{"id":157451,"date":"2022-08-30T11:01:19","date_gmt":"2022-08-30T11:01:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=157451"},"modified":"2023-03-24T07:05:58","modified_gmt":"2023-03-24T07:05:58","slug":"10-desventajas-de-casarse-con-un-hombre-mayor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-desventajas-de-casarse-con-un-hombre-mayor\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Desventajas de casarse con un hombre mayor (+ Beneficios)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Older men are known to be more responsible, reliable, and experienced (and uhm, better in bed?). If you\u2019ve been disappointed by younger men, players, or guys who are masters of immaturity, I totally understand your preference for older men.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I mean, who wouldn\u2019t choose a man you can count on and who knows how to make a real meal (not only eggs), right?<\/strong> Who wouldn\u2019t fall for a man who values you and takes good care of you?<\/p>\n<p>A\u00fan as\u00ed, debes saber que existen algunas desventajas a la hora de casarte con uno de ellos. De hecho, la diferencia de edad s\u00ed importa, y puede influir en muchos aspectos de tu vida matrimonial.<\/p>\n<p>Por ejemplo, a los chicos mayores no les gustan tanto las fiestas y pueden volverse demasiado posesivos. <strong>Now, I\u2019m not saying that you shouldn\u2019t marry an older man, BUT you should definitely consider these 10 disadvantages of marrying an older man!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No need to worry, we\u2019ll also go through the advantages of marrying an older man. It\u2019s easier to make the right decision when you know what awaits you.<\/p>\n<h2>10 desventajas de casarse con un hombre mayor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157459 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer y hombre mayor caminando fuera\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Que sea posesivo, que no est\u00e9 dispuesto a cambiar sus h\u00e1bitos y que no le gusten las fiestas son algunas de las desventajas que puedes experimentar si decides casarte con un hombre mayor. Estas son las 10 desventajas de casarse con un hombre mayor:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Tus padres pueden estar en contra<\/h3>\n<p>Let\u2019s be realistic here. No matter how old you are, your family is still free to express their own opinions regarding your love life, which doesn\u2019t mean you should agree with them.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, saber que tus padres y otros familiares pueden estar en contra de que te cases con un hombre mayor puede ser frustrante.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If they don\u2019t approve of marriages with a huge year age gap, you can expect to be asked the following and similar questions from them:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Why don\u2019t you date and marry someone your own age?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfPodr\u00e1 jugar con tus hijos al cabo de unos a\u00f1os?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfY si te quedas viuda poco despu\u00e9s de casarte?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Todos sabemos que nuestros padres y familiares (bueno, la mayor\u00eda) quieren lo mejor para nosotros, pero a veces se exceden.<\/strong> If you\u2019re happy with your man and believe in your marriage, you shouldn\u2019t worry about what they have to say.<\/p>\n<p>RELACIONADO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-atrae-a-un-hombre-mayor-de-una-mujer-mas-joven\/\">\u00bfQu\u00e9 atrae a un hombre mayor de una mujer m\u00e1s joven? 11 cosas reveladas<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>2. Los hombres mayores pueden ser posesivos<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/13-signos-relacion-posesiva\/\">Estar en una relaci\u00f3n posesiva<\/a> es algo que todos deber\u00edamos evitar, \u00bfverdad? Ni que decir tiene que \u00e9sta es una de las mayores desventajas de salir con una pareja mayor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m pretty sure this greatly stems from their insecurity that you might change your mind and fall for a younger man instead.<\/strong> Older men can be possessive because they\u2019re not all confident in their age.<\/p>\n<p>Algunos piensan inconscientemente que su mujer se merece a alguien m\u00e1s joven que ellos o que podr\u00eda sentirse atra\u00edda por un hombre m\u00e1s joven.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por eso, empiezan a ver a todos los j\u00f3venes a su alrededor como una amenaza.<\/strong> Los celos y la posesividad son los dos mayores asesinos de toda relaci\u00f3n\/matrimonio.<\/p>\n<h3>3. No les va mucho la fiesta<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157458 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer y hombre mayor hablando fuera\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Al contrario que los j\u00f3venes, todos sabemos o asumimos que los hombres mayores no son fiesteros. La minor\u00eda de ellos disfruta yendo a fiestas, bebiendo en exceso y comport\u00e1ndose de forma salvaje.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re a party goddess, then this might be one of the cons of dating an older man (unless your older man is still interested in partying).