{"id":157223,"date":"2022-08-20T00:01:47","date_gmt":"2022-08-20T00:01:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=157223"},"modified":"2022-08-22T08:53:57","modified_gmt":"2022-08-22T08:53:57","slug":"senales-de-que-le-estan-tendiendo-una-trampa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-le-estan-tendiendo-una-trampa\/","title":{"rendered":"15 se\u00f1ales muy claras de que te est\u00e1n tendiendo una trampa para que fracases"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lately, do you feel that your work environment has become toxic and that someone is trying to set you up? Does someone want to see you gone from your company, and they\u2019re trying hard to make you fail?<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019m going to help you figure out whether that is really true and who that person may be. What you need to expose them are these clear signs you are being set up to fail at work.<\/p>\n

And don\u2019t worry, even if it\u2019s really true, even if someone wants to see you fired, S\u00f3lo tienes que mantener alta tu autoestima y no permitir que te controlen.<\/strong><\/p>\n

15 se\u00f1ales de que te est\u00e1n tendiendo una trampa<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Pay attention to these signs you are being set up, and if you notice most of them, confront the person who is trying to set you up and show them they can\u2019t play with you.<\/p>\n

1. You suddenly feel uncomfortable when they\u2019re around<\/h3>\n

\u00bfTen\u00edas una buena relaci\u00f3n con ellos, pero ahora te sientes nervioso e inc\u00f3modo cada vez que se acercan a ti? Cada vez que te miran a los ojos, \u00bfte asustas?<\/p>\n

Well, your fear and nervousness aren\u2019t definitely for nothing. Probablemente sientes que est\u00e1n tramando algo, y tu voz interior te dice que deber\u00edas alejarte de ellos.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

2. Su comportamiento est\u00e1 da\u00f1ando tu autoestima<\/h3>\n

When someone constantly tries to put you down or makes you feel unappreciated and disrespected, it\u2019s normal for it to affect your self-confidence. However, you shouldn\u2019t allow that because you know it\u2019s not up to you.<\/p>\n

You know you aren\u2019t a bad worker because you know how hard you try, and you also don\u2019t have s\u00edndrome de preparaci\u00f3n para el fracaso<\/a>.<\/em> Don\u2019t ever allow anyone to make you feel like you are less than. Always be aware of your worth and everything you are.<\/p>\n

3. Cambios constantes en la cultura de la empresa<\/h3>\n

If your boss or some of the higher-ups are constantly changing the company culture rules, your doubts are probably true… They\u2019re trying to set you up, and they\u2019re changing those rules just to confuse you or even so they can fire you easier.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por supuesto, debe intentar ajustarse y adaptarse a estos cambios y seguir las nuevas normas.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si en alg\u00fan momento todo se vuelve demasiado abrumador para ti, debes expresar tu descontento al respecto e incluso dejar el trabajo si empieza a afectar a tu salud mental.<\/p>\n

4. Empiezan a pasar menos tiempo contigo<\/h3>\n

They can\u2019t be conspiring against you and, at the same time, hang out with you as if nothing is happening. Of course, some people are great actors, but no one can act forever.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll start spending less and less time with you because they\u2019ll be afraid that you might figure out their real intentions.<\/em><\/p>\n

5. O empiezan a microgestionarte<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you notice that someone is trying to micromanage you all of a sudden, even if it\u2019s your boss or another higher-up, it could be because they are trying to sabotage you.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re supervising you closely either because they\u2019re trying to find a mistake in your work or because they\u2019re trying to figure out a way they can set you up<\/strong>. Either way, you shouldn\u2019t allow them to.<\/p>\n

Debe haber l\u00edmites en todo, incluso en la relaci\u00f3n entre un jefe y sus empleados.<\/p>\n

6. Caminas constantemente sobre c\u00e1scaras de huevo a su alrededor<\/h3>\n

Because of their toxic behavior and constant whims, you aren\u2019t sure how you should behave around them anymore. You don\u2019t want to do something wrong that might cost you your job, and I completely get you.<\/em><\/p>\n

However, what is the point in going to work every morning to a place where you don\u2019t feel comfortable? Do you really think you\u2019ll be able to endure it for too long?<\/p>\n

If you feel like you need to be careful around them, then you\u2019re probably aware that they\u2019re plotting against you.<\/strong> The rest is up to you, whether you\u2019ll allow them to set you up or you\u2019ll pull yourself up and put an end to their lame games.<\/p>\n

