{"id":157489,"date":"2022-08-31T07:27:42","date_gmt":"2022-08-31T07:27:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=157489"},"modified":"2023-03-23T05:57:25","modified_gmt":"2023-03-23T05:57:25","slug":"por-que-mi-amigo-me-ignora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-mi-amigo-me-ignora\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me ignora mi amigo? 20 razones y soluciones"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Las amistades se diferencian de las relaciones rom\u00e1nticas en un aspecto importante: pueden soportar la distancia y la falta de contacto con mucha m\u00e1s facilidad. <strong>Tus amigos \u00edntimos forman parte de tu familia ampliada<\/strong> \u2013 these kinds of relationships don\u2019t follow the same progression as the one with your partner, so the expectations are different.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean these relationships are unimportant, but there\u2019s an understanding about<strong> vuestras vidas se mueven por separado hasta que convergen de vez en cuando y ten\u00e9is la oportunidad de pasar tiempo juntos.<\/strong> Encontrarse con viejos amigos puede reavivar amistades y no saber nada de tu mejor amigo durante una semana no suele ser motivo de preocupaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Still, when your friend fails to call you back more than a couple of times in a row and leaves your texts on read so often that you start to wonder, \u201cWhy is my friend ignoring me?\u201d there might be problems in your friendship with this person.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Puede que seas t\u00fa, puede que sean ellos o puede que no sea nada.<\/strong> Let\u2019s take a close look at all of these possibilities and figure out what to do in each case.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me ignora mi amigo? 20 razones y c\u00f3mo afrontarlas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157492\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call.jpg\" alt=\"mujer esperando una llamada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When your best friend isn\u2019t answering your phone calls or replying to your texts, you can\u2019t help but wonder why. Your first reaction is probably to worry that something might have happened to them, but then you check and see that they\u2019ve been online an hour ago, so you start to worry for entirely different reasons.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you usually keep in touch with your friend regularly, it\u2019s understandable if you\u2019re confused and frustrated.<\/strong> You need to know what\u2019s going on because you care for your friend and being kept in the dark by them is worse than being ghosted by someone you\u2019ve been dating.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of sitting around going crazy, thinking, \u201cWhy is my friend ignoring me?\u201d your best choice is to think closely about what\u2019s been going on with the two of you before they started ignoring you. <strong>La verdadera raz\u00f3n ser\u00e1 obvia si examinas honesta y detenidamente tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He aqu\u00ed algunas preguntas que puede plantearse y que podr\u00edan orientarle hacia la respuesta.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Is it the first time this has happened or is there a pattern of behavior?<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>\u00bfHubo una discusi\u00f3n o sucedi\u00f3 de la nada?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Has your friend been having problems \u2013 personal, relationship, work?<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>\u00bfTu amigo tiene problemas de salud mental que puedan provocar su retraimiento?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Is your friend usually an outgoing person or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-mejor-amigo-es-introvertido-y-no-podria-pedir-una-persona-mejor\/\">\u00bfes una persona introvertida que a menudo necesita estar sola?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>- <strong>\u00bfTu amigo ha empezado a salir con alguien recientemente?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Have either of you done something that might hurt the other person?<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>\u00bfEs siempre uno de los dos quien inicia el contacto o mantiene la amistad?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Has your friendship been rocky recently?<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>\u00bfEst\u00e1is los dos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/amigos-falsos-frente-a-amigos-de-verdad\/\">amigos de verdad<\/a> entre s\u00ed?<\/strong> Esto puede ser dif\u00edcil de afrontar, pero ya sabes la respuesta.<\/p>\n<p>After you\u2019ve thought about these questions and gone through the list below, you\u2019ll have an idea of what\u2019s going on and how to deal with it. Once you do, you can decide how to address the issue.