{"id":156795,"date":"2022-08-09T12:21:50","date_gmt":"2022-08-09T12:21:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=156795"},"modified":"2022-08-19T06:10:54","modified_gmt":"2022-08-19T06:10:54","slug":"como-salvar-un-matrimonio-cuando-solo-uno-lo-intenta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-salvar-un-matrimonio-cuando-solo-uno-lo-intenta\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo salvar un matrimonio cuando s\u00f3lo uno lo intenta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nadie se casa con la intenci\u00f3n de divorciarse, pero la triste realidad es que los matrimonios fracasan con frecuencia. Sin embargo, Tener la opci\u00f3n del divorcio es preferible a estar condenado a una vida de infelicidad.<\/strong>encerrado en un matrimonio que te est\u00e1 haciendo miserable.<\/p>\n

Marriages, like other relationships, can reach a point where they become damaged beyond repair. Clearly, you don\u2019t want your marriage to reach this point, otherwise you wouldn\u2019t be here. If you\u2019re wondering how to save a marriage when only one is trying, you\u2019re already ahead. <\/strong>Until both partners have given up, there\u2019s hope.<\/p>\n

Saving your marriage will be hard work, but it\u2019s not impossible. As long as you\u2019re determined to do whatever needs to be done to mend your relationship, you have reason to keep going.<\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed algunos consejos \u00fatiles para facilitar sus esfuerzos y aumentar sus probabilidades de \u00e9xito.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo salvar un matrimonio cuando s\u00f3lo uno lo intenta?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

When one partner wants to leave a troubled marriage and the other one desperately wants to save it, it may seem that there is a rift between them that\u2019s impossible to repair. How to save a marriage when only one is trying?<\/p>\n

Porque cada relaci\u00f3n es diferente, there isn\u2019t a one-size-fits-all kind of solution<\/strong>. Still, the following tips should lead you towards defining the exact steps to take as long as you\u2019re willing to do your best.<\/p>\n

1. Preg\u00fantate por qu\u00e9 quieres salvar tu matrimonio<\/h3>\n

Salvar un matrimonio con la plena cooperaci\u00f3n de ambos c\u00f3nyuges es dif\u00edcil. Salvar un matrimonio en solitario es una tarea ingente.<\/strong> Your first step should be to make sure you\u2019re determined to do this for the right reasons.<\/p>\n

Ask yourself, \u201cWhy do I want to save my marriage?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 Is it the vows you\u2019ve taken?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Do you want to stay together for the kids?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Is it that you don’t want to go through divorce?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Are you ashamed of your marriage failing?<\/p>\n

All of these reasons are wrong because if you think this way, your heart isn\u2019t in it. The only real reason you should endure in your efforts to save your marriage is si usted y su c\u00f3nyuge se aman y creen que es posible un matrimonio feliz entre ustedes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you believe that you must stay married for any reason that isn\u2019t about choosing your spouse as someone to share your life with, happiness will always be out of reach. Ninguno de esos factores externos puede compensar la falta de amor y compromiso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You should be with someone who chooses to love you, even if at this point they\u2019re not taking part in salvando tu matrimonio.<\/a><\/p>\n

Piensa si los dos hab\u00e9is estado alguna vez plenamente comprometidos con vuestro matrimonio y lo hab\u00e9is dado todo. Si es as\u00ed, \u00bfd\u00f3nde han ido mal las cosas y qu\u00e9 deber\u00edais hacer para arreglarlas?<\/p>\n

2. Piense si su matrimonio puede salvarse<\/h3>\n

After you\u2019ve thought about your reasons for saving your marriage and decided that you want to keep going, you must ask yourself si su matrimonio puede salvarse o no<\/strong>, especially since you\u2019re the only one who is trying.<\/p>\n

Los problemas matrimoniales ocurren en todos los matrimonios, pero si tienes una relaci\u00f3n sana, pueden solucionarse.<\/strong> A toxic marriage can’t be saved. Sure, it can be patched, but it would take a lot of effort on both sides to really heal it.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Is your relationship toxic or has it simply started dissolving from neglect?<\/strong> Incluso los peque\u00f1os problemas no resueltos durante demasiado tiempo pueden arrastrarse y contaminar otras partes de su relaci\u00f3n. Para saber si el matrimonio puede salvarse, hay que empezar por plantearse si los problemas pueden solucionarse.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Is your partner even aware that your marriage is failing?<\/strong> If your partner isn\u2019t paying attention, they might not even be aware that you feel like your marriage is in danger.<\/p>\n

