{"id":15813,"date":"2020-08-06T11:41:05","date_gmt":"2020-08-06T11:41:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15813"},"modified":"2022-01-24T12:50:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T12:50:20","slug":"exs-volver-6-razones-principales-quiere-volver","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/exs-volver-6-razones-principales-quiere-volver\/","title":{"rendered":"6 verdaderas razones por las que los hombres casi siempre vuelven"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todas las mujeres han pasado por la misma mierda al menos una vez en su vida.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00edas un chico, hab\u00eda qu\u00edmica, siempre te estaba llamando y enviando mensajes de texto, tal vez incluso estuvisteis saliendo durante un tiempo y luego desapareci\u00f3 en el aire.<\/p>\n

Se hab\u00eda ido, como si hubiera desaparecido de la faz de la Tierra.<\/p>\n

Sentirse rechazado puede quemar tu confianza hasta los cimientos. La idea de que alguien se vaya para alejarse de ti te hace pensar de verdad: “What did I do wrong?”<\/em><\/p>\n

Like the feeling of being unwanted isn’t enough, he also left without an explanation, without a closure.<\/p>\n

Golpeado contra el suelo, neg\u00e1ndose a volver a creer en el amor, tiene que pasar por la etapas de la curaci\u00f3n emocional<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Tienes que pasar por el infierno de olvidar que existe para poder darte otra oportunidad de amor.<\/p>\n

Tienes que llorar en tu cama, tienes que enfadarte con el mundo y contigo misma por enamorarte de un hombre emocionalmente inaccesible. Tienes que aprender a sonre\u00edr de nuevo y perdonarte por haber cometido semejante error.<\/p>\n

This seems like a lot of work to do and it is. It’s a process every person has to go through at least once in a lifetime. You wish you don’t, but most of us do.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, con el tiempo, aprendes a superar todo eso. Aprendes a curarte y a perdonar. Aprendes a dejar atr\u00e1s el pasado.<\/p>\n

Cuando por fin encuentras la paz, \u00bfadivina qui\u00e9n vuelve a llamar a tu puerta?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Oh yeah, it\u2019s him. Now, all of a sudden that you\u2019ve dealt with the fact you are not together anymore, he comes back.<\/p>\n

Aparece como si no hubiera pasado nada, como si te hubieras tomado un descanso porque ten\u00edas que ocuparte de tus propios problemas.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 hacen eso los t\u00edos? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 deciden volver<\/a> right that moment when you’ve finally moved on?<\/em><\/p>\n

Se sienten solos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll probably text you first, using the excuse that they just want to see how you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n

Lo que pasa es que se sienten solos y deprimidos y necesitan saber que a\u00fan te importan, que al menos alguien se preocupa por ellos.<\/p>\n

Y la mejor forma de conseguirlo es volver a contactar contigo.<\/p>\n

Ahora bien, algunas mujeres les creen a ellos y a su repentino cambio de opini\u00f3n y piensan que los hombres como ellos realmente quieren volver a estar juntos, y se sienten halagadas de que un hombre les tienda la mano primero, pero en la mayor\u00eda de los casos no es por eso por lo que se pusieron en contacto contigo.<\/p>\n

They probably contacted you just because they are lonely and in fact, they don’t need anything other than a lousy text back from you.<\/p>\n

Quieren sentirse importantes y saber que a\u00fan lo son.<\/p>\n

Quieren comodidad<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1n atravesando una mala racha y necesitan apoyo emocional.<\/p>\n

Ahora, t\u00fa eres lo \u00faltimo que ten\u00eda y a pesar de que rompisteis, ten\u00edais alg\u00fan tipo de v\u00ednculo emocional y comprensi\u00f3n el uno por el otro.<\/p>\n

Quiere aprovecharse de eso. Te quiere de vuelta s\u00f3lo porque necesita consuelo, un hombro sobre el que llorar.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll probably vent out all of his problems on you and disappear again, like he did the first time.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t fall for that, especially after you\u2019ve been through hell and back to get over him. Men like him never change.<\/p>\n

Necesitan confirmaci\u00f3n de su autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Being single can provoke some nasty feelings in you. You can feel unwanted and ugly when the truth is far from it but somehow you can\u2019t shake off that lousy feeling.<\/p>\n

Esa es una de las razones por las que tu ex quiere que vuelvas. Probablemente se siente como una mierda, su autoestima est\u00e1 por debajo de cero y quiere algo de validaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

No hay mejor lugar para encontrarlo que contigo, que volviendo a algo que \u00e9l ya conoce.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t fall into this trap because this is a selfish act. He doesn\u2019t want you back for you, but for himself, to make himself feel better.<\/p>\n

Olvidaron por qu\u00e9 rompieron en primer lugar.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

There was a reason people break up. He was unhappy, and maybe he told you what the problem was, maybe he didn’t but it doesn\u2019t matter anyway.<\/p>\n

La cuesti\u00f3n es que your relationship didn\u2019t work out<\/a> por alguna raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Pero ahora te quiere de vuelta de repente. \u00bfSabes lo que suele pasar?<\/p>\n

Pasado un tiempo, la soledad y la falta de apoyo emocional te llevan a pensar en tu relaci\u00f3n anterior y en lo estupenda que fue.<\/p>\n

Time heals all wounds, that\u2019s true, but it also idealizes the past.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what he is doing. He is remembering only the good things in your relationship and he is probably wondering why you broke up in the first place.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s the trick; then you get back together, and after the initial thrill of the new relationship wears off, the old problems come barging in and you remember why you broke up.<\/p>\n

This, of course, leads to yet another break-up, where you\u2019ll have even bigger problems to deal with.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quieren sexo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

This one is easy. Men like him only want to get back with you because they want sex. He\u2019s stuck in a bit of a dry spell and he wants some action on the side.<\/p>\n

Logically, you are the first person he\u2019ll come running to because he thinks you give in easily since you are probably still emotionally attached to him.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stoop that low because he\u2019ll just use you and toss you away like he did the first time.<\/p>\n

Se dieron cuenta de que cometieron un error<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

This is the least probable one, but we’ll give it a try. Maybe he truly realized he made a mistake and he regrets his past actions and he realmente<\/em> te quiere de vuelta.<\/p>\n

Maybe he was completely miserable from the moment he broke up with you but he didn\u2019t know how to get you back.<\/p>\n

If you see that his intentions are true, if you see that he is not broken, insecure or just lonely, then he’s probably come to his senses and he wants to admit what a jerk he was for letting you go.<\/p>\n

But in the end, you are the one who decides whether you\u2019re going to give him another chance or not. you have to be damn sure about him if you take him back.<\/p>\n

if you’re not, you’re risking another heartbreak, some more tears and a long healing road ahead.<\/p>\n

\"6<\/p>\n

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