{"id":15789,"date":"2021-04-06T09:58:58","date_gmt":"2021-04-06T09:58:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15789"},"modified":"2022-12-01T11:50:42","modified_gmt":"2022-12-01T11:50:42","slug":"necesita-espacio-7-maneras-de-decir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/necesita-espacio-7-maneras-de-decir\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfNecesita espacio o se ha acabado? (10 formas de saberlo)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Another day I heard a saying that goes like this; It’s better tratar de entender el sol que una mujer. <\/i>Bueno, d\u00e9jame decirte algo, entender a los hombres<\/a> isn’t an easy job either.<\/p>\n

Sometimes men pull away and no matter how much you try, you just can’t figure out why. One question keeps running through your mind and it puts you in limbo… Does necesita espacio<\/a> \u00bfo se acab\u00f3?<\/p>\n

De todos modos, debes tener en cuenta que una peque\u00f1a ruptura puede salvar tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Como dice Jacqueline Shlain, experta en relaciones: “It is so easy to panic and think you have done something wrong, but the truth is a <\/i>un poco de espacio es saludable<\/i><\/a> in a relationship.”<\/i><\/p>\n

In this article, I’ll help you figure out the answer to this question. And the rest is really up to you.<\/p>\n

It’s up to you to decide whether you’re going to fight for your love or you’ll let him go if this little break turns out to be the breaking point of your relationship.<\/p>\n

Does Needing Space Mean It’s Over?<\/h2>\n

\"hombreThere is no woman on this planet who wants to hear her significant other say that he needs space, especially if they’re in a relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/a>. Suena horrible y en la mente femenina, eso significa que las cosas han terminado para siempre.<\/p>\n

Yet a male mind works in a completely different way and \u2018space\u2019 doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that things are ending.<\/p>\n

But we can\u2019t help but wonder what \u2018space\u2019 really means\u2014does he need space or is it over? And, those questions are not easy to answer.<\/p>\n

En la mayor\u00eda de los casos, significa simplemente que un hombre necesita un poco de espacio para aclarar sus pensamientos y sus propios sentimientos.<\/p>\n

That need for space doesn’t even have to be associated with you or your relationship. Sometimes, los hombres se alejan<\/a> only because they’re currently going through some hard times and need a little time to figure things out and think about their own life.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, ese espacio puede significar un potencial desamor<\/a> for you. It may make your man realize that he doesn’t love you like he used to and that the best thing for the both of you would be to break up.<\/p>\n

Como puede ver, comprender a los hombres tambi\u00e9n puede ser una tarea muy dura.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, sea cual sea el resultado de vuestra peque\u00f1a ruptura sentimental, lo \u00fanico que puedes hacer es dejar a tu hombre el espacio que necesita.<\/p>\n

It’ll be the ultimate test of your relationship. If you truly love each other, that small distance won’t separate you, it’ll actually bring you closer.<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1 perdiendo inter\u00e9s o simplemente necesita espacio? 10 formas de saberlo<\/h2>\n

La pregunta es, \u00bfc\u00f3mo diferenciamos entre los dos? \u00bfNecesita espacio o se ha acabado?<\/i><\/p>\n

La mejor manera de responder a esas preguntas es dar un paso atr\u00e1s y ver las cosas desde una perspectiva masculina y sus posibles razones para querer espacio.<\/p>\n

A continuaci\u00f3n le ofrecemos una lista que le ayudar\u00e1 a llegar a una conclusi\u00f3n definitiva, la lista de las razones m\u00e1s comunes por las que los hombres necesitan un poco de espacio en relaciones duraderas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Las cosas van demasiado r\u00e1pido para \u00e9l<\/h3>\n