Marriages don’t end only in explosions \u2013 sometimes they fade away until they stop being marriages. When things come this far, things end or go on without being a real marriage for years, making both partners miserable.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If your partner explicitly wants out, do you know why?<\/strong> Is it something you\u2019ve done or a change in their feelings? If either of you is constantly criticizing the other or showing contempt, you might be moving from a troubled towards unhappy marriage.<\/p>\n

Why ask all these questions and think about it so much? Because it\u2019s important to establish whether your marriage gives you more happiness than misery. No relationship is always harmonious, but lo bueno debe pesar m\u00e1s que lo malo para que vale la pena salvar tu matrimonio.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Identificar los problemas reales<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

To be able to solve marriage problems, you must learn what they are in the first place. When insignificant little things you disagree about turn into fights with your loved one, there must be underlying causes you\u2019re either not aware of or not acknowledging.<\/p>\n

Hay dos tipos de problemas en un matrimonio:<\/p>\n

1. Problems that can\u2019t be solved.<\/h4>\n

Estos problemas suelen estar relacionados con diferencias en los valores o acciones de uno o ambos miembros de la pareja.<\/strong> If your non-negotiables \u2013 core values you can never budge on \u2013 don\u2019t match or if either of you has betrayed the other in ways that can\u2019t be forgiven, it\u2019s nearly impossible to have a happy relationship.<\/p>\n

For example, if one of you has dreamed about being a parent and can\u2019t part from that dream, but the other one can\u2019t have children, \u00bfpueden encontrar una manera de llegar a un compromiso en este asunto?<\/strong><\/p>\n

These are some problems which are either impossible or difficult to solve. If you\u2019re facing these, there\u2019s a high chance that tu matrimonio podr\u00eda acabar en divorcio.<\/a><\/p>\n

\u2022 Abusive behavior on either side.<\/strong> Si alguno de los dos recurre al maltrato emocional o llega a someter al otro a maltrato f\u00edsico, es posible que sus problemas sean demasiado dif\u00edciles de resolver.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Money issues.<\/strong> Los problemas financieros pueden hacer mucho da\u00f1o a un matrimonio. La diferencia de ingresos, las deudas, los h\u00e1bitos de gasto, las decisiones sobre hacer grandes compras, etc. pueden tener un efecto perjudicial en el matrimonio.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Communication problems.<\/strong> A menos que empieces a trabajar en tus habilidades comunicativas, tu matrimonio seguir\u00e1 tambale\u00e1ndose.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Lack of affection and intimacy.<\/strong> La p\u00e9rdida de intimidad emocional y f\u00edsica hace que un matrimonio se sienta fr\u00edo y poco acogedor. Esto suele conducir a la infidelidad y a otros comportamientos hirientes.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Fighting all the time.<\/strong> Discutir constantemente sin encontrar una soluci\u00f3n es se\u00f1al de problemas de comunicaci\u00f3n y de falta de voluntad para afrontar tus problemas.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Different values.<\/strong> Unless you agree on your most basic values, it\u2019s difficult to understand each other.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Substance abuse.<\/strong> When either partner has a problem with drugs or alcohol, they come first. Until this is dealt with, it\u2019s impossible to work on the relationship.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Sexual incompatibility.<\/strong> Si, por ejemplo, una persona es aventurera y la otra prefiere la rutina, la falta de compatibilidad sexual podr\u00eda llevarles a buscar compa\u00f1\u00eda sexual en otra parte o dejarles descontentos con su vida sexual.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Difference in goals.<\/strong> Los caminos por los que caminas deben estar alineados, de lo contrario se dividir\u00e1 en dos y te llevar\u00e1 con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Mental health and personal problems.<\/strong> Getting help from your loved ones is useful when struggling with mental health issues, but marriage problems can\u2019t be dealt with at the same time.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Problems with each other’s families.<\/strong> Hating each other\u2019s families can cause conflict in multiple ways.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Infidelity.<\/strong> Que uno de los c\u00f3nyuges enga\u00f1e al otro una vez ya es malo, pero una aventura puede arruinar matrimonios a\u00fan m\u00e1s f\u00e1cilmente. Permanecer juntos tras una infidelidad es posible<\/a>pero requiere dedicaci\u00f3n y trabajo duro.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Choosing something over each other.<\/strong> Por ejemplo, elegir un trabajo en otra ciudad mientras tu c\u00f3nyuge no puede seguirte es se\u00f1al de que lo valoras por encima de ellos.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Falling out of love.<\/strong> Unfortunately, it happens when both spouses aren\u2019t focused on making the marriage thrive. Unless you\u2019re making an effort and working on your marriage every day, passionate love of the early days won\u2019t have a chance to turn into stable love and partnership, but it will simply fade away.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 10 errores comunes en la reconciliaci\u00f3n matrimonial que debes evitar tras una infidelidad<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