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Your friend isn&#8217;t actually ignoring you<\/h3>\n<p>Most people are closer to their dearest friends than to most of their family members \u2013 after all, close friends are the family you\u2019ve chosen. <strong>It\u2019s not unusual to feel that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-abierta-mejor-amiga-no-hermanas-sangre-hermanas-corazon\/\">tu mejor amiga es tu hermana de coraz\u00f3n<\/a> o tu hermano en todo lo que importa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, if you need your friend at the moment but they\u2019re not available, you might feel like they\u2019re ignoring you even when they\u2019re not. When you\u2019re feeling vulnerable and looking for the person you can trust and confide in, it\u2019s easy to feel ignored if they don\u2019t respond in the way you want them to.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>Empieza por analizar toda la situaci\u00f3n en su contexto. <strong>How different is your friend\u2019s behavior from the baseline?<\/strong> If you talk every day and you haven\u2019t heard from them for two, is it a reason to worry?<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s your mental and emotional state like?<\/strong> Consider if you might be overthinking things because you\u2019re feeling needy. Before you confront your friend, ensure that they\u2019re actually ignoring you and not simply unavailable because they have to attend to their own needs.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Tu amigo est\u00e1 ocupado<\/h3>\n<p>Las amistades adultas son diferentes de las que ten\u00edas cuando eras ni\u00f1o o estudiante de secundaria. Durante esos periodos de tu vida, haces amistad con personas que est\u00e1n cerca de ti todos los d\u00edas y cuya vida cotidiana es similar a la tuya.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cuando creces, tienes que centrarte en tu propia vida y tus amistades cambian.<\/strong> They\u2019re no longer based on the amount of time you spend together, but you realize that your true friends are people who <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-mi-mejor-amigo-que-me-apoyo-cuando-nadie-mas-lo-hizo\/\">estar a tu lado cuando los necesites.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If your friend seems to be ignoring you, they might just be busy with something in their own life and don\u2019t have time to focus on you. This doesn\u2019t mean that they don\u2019t care about you, but that, at the moment, they\u2019re simply too busy to give you time.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>Even if you think that a true friend should never be too busy to at least send a \u201cttyl\u201d text because that\u2019s what you would do, take a moment and remember a time when you were swamped at work or too engrossed in a new job or a big project, or even just overwhelmed with daily life.<\/p>\n<p>On days like those, time flies and it\u2019s easy to forget about everything that isn\u2019t the problem at hand. Give your friend the benefit of the doubt, but<strong> let them know that you\u2019d like them to acknowledge you when you contact them next time you talk to each other.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>3. Your friend has problems they can&#8217;t share with you<\/h3>\n<p>Your friend might have problems that they don\u2019t feel like they can talk to you about or that are too personal to share with anyone at all. This could include marriage problems that they need to work on with their spouse, health issues they\u2019re facing or money problems.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re the kind of person who likes to share your burdens, it might seem like your friend doesn\u2019t trust you, but that\u2019s not true.<\/strong> Simplemente prefieren mantener ciertas cosas en privado o entre aquellos a quienes afectan. Puedes estar seguro de que tu amigo acudir\u00e1 a ti si o si.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>Respect your friend\u2019s boundaries. Don\u2019t ask your mutual friends if they know what\u2019s going on \u2013 let your friend come to you when they\u2019re ready. <strong>Text them something that tells them that they can count on you and don\u2019t push.<\/strong> Don\u2019t try to make them feel guilty or like they have to talk to you.<\/p>\n<h3>4. They&#8217;re hiding because they&#8217;re going through something<\/h3>\n<p>Some people withdraw when problems arise and they don\u2019t talk to others until they\u2019re okay with what they\u2019re going through.<strong> Los problemas habituales que pueden hacer que alguien huya de hablar de ellos son las cosas que ponen en tela de juicio sus creencias y valores o la imagen que tiene de s\u00ed mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No dejarte entrar no es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-no-le-importas-a-tu-amigo\/\">a sign your friend doesn&#8217;t care about you<\/a>Pero tambi\u00e9n puede ser dif\u00edcil saber por qu\u00e9 te ignora. Puede ser dif\u00edcil saber cu\u00e1ndo \u00e9sta puede ser la raz\u00f3n por la que tu amigo te ignora, y <strong>la respuesta est\u00e1 en su personalidad y su historia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>If your friend doesn\u2019t like talking about certain issues or if they\u2019re prone to depression and avoidant moods, <strong>they might be hiding until they\u2019ve dealt with a problem, so pushing won\u2019t give you the result you want.