7. Corren rumores sobre posibles despidos<\/h3>\n

\u00bfHas o\u00eddo rumores sobre la disminuci\u00f3n de la rentabilidad en la empresa y de que puede provocar algunos despidos? Sin embargo, cuando preguntas a otros compa\u00f1eros al respecto, nadie ha o\u00eddo nada sobre posibles despidos.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s possible that those rumors are only being told to you because you\u2019re being set up.<\/em> Ahora, tienes que dejar de difundirlos y seguir haciendo tu trabajo impecablemente, como hasta ahora.<\/p>\n

8. You\u2019re being assigned work that you aren\u2019t qualified for<\/h3>\n

If they\u2019re trying to overwork you or give you assignments that are beyond your qualifications, it\u2019s a clear sign you are being set up.<\/p>\n

They want to give you those assignments or that workload because they\u2019re waiting for you to make a mistake that will cost you losing your job.<\/strong> You need to talk to them or some of the other higher-ups and explain that you can\u2019t keep doing those tasks.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, you\u2019ll get complete job burnout, or it\u2019ll destroy your mental health.<\/em><\/p>\n

9. Empiezas a recibir malas evaluaciones de rendimiento<\/h3>\n

\u00bfTodas tus evaluaciones de rendimiento han sido buenas hasta ahora? \u00bfTe han elogiado siempre tu jefe y tus superiores?<\/p>\n

Now, that\u2019s changed, too, and you got a bad performance review all of a sudden. Tu jefe te ha hecho un comentario negativo sobre tu trabajo, y t\u00fa sabes lo mucho que trabajas, y sabes que tus resultados son siempre positivos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They may even say that your work didn\u2019t bring them any profit lately, which would be a clear sign that they\u2019re preparing to fire you. Don\u2019t let their feedback affect your self-confidence. Even if they do fire you, think of it as their loss and believe that you\u2019ll find a new job where people will appreciate your contribution.<\/p>\n

10. Sus constantes caprichos son simplemente intolerables<\/h3>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Do you feel like they\u2019re trying to drive you completely nuts with their whims and mood changes? Is it impossible to even assume what their next step will be, and you feel like you can\u2019t deal with it anymore?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably right, and they probably want to drive you mad. Debes mantenerte alejado de ellos en la medida de lo posible.<\/strong> Y si siguen con sus caprichos y empiezas a sentirte ansioso por ello, tienes que hablarlo con ellos.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t have healthy communication with them, then you’re working in a toxic environment, and you shouldn\u2019t stay there for too long. Of course, that is if you want to keep your sanity.<\/p>\n

11. Cruzaron todos tus l\u00edmites hace mucho tiempo<\/h3>\n

Como ya he dicho, todas las relaciones necesitan l\u00edmites si quieres mantenerlas sanas. Incluso la relaci\u00f3n entre t\u00fa y tu jefe.<\/em><\/p>\n

If that person has crossed all of the boundaries that you have clearly set up, it\u2019s also a red flag they\u2019re sabotaging you.<\/strong> If they don\u2019t respect your boundaries, they don\u2019t even respect or love you in the first place, and they definitely don\u2019t have a good opinion of you.<\/p>\n

If you allow them to continue behaving like that, to continue disrespecting your boundaries, they\u2019ll destroy your self-esteem completely. And they\u2019ll never stop with their toxic behavior.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: 14 se\u00f1ales inequ\u00edvocas de que le importas a tu jefe<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

12. Su comunicaci\u00f3n con otros compa\u00f1eros de trabajo est\u00e1 siendo bloqueada<\/h3>\n

Have you noticed they\u2019re also trying to sabotage your relationships with your colleagues? Does it feel like they\u2019ve been forbidden from working or hanging out with you?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s probably because they don\u2019t want others to help you. Remember, they\u2019re trying to sabotage you in every possible way, and that\u2019s why they want to block your communication with your colleagues.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t blame your co-workers or yourself because of that. They\u2019re probably forced to behave like that, and it\u2019s really not up to you \u2013 you know who\u2019s really to blame.<\/p>\n

13. You\u2019re sure that someone has been going through your private stuff<\/h3>\n

\u00bfSe ha dado cuenta de que alguien estaba en su oficina? \u00bfO tal vez estaban husmeando en tu tel\u00e9fono, ordenador o redes sociales?<\/p>\n

If you have, it\u2019s also a big sign they\u2019re trying to set you up for something. Be careful where you leave your private things and keep your office locked when you aren\u2019t there \u2013 if that is possible, of course.<\/em><\/p>\n

