{"id":15837,"date":"2020-06-06T12:27:49","date_gmt":"2020-06-06T12:27:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15837"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:09:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:09:38","slug":"broken-girls-blossom-warriors","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/broken-girls-blossom-warriors\/","title":{"rendered":"Las ni\u00f1as rotas se convierten en guerreras"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I thought you and I would last a lifetime and I really believed in our love. Even when you weren\u2019t treating me the way you should have, I was always justifying your behavior because I wanted for us to succeed.<\/p>\n<p>Quer\u00eda que sigui\u00e9ramos juntos e hice todo lo que estaba en mi mano para retenerte. Me manipulaste haci\u00e9ndome creer que me necesitabas en tu vida y que todos los problemas que ten\u00edamos eran s\u00f3lo culpa m\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p><b>Estaba dispuesto a llevar el peso del mundo sobre mis hombros por tu bien.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pero nunca igualaste mis esfuerzos. Me entregu\u00e9 completamente a ti y, en lugar de apreciarlo, te aprovechaste de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Para ti, nuestra relaci\u00f3n nunca fue tan importante como para m\u00ed. Te gustaba tener a alguien siempre a tu disposici\u00f3n, alguien que siempre te pusiera en primer lugar.<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando me dejaste, nunca miraste atr\u00e1s, como si yo nunca hubiera existido.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104362\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-leaving-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre dejando a una mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-leaving-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-leaving-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-leaving-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-leaving-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-leaving-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Cuando te fuiste por primera vez, pens\u00e9 que era lo peor que me pod\u00eda pasar.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Some may say I am exaggerating but the pain you put me through was stronger than anything I\u2019d experienced before. It was even stronger than the love I felt for you.<\/p>\n<p>I felt like my heart and soul were tearing into pieces. I was even feeling physical pain \u2014 I thought I couldn\u2019t live or breathe without you.<\/p>\n<p>Soon, I became a wreck of the woman I used to be. I was ruined and there was nothing I could do about it. It was simple \u2014 I wasn\u2019t complete without you by my side anymore.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/you-broke-me\/\"> Me rompiste <\/a> y no hab\u00eda nadie cerca para ayudarme a juntar las piezas.<\/p>\n<p>After everything I\u2019d been through, after more sleepless nights than I could count, after all the tears I cried for you, I realized <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/melissa-remo\/2016\/01\/when-you-feel-like-youre-waiting-for-something-that-will-never-happen\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> Esperaba algo que nunca llegar\u00eda<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104364\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sumida en profundos pensamientos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Me di cuenta de que yo era la \u00fanica que pod\u00eda salvarme. Yo era el \u00fanico que pod\u00eda pegarme de nuevo.<\/p>\n<p>That is when my path to recovery started. After all I\u2019d been through, I finally saw my true worth.<\/p>\n<p>Fue como si me viera claramente por primera vez. Vi lo guapa e inteligente que era. Vi todo de lo que era capaz. Pero sobre todo, <b>Vi lo fuerte y poderosa que era realmente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, en lugar de pensar en nuestra ruptura como mi derrota, decid\u00ed observarla como una valiosa lecci\u00f3n de vida y decid\u00ed sacar lo mejor de ella.<\/p>\n<p>If you hadn\u2019t left me, I would never have known what love shouldn\u2019t look like. I would never have realized that a man who could never <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/youre-not-ready-love-let-go\/\"> ama todo de mi <\/a> didn\u2018t deserve me.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca me habr\u00eda dado cuenta de que era v\u00edctima de tu manipulaci\u00f3n emocional.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104367\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven llorando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you hadn\u2019t walked away from me, I would never have known my true worth. You tried very hard to destroy my confidence and you almost succeeded.<\/p>\n<p>Casi me convenciste de que no serv\u00eda para nada y eso me hizo mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de romper. Si te hubieras quedado a mi lado, a\u00fan estar\u00eda agradecida de haberte tenido y nunca habr\u00eda visto tus verdaderos colores.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you hadn\u2019t left me, I would never have known how much I could take.<\/b> Nunca habr\u00eda sabido lo fuerte y valiente que era.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca habr\u00eda sabido que era capaz de vivir mi vida sola. Nunca habr\u00eda <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/time-embrace-single-life\/\"> abrazado a mi vida de soltero <\/a> ni lo habr\u00eda disfrutado.<\/p>\n<p>If you hadn\u2019t left me, I would never have become the woman I am today. I would forever be an insecure, little girl who couldn\u2019t picture her life without you.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca me habr\u00eda convertido en la mujer fuerte e independiente que soy hoy.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104369\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pretty-woman-breathing-fresh-air.jpg\" alt=\"bonita mujer respirando aire fresco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pretty-woman-breathing-fresh-air.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pretty-woman-breathing-fresh-air-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pretty-woman-breathing-fresh-air-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pretty-woman-breathing-fresh-air-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pretty-woman-breathing-fresh-air-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I would never have learned that I was the only one who could make myself happy and I would never have known that I don\u2019t need a man in my life to make it complete.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you hadn\u2019t left me, I would never have become the warrior I am today.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>So, this is for all of you girls out there. I know you think that you\u2019ll never recover from the pain some guy has caused you.<\/p>\n<p>But trust me \u2014 you will. I know you think your heart is broken forever, but here is something that might help you mend your broken heart: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hypnosisdownloads.com\/grief-loss\/broken-heart\" rel=\"noopener\">Arregla tu coraz\u00f3n roto y vuelve a disfrutar de la vida<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Although you don\u2019t believe me now, trust me \u2014 you\u2019ll get out of this stronger than ever. Sooner or later, all broken girls blossom into warriors.<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando lo hacen, no hay nada ni nadie que pueda detenerlos. S\u00f3lo cuando esto ocurre se dan cuenta de que s\u00f3lo deben luchar por s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104359\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Broken-Girls-Blossom-Into-Warriors-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Las ni\u00f1as rotas se convierten en guerreras\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Broken-Girls-Blossom-Into-Warriors-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Broken-Girls-Blossom-Into-Warriors-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Broken-Girls-Blossom-Into-Warriors-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I thought you and I would last a lifetime and I really believed in our love. Even when you weren\u2019t treating me the way you should have, I was always justifying your behavior because I wanted for us to succeed. I wanted for us to stay together and I did everything in my power to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":104373,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15837","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Broken-Girls-Blossom-Into-Warriors.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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