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The only thing you can do is make sure that your friend knows that they can come to you if they need to \u2013 if that\u2019s how you feel \u2013 and to be understanding if they can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Tu amigo est\u00e1 reci\u00e9n enamorado y centrado en su inter\u00e9s amoroso<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157493\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend.png\" alt=\"mujer ignorada por su amiga\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-300x199.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-1024x678.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-768x509.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-960x636.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-1080x716.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-1200x795.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-1536x1018.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-735x487.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-335x222.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-347x230.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-520x345.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-640x424.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-150x99.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Muchas personas se obsesionan un poco con su pareja al principio de una nueva relaci\u00f3n. <strong>When you\u2019re newly in love, the last thing on your mind is thinking about how anyone else is feeling and your whole focus is on your new girlfriend or boyfriend.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A la hora de elegir entre su <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tu-mejor-amigo-frente-al-amor-de-tu-vida\/\">best friend vs. the person you\u2019re dating<\/a> to give your attention to, early in the relationship everyone hopes their friends can understand that they\u2019re just a distraction at that moment.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>If your friend has been mentioning someone they like a lot and then suddenly gone missing, chances are that they found out the other person feels the same and they\u2019re too busy for anything except their new love.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s up to you how you approach this when you talk to your friend, but be sure not to argue with them about this or make them feel that they\u2019ve done something bad.<\/strong> Haz saber a tu amigo que le echas de menos sin obligarle a elegir.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Your friend thinks you&#8217;re mad at them<\/h3>\n<p>\u00bfTiene tu amigo alg\u00fan motivo para pensar que puedes estar enfadado con \u00e9l? <strong>If you argued before they went missing, they might think you\u2019re angry and don\u2019t know how to talk to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Facing your loved ones when you believe they\u2019re mad at you can be extremely difficult if you don\u2019t know how to deal with it. If there is unsolved conflict between you, your friend could simply be afraid.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>If you\u2019re not angry with your friend, make sure they know it. Text them something funny or plainly tell them that you\u2019re good. In case you are angry, but you\u2019d still like to talk to them, be honest about that as well.<\/p>\n<h3>7. They&#8217;ve had enough of your behavior<\/h3>\n<p>Maybe your friend is ignoring you because you&#8217;ve pushed them too far. If you repeatedly do things that your friend dislikes, it\u2019s possible that they\u2019ve had enough.<strong> You might not even know what it is, if you lack self-awareness or if you don\u2019t communicate with each other effectively.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This can be a dangerous situation if you\u2019re both stubborn and unwilling to back up. If your friend feels that your friendship isn\u2019t worth it because they doubt that you\u2019re willing to change and become a better friend, they might refuse to even try, so they\u2019re ignoring you.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>Es necesario que haya una conversaci\u00f3n para tratar este asunto y que est\u00e9s dispuesto a aceptar la posibilidad de que tu comportamiento haya provocado una ruptura. <strong>If your friendship is important to you, don\u2019t be defensive if your friend points out something you do that they dislike.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>En su lugar, piense en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-debes-tratar-a-tus-mejores-amigos\/\">c\u00f3mo debes tratar a tus mejores amigos<\/a> y cultivar vuestra amistad.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Tu amistad gira en torno a ti<\/h3>\n<p>If your friend feels that you\u2019re self-absorbed and that their only role is to be an audience to your monologues, they might have decided they\u2019re not doing it anymore. Finding out if this is the case can be difficult because your friend might not think that they can tell you how they feel.