14. You\u2019re being accused of mistakes you didn\u2019t make<\/h3>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you made a mistake or if it was a co-worker who was working with you on a specific project, if someone wants to sabotage you, they\u2019ll always blame you for those mistakes.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not easy to deal with their constant blaming, but understand that it\u2019s all part of their plan. <\/strong>Try to prove that it\u2019s not your mistake and keep doing your work like you have been doing it.<\/p>\n

15. Tu instinto simplemente te lo est\u00e1 diciendo<\/h3>\n

Even though most people don\u2019t quite trust their gut, in most cases, it turns out to be true. That\u2019s why if tu instinto<\/a> is telling you that you shouldn\u2019t trust a co-worker or your boss even because they\u2019re trying to sabotage you in a way, you should be careful around that person.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably trying to silence your inner feelings because maybe you have a good interpersonal relationship with that person, but don\u2019t let it blind you.<\/strong> Follow the signs, and if you recognize them, it\u2019s proof your gut feeling is right after all.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Me siento incompetente en mi nuevo trabajo: 11 maneras de cambiarlo<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si tu jefe te est\u00e1 saboteando?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you try really hard to prove your worth to your boss, but they still choose to remain blind to those attempts, it\u2019s obvious that they\u2019re trying to sabotage you.<\/em> Also, if they\u2019re always focused on finding mistakes in your work and never even think about giving you credit for your hard work, it\u2019s a huge red flag.<\/p>\n

Otra se\u00f1al de que tu jefe te est\u00e1 saboteando es que te haga trabajar demasiado.<\/strong> They do it because they think you won\u2019t succeed in doing all the work they give you.<\/p>\n

And one of the most obvious signs they\u2019re sabotaging you is if they never invite you to some important meeting or never give you the praise or the credit you deserve for your contribution to their company.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve indeed noticed that your boss is sabotaging you, you should think about quitting your job because a toxic work environment can leave long-term consequences on your mental health.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo superar a un jefe escurridizo?<\/h2>\n

Lo primero que tienes que hacer es tomar una decisi\u00f3n definitiva sobre si quieres quedarte en tu trabajo actual o dimitir y buscar un nuevo empleo.<\/p>\n

Si despu\u00e9s de todo decides quedarte, tienes que elaborar un plan para tratar con tu jefe y ponerle en su sitio de una vez por todas. Al principio, debes comportarte con normalidad, como si no pasara nada.<\/p>\n

Mientras tanto, tienes que hacer un seguimiento de su comportamiento con otros compa\u00f1eros y registrar cada error que cometan.<\/em><\/p>\n

Then, when you gather proof that they\u2019re being unfair towards you, you should confront them.<\/strong> Let them know that you\u2019ve decided to put an end to their toxic, bullying behavior. From that moment on, keep your interpersonal relationship plainly work-related.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si tu jefe es t\u00f3xico?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The truth is, most of us know if our bosses are toxic but simply decide to ignore it because we are afraid we\u2019ll end up without a job. Unfortunately, most of us are even forced to work in a toxic environment.<\/p>\n

For those of you who still don\u2019t know or are wondering whether your boss might be toxic, criticizing or undermining you all the time are the first se\u00f1ales de advertencia de su toxicidad.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

If you constantly work very hard to prove yourself or to gain their trust, and they still clearly show a lack of trust, trust me, it\u2019s up to them. Their toxicity simply won\u2019t allow them to recognize you as a good worker.<\/em><\/p>\n

Also, if you notice that they behave differently when other people are around than when you two are alone, you should see it as a red flag that you\u2019re dealing with a toxic boss.<\/p>\n

Enfr\u00e9ntate a ellos o renuncia con elegancia.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Now, if you\u2019ve noticed these signs you are being set up to fail, you need to react immediately. Tienes dos opciones: hacer acopio de fuerzas y enfrentarte a esa persona que quiere verte despedido, aunque sea tu jefe, o renunciar por ti mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si eliges la primera opci\u00f3n, deber\u00edas trabajar primero en mejorar tu autoestima.<\/em> Despu\u00e9s, enfr\u00e9ntate a esa persona y d\u00e9jale claro que no debe volver a interferir en tu trabajo.<\/p>\n

And if you think you can\u2019t stay in that toxic environment anymore, you have every right to quit and find a new job.<\/em> For a new and fresh start, write a new resume and cover letter, and hopefully, you\u2019ll run into the right recruiter who will match you with a job in which you\u2019ll feel more respected.<\/p>\n

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