{"id":158118,"date":"2022-09-21T11:16:24","date_gmt":"2022-09-21T11:16:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=158118"},"modified":"2023-03-13T09:39:52","modified_gmt":"2023-03-13T09:39:52","slug":"datos-sobre-los-enamoramientos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/datos-sobre-los-enamoramientos\/","title":{"rendered":"Datos sobre los enamoramientos: Todo lo que siempre quiso saber"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Un flechazo es un breve e intenso periodo de excitaci\u00f3n que te llena de ilusi\u00f3n y ansiedad. Pero, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 desaparece tan r\u00e1pido? \u00bfPuede convertirse en algo m\u00e1s? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 se siente como si el coraz\u00f3n estuviera a punto de estallar?<\/p>\n<p><b>How come you\u2019re daydreaming about someone one day and you can\u2019t remember what they look like the next? <\/b>Sigue leyendo para encontrar respuestas a estas preguntas y todos los datos sobre los enamoramientos que siempre pensaste que necesitabas saber.<\/p>\n<h2>Datos fascinantes sobre los enamoramientos<\/h2>\n<p>Here are all the facts about crushes you\u2019ve been curious about and answers to most common questions about why they feel the way they do.<\/p>\n<h3>1. \u00bfQu\u00e9 te hace estar enamorado?<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-158120 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking.png\" alt=\"pareja sonriente y cari\u00f1osa abraz\u00e1ndose hablando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-1024x684.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-960x641.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-1080x721.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-1200x801.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-1536x1025.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-735x491.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-335x224.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-347x232.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-640x427.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-720x481.png 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-1280x854.png 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-hugging-talking-150x100.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando ves a la persona que te gusta, el coraz\u00f3n te late m\u00e1s deprisa y te tiemblan las piernas. Pero \u00bfsab\u00edas que esto ocurre porque <b>su cuerpo reacciona a <\/b><b>enamorarse<\/b><b> de la misma manera que lo har\u00eda si estuvieras en peligro<\/b>?<\/p>\n<p>El comportamiento humano suele estar causado por procesos fisiol\u00f3gicos que tienen lugar en nuestro cuerpo. <b>Notar tu enamoramiento desencadena la respuesta de lucha o huida. <\/b>That\u2019s why you feel like everything is going haywire when you have a crush.<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever experienced the following symptoms when you\u2019re around your crush?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 You breathe faster<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 Your <\/b><b>latido del coraz\u00f3n<\/b><b> acelera<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 You become numb to pain<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You have butterflies in your stomach<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 You feel more alert<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You feel weak in the knees<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Your focus increases<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 Your appetite lowers<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The fight-or-flight response is a physiological reaction to stressful situations \u2013 a perceived attack or a threat \u2013 and <b>te hace querer huir para asegurar tu supervivencia<\/b>, or if that&#8217;s impossible, to fight for your life.<\/p>\n<p>Tu cuerpo libera las hormonas <b>epinefrina<\/b><b> (tambi\u00e9n conocida como adrenalina) y <\/b><b>norepinefrina<\/b>que act\u00faan conjuntamente para aumentar el flujo sangu\u00edneo en todo el cuerpo y redirigirlo al coraz\u00f3n y los pulmones. El cuerpo descompone la grasa y aumenta los niveles de glucosa para darte m\u00e1s energ\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>The next time you run into your crush, hormones are the reason why you\u2019re so shaken up.<\/p>\n<h3>2. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 te sientes tan bien cuando est\u00e1s enamorado?<\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019ve already learned that you&#8217;re getting dizzy when you see your crush because of adrenaline, but <b>Los neurotransmisores y las hormonas tambi\u00e9n son la causa de que el enamoramiento te haga sentir tan bien.<\/b><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Dopamine<\/h4>\n<p>La dopamina es un neurotransmisor: una sustancia qu\u00edmica que act\u00faa como mensajero en su cerebro, controlando c\u00f3mo responde a la informaci\u00f3n recibida a trav\u00e9s de sus sentidos.<b> It&#8217;s connected to pleasure and motivation.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When you see your crush, you get a hit of dopamine, and it feels like you got a reward. You become giddy and euphoric, so it&#8217;s no wonder you want more of this feeling. <b>Por eso la sensaci\u00f3n de estar enamorado es tan embriagadora.