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You must examine yourself, your behavior and your friendship closely and openly and honestly ask yourself, \u201cIs it me?\u201d<\/strong> If your friend feels like you\u2019re not interested in them and what\u2019s going on in their life, you might come to a point where they don\u2019t want to be friends any longer.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>When a friend starts to pull back because they\u2019re unhappy in the friendship, you must figure out if this is true by being completely honest with yourself. You already know if you\u2019ve been using them not to feel lonely or to have someone to go out with and not because you care for them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Si quieres solucionarlo, debes aprender a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-senales-que-demuestran-que-has-encontrado-a-tu-mejor-amigo\/\">ser un buen amigo<\/a> que presta atenci\u00f3n y ofrece apoyo.<\/strong> If you don\u2019t particularly care, still consider changing it and deepening your friendship because you can experience things you can\u2019t in a superficial one.<\/p>\n<h3>9. You&#8217;re holding them back<\/h3>\n<p>One of the reasons why your friend might be pulling away and ignoring you is if you\u2019ve been unsupportive and they feel like you\u2019re holding them back from what they want in life. This can often happen in friendships that begin early in life and continue for years.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you\u2019re used to your friend being in the same situation as you, you might hold them back when they try to move forward.<\/strong> Por ejemplo, podr\u00edas disuadirles de mudarse cuando en realidad ser\u00eda bueno para ellos porque quieres mantenerlos cerca. Otro ejemplo es que si ambos llev\u00e1is un estilo de vida poco saludable, podr\u00edas hacer que se sintieran mal por intentar cambiar.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>Has your friend been trying to change and you\u2019ve been trying to make them feel like they can\u2019t because then it will only be you who\u2019s not working on yourself?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Piensa en tu relaci\u00f3n sin pretensiones y s\u00e9 sincero sobre lo que obtienes de ella.<\/strong> If it\u2019s validation of your own negative behaviors, consider doing things that will improve your emotional state or your mental health.<\/p>\n<p>Elige apoyarle y deja que tu amigo te inspire en lugar de frenarle.<\/p>\n<h3>10. You&#8217;re too demanding or clingy<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157494\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de pie cerca de una ventana y escribiendo en el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do you often demand attention, time or something else from your friend and you\u2019re used to getting it? If you often depend on your friend and get frustrated when they prioritize their own life, <strong>it\u2019s possible that they\u2019re ignoring you because they can\u2019t deal with you at the moment.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p><strong>Aprenda a satisfacer sus propias necesidades y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-dejar-de-ser-pegajoso-y-necesitado-8-maneras-de-hacerlo\/\">deja de ser pegajoso<\/a> to stop making your friend feel like they\u2019re not a good friend if they choose themselves.<\/strong> Esto puede arruinar amistades, as\u00ed que si te preocupas por tu amigo, debes trabajar en ello.<\/p>\n<p>If your friend ignores you instead of being able to tell you that they can\u2019t help you at the moment, they feel like you won\u2019t take it well so they\u2019re not even trying.<\/p>\n<h3>11. Tu amistad es diferente de lo que crees<\/h3>\n<p>Si cree que ha encontrado un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/amistad-verdadera-alma-gemela\/\">amistad alma gemela<\/a>pero tu amigo rara vez piensa en ti fuera del trabajo, de las reuniones de grupo o de otro entorno en el que sol\u00e9is veros, <strong>puede que tus expectativas sean demasiado altas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes when you meet someone you like and want to be friends with, you might start moving too fast and trying to quickly create a connection. If you and the other person aren\u2019t in the same place, they might find it overwhelming.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>\u00bfQuieres salir m\u00e1s con ellos, pero siempre parecen sorprendidos cuando les contactas y rara vez aceptan?<\/p>\n<p>Piensa en el tiempo que hace que conoces a esa persona y si su falta de contacto es tan significativa para ella como para ti.<strong> Si usted piensa en ellos como amigos \u00edntimos y ellos piensan en usted como conocidos, puede que haya llegado el momento de aceptar la realidad y frenar o seguir adelante.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>12. Tu amigo est\u00e1 celoso de ti<\/h3>\n<p>If your friend doesn\u2019t like who they are, they might be jealous of you and avoid you because you remind them of their own shortcomings. If they\u2019re<strong> sentirse inseguro a su alrededor<\/strong> because you\u2019re moving forward or because you\u2019re doing things they can\u2019t, they don\u2019t want a reminder so they might be distancing themselves.