\"hombreComo ya he dicho, los hombres y las mujeres funcionan a niveles diferentes. Teniendo eso en cuenta, tenemos que ser conscientes de que las mujeres pueden tener sentimientos m\u00e1s profundos o estar dispuestas a pasar al siguiente nivel antes que los hombres.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that your man cares less than you do, it just means that he needs more time to get to the place in your relationship where you already are.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t jump to conclusions. Men tend to be clear with their words. If he says he needs space because las cosas van demasiado deprisa<\/a> eso significa simplemente que las cosas est\u00e1n saliendo de su zona de confort y que necesita algo de espacio para reducir la velocidad.<\/p>\n

Ajusta tu ritmo, re\u00fanete con \u00e9l a mitad de camino y dale ese espacio<\/a> para que pueda alcanzarte.<\/p>\n

Tiene miedo de comprometerse totalmente contigo<\/h3>\n

\"vistaO en otras palabras, tiene miedo de sus sentimientos<\/a>. No todos los hombres est\u00e1n en contacto con sus sentimientos y pueden tener dificultades para expresarlos o incluso para afrontarlos.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que tienen la necesidad de alejarse cada vez que sienten que las cosas est\u00e1n a punto de volverse m\u00e1s serias.<\/p>\n

Si eres la primera mujer a la que ha considerado como algo m\u00e1s serio, estar\u00e1 asustad\u00edsimo. Se asustar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Por otra parte, si se trata de un verdadero fobia al compromiso<\/a> correr\u00e1 por su vida y no hay nada que puedas hacer al respecto.<\/p>\n

In either case, giving him space is the right thing to do. Forcing things and trying to tie him down won\u2019t get you anywhere.<\/p>\n

Necesita cierta distancia para ver las cosas desde otra perspectiva.<\/p>\n

Si es el hombre para ti, un tiempo separados le har\u00e1 darse cuenta de que est\u00e1 siendo un est\u00fapido y que se pasar\u00e1 todo ese tiempo ech\u00e1ndote de menos como un loco.<\/p>\n

If things go any other way, you will at least avoid being strung along by someone who wasn\u2019t good for you to start with.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: Si no le env\u00edas un mensaje, \u00e9l te lo enviar\u00e1 a ti: 20 razones por las que nunca env\u00eda mensajes primero<\/a><\/p>\n

He is already a \u2018low investment\u2019 partner<\/h3>\n

\"fotoHe already doesn\u2019t spend nearly enough time with you and no est\u00e1 a la altura de tus esfuerzos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres la \u00fanica que da e invierte en la relaci\u00f3n y \u00e9l nunca est\u00e1 cuando le necesitas.<\/p>\n

Todas estas son se\u00f1ales de que ya tiene un pie fuera de la puerta. Si, adem\u00e1s de todo eso, te informa de que necesita espacio, entonces las cosas est\u00e1n terminando.<\/p>\n

Probablemente est\u00e9 utilizando el espacio para disminuir la intensidad de la ruptura. No est\u00e1 seguro de ti y lo m\u00e1s probable es que nunca lo est\u00e9.<\/p>\n

If you assess that he already has more than enough space for himself, his interests and his friends and if you admit to yourself that he has been neglecting you all along, you will see that this space is actually the space you need to see that this relationship isn\u2019t working.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t try to hold on to somebody who is clearly unworthy of you. D\u00e9jalo ir.<\/a> si \u00e9l no est\u00e1 listo para estar en todo.<\/p>\n

Se siente presionado para llevar su relaci\u00f3n al siguiente nivel<\/h3>\n

\"hombreThis is connected to the first item on this list but it consists of his family, friends or even you pressuring him to take things to the next level\u2014to become more committed, to move in or to get married.<\/p>\n

Cuanto m\u00e1s le presiones, m\u00e1s querr\u00e1 huir.<\/p>\n

Si sigues presion\u00e1ndole, vuestra relaci\u00f3n acabar\u00e1. Si te relajas y dejas que las cosas sigan su propio curso, \u00e9l llegar\u00e1 a donde t\u00fa quieres. Psicolog\u00eda inversa<\/a> es todo lo que necesitas.<\/p>\n