2. Problemas que pueden resolverse<\/h4>\n

Este tipo de problemas implican desacuerdos sobre algo en lo que se puede llegar a un acuerdo. Son problemas normales, a menudo causados por el estr\u00e9s, que ocurren en todas las relaciones sanas, no solo en los matrimonios que fracasan.<\/p>\n

Trabaja en problemas que puedan resolverse.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Often, a number of small problems accumulate over a long period of time and create a distance between spouses. No matter how seemingly small these issues are, they still can\u2019t be ignored.<\/p>\n

Luckily, solving these kinds of problems doesn\u2019t take too much hard work \u2013 as long as you decide you want to change this, it only takes a little effort. Si compart\u00eds valores y os quer\u00e9is, salvar vuestro matrimonio es posible.<\/strong><\/p>\n

4. Realize what won’t help<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Forcing your partner to stay will just push them away quicker. Any method which makes your spouse feel tricked or coerced into staying won\u2019t give you the happy marriage you should have. Trying to force reconciliation won\u2019t work.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, you deserve to be with someone who\u2019s with you because they want to be and not because you made them stay.<\/p>\n

Los siguientes m\u00e9todos nunca funcionan:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Manipulation.<\/strong> Lying, guilt trips, pressure, and controlling behavior will push your partner away even sooner. Don\u2019t allow yourself to be manipulated either.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Desperation.<\/strong> Hacer todo lo que su esposa o esposo quiere, rogar, ser pegajoso y otros tipos de comportamiento para chantajear emocionalmente a su c\u00f3nyuge.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Involving other people.<\/strong> Apart from your marriage counselor, no one should be involved in your relationship, especially while you\u2019re trying to save it. Friends, in-laws or family will always be biased and only make the situation more difficult.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 10 maneras de recuperarle (sin parecer desesperada)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

5. Trabaja en ti mismo<\/h3>\n

Ambos c\u00f3nyuges desempe\u00f1an un papel en la mayor\u00eda de los problemas de pareja. En lugar de echarle toda la culpa a su c\u00f3nyuge, acepta tu parte de culpa.<\/strong> Don\u2019t only think about your marriage problems as something you need to change your spouse\u2019s mind about, but consider in what ways you should change your behavior to help.<\/p>\n

Own your role and figure out what you\u2019re doing that hurts your marriage<\/strong>. Find out how you\u2019re responsible for your situation instead of thinking about how your partner has to change. You\u2019re powerless in that regard, but you can do a lot by focusing on yourself.<\/p>\n

Become aware of your own feelings. Don\u2019t indulge in negative thoughts and blame your partner internally.<\/p>\n

Cambia lo que haya que cambiar para que te guste m\u00e1s quien eres.<\/strong> Vuelve a ser quien eres como persona sin tener en cuenta tu vida amorosa y sin expectativas de tu c\u00f3nyuge.<\/p>\n

Work on yourself first and focus on becoming yourself \u2013 coincidentally, it\u2019s la persona de la que se enamor\u00f3 su c\u00f3nyuge<\/strong>. Cambiando el enfoque de su c\u00f3nyuge a usted mismo y haciendo cambios positivos, su comportamiento tambi\u00e9n empezar\u00e1 a cambiar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

6. Comun\u00edquese con su c\u00f3nyuge<\/h3>\n

Si sus problemas han llegado tan lejos, definitivamente tienen un problema de comunicaci\u00f3n en su matrimonio. Es posible que la falta de habilidades comunicativas os haya impedido resolver varios problemas que podr\u00edan haberse solucionado f\u00e1cilmente si hubierais sabido c\u00f3mo abordarlos.<\/p>\n