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean that your friend means to hurt you, but it\u2019s a sign that they\u2019re unhappy with themselves.<strong> Si sabe decir <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-no-sabes-quienes-son-tus-verdaderos-amigos-lee-esto\/\">qui\u00e9nes son tus verdaderos amigos<\/a>, you\u2019ll be able to decide if this friendship is worth fighting for.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Help your friend if you believe that they\u2019re going through a rough patch, but if you know that they\u2019re just toxic, it\u2019s best to let them ignore you and go about your own life.<\/p>\n<h3>13. They&#8217;ve been a fake friend all along<\/h3>\n<p>People can always tell when they\u2019re involved in relationships that aren\u2019t good for them, but there are reasons why we stay in those relationships.<strong> If you\u2019ve been ignoring your intuition and accepted a one-sided friendship, this might be your chance to change things.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>Hay muchos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-un-amigo-falso\/\">se\u00f1ales de un amigo falso<\/a> that can tell you if someone you care for doesn\u2019t have your best interests in mind.<strong> Si esta persona nunca ha sido un amigo para ti en primer lugar, su distancia puede ser justo lo que necesitabas para elegirte a ti mismo y seguir adelante.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>14. Tu amigo es t\u00f3xico<\/h3>\n<p>\u00bfSalir con tu amigo te deja a menudo exhausto? \u00bfUtiliza t\u00e9cnicas de manipulaci\u00f3n como el silencio o la culpabilizaci\u00f3n para conseguir lo que quiere de ti? \u00bfTe hace cumplidos sin venir a cuento?<\/p>\n<p>If the answers to these questions are \u2018yes\u2019, you\u2019re dealing with a toxic friend.<strong> Si este tipo de persona te ignora, puede ser un juego de poder y un intento de conseguir algo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>Use this chance and turn things around \u2013<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-distanciarse-de-alguien\/\"> distanciarse<\/a> from someone who isn\u2019t good for you and decide to let go of this friendship because it\u2019s only hurting you.<\/strong> If you\u2019ve stuck with them because you feel lonely, now you\u2019ll have the motivation and the emotional space to connect with someone else.<\/p>\n<h3>15. Eres t\u00f3xico<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157495\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship.jpg\" alt=\"dos mujeres en una amistad t\u00f3xica\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You might think that you\u2019re besties, but are you really as good of a friend as you think?<\/p>\n<p>Are you critical, dismissive or controlling? Do you only contact them when you need something or when you\u2019re bored? Do you think of them as competition? <strong>Si es as\u00ed, puede que t\u00fa seas el amigo t\u00f3xico en esta relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re ignoring you because they\u2019re tired of playing along and need space.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>Most people don\u2019t decide to be toxic in relationships, but it happens because of insecurities and self-esteem problems.<strong> Trabaja en ti mismo e intenta desarrollar la <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cualidades-de-una-mejor-amiga-10-rasgos-esenciales-que-debes-buscar-en-una-bff\/\">cualidades de un mejor amigo<\/a><\/strong> que deseas en otra persona y darte cuenta de que las relaciones tienen dos caras.<\/p>\n<h3>16. You&#8217;ve done something to hurt them<\/h3>\n<p>Maybe you said something without thinking or you did something that you knew would cause your friend pain, but if you\u2019ve hurt your friend, they might not want to talk to you for a while or at all.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Of course, intent matters, but even if you didn\u2019t mean to hurt them, it still happened and your friend is either done with you or needs time to deal with it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>Disc\u00falpate cara a cara y en serio.<strong> \u2018I&#8217;m sorry\u2019 without genuine honesty and regret is nothing.<\/strong> Asume la responsabilidad de tus actos y ten la determinaci\u00f3n de no repetirlos si quieres salvar tu amistad.<\/p>\n<h3>17. They&#8217;ve done something that would hurt you if you found out<\/h3>\n<p>Perhaps your friend feels guilty about something they\u2019ve done, so they\u2019re avoiding you. If they did something that they know would cause you pain if you knew, it might be the reason why they\u2019re ignoring you \u2013 <strong>tu amigo tiene miedo de que lo descubras.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>Por ejemplo, si tu amigo empezara a salir con tu ex, al que sol\u00edas querer, sabe que eso te entristecer\u00eda, o algo parecido que sab\u00eda que te har\u00eda da\u00f1o.<strong> Una vez que averig\u00fces de qu\u00e9 se trata, deber\u00e1s considerar detenidamente tus sentimientos y sus acciones.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Piensa si lo hicieron a pesar de saber que te har\u00eda da\u00f1o y si tuvieron la opci\u00f3n de no hacerlo, y c\u00f3mo te sientes al respecto.