<\/b><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Oxytocin<\/h4>\n<p>Your body produces another hormone when you interact with your crush or as you\u2019re<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/simple-prueba-dira-se-enamorara\/\"> enamorarse<\/a>oxitocina. <b>It&#8217;s nicknamed &#8216;love hormone&#8217; and &#8216;<\/b><b>abrazar<\/b><b> hormone&#8217; <\/b>because when it&#8217;s released, it gives you a warm and comforting sense of well-being.<\/p>\n<h3>3. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 tu enamoramiento es tan perfecto?<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-158121 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other.png\" alt=\"una pareja sonriente y cari\u00f1osa sentada una al lado de la otra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-1024x684.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-960x641.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-1080x721.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-1200x801.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-1536x1025.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-735x491.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-335x224.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-347x232.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-640x427.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-720x481.png 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-1280x854.png 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-loving-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-150x100.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now that you know that hormones are the cause of positive feelings about your crush, let\u2019s see if they\u2019re also the reason why your crush seems to be flawless.<\/p>\n<h4><b>- <\/b>Proyecci\u00f3n<\/h4>\n<p>La percepci\u00f3n de la perfecci\u00f3n de tu enamoramiento se debe a varias causas. <b>One of them is the fact that you don\u2019t really know them, so you can project all the qualities you like in a person onto them. <\/b>You don&#8217;t get a crush on someone you know well, but someone you&#8217;re just getting to know.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Novelty<\/h4>\n<p>The novelty of getting to know someone you already think of as being just the way you like makes a crush exciting. As you\u2019re getting to know them, you feel <b>una sensaci\u00f3n de expectaci\u00f3n alimentada por tu propia imaginaci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Addiction<\/h4>\n<p>If they\u2019re just as you hoped your perfect person would be like, what else will you learn about them? <b>Perfecci\u00f3n, sensaci\u00f3n de descubrimiento y <\/b><b>dopamina<\/b><b> se combinan para crear algo adictivo que te hace querer estar cada vez m\u00e1s cerca de tu enamorado.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>4. \u00bfCu\u00e1nto duran los enamoramientos?<\/h3>\n<p>Don\u2019t you love having a crush? Your heart races when you see the object of your affection, you can\u2019t eat or sleep and all you can think about is them. <b>You\u2019re obsessed with your crush \u2013 until you kind of forget they ever existed.<\/b><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Fantasy<\/h4>\n<p>One of the often repeated \u2018interesting psychological facts about crushes\u2019 is that they last four months, but<b> un flechazo puede durar tanto como t\u00fa lo mantengas<\/b>. If you keep focusing on the person you\u2019re crushing on without bonding with them, you\u2019ll have a crush.<\/p>\n<p><b>A crush is a fantasy \u2013 it\u2019s a combination of physical attraction and imagination.<\/b> No tiene nada que ver con<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-real-el-amor\/\"> amor verdadero<\/a>. Una vez que se conoce a la persona, puede surgir un sentimiento de amor a medida que se desarrolla una conexi\u00f3n mental y emocional.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Limerence<\/h4>\n<p>Si el enamoramiento se prolonga demasiado, puede incluir un sentimiento de limerencia. <b>Limerence<\/b><b> es <\/b><b>encaprichamiento<\/b><b> y obsesi\u00f3n basada enteramente en la fantas\u00eda construida sobre la otra persona.<\/b> Provoca problemas de salud mental y disfunciones.<\/p>\n<p>Uno de los signos sutiles de la limerencia es la sensaci\u00f3n de que la otra persona te completar\u00e1. Este <b>el pensamiento delirante puede estar causado por el miedo a la intimidad emocional real<\/b>por lo que se vuelve a\u00fan m\u00e1s fuerte si el objeto de su afecto es inalcanzable.<\/p>\n<h3>5. \u00bfSon sanos los enamoramientos?<\/h3>\n<p>Los aplastamientos pueden ser tan sanos o insanos como t\u00fa los hagas.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Healthy<\/h4>\n<p>Desarrollar y superar enamoramientos es divertido. <b>Experimentar atracci\u00f3n y <\/b><b>sentimientos positivos<\/b><b> sobre alguien sin actuar en consecuencia es beneficioso para su <\/b><b>salud mental<\/b><b>. <\/b>Chemical reactions happening as you\u2019re crushing on someone lift your mood and enrich your fantasy life.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Unhealthy<\/h4>\n<p>Los enamoramientos pueden ayudarte a entenderte a ti mismo, pero <b>pueden ser poco saludables si dejas que dicten tu comportamiento<\/b>. Unless you\u2019re reasonably sure that the other person is interested, confessing your feelings can cause issues. You can end up in an awkward situation, especially<b> si pierdes el inter\u00e9s cuando llegas a conocer a la persona que te gusta<\/b>como ocurre a menudo.