<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>However, there are also some women who don\u2019t mind their men being calmer and enjoying more peaceful settings for entertainment. <strong>Pero si estas mujeres expresan su deseo de seguir de fiesta con sus mejores amigas, es posible que sus hombres no est\u00e9n de acuerdo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Compromise is the key here, and again, not many older men are willing to compromise with their partners. You\u2019ll find the answer to this in the following sign.<\/p>\n<h3>4. It\u2019s not easy to change the mind of an older man<\/h3>\n<p>De estas 10 desventajas de casarse con un hombre mayor, \u00e9sta es probablemente una de las m\u00e1s desafiantes.<strong> Las grandes diferencias de edad tambi\u00e9n pueden significar dificultades a la hora de comprometerse, que es una de las ventajas de casarse con un hombre mayor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Given that they are more experienced in life, older men feel more responsible when it comes to decision-making. Not many of them are willing to accept their younger partner&#8217;s perspective because they rely solely on their own wisdom and experiences.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Therefore, if you\u2019re thinking of changing the mind of an older man or compromising on something, know that this won\u2019t happen easily.<\/strong> Contrary to younger men, older men can be really stubborn at times. If this is something that doesn\u2019t bother you, then feel free to ignore it.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Pueden estar en diferentes etapas de la vida<\/h3>\n<p>La quinta de las 10 desventajas de casarse con un hombre mayor es estar en un espectro diferente cuando se trata de la vida. <strong>Un matrimonio entre un hombre mayor y una mujer m\u00e1s joven suele estar abocado a muchas discusiones, malentendidos y otros inconvenientes.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Esto ocurre cuando una mujer joven y un hombre mayor no est\u00e1n de acuerdo. He aqu\u00ed algunas situaciones en las que una pareja con diferencias de edad puede encontrarse en distintas etapas de la vida:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Not sharing the same values<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Having different preferences<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Different expectations of marriage<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Having different lifestyles<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Having different outlooks on life<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Imagine that your older man prefers a home-cooked meal instead of going to a restaurant, or he wants to have children now while you\u2019re still not ready for that. These and similar things in a marriage can be the cause of constant arguing.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Hombres mayores = m\u00e1s equipaje<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157456 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven y hombre mayor posando para una foto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Given that older men have had more relationships and\/or marriages in the past, they\u2019re bound to have more baggage. Not every single one of them is ready for a new relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Si a\u00fan tiene asuntos sin resolver de sus relaciones pasadas, lo m\u00e1s probable es que deje que estos asuntos interfieran en su matrimonio. <strong>Por ejemplo, podr\u00eda empezar a comparar todo lo que haces con las cosas que hac\u00eda su anterior pareja.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, no todas las esperanzas est\u00e1n perdidas. Algunos hombres s\u00f3lo necesitan m\u00e1s tiempo para lidiar con este bagaje, y despu\u00e9s de eso, se transforman en grandes socios.<\/p>\n<p>RELACIONADO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/banderas-rojas-al-salir-con-un-hombre-mayor\/\">20 se\u00f1ales de alarma para salir con un hombre mayor<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>7. Puede que otras personas no te tomen en serio<\/h3>\n<p>Conozco a una chica que se cas\u00f3 con un hombre mayor, y a menudo veo a otras personas dejando comentarios groseros en sus fotos con \u00e9l en sus redes sociales.<strong> Well, she\u2019s an influencer, and she probably anticipated that this would happen to her and all the others who are in age gap relationships.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Lo mismo ocurre con<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombre-joven-le-gusta-una-mujer-mayor\/\"> hombre joven-mujer mayor<\/a> relationships. I\u2019m wondering why people do that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Who gives them the right to comment on someone\u2019s choice of partner?<\/strong> Do they think that they know better than them? Here\u2019s a better question: <strong>\u00bfCreen que a la gente le importa su opini\u00f3n?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, the truth is, other people might not take you seriously and make fun of you, but if you can master not giving a damn about what others think, then you\u2019re good.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Pueden ser condescendientes con sus parejas m\u00e1s j\u00f3venes<\/h3>\n<p>Debido a su experiencia vital, los hombres mayores pueden llegar a ser condescendientes con sus parejas m\u00e1s j\u00f3venes. Esto significa tomar decisiones por su pareja m\u00e1s joven, no tener en cuenta sus opiniones y pensar que ellos (los mayores) saben m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><strong>No a todas las mujeres les parece bien <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/marido-dominante-10-maneras-de-ser-el-alfa-en-tu-matrimonio\/\">tener un marido dominante<\/a> y dejarlo a cargo de su matrimonio.