{"id":158380,"date":"2025-01-10T12:15:00","date_gmt":"2025-01-10T11:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=158380"},"modified":"2025-01-10T00:05:38","modified_gmt":"2025-01-09T23:05:38","slug":"como-tratan-los-narcisistas-a-sus-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-tratan-los-narcisistas-a-sus-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"12 maneras descaradas en que los narcisistas tratan a sus ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Every breakup is hard, no matter if you were in a relationship with a \u2018\u2018normal\u2019\u2019 person or a narcissist. Even if you broke up under normal circumstances, you would have a hard time dealing with the breakup.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 ocurre si un narcisista rompe contigo? \u00bfTe has preguntado alguna vez c\u00f3mo tratan los narcisistas a sus ex?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ser ex amante de un narcisista nunca es f\u00e1cil. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Bueno, un narcisista nunca te dejar\u00e1 en paz.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este art\u00edculo trata sobre las diferentes, descaradas y duras formas en que un narcisista se comporta y trata a alguien despu\u00e9s de una ruptura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u00a1Mentiras y s\u00f3lo mentiras!<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"\u00a1Mentiras
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Todos conocemos los oscuros rasgos de personalidad de todo narcisista. Pero, \u00bfc\u00f3mo se comporta un narcisista cuando se acerca a su ex? \u00bfEs algo diferente?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La respuesta es no. Probablemente tienen el peor comportamiento hacia sus ex parejas, no importa c\u00f3mo termin\u00f3 la relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uno de los posibles m\u00e9todos de venganza es la mentira. Como les hiciste da\u00f1o al romper con ellos y herir su ego, mentir\u00e1n sobre todo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En primer lugar, mentir\u00e1n sobre la ruptura. Dir\u00e1n que han roto contigo. Adem\u00e1s, mentir\u00e1n sobre c\u00f3mo eras t\u00fa en la relaci\u00f3n. Mantener su reputaci\u00f3n es tan vital para ellos que hace que se vuelvan a\u00fan m\u00e1s ego\u00edstas y est\u00e9n dispuestos a mentir para lograrlo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Juegos mentales<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Es bastante com\u00fan que un ex narcisista para jugar juegos mentales<\/a>. Los juegos mentales son acciones o comentarios destinados a herir, enga\u00f1ar o confundir a otra persona para beneficiar con frecuencia al individuo que los utiliza.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En otras palabras, las personas que participan en juegos mentales intentan influir en ti psicol\u00f3gicamente para conseguir sus objetivos.<\/strong> Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 un narcisista jugar\u00eda juegos mentales contigo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quieren volver a tener el control. Jugando juegos mentales, los narcisistas empiezan a manipular<\/a> your emotions and make you do things you normally wouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe they saw on social media that you\u2019re doing well and moving on, or te vieron con otra persona<\/a> y quieren recuperar la influencia emocional que ten\u00edan sobre ti durante tu relaci\u00f3n narcisista.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Chantaje<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Chantaje\"
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Another effective tool in the narcissist’s arsenal is blackmail. Have you ever shown them private photos? Have you ever sent them risky text messages? Have you ever made videos while making love?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00f3lo para mencionar antes de cualquier malentendido innecesario, no hay nada malo en dise\u00f1ar tu vida sexual como quieras.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yet, if you are already doing this with your partner, firstly, you need to be sure that they won\u2019t send it to anybody or blackmail you afterward.<\/strong> En toda relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica, es importante crear confianza<\/a> y luego hacer cosas arriesgadas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, if you hadn\u2019t built up enough trust at the time you recorded those videos, you will probably have un problema con tu ex narcisista chantajeando<\/a> a ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Van y vienen<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Van
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Nunca debes confiar en un narcisista. Sobre todo si vuelven al poco tiempo para marcharse de nuevo. \u00bfEsto le dice algo? Bueno, esto ya es una bandera roja. Pero d\u00e9jame elaborar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En primer lugar, una raz\u00f3n podr\u00eda ser que simplemente les encanta el ciclo de bombardeo amoroso y luego ghosting usted<\/a>. They love how you fall for it every single time and how you don\u2019t have any sense of self-worth when it comes to the relationship you two have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00ed, este es un signo de un psic\u00f3pata<\/a>como puedes ver. Adem\u00e1s, es habitual que inicien una nueva relaci\u00f3n pero en el momento en que les dejan, intentan volver a ti<\/a> s\u00f3lo para satisfacer su ego.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Please, don\u2019t fall for this, and try to always conoce tu autoestima<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. \u00bfPodemos al menos ser amigos?<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"\u00bfPodemos
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Imag\u00ednate, por fin has tomado la decisi\u00f3n de alejar completamente a un narcisista de tu vida<\/a>. Pas\u00f3 alg\u00fan tiempo y no tuvisteis contacto. Pero de repente, vienen a ti con la idea de ser amigos<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In order to use you (or your body) once more, they want to keep in contact with you to determine if or when you’ll become more susceptible to them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Actuar\u00e1n como si quisieran reiniciar la relaci\u00f3n y te dir\u00e1n que te echan de menos, pero en realidad lo \u00fanico que quieren es revolcarse de vez en cuando contigo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pero adem\u00e1s de esto, quieren mantener la puerta abierta, ya que pueden necesitar un favor, un impulso de ego o ayuda con algo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. \u2018\u2018It\u2019s your fault we broke up\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Su narcisismo les dice que siempre es culpa tuya, incluso ahora que hab\u00e9is roto. Te culpar\u00e1n de todo<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They will feel the famous narcissistic rage and try to control and influence you even after you break up. They will not be able to accept that they are responsible for the breakup and that you\u2019ve finally realized how bad a person they are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Como carecen de empat\u00eda, puedes esperar que te digan cosas horribles e incluso que te amenacen. Asume la culpa si quieren se\u00f1alarte con el dedo; eso har\u00e1 que dejen de hablar de ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y lo m\u00e1s importante es que seas consciente de cu\u00e1l es realmente la verdad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. \u2018\u2018I promise it won\u2019t happen again\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\""Te
