29. Publican detalles sobre su relaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n

Partners in a healthy relationship should be focused on each other, instead of other people\u2019s impression of how things are going between them. The temptation to let everyone know that you\u2019re a part of a happy couple is understandable, but the decision has to come from both sides. Otherwise, mant\u00e9n tu relaci\u00f3n fuera de las redes sociales.<\/a><\/p>\n

When one of you shares intimate details of your relationship with the world by posting them online without the other person\u2019s approval, it\u2019s a breach of trust and privacy.<\/p>\n

30. Hablan de tus problemas de pareja en las redes sociales<\/h3>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in a serious relationship, the details should stay only between the people who are involved. Your problems are nobody else\u2019s business because nobody else can understand it the way you do.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Talking to a close friend who\u2019s known the both of you for a while is helpful, but airing your private matters where anyone has access is a mistake. Your partner talking to their followers about your personal problems is a red flag.<\/p>\n

31. They’re comparing your relationship to what they see online<\/h3>\n

Parejas inseguras<\/a> est\u00e1n obsesionados con presentar una determinada imagen en Internet. Se trata de una selecci\u00f3n muy embellecida y comisariada de momentos de sus vidas que nada tiene que ver con la realidad.<\/p>\n

Desgraciadamente, estas fantas\u00edas pueden parecer bastante reales a personas que est\u00e1n descontentas con su propia vida.<\/strong> If your significant other is comparing your relationship with a fictional one like this, something isn\u2019t working.<\/p>\n

32. They’re stalking you<\/h3>\n

This might be hard to notice because if your significant other is following your activity, they can easily do it anonymously and without showing any signs that they\u2019re doing it. El acoso en las redes sociales incluye conocer todas tus cuentas y prestar atenci\u00f3n a todo lo que publicas, te gusta o comentas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Having any kind of page on the internet means that you\u2019re aware that people will look at it, but following your every move is a red flag.<\/p>\n

33. Quieren controlar su cuenta o su actividad<\/h3>\n

An abusive relationship isn\u2019t only one which involves physical abuse. Control del comportamiento<\/a> es uno de los signos de abuso emocional, as\u00ed que if your partner is trying to control what you\u2019re doing online, it could be just the first step in their abusive behavior.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If they\u2019re acting in a similar way in real life as well, take precautions and ask for help if you\u2019re concerned about your safety.<\/p>\n

34. They’re checking your followers list<\/h3>\n

Another sign of manipulative behavior is if your partner demands to know who you\u2019re in touch with. Checking who follows you and whom you follow is out of line.<\/p>\n

Jealous behavior like this is a sign that your partner doesn\u2019t trust you and wants to control you and your life.<\/strong> Unless you\u2019ve betrayed them in the past and they\u2019re still learning to trust you again, it says more about your significant other than about your relationship.<\/p>\n

35. They ask what you’re doing on your phone or snoop on their own<\/h3>\n

Curiosity is fine, but nosiness isn\u2019t. Your partner sometimes casually asking you about what you\u2019re looking at on your phone when you laugh at something, is normal, always wanting to know who you\u2019re talking to and what about, is controlling.<\/p>\n

Looking through your phone is even worse, especially if they don\u2019t have your permission. It can be a symptom of a toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

En resumen<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Hay ciertas cosas que los expertos en relaciones llaman \"deal-breakers\" en una relaci\u00f3n: son comportamientos o rasgos con los que te niegas categ\u00f3ricamente a estar de acuerdo, lo que hace imposible una relaci\u00f3n con alguien.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because your deal-breakers can be something so fundamentally obvious to you, you might never state them to your partner, assuming they think the same way. This is why seeing a different side of the person you\u2019re with can sometimes make you realize that they aren\u2019t who you believed they were.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Reconocer las se\u00f1ales de alarma de las redes sociales en las relaciones puede ser \u00fatil para detectar posibles problemas en la relaci\u00f3n y decidir qu\u00e9 hacer antes de que se agraven y da\u00f1en tu salud mental y tu bienestar.<\/p>\n

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