Si son sus amigos y su familia los que le presionan, aseg\u00farate de que sepa que nada de eso viene de ti.<\/p>\n

Grant him the space he needs by talking openly and reassuring him that you don\u2019t want to force anything and that you will let things fall into place in their own time.<\/p>\n

Peleas demasiado<\/h3>\n

\"hombreSi necesita espacio porque os pele\u00e1is todo el tiempo, deber\u00edas reconsiderar toda vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Just because you share strong feelings doesn\u2019t mean you are compatible<\/a>. Tus constantes peleas indican que no eres capaz de funcionar con normalidad.<\/p>\n

Un tiempo separados os vendr\u00e1 bien. Considera todos los pros y los contras de tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

A ver si t\u00fa y tu pareja sois capaces de encontrar un terreno com\u00fan y una forma de superar vuestras diferencias.<\/p>\n

Si no, por mucho que te duela, tendr\u00e1s que ponerle fin.<\/p>\n

Si no sois capaces de trabajar en equipo en vuestra relaci\u00f3n y acordar estar en desacuerdo en algunos puntos, a medida que la relaci\u00f3n avance, las cosas no har\u00e1n m\u00e1s que empeorar.<\/p>\n

You’ve become too clingy<\/h3>\n

\"retratoA veces, cuando una mujer se enamora perdidamente de un hombre, ese hombre se convierte en el centro de su universo. Se vuelve dependiente de \u00e9l, de ese amor en realidad.<\/p>\n

Muchas personas tienen un estilo de apego inseguro<\/a> and it’s nothing a person should be ashamed of. However, they must work on fixing that issue if they want to keep and mantener sana su relaci\u00f3n.<\/a><\/p>\n

Si este es el caso, si su hombre le ha dicho que necesita espacio<\/a> because he thinks you’ve become too necesitado<\/a>lo mejor ser\u00eda daros un tiempo a los dos para replantearos vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

To be honest, you’re actually the one who necesita tiempo a solas<\/a>. Entiendo que te guste pasar tiempo con \u00e9l m\u00e1s que nada, pero tambi\u00e9n tienes que entender que hay algunos l\u00edmites que hay que respetar para tener una buena relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Se siente enjaulado<\/h3>\n

\"elEsto es lo que me pas\u00f3 a m\u00ed. Mi novio se sent\u00eda atrapado en la relaci\u00f3n porque hab\u00eda perdido el sentido de qui\u00e9n era sin m\u00ed. Necesitaba un poco de espacio para respirar.<\/p>\n

Nuestra relaci\u00f3n se hizo m\u00e1s fuerte porque le di espacio. Si el amor es aut\u00e9ntico, no hay espacio en este mundo que pueda alejaros el uno del otro.<\/p>\n

So if your boyfriend needs some time for himself, or if he is in desperate need of privacy and freedom to pursue his other interests, then that\u2019s nothing to worry about.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s just a sign for you to loosen the reins. It\u2019s a sign you are ser demasiado pegajoso<\/a> and that you will end up suffocating the relationship if you don\u2019t grant him some space.<\/p>\n

He doesn’t feel appreciated enough<\/h3>\n

\"unOtra raz\u00f3n por la que tu hombre podr\u00eda pedirte algo de espacio es si \u00e9l doesn’t feel respected and appreciated<\/a> suficiente.<\/p>\n

Maybe you were dealing with some of your own things lately and you neglected him a bit. And if he’s putting a lot of effort into making your relationship work while you’re not putting any effort at all, it’s completely normal that it won’t make him feel good about you or your relationship.<\/p>\n

Even though being taken for granted by someone you love is the most awful feeling in the world, it won’t make your man break up with you.<\/p>\n

He just wants to make you realize that if you keep behaving the way you do, you’ll end up perdi\u00e9ndolo<\/a>. That’s the only reason he told you that he needs space.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, si lo amas<\/a> you’ll do everything to make him feel valued again and show him that prioritizing those other things over him was a huge mistake that you feel deeply sorry for.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l tiene algunos problemas que no est\u00e1n relacionados con usted<\/h3>\n