<\/p>\n<h3>18. They&#8217;ve replaced you<\/h3>\n<p>Your friend stopped replying to your texts, so you\u2019re worried and you check their social media to see if they\u2019re around, only to find out that they\u2019re having a blast with new friends doing something you talked about doing together.<\/p>\n<p>Some people are flaky and easily change without consideration of other people\u2019s feelings. <strong>Para gente as\u00ed, los dem\u00e1s no son m\u00e1s que un entretenimiento y no son realmente importantes para ellos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>Si <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-tu-amigo-no-te-respeta\/\">your friend doesn\u2019t respect you<\/a> enough to let you know when they change their mind and leave you hanging, you\u2019re better off without them. It\u2019s important not to accept their excuses if they offer any because this is a sign of not being able to rely on them.<\/p>\n<h3>19. They don&#8217;t want to be friends any more<\/h3>\n<p>En <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-chica-usado-mejor-amigo\/\">sol\u00eda ser tu mejor amigo<\/a>, but recently it feels like they\u2019re never around. When you contact them, they\u2019re curt and eager to get away.<\/p>\n<p>They might not be rude to you, but you feel like they\u2019d rather do anything but spend time with you.<\/p>\n<p>It might be something related to your actions, something connected with what\u2019s going on in their lives or something completely different \u2013 whatever the reason,<strong> quieren acabar con tu amistad.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>You can\u2019t force anyone to like you and if someone is not interested in being your friend any longer, let them go. <strong>Approach it the same way you\u2019d approach a breakup of a romantic relationship and protect your feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>20. You&#8217;re drifting apart<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157496\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"dos amigos hablando en un caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A veces llega un momento en que las diferencias en los estilos de vida, el cambio de prioridades o simplemente el hecho de convertirnos en personas diferentes hace que las amistades se acaben.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When both of you are slowly drifting apart, you might be trying to preserve what you\u2019ve had, but it\u2019s not working.<\/strong> Intentar forzar que las cosas sigan igual puede acabar en amargura y resentimiento.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUCI\u00d3N:<\/h4>\n<p>If you\u2019ve been friends for a long time, it might be difficult to accept that you\u2019re not the way you used to be, but instead of thinking in all-or-nothing terms, think of it as a change.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to explicitly end things or forget about this person, but<strong> stop thinking of them as your best friend and someone who\u2019ll be there when you need them and vice versa.<\/strong> D\u00e9 un paso atr\u00e1s en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/diferentes-niveles-de-amistad\/\">desarrollo de la amistad,<\/a> accept that you\u2019re less close and let things go.<\/p>\n<h2>Conclusi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s natural to miss your friend when they\u2019re not talking to you and to be hurt and if you don\u2019t know why it\u2019s happening. The easiest way to figure out the answer to the question \u201cWhy is my friend ignoring me?\u201d would be to ask them, but even if they\u2019ve locked you out completely, there\u2019s still a way to pinpoint the reason.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tienes que ser consciente de ti mismo y honesto contigo mismo y pensar en tu amistad<\/strong>. Usually, if there\u2019s a problem, all the signs are already there. In some cases, you\u2019ll have to accept that your relationship has come to an end and that the best thing you can do for yourself is to move on.<\/p>\n<p>If it was your behavior that caused your friend to distance themselves, this could be the motivation you need to think about it and decide how it should change. If your friend is going through something, let them know that they can rely on you and come to you when they\u2019re ready.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me ignora mi amigo? 20 razones y soluciones Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-162642\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Friendships are different from romantic relationships in one significant way: they can withstand distance and lack of contact far more easily. Your close friends are a part of your extended family \u2013 these kinds of relationships don\u2019t follow the same progression as the one with your partner, so the expectations are different. This doesn\u2019t mean&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":157497,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-157489","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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