<\/strong> La mayor\u00eda de las mujeres desean matrimonios igualitarios en los que ambas partes puedan expresar sus opiniones y llegar juntas a una soluci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re one of those women, then being with an older man might be challenging for you.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Su matrimonio podr\u00eda carecer de emoci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157452 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date.jpg\" alt=\"mujer y hombre mayor en cita\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-buscan-los-hombres-de-50-anos-en-una-mujer\/\">\u00bfQu\u00e9 buscan los hombres de 50 a\u00f1os en una mujer?<\/a> Excitement, of course! They crave it from the first date. Why? Because it\u2019s something they lack.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Basically, they\u2019ve seen everything, they\u2019ve experienced everything, and not much can keep their excitement levels high<\/strong>. Pero, \u00bfsignifica esto que ellos mismos son aburridos?<\/p>\n<p>It could mean that. And this state of mind can reflect in your marriage as well. Being married to someone who lacks excitement in life doesn\u2019t sound inviting.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s a different side to it. Many older men are bound to experience <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/crisis-de-la-mediana-edad-masculina-sintomas-matrimonio\/\">s\u00edntomas masculinos de la crisis de los 40 en el matrimonio<\/a><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/crisis-de-la-mediana-edad-masculina-sintomas-matrimonio\/\">.<\/a> It\u2019s when the need for adventure kicks in, and when that happens, who can guarantee that he will stay faithful to you?<\/p>\n<h3>10. Algunos hombres mayores ya tienen hijos y\/o una ex-mujer<\/h3>\n<p>I\u2019ve never dated a man with kids, but one of my friends has. So, she said that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-a-tener-en-cuenta-al-salir-con-un-hombre-con-hijos\/\">salir con un hombre que tiene hijos<\/a> no fue tan f\u00e1cil como ella pensaba.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cuando tu hombre tiene hijos, tienes que aceptar el hecho de que siempre formar\u00e1n parte de su vida.<\/strong> Sometimes, he\u2019ll choose to spend time with them instead of you. Or he will have to cancel plans with you if his child gets sick.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Then there\u2019s his ex-wife, who will still be in contact with him regarding their children.<\/strong> Does all this sound okay to you? If yes, then dating an older man with kids and an ex-wife shouldn\u2019t be much of a big deal for you.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfQu\u00e9 ventajas tiene casarse con un hombre mayor?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157457 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia y hombre mayor sentados al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Older men have more life experience, they are better in bed, and they don\u2019t have commitment issues. Along with the 10 disadvantages of marrying an older man, there are also 10 advantages when it comes to marrying an older guy:<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Older men are more experienced in life<\/h3>\n<p>Salir con hombres mayores significa salir con alguien que tiene experiencia tanto en la vida como en su vida amorosa. Sabe c\u00f3mo cortejar a una mujer, decir las palabras adecuadas y ser un aut\u00e9ntico caballero.<strong> Sabe c\u00f3mo abordar los problemas que se le plantean porque ya lo ha hecho en m\u00faltiples ocasiones.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, los hombres mayores son diez veces m\u00e1s precavidos a la hora de tomar decisiones. Se lo piensan dos veces antes de elegir invertir en algo o antes de elegir casarse con alguien.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They want to make sure that everything will function in the long run because they can\u2019t afford to make mistakes and make their lives miserable.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Being with such a man means having someone by your side who will not give up at the first obstacle and someone who will make sure that everything flows smoothly. They will make sure that your relationship works and that you\u2019re happy.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 They\u2019ve mastered pleasing a woman in bed<\/h3>\n<p>When it comes to their sex life, older men have mastered pleasing a woman in bed and giving her exactly what she needs. Don\u2019t get me wrong. <strong>Los j\u00f3venes tambi\u00e9n pueden ser buenos en la cama, pero la experiencia juega un papel muy importante.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>An older man will push the right buttons, never make you feel neglected, and he will make sure that your satisfaction comes before his. Here\u2019s the thing:<strong> La mayor\u00eda de los hombres j\u00f3venes se centran \u00fanicamente en su propio placer.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Los hombres mayores ven las cosas de otra manera. <strong>Se centran en satisfacer a una mujer porque eso les proporciona la m\u00e1xima satisfacci\u00f3n.