\"unA los hombres no se les da tan bien la multitarea como a las mujeres; prefieren centrarse en una cosa cada vez.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que si est\u00e1 demasiado estresado en el trabajo o tiene sus propias cosas fuera de la relaci\u00f3n de las que tiene que ocuparse, tendr\u00e1 que dar un paso atr\u00e1s para abordar esos problemas.<\/p>\n

Let him know you are there for him and that you don\u2019t consider him getting away from you as a good solution to his problems.<\/p>\n

You guys should be a team who support each other through difficult situations, you shouldn\u2019t seek escape when things get tough.<\/p>\n

Puedes proporcionarle suficiente espacio aceptando que os ver\u00e9is menos y que entender\u00e1s si su atenci\u00f3n se redirige a otra parte por el momento.<\/p>\n

Lo hace s\u00f3lo para probarte<\/h3>\n

\"un\u00bfSabes que los expertos en relaciones dicen que la relaci\u00f3n a distancia es la prueba definitiva del amor<\/a>? Bueno, esta puede ser la prueba de tu amor.<\/p>\n

It’s possible that your man doesn’t actually want to take a break but he only wants to test things and see how strong your relationship truly is. He wants to test if your love for him is as strong as you say.<\/p>\n

That’s why it’s very important how you’ll behave during that little break. I’m really not a fan of these kinds of tests and I think it’s totally unfair, but if you don’t want to lose your man, you’ll have to pass his test.<\/p>\n

Also, this doesn’t mean that you should only be sitting in your home and waiting for him to call or to come back to you.<\/p>\n

You’re allowed to hang out with your mejores amigos<\/a> y hacer todas las otras cosas que har\u00edas normalmente, pero ver a otros hombres est\u00e1 estrictamente prohibido.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo darle espacio y evitar perder al hombre que amas?<\/h2>\n

\"unHay quien dice que la ausencia hace que el coraz\u00f3n se vuelva m\u00e1s cari\u00f1oso. Por eso, romper una relaci\u00f3n puede ser bueno para ti. Pero solo si lo haces de la forma correcta.<\/p>\n

La coach de relaciones, Jacqueline Shlain, lo explica de la siguiente manera; “If you do it right, chances are you will find having a little distance makes you feel more grateful for each other, and even brings you closer together.”<\/i><\/p>\n

Below are a few tips that will help you endure this hard period and save your relationship. So, if your man wants to take a break, here’s how you should behave.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Try to talk about it<\/h3>\n

Probablemente pasar\u00e1s mucho tiempo pensando y estres\u00e1ndote por ello y recibir\u00e1s una gran cantidad de consejos diferentes sobre relaciones de pareja de tu mejor amigo, familia o incluso conocidos, pero lo mejor ser\u00eda hablarlo con tu pareja.<\/p>\n

Ask him to get together and communicate openly about it. That’s the only way couples solve all of their issues and disagreements in healthy and relaciones serias<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If he says that he doesn’t quiero romper contigo<\/a> y que s\u00f3lo necesita un poco de tiempo a solas, tienes que respetarlo. Por supuesto, ser\u00eda bueno preguntarle cu\u00e1l es la causa de esa necesidad de espacio.<\/p>\n

If he chooses not to answer that question, you have no other choice but to respect and accept it. If he answers, even better because you’ll finally know how to make things better and how to endure this not-so-great relationship period.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Show understanding<\/h3>\n

If your man needs space, he’s probably clogged by overwhelming feelings and he needs space and alone time to figure things out.<\/p>\n

Try to understand him, show respect for his wishes and don’t disturb him. He may even come back the very next day but only if you let him clear his mind in peace.<\/p>\n

The worst thing you can do is try to push him into making a decision regarding the future of your relationship. Because the answer he’ll come up with under pressure will surely shock you.<\/p>\n