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Red flags<\/h4>\n<p>Otro posible problema causado por tener un enamoramiento es que <b>puede hacer que ignores las se\u00f1ales de alarma desde el principio<\/b>. Because of the unrealistic picture you have of this person, you might go on idealizing them even if they turn out not to be anything like what you\u2019ve imagined.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed es como <b>podr\u00edas acabar en una relaci\u00f3n malsana<\/b>aunque tu enamoramiento se convierta en algo m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><b>RELACIONADO:<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/datos-psicologicos-sobre-las-almas-gemelas\/\"> <b>14 <\/b><b>Datos psicol\u00f3gicos sobre las almas gemelas<\/b><b> Que pueden sorprenderle<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<h3>6. \u00bfCu\u00e1les son las mejores formas de superar un enamoramiento?<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-158122 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance.png\" alt=\"mujer pensativa mira a lo lejos\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-1024x684.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-960x641.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-1080x721.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-1200x801.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-1536x1025.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-735x491.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-335x224.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-347x232.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-640x427.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-720x481.png 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-1280x854.png 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pensive-woman-looks-into-the-distance-150x100.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La mejor manera de<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-maneras-de-superar-tu-enamoramiento\/\"> supera tu enamoramiento<\/a> es esperar a que pase. Los aplastamientos terminan, de una forma u otra.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Love<\/h4>\n<p><b>Cuando tu enamoramiento se convierte en amor, se desvanece. <\/b>Lo que esto significa es que, cuando llegues a conocer c\u00f3mo es realmente la persona que te gusta, la historia ficticia que has construido sobre ella se desvanecer\u00e1. Se desvanecer\u00e1 o se convertir\u00e1 en otra cosa.<\/p>\n<p>Algunos enamoramientos se convierten en relaciones. Cuando realmente <b>conectar con alguien<\/b> \u2013 emotionally, physically and mentally \u2013 you don\u2019t feel the need to look for an idealized version you constructed in your mind.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Limerence, continued<\/h4>\n<p>En cambio, un flechazo que implique un sentimiento de limerencia puede durar a\u00f1os. Este tipo de enamoramiento es <b>un indicio de problemas emocionales m\u00e1s profundos<\/b> y podr\u00eda ser necesario tratarlos en terapia.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve had a crush for a long time and feel that it negatively affects your life and mental health, a professional can help you uncover the reason why you\u2019ve been stuck in this situation.<\/p>\n<h3>7. \u00bfCu\u00e1l es la diferencia entre enamoramiento y amor?<\/h3>\n<p>So, what\u2019s the<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/diferencias-entre-amor-y-enamoramiento\/\"> diferencia entre amor y enamoramiento<\/a>? \u00bfPueden coexistir?<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Crush<\/h4>\n<p>A crush happens when you project your wishes onto another person and imagine that they have certain traits you&#8217;re attracted to. <b>Tus sentimientos hacia esta persona no tienen nada que ver con ellos<\/b> and everything to do with the image you&#8217;ve created.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re emotionally invested in this <b>versi\u00f3n idealizada de tu enamoramiento<\/b> y tus hormonas te est\u00e1n haciendo adicta a estos sentimientos. Por eso los enamoramientos son divertidos y excitantes, pero se desvanecen r\u00e1pidamente.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Love<\/h4>\n<p>El amor es mucho m\u00e1s duradero. <b>Cuando quieres a alguien, le quieres y le aceptas tal y como es, con defectos y todo. <\/b>Su felicidad es importante para ti, no s\u00f3lo c\u00f3mo te hace sentir. Enamorarse es conocer a alguien y desarrollar un v\u00ednculo.<\/p>\n<p>El verdadero amor consiste en <b>conexi\u00f3n emocional e intimidad<\/b>. It&#8217;s a feeling that depends on personal attachment and affection. Romantic love can develop from a crush, but a crush usually simply fades away.<\/p>\n<h3>8. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 sue\u00f1as despierto con la persona que te gusta?<\/h3>\n<p>You fantasize about your crush because that\u2019s all they are \u2013 a fantasy. <b>Tu pareja es una persona diferente a la que crees que es<\/b>y tus ideas sobre ellos provienen de tu imaginaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Because your crush is an imaginary personality projected onto someone you\u2019re attracted to, it\u2019s only logical that you daydream about them: <b>they\u2019re a fictional character in a fictional situation<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>Imaginary conversations and situations are better than real ones anyway. When you\u2019re fantasizing, <b>you have control of the setting, the events and the other person\u2019s reactions<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>In real life, what you\u2019re imagining would probably go differently. <b>You can\u2019t predict someone\u2019s behavior<\/b> y lo que ocurrir\u00e1 cuando hables con ellos, pero en tu imaginaci\u00f3n s\u00ed puedes.