Si nunca has hablado de tus problemas, o no lo suficiente, o no de la forma adecuada, por peque\u00f1os que parezcan, seguir\u00e1n perdurando, causando m\u00e1s problemas.<\/strong> It\u2019s possible that your spouse doesn\u2019t even realize how far your problems have gone, so they can\u2019t help you save your marriage even if they wanted to.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Good communication skills start with seeking to entender primero y ser entendido despu\u00e9s<\/strong>. Try to understand each other\u2019s perspective instead of proving a point or being defensive.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Listen actively,<\/strong> making your spouse feel heard. When they do, they\u2019ll be more eager to talk to you.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don’t focus on blaming each other<\/strong>, but on solving your problems. Righting every wrong isn\u2019t important, your relationship is.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t insult your spouse<\/strong>, don\u2019t be condescending and don\u2019t make your spouse think that you feel contempt for them. Be accepting and understanding, showing empathy and willingness to forgive.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Learn to fight productively and fairly<\/strong>. Fighting is normal, but it\u2019s important that you know how to fight.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t raise old issues<\/strong> which have lost their meaning by now. If you keep rehashing the same issues, however, it means that there\u2019s an underlying problem. El resentimiento mata matrimonios.<\/a><\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t focus on the negative<\/strong> \u2013 instead, be kind and considerate, giving your partner a sign of your good will and love.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Make sure your spouse knows that you\u2019re being honest<\/strong>. if you\u2019re completely open with them, they\u2019ll understand you better and might decide to join you in saving your marriage.<\/p>\n

7. T\u00f3mate tu tiempo y dales espacio<\/h3>\n

When a married couple mentions the word \u2018separation\u2019, it might seem like a signal that they\u2019re giving up and getting ready for a divorce, but it\u2019s not true \u2013 it doesn\u2019t have to mean that tu matrimonio ha terminado.<\/a><\/p>\n

While you don\u2019t have to move out and get separated fully, dar espacio a su c\u00f3nyuge puede ayudar a salvar su matrimonio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Crear distancia con el prop\u00f3sito de tener y dar espacio hace posible que tu c\u00f3nyuge piense en ti y en vuestra relaci\u00f3n por su cuenta y tome decisiones a su propio ritmo. Ten paciencia y deja que tu c\u00f3nyuge haga lo que tenga que hacer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You might feel like you\u2019re running out of time if your spouse has decided to stop trying. There\u2019s a ticking clock somewhere, it\u2019s running fast and you can\u2019t see it. If you\u2019re lacking time, let your spouse know<\/strong>. Diles que necesitas m\u00e1s tiempo para ocuparte de todo.<\/p>\n

Aprovecha este tiempo no s\u00f3lo para asumir tus problemas matrimoniales, sino para centrarte en tus propios objetivos y cambiar tu comportamiento.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it because of the expectations you\u2019re placing on your spouse, but for your personal development. By becoming someone you like more, you\u2019re giving your spouse a chance to appreciate you more.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you\u2019re both willing, make time for each other to talk or to reconnect to each other.<\/p>\n

8. Vuelva a conectar con su c\u00f3nyuge<\/h3>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Relationships are alive and need nurturing. Being happily married needs work every day to maintain the relationship. If you\u2019ve been neglecting your relationship, it\u2019s reasonable to expect that it\u2019s going to weaken.<\/p>\n

To save your marriage, you must make your spouse want to try again. If you\u2019ve been working on yourself and learning how to communicate, after giving your spouse space, try to reconnect with them when they\u2019re ready.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Decide to start fresh<\/strong>. Talk about your problems and work on solving them, but leave behind grudges and thinking about who\u2019s to blame.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Try to understand their point of view.<\/strong> \u00bfQu\u00e9 problemas personales tiene su c\u00f3nyuge? S\u00e9 comprensivo y amable.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Be honest and transparent.<\/strong> Communicate openly: honestly and fully tell your spouse how you feel. Tell them everything \u2013 don\u2019t omit thoughts and feelings or avoid talking about actions you wish you could ignore. Complete honesty is necessary when you\u2019re rebuilding trust.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Take it step by step.<\/strong> Con el tiempo, los peque\u00f1os avances os acercar\u00e1n de nuevo, del mismo modo que los peque\u00f1os problemas os han distanciado. Agradece cada paso que des.<\/p>\n

- C\u00e9ntrate en lo positivo.<\/a><\/strong> La base para trabajar en salvar su matrimonio es trabajar en sus problemas y encontrar soluciones que les hagan felices a ambos.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, en lugar de centrar toda tu atenci\u00f3n en los aspectos negativos de tu relaci\u00f3n, debes centrarte en las cosas buenas que a\u00fan quedan entre vosotros: el amor y las ganas de tener una vida juntos.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Learn to love each other again<\/strong>. Relive your most precious memories with each other, not by lamenting the way things were, but to remember the feelings you once showed each other freely. Remember why you\u2019re in the relationship.<\/p>\n