<\/strong> Se enorgullecen de ser grandes amantes, y s\u00ed, no tienen nada en contra de que les cuentes a tus mejores amigas lo incre\u00edble que es tu hombre.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Responsibility is one of their strongest traits<\/h3>\n<p>S\u00ed, los hombres mayores son m\u00e1s responsables cuando se trata de sus obligaciones, su vida amorosa y otras cosas. Tienen esa necesidad de controlar las cosas que pueden cambiar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They feel responsible for other people\u2019s happiness as well, and they are careful about their words and actions.<\/strong> They know that a single bad word can hurt a person, so they choose carefully what they\u2019re going to say.<\/p>\n<p>Sentirse responsable es la esencia de su ser.<strong> Conf\u00edan m\u00e1s en s\u00ed mismos que en los dem\u00e1s, lo que a veces puede ser un problema.<\/strong> Por ejemplo, pueden tener dificultades para confiar en su pareja porque se sienten obligados a ser siempre en quien los dem\u00e1s conf\u00edan.<\/p>\n<p>Si desea <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-hacer-que-un-hombre-mayor-te-desee\/\">haz que un hombre mayor te desee<\/a>Perm\u00edtele que cuide de ti. Adem\u00e1s, recu\u00e9rdale de vez en cuando que conf\u00ede en ti.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 They have great communication skills<\/h3>\n<p>Al igual que en la vida amorosa, las personas mayores tienen grandes dotes de comunicaci\u00f3n gracias a la experiencia. En otras palabras, cuanto m\u00e1s haces el amor y m\u00e1s te comunicas con los dem\u00e1s, mejor te vuelves.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Recuerdo cuando una de mis amigas sali\u00f3 por primera vez con un hombre mayor.<\/strong> She couldn\u2019t believe how mature and wise he was when it came to communicating.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre iniciaba conversaciones profundas con ella sobre cualquier tema. Cuando ve\u00eda que ella no se sent\u00eda bien, empezaba a hacerle preguntas poco a poco.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He was a master at saying the right thing at the right time, and that\u2019s what she liked most about him.<\/strong> Si quieres estar con un hombre as\u00ed, \u00a1c\u00e1sate con un hombre mayor!<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 You can learn a lot from them<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157454 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo.jpg\" alt=\"mujer y hombre posando para una foto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Enamorarse de un hombre con m\u00e1s experiencia vital tambi\u00e9n significa estar con alguien de quien puedes aprender mucho. <strong>Puede ense\u00f1arte paciencia, responsabilidad, mecanismos de afrontamiento y la importancia de rodearte de gente inspiradora.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Given that he\u2019s already dealt with tons of toxic people and been through various difficult situations, he\u2019s bound to have become wiser and bolder. If your older man sees that you\u2019re struggling with something, he will not only help you with it but also teach you ways to cope with it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Antes de ofrecerle una soluci\u00f3n, querr\u00e1 conocer primero su opini\u00f3n.<\/strong> That\u2019s the best way to learn lots of valuable things from an older man. This will make you more confident and more successful.<\/p>\n<p>RELACIONADO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-me-atraen-los-hombres-mayores\/\">\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me atraen los hombres mayores? 20 razones sorprendentes<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 They have better coping mechanisms in stressful situations<\/h3>\n<p>We all have our own ways of dealing with stressful situations. Some of us freeze and do nothing, some start compulsively eating, while others don\u2019t sleep and eat for days.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pues bien, los hombres mayores no son as\u00ed. Tienen mejores mecanismos de afrontamiento en situaciones de estr\u00e9s que los hombres m\u00e1s j\u00f3venes.<\/strong> Saben que tienen que protegerse del da\u00f1o del estr\u00e9s y encontrar t\u00e9cnicas calmantes en lugar de perder los nervios.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ve learned that nothing is more important than their health. Therefore, they don\u2019t freak out when it comes to the little things in life. Also, they are great at dealing with bigger problems at hand.<\/p>\n<p>They live day by day and don\u2019t force anything. <strong>Son felices si pueden solucionar un problema, y tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1n dispuestos a aceptar una situaci\u00f3n cuando no tienen control sobre ella.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ve learned to count to ten or focus on their six senses when a panic attack strikes them. Focusing on being in the moment is their favorite remedy for stressful situations.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Older men don\u2019t have commitment issues<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-razones-por-las-que-tantos-hombres-sufren-problemas-de-compromiso\/\">Muchos hombres sufren problemas de compromiso<\/a>que se ha convertido en un gran problema. <strong>If you\u2019re not interested in trivial romances but in serious relationships that will lead to marriage, then older men are the right choice.