<\/p>\n<p><b>Daydreaming about your crush isn\u2019t harmful or unhealthy.<\/b> In fact, it\u2019s a fun and safe way to explore what you like, what you\u2019re attracted to and what you\u2019re looking for. The only danger lies in the possibility of focusing too much on your fantasies and ignoring your life.<\/p>\n<h3>9. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 todo te recuerda a tu enamoramiento?<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-158123 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street.png\" alt=\"una hermosa mujer con abrigo camina por la calle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-1024x684.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-960x641.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-1080x721.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-1200x801.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-1536x1025.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-735x491.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-335x224.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-347x232.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-640x427.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-720x481.png 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-1280x854.png 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/a-beautiful-woman-in-a-coat-is-walking-down-the-street-150x100.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You have a crush and suddenly, everything reminds you of them. Wherever you go, you see your crush\u2019s name, the same shirt as the one they\u2019ve worn last time you saw them and you hear their favorite song.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a reason for this. It sounds like one of those weird psychological facts, and it is.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s called the <b>Fen\u00f3meno Baader-Meinhof<\/b> and it\u2019s also known as the <b>ilusi\u00f3n de frecuencia<\/b>: when you become aware of something, you start noticing it everywhere. It was there all along, but you\u2019ve paid attention before.<\/p>\n<p>For instance, if your best friend told you about getting a Shiba Inu, you\u2019ll start noticing this breed of dog <i>en todas partes<\/i>. Su vecino siempre ha tenido uno, pero <b>nunca te diste cuenta<\/b>. Now that you\u2019ve heard your friend\u2019s news, you\u2019re seeing them everywhere you go.<\/p>\n<p>Tu enamoramiento te interesa, as\u00ed que <b>prestas mucha atenci\u00f3n a todo lo relacionado con ellos<\/b>. Not to mention that your crush is always on your mind \u2013 so it\u2019s not surprising that you\u2019re noticing things related to them even if you never really cared about them before.<\/p>\n<h3>10. \u00bfCu\u00e1les son los s\u00edntomas de un enamoramiento?<\/h3>\n<p>Having a crush makes you a little bit obsessed. All the hormones and neurotransmitters are to blame \u2013 <b>aplastamiento se siente intoxicante<\/b>. It\u2019s an addiction that rarely has negative consequences, so it\u2019s no wonder that it makes you want more.<\/p>\n<p><b>Un flechazo es tan estresante como emocionante.<\/b> Luckily, it doesn\u2019t last a very long time. If you recognize yourself in the list below, congratulations, you have a crush.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You think about them all the time. <\/b>You feel weird when you&#8217;re not thinking about your crush.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 Your life revolves around your crush. <\/b>Todo lo que haces puede estar relacionado de alguna manera con ellos.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You talk about them all the time. <\/b>There&#8217;s no conversation you can&#8217;t turn back around to your crush.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You&#8217;re always on the lookout trying to spot them. <\/b>Sales con la \u00fanica intenci\u00f3n de encontrarte con la persona que te gusta.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You fantasize about imaginary situations<\/b> entre t\u00fa y tu enamorado.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You over-analyze all your interactions with your crush. <\/b>Diseccionas cada una de sus palabras y gestos tratando de encontrar significados ocultos.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ley-de-asuncion\/\">hacer suposiciones<\/a><\/b> sobre sus sentimientos y comportamiento que no tienen nada que ver con la realidad.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You&#8217;re way too invested in their <\/b><b>redes sociales<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You look for any excuse to talk to them <\/b>y cada conversaci\u00f3n se convierte en el centro de tu d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You&#8217;re floating on cloud nine<\/b> en todo momento, excepto cuando te preocupa no gustarle a tu enamorado.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You&#8217;re jealous<\/b> de cualquiera que se acerque a ellos.<\/p>\n<p><b>RELACIONADO:<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/50-preguntas-para-que-tu-pareja-se-abra-a-ti\/\"> <b>50 preguntas para que tu enamorado se abra a ti<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Curiosidades sobre los enamoramientos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-158124 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking.png\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sonrientes sentados en la cocina y hablando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-1024x684.