Debes aprender a vivir con ello durante un tiempo. Si le gustas mucho<\/a> and wants to have you in his life, he’ll come back without any ifs and buts. If not, seguir adelante<\/a> es la \u00fanica opci\u00f3n que tienes.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Respect the no-contact rule<\/h3>\n

When your man says he needs space and you agree to go on a relationship break, that’s when la regla del no contacto <\/a>llega a tu vida en todo su esplendor.<\/p>\n

That means you should cut off all contact or, at least, wait for him to reach out first. At some point, he’ll have to reach out and ask to get together and tell you what he has decided regarding the future of your relationship.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, el respeto la regla del no contacto <\/a>and stop thinking about initiating contact with him. Also, it would be best for you to stay off social media for a while just so you don’t see when he’s active and get tempted to send him a text.<\/p>\n

\u2022 But also, make it clear that you’re there for him<\/h3>\n

\"unYour man is probably going through a hard time and even though he doesn’t want to admit it, he needs your support now more than ever.<\/p>\n

Debes respetar su voluntad sobre ir ning\u00fan contacto<\/a> por un tiempo, pero tambi\u00e9n deber\u00edas decirle que est\u00e1s y siempre estar\u00e1s ah\u00ed para \u00e9l, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don’t forget to take care of yourself<\/h3>\n

I know you’re constantly thinking about whether he needs space or it’s over forever, but you really must stop obsessing about it and c\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Your feelings and thoughts are all over the place and it’s completely understandable. But, you need to find the strength to gather them again and continue with your life.<\/p>\n

Tener un peque\u00f1o desintoxicaci\u00f3n de las redes sociales<\/a>. Sal con tus mejores amigos o inv\u00edtalos a casa. Pase el rato con sus seres queridos. Hazte un tratamiento completo de spa. Cu\u00eddate<\/i> de tu cuerpo, mente y alma.<\/i><\/p>\n

\u2022 This is a perfect time to set new life & relationship goals<\/h3>\n

As I said, you need to use this break to focus on yourself and on your own life. Think about your dreams and goals and if you’re on the right way to achieving them.<\/p>\n

Tu hombre ha dicho que necesita espacio porque probablemente quiera replantearse vuestra relaci\u00f3n y t\u00fa deber\u00edas hacer lo mismo.<\/p>\n

And I don’t mean to rethink whether your relationship was the real deal or not. What I wanted to say is that you should try to find a way to fix all of your issues and to make your relationship better in every possible way.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Be patient but above all, be optimistic<\/h3>\n

I know you’re looking at this relationship break as a huge red flag that you’re going to break up soon<\/a>Pero tienes que ser optimista y tener fe en tu hombre y en el amor que os profes\u00e1is.<\/p>\n

You’re going through a hard time right now but be patient because I promise you, it’ll be all over sooner than you think.<\/p>\n

Be positive and keep thinking like this; he isn’t trying to find an easy way out or to end things with you, he needs space and that’s it.<\/p>\n

\u00bfVuelven los chicos despu\u00e9s de necesitar espacio?<\/h2>\n

\"unEsta es una pregunta para la que nadie puede darle la respuesta correcta. En realidad depende de muchas cosas. Pero lo m\u00e1s importante que debe tener en cuenta es que si te quiere<\/a>, he’ll always come back to you, no matter what.<\/p>\n

Y si he doesn’t love you<\/a>, he’ll come back but only to end things with you for good. Or, if he’s a coward who is afraid to confront you, he’ll give you the silent treatment and hope that his silence will tell you that he isn’t planning to come back ever again.<\/p>\n

Por desgracia, he visto muchos ejemplos reales de relaciones que terminan porque no fueron capaces de proporcionar al otro la libertad que tanto necesitaba, o porque el hecho de que alguien necesitara espacio significaba que ten\u00eda problemas mucho m\u00e1s profundos y el final era inevitable.<\/p>\n