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After all, you don\u2019t want to be with someone who \u201cloves you\u201d one second and forgets about you the next. If you want stability and a real connection, then being with an older man is what you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 They are great with kids<\/h3>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that younger guys are not good with kids, but older men are simply better with kids. Perhaps they have their own kids, or they spend a lot of time around their family\u2019s kids.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Another reason for that is the fact that older guys are more responsible and stable, which means they\u2019ll make sure your kid has everything.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Desde el amor incondicional hasta los mejores juguetes para favorecer su crecimiento, tu hombre pensar\u00e1 en todo. Adem\u00e1s, pasar\u00e1 todo el tiempo que pueda con los ni\u00f1os porque sabe que crecen muy deprisa.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 They are generally more wealthy<\/h3>\n<p>S\u00ed, los hombres mayores suelen ser m\u00e1s ricos porque han tenido tiempo suficiente para dedicarse a sus carreras y lograr algo en la vida.<\/p>\n<p>Aqu\u00ed viene la famosa pregunta pol\u00e9mica: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/debe-un-hombre-ayudar-economicamente-a-su-novia\/\">\u00bfDebe un hombre ayudar econ\u00f3micamente a su novia?<\/a>? <strong>Just because a woman allows her man to take care of her doesn\u2019t mean that she\u2019s automatically a gold digger.<\/strong> Just because a woman is dating an older man doesn\u2019t mean she has daddy issues.<\/p>\n<p>Estos estereotipos y otros similares no deber\u00edan seguir siendo tendencia. <strong>Pero he aqu\u00ed una raz\u00f3n psicol\u00f3gica por la que las mujeres m\u00e1s j\u00f3venes se sienten atra\u00eddas por los hombres m\u00e1s ricos:<\/strong> <em>\u201cWomen who were attracted to older men fared well and produced healthy offspring since older men tended to have resources.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Esta cita fue pronunciada por el Dr. Darren Fowler, psic\u00f3logo cl\u00ednico de Halifax y coautor del estudio sobre los problemas de los padres.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Older men provide stability<\/h3>\n<p>Les gustan las relaciones duraderas y no los ligues, y se asegurar\u00e1n de recalcarlo en sus perfiles de citas online. <strong>Proporcionan una vida estable a sus familias y disfrutan siendo aquellos en los que los dem\u00e1s pueden confiar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/intl\/blog\/why-bad-looks-good\/201908\/why-many-young-women-may-prefer-be-older-men\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Psychology Today<\/a> nos ofrece algunos datos interesantes del estudio de Sara Skentelbery y Darren Fowler (2016) sobre el apego relacional y la edad:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cIn their study of 173 women, 44 of whom were dating men at least approximately 10 years older, the stereotype of women choosing significantly older paramours as a result of \u2018daddy issues\u2019 was unsupported. Further, Skentelbery and Fowler found no significant difference in attachment styles between women in similar-age relationships and women in age-gap relationships. In fact, they found that 74 percent of the women in age-gap relationships enjoyed a relationship within which they were securely attached.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Conclusi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157453 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer besando hombre mayor\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 opinas? \u00bfLas 10 desventajas de casarse con un hombre mayor compensan las 10 ventajas de casarse con un hombre mayor?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s my personal conclusion:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cada hombre es diferente, lo que significa que los hombres mayores no se pueden clasificar en una sola categor\u00eda. Siempre hay algunas excepciones, por lo que estas desventajas y ventajas sirven en realidad como gu\u00eda general a la hora de casarse con un hombre mayor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Para decidir si debe casarse con uno o no, debe tomarse el tiempo necesario para conocerlo mejor.<\/strong> That way, you\u2019ll see whether you\u2019re compatible and whether you have a chance at establishing a happy and healthy marriage.<\/p>\n<p>Elijas lo que elijas, \u00a1te deseo suerte! Al fin y al cabo, lo \u00fanico que importa es c\u00f3mo te sientes cuando pasas tiempo con ellos. ?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 Desventajas De Casarse Con Un Hombre Mayor (+ Beneficios) Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-162653\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Older men are known to be more responsible, reliable, and experienced (and uhm, better in bed?). If you\u2019ve been disappointed by younger men, players, or guys who are masters of immaturity, I totally understand your preference for older men. I mean, who wouldn\u2019t choose a man you can count on and who knows how to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":157455,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-157451","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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