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-960x641.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-1080x721.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-1200x801.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-1536x1025.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-735x491.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-335x224.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-347x232.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-640x427.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-720x481.png 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-1280x854.png 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/smiling-man-and-woman-sitting-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-150x100.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here are more facts about crushes \u2013 these are bite-sized!<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 One of the interesting crush facts is that sometimes they\u2019re not romantic at all \u2013 it can just be <b>una se\u00f1al de que quieres acercarte a alguien<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 You might be crushing on someone and <b>nunca tienen ning\u00fan deseo o intenci\u00f3n de mantener una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica<\/b> con ellos. De hecho, esto se aplica a la mayor\u00eda de los enamoramientos.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 It\u2019s possible to have <b>un amigo enamorado<\/b>, although they might feel a little different: you fantasize about someone\u2019s personality and what it would feel like to hang out with them<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Romantic crushes are the most common, even when you don\u2019t want to<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/haz-que-le-gustes-a-la-persona-que-te-gusta\/\"> haz que le gustes a la persona que te gusta<\/a>. <b>Los enamoramientos son intensos, te hacen sentir tan centrado en alguien que nada m\u00e1s importa.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Your mostly likely crush? An acquaintance, a co-worker or a friend of a friend. The bottom line is that it\u2019s going to be <b>someone you see around, but that you don\u2019t know very well<\/b>. Cuando te gusta<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-de-que-tu-novio-es-en-realidad-tu-mejor-amigo\/\"> tu mejor amigo<\/a>, it\u2019s more than a crush.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 Real life<\/b><b> aplasta el ritmo <\/b><b>enamoramientos de famosos<\/b>. Cuando conoces a alguien de quien empiezas a enamorarte, las estrellas de cine pierden su atractivo.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You\u2019re more likely to crush on someone with a <\/b><b>personalidad similar<\/b><b> como el suyo propio <\/b>\u2013 or someone you <i>imagine<\/i> has a similar personality. Similar interests and personality is a good indicator of romantic compatibility, whether you\u2019re crushing or falling in love.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 When you\u2019re crushing on someone, you tend to <b>reflejan su <\/b><b>lenguaje corporal<\/b>. Lo haces inconscientemente para que se sientan m\u00e1s c\u00f3modos y para mostrarles lo parecidos que sois.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Taking mirroring a step further, <b>tambi\u00e9n podr\u00edas imitar a tu enamorado.<\/b> You\u2019re not doing this consciously, but you start to feel attracted to their hobbies or taste.<\/p>\n<p>El objetivo de esto es que os sint\u00e1is unidos el uno al otro y<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-impresionar-a-la-persona-que-te-gusta\/\"> impresiona a tu pareja<\/a> siendo el tipo de persona que comparte sus intereses, pero <b>it\u2019s not done to manipulate your crush. <\/b>Instead, it happens because you\u2019re so fascinated by your crush that everything about them fascinates you as well.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 If they<b> mantener <\/b><b>contacto visual<\/b><b> m\u00e1s tiempo del necesario<\/b>, it\u2019s a good sign that<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-le-gustas-a-la-persona-que-te-gusta\/\"> le gustas a la persona que te gusta<\/a>. If their pupils dilate when they look at you, they like what they\u2019re seeing.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 High <\/b><b>autoestima<\/b><b> te hace m\u00e1s atractivo.<\/b> If you appreciate yourself, you\u2019re signaling to the world that you deserve to be appreciated.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 Flirting increases <\/b><b>confianza en s\u00ed mismo,<\/b> te pone de buen humor y reduce el estr\u00e9s y los sentimientos negativos.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Do you believe in<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-real-el-amor-a-primera-vista\/\"> amor a primera vista<\/a>? Si lo haces, puede que acabes de experimentarlo. <b>No hay normas ni plazos sobre <\/b><b>enamorarse<\/b> \u2013 everyone has their own way and moves at their own pace.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 The anxiety you feel around your crush <b>hace que sea dif\u00edcil mentirles<\/b>. De hecho, te hace propenso a compartir m\u00e1s de la cuenta con la esperanza de desarrollar un v\u00ednculo con ellos m\u00e1s r\u00e1pidamente.