Y ah\u00ed est\u00e1 mi experiencia que, afortunadamente, tuvo un final feliz. Me encontraba en una situaci\u00f3n similar.<\/i><\/p>\n

My boyfriend told me he needed space and I burst into tears because I couldn’t help but ask myself: se <\/i>vuelve<\/i> si yo <\/i>darle el espacio deseado<\/i><\/a>?<\/i> Estaba convencida de que me dejaba para siempre.<\/p>\n

I was crying for about an hour until his words reached my ears \u2014 he was trying to explain that he didn\u2019t want to break up with me, s\u00f3lo necesitaba algo de tiempo a solas<\/a> porque pas\u00e1bamos demasiado tiempo juntos.<\/p>\n

I wasn\u2019t pleased with that answer either at first but I realized he was right.<\/p>\n

Pas\u00e1bamos juntos todas las horas que est\u00e1bamos despiertos y realmente llevamos las cosas demasiado lejos. Al principio, era divertido y era tiempo bien empleado.<\/p>\n

Pero hace poco nos metimos en una rutina en la que dejamos de prestarnos atenci\u00f3n el uno al otro y nos limitamos a estar f\u00edsicamente juntos, con la mente en otra parte.<\/p>\n

Le di el espacio que quer\u00eda, aunque fue una de las cosas m\u00e1s aterradoras y, en general, peores que he tenido que hacer. Tem\u00eda perderlo para siempre.<\/p>\n

Pero all\u00ed mismo me di cuenta de que, al darle el espacio que necesitaba, s\u00f3lo contribu\u00ed a que nos acerc\u00e1ramos mucho m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Pas\u00e1bamos menos tiempo juntos, pero todo el tiempo que pas\u00e1bamos juntos estaba m\u00e1s que bien empleado. Como puedes ver, al final mi hombre volvi\u00f3. En realidad, ni siquiera se hab\u00eda ido, simplemente necesitaba un poco de espacio.<\/p>\n

Recuerde, cuando se trata de un<\/i> relaci\u00f3n sana<\/i><\/a>, it\u2019s about quality, not the quantity of time you spend together.<\/i><\/p>\n

Para terminar<\/h2>\n

In a nutshell, not everything is so black and white. When asking yourself, \u201cDoes he need space or is it over?\u201d you have to realize that relationships are full of gray areas.<\/p>\n

El estado actual y la calidad de vuestra relaci\u00f3n determinar\u00e1n si est\u00e1is destinados a durar o a terminar porque vuestra relaci\u00f3n no os est\u00e1 haciendo felices a los dos.<\/p>\n

En definitiva, si tu hombre quiere espacio, deber\u00edas d\u00e1rselo.<\/p>\n

En liberas a alguien<\/a>te dice realmente si son los adecuados para ti o no.<\/p>\n

If he comes back, you will have a firmer relationship and a better sense of belonging than you ever had before. If he stays away, it\u2019s better for you.<\/p>\n

Relationships can\u2019t and shouldn\u2019t be forced<\/a>. As\u00ed que si \u00e9l necesita algo de espacio es algo permanente, usted tendr\u00e1 que hacer las paces con el hecho de que nunca fue destinado a ser.<\/p>\n

Si necesitas m\u00e1s ayuda para dar a tu pareja el espacio que tanto busca, desc\u00e1rgate D\u00e9 espacio a su pareja y deje que florezca su relaci\u00f3n <\/a>y ver\u00e1s c\u00f3mo la libertad mutua te har\u00e1 estar m\u00e1s conectado.\"\u00bfNecesita<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Another day I heard a saying that goes like this; It’s better to try understanding the sun than a woman. Well, let me tell you something, understanding men isn’t an easy job either. Sometimes men pull away and no matter how much you try, you just can’t figure out why. One question keeps running through…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":75653,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15789","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Does-He-Need-Space-Or-Is-It-Over-7-Ways-To-Tell-1.jpg",800,547,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15789","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15789"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15789\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/75653"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15789"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15789"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15789"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}