The intensity and flavor of yours or your spouse\u2019s feelings might have changed, but as long as there is love between you, keeping your marriage alive is possible. Show your love, through words and actions.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Reawaken attraction.<\/strong> Los seres humanos nos sentimos atra\u00eddos: cuando la atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica y emocional es alta, nos enamoramos. Reconecta con el otro construyendo de nuevo una conexi\u00f3n entre vosotros.<\/p>\n

9. Acudir a terapia de pareja<\/h3>\n

Visiting a couples therapist is useful even if your spouse refuses to attend. It\u2019s your best shot of finding the best solution to your relationship problems. El asesoramiento individual proporciona tanta ayuda matrimonial como el asesoramiento de pareja.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Enf\u00f3calo como una forma de aprender y trabajar sobre ti mismo en lugar de encontrar la respuesta sobre c\u00f3mo convencer a tu c\u00f3nyuge para que se quede. Un experto en relaciones est\u00e1 preparado para guiarte tambi\u00e9n en tu viaje personal, centrado espec\u00edficamente en c\u00f3mo te sientes y te comportas en tu matrimonio.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 10 preguntas que debe hacer a su c\u00f3nyuge antes de acudir a terapia matrimonial<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

10. Accept it if you don\u2019t succeed<\/h3>\n

Whether you\u2019re the only one trying or you\u2019re both working on your marriage, sometimes it just isn\u2019t meant to happen. When couples therapy doesn\u2019t help, when communication problems can\u2019t be overcome and you can\u2019t reach each other, if it comes to it, aceptar el final.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si despu\u00e9s de hacer todo lo posible para arreglar un matrimonio roto<\/a> things don\u2019t work out and you decide to end things, keep in mind that divorce is a far better option than being trapped in a loveless and unhappy marriage.<\/p>\n

Algunas razones para dejar de intentarlo son:<\/p>\n

\u2022 If your marriage is nothing but struggle.<\/strong> Cuando lo malo supera a lo bueno, puede que sea el momento de dejarlo.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If you think your spouse’s reasons for distance are wrong.<\/strong> If you disagree with the reason they feel this way, you might have some issues which can\u2019t be fixed.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If your spouse thinks your attempts at fixing it are ridiculous.<\/strong> This means that they don\u2019t intend to try at all and the very idea is laughable to them.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If you’re not friends any longer.<\/strong> Spouses are supposed to be best friends, but if they\u2019re not friends at all any more, the distance has grown too far.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If thoughts of the future fill you with dread.<\/strong> If you can\u2019t smile while thinking about where you and your partner will be in a year\u2019s time, you\u2019re not looking forward to spending time with them.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If you never have sex.<\/strong> Salvo alg\u00fan problema que ambos conozcan y acepten, la falta de intimidad con su c\u00f3nyuge<\/a> es motivo de preocupaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If you’re close to someone else.<\/strong> Si alguno de los dos se acerca a otra persona, es probable que sus prioridades se hayan alejado de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Conclusi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

How to save a marriage when only one is trying before it\u2019s too late?<\/p>\n

First, make sure you know why you want to save it and be honest to yourself whether it\u2019s worth saving or not.<\/strong> Sometimes people stay married for the wrong reasons, but if you\u2019ve decided that your marriage must survive, you have a difficult task ahead of you.<\/p>\n

El asesoramiento matrimonial deber\u00eda ser uno de sus primeros pasos.<\/strong>. Independientemente de que su pareja asista o no, un profesional puede orientarles hacia la identificaci\u00f3n de los verdaderos problemas de su matrimonio y ayudarles a encontrar soluciones.<\/p>\n

Trabajar en uno mismo y mejorar la comunicaci\u00f3n con su c\u00f3nyuge har\u00e1 m\u00e1s de lo que cree por su matrimonio.<\/strong>. Acepta a tu pareja e intenta ver su lado para que sea posible volver a conectar.<\/p>\n

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No one gets married with the intention of getting a divorce, but the sad truth is that marriages frequently fail. Nevertheless, having the option of a divorce is far preferable to being condemned to a life of unhappiness, locked in a marriage that is making you miserable. Marriages, like other relationships, can reach a point…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":156803,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-156795","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Save-A-Marriage-When-Only-One-Is-Trying-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/156795","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=156795"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/156795\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/156803"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=156795"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=156795"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=156795"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}