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 When you\u2019re interested in someone, you\u2019re interested in everything about them. No topic that involves your crush could ever be boring: <b>quieres saber lo que les gusta y lo que <\/b><b><i>they\u2019re<\/i><\/b><b> como.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Conversely,<b> tambi\u00e9n quieres que tu enamorado te conozca y le gustes<\/b>As\u00ed que hablas de ti siempre que tienes ocasi\u00f3n e intentas presentarte de un modo que a tu pareja le resulte atractivo.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Having a crush or being in love makes you find the object of your affection <b>m\u00e1s atractivo <\/b>than you would if you didn\u2019t have feelings for them. The reason for this is that, when we like someone, we tend to focus on their good sides and ignore the bad sides.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Your body goes into overdrive when you see your crush, so it doesn\u2019t surprise that you might tend to <b>actuar con torpeza<\/b> a su alrededor. Te pones nervioso y empiezas a inquietarte.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 Talking to your crush is difficult:<\/b> Puede que sigas posponi\u00e9ndolo y que, cuando llegues el momento de hablar con ellos, tardes varios intentos en conseguir decir una frase. Puede ser una lucha.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 A<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-razones-por-las-que-el-sentido-del-humor-es-la-mejor-cualidad-que-puedes-tener\/\"> <b>sentido del humor<\/b><\/a> es uno de los rasgos m\u00e1s atractivos que puedes tener. Hacer re\u00edr a la persona que te gusta o re\u00edrte de sus chistes puede acercaros muy r\u00e1pidamente. Un sentido del humor compartido es un indicador de compatibilidad en muchas \u00e1reas.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 You can be in a relationship and have a crush<\/b> on someone else. Most people don\u2019t ever intend to act on their crushes, so this can be an opportunity to examine your relationship.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 Crushes can happen at any age<\/b>aunque normalmente pensemos en algo que les ocurre a los adolescentes.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Finding out that someone likes you can make you like them back. <b>Su <\/b><b>sentimientos positivos<\/b><b> \u00a1hacer que te fijes en ellos!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 The pitch, tone and volume of your voice change when you\u2019re around your crush.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u2022 It\u2019s impossible to force attraction, crush or love. <\/b>Trying to \u2018get\u2019 someone to like you is a waste of time. Instead, focus on someone who returns your feelings.<\/p>\n<p><b>RELACIONADO:<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-juegos-coquetos-jugar-crush\/\"> <b>10 juegos coquetos para jugar con tu pareja<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>It\u2019s Just A Little Crush<\/h2>\n<p>Having a crush is fun and makes life more exciting, as long as you accept it for what it is. Knowing why you feel a certain way doesn\u2019t make it any less thrilling.<\/p>\n<p>La psicolog\u00eda y la neurociencia explican muchos hechos sobre los enamoramientos que parecen inexplicables a primera vista. Sin embargo,<b> this doesn\u2019t take any romance out of how it feels to be crushing on someone.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Doesn\u2019t knowing that your body goes into overdrive around your crush make you feel like it\u2019s even more romantic?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Facts-About-Crushes-Everything-You-Always-Wanted-To-Know-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Datos sobre los enamoramientos: Todo lo que siempre quisiste saber Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-162609\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Facts-About-Crushes-Everything-You-Always-Wanted-To-Know-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Facts-About-Crushes-Everything-You-Always-Wanted-To-Know-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Facts-About-Crushes-Everything-You-Always-Wanted-To-Know-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Facts-About-Crushes-Everything-You-Always-Wanted-To-Know-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Facts-About-Crushes-Everything-You-Always-Wanted-To-Know-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Facts-About-Crushes-Everything-You-Always-Wanted-To-Know-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Facts-About-Crushes-Everything-You-Always-Wanted-To-Know-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Facts-About-Crushes-Everything-You-Always-Wanted-To-Know-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A crush is a brief and intense period of excitement that fills you with anticipation and anxiety. But why does it go away so quickly? Can it turn into something more? Why does having a crush feel like your heart is about to burst? How come you\u2019re daydreaming about someone one day and you can\u2019t&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":158119,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-158118","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Facts-About-Crushes-Everything-You-Always-Wanted-To-Know-1024x684.png",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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