Canva<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Cuando los narcisistas se han hartado de rabietas y amenazas, con frecuencia se dan la vuelta y empiezan a hacer promesas vac\u00edas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They’ll tell you what you want to hear and shower you with promises. They are attending counseling! They have undergone a transformation. They are just not the same person. They\u2019ve learned their lesson and are now ready to give you everything you deserve and more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They know it’s their fault, too, and this time, it will be different. This is the starter pack edition every narcissist with fake promises will deliver.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You should never trust the hype. No, they won\u2019t change. They don\u2019t think it\u2019s their fault, and everything will be exactly or even worse than the last time. It’s simply another form of control. They want to lock you in a fly trap so that they can start playing mind games again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Da\u00f1o a la reputaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Da\u00f1os
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Cuando un narcisista ve que no sirven de nada las falsas promesas, intentar\u00e1 hacerte la vida lo m\u00e1s miserable posible. Y la mejor forma de hacerlo es persiguiendo tu reputaci\u00f3n. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los narcisistas sacan a relucir a sus ex parejas? Simplemente porque disfrutan destrozando a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aumenta su autoestima y combate los pensamientos de inadecuaci\u00f3n. As\u00ed que cuando rompas con un narcisista, prep\u00e1rate para que se lance a la yugular.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alguien con NPD utilizar\u00e1 cualquier plataforma de medios sociales que pueda s\u00f3lo para degradarte. Buscar\u00e1n venganza porque has herido su ego.<\/strong> Querr\u00e1n arruinar cualquier relaci\u00f3n futura que puedas tener.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y tambi\u00e9n tu relaci\u00f3n con la familia y los amigos y c\u00f3mo te ven. As\u00ed que prep\u00e1rate para ello. Ten una conversaci\u00f3n con tus seres queridos y prep\u00e1ralos. Afortunadamente, este periodo de ira narcisista suele pasar r\u00e1pidamente. Pronto cambian de estrategia o se centran en otra persona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Utilizan t\u00e1cticas furtivas para atraerte de nuevo<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Utilizan
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You may find it unusual, but trust me, an incredible love life can also be a way for a narcissist to come back into your life. There are several theories as to why this is the case, both psychological and scientific. However, they aren\u2019t yet fully understood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whatever the reason, they frequently use their charming powers as a cunning tactic after a breakup. It’s their intention to draw you back into their web.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Please try your best to fend off their attempts by standing tall! When it comes to intimacy, you shouldn\u2019t keep the door open, as they will only use you for those purposes and then leave you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esto puede tener un graves efectos en su salud mental<\/a> y la autoestima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Te subestimar\u00e1n a ti y a tus capacidades<\/h2>\n\n\n
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S\u00ed, los narcisistas son maestros de la manipulaci\u00f3n. Algunas de sus t\u00e1cticas comienzan incluso en las primeras etapas de una nueva relaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La primera etapa es la idealizaci\u00f3n y bombardeo de amor<\/a>. This is the stage where they will shower you with compliments, gifts, and promises. This won’t last for too long.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En un esfuerzo por disminuir y minimizar a su c\u00f3nyuge, comenzar\u00e1n a humillarle y criticarle, con frecuencia delante de otras personas.<\/strong> Esto s\u00f3lo disminuir su confianza<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Their sense of superiority won\u2019t let them do anything different, as they believe that they are always the best. The final stage is known as the \u2018\u2018discard\u2019<\/em>\u2019 stage. This happens when the narcissist has satisfied their own needs and is now ready to do the exact same thing to a new partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Acoso constante<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Acoso
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“Without me, you are nothing. What will you do? I’m the best, and you won’t find anyone else. You require my protection!”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

These are some classic phrases you\u2019ll hear from a narcissist after a breakup. They will never leave you alone because harassing you will aumentar su ego<\/a> y aumentar su sentimiento de superioridad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aunque pueda parecer contraproducente, los narcisistas hacen comentarios despectivos porque, en el fondo, son totalmente inseguros.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Manipulaci\u00f3n emocional<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Manipulaci\u00f3n
Canva<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Prep\u00e1rate para recibir un mont\u00f3n de manipulaci\u00f3n emocional<\/a> si rompes con un narcisista.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your narcissistic ex will use every tactic at their disposal to pounce on your vulnerabilities and exploit your insecurities. They’ll frequently bring up sensitive subjects to make you feel uncomfortable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo har\u00e1n tanto de forma evidente como en secreto. Incluso si cortas con ellos por completo, pueden pasar unos meses hasta que terminen completamente contigo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfPuede un narcisista ser fiel? Todo lo que debe saber<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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