But the real question is: Why do guys like situationships? What\u2019s in it for them?<\/strong> \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 un hombre normal de hoy en d\u00eda prefiere las citas espor\u00e1dicas a las verdaderas? Esto es lo que he averiguado:<\/p>\n I talked to some of my male friends and asked them, \u201cWhy do guys like situationships?\u201d Everything they told me can be summed up in these 14 answers:<\/p>\n Men are natural hunters. You know what guy likes you the most? The one who knows he can\u2019t have you. Or, to be exact, the one who has to perseguirte.<\/a><\/p>\n When you get into a real relationship, there is no more chasing. What a relief, you must think. Well, it\u2019s like that for mature people. On the other hand, immature boys are addicted to the thrill of the chase.<\/strong><\/p>\n And that\u2019s exactly what they never stop getting in an Tipo de relaci\u00f3n FWB<\/a>. Nunca saben qu\u00e9 ocurrir\u00e1 a continuaci\u00f3n ni qu\u00e9 les deparar\u00e1 el ma\u00f1ana.<\/strong><\/p>\n Esta adrenalina mantiene a un chico enganchado a ti. As\u00ed, las mariposas pr\u00e1cticamente nunca desaparecen.<\/p>\n If a man is being honest, this is probably one of the most common answers he\u2019ll give to the question of \u201cWhy do guys like situationships?\u201d As complicated as it might seem, it\u2019s actually one of the simplest things in the world: les gusta obtenerlo todo sin dar nada a cambio.<\/strong><\/p>\n B\u00e1sicamente, you\u2019re giving a guy all the benefits of a relationship without him actually calling you his girlfriend.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re there when he wants to go out on a date, he has someone to text whenever he feels like it, someone to travel with, and someone to call in the middle of the night when all of his friends are busy.<\/p>\n He has a girl to cuddle with, a girl to sleep next to, a girl to kiss, and, let\u2019s face it, most importantly, a girl he has at his disposal as a llamada de bot\u00edn<\/a>. Este chico tiene a alguien que le quiere, le cuida y realiza todas las tareas de novia.<\/p>\n And what does he give you in return? That\u2019s right: one, big, nothing. You have no right to nag him or be jealous.<\/p>\n When you call him out for not giving you enough attention or forgetting your birthday, he just tells you that you\u2019re not in a serious relationship. He doesn\u2019t have to show up to change your flat tire, nor is he obligated to be your plus one at important events.<\/p>\n Has it ever occurred to you that you\u2019re dealing with problemas de pareja<\/a> with someone you\u2019re not in a relationship with?<\/p>\n A algunos hombres les aterroriza la idea de que comprometerse en una relaci\u00f3n signifique perder toda su libertad. A estos hombres se les llama \"f\u00f3bicos al compromiso\", y solo van de una situaci\u00f3n a otra.<\/p>\n They prefer casual dating over the real deal because they don\u2019t feel any responsibility until they actually define tu romance<\/a>.<\/p>\n Lo m\u00e1s gracioso es cuando un fobia al compromiso<\/a> act\u00faa como tu novio. Te manda mensajes todo el tiempo, disfruta pasando tiempo contigo e incluso est\u00e1 celoso de otros chicos de tu vida. B\u00e1sicamente, ustedes dos est\u00e1n en una relaci\u00f3n, pero nunca le dieron un t\u00edtulo real.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sin embargo, cuando le pides que haga las cosas oficiales, sale corriendo.<\/strong> It\u2019s like he assumes that you\u2019ll tie him up and take away all of his freedom the moment he agrees to be your actual boyfriend.<\/p>\n \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 a los hombres les gustan las situaciones de pareja? Bueno, para muchos chicos, casi relaciones<\/a> are actually just an excuse to \u201clegally\u201d cheat. Let\u2019s face it \u2013 you can be jealous all you want, but you don’t have the right to express your jealousy because you\u2019re not this man\u2019s official girlfriend.<\/p>\n He might be having casual sex and one-night stands with random girls, and that\u2019s technically not considered cheating. He is allowed to be on Tinder and other online dating apps, and you don\u2019t have a say in it.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re not allowed to check his phone, ask him about his whereabouts, or nag him about girls he follows on Instagram, Snapchat, and other social media platforms. You two are amigos con derecho a roce<\/a>y tiene derecho a actuar as\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n At least, that\u2019s what he says when you confront him about all the other women in his life. Not only that: he reminds you that you agreed to these terms and that you\u2019re free to do whatever you want as well.<\/p>\n And when you come to think about it \u2013 he\u2019s not wrong. I mean, you did choose this kind of love life for yourself.<\/p>\n A los hombres les gustan las relaciones situacionales porque as\u00ed pueden mantener abiertas sus opciones<\/a>. \u00bfAcabar\u00e1n saliendo contigo? \u00bfO aparecer\u00e1 otra mujer m\u00e1s conveniente en el \u00faltimo momento? \u00bfQui\u00e9n sabe?<\/p>\n In this scenario, a guy is keeping you as his backup plan. I know that this sounds harsh, but he\u2019ll give you the title of his girlfriend if nobody better shows up by the time he gets tired of his bachelor life.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00bfY mientras tanto? Bueno, \u00e9l es libre de hacer lo que quiera sin importarle un bledo tu bienestar.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s another reason men choose situationships: they\u2019re emocionalmente no disponible<\/a>. You meet a guy who is simply not ready for a relationship because he is still not over his ex, or he doesn\u2019t feel capable of opening up to someone new.<\/p>\n It\u2019s a good thing if he\u2019s honest from the start. You should appreciate him telling you the truth and asking you not to expect much.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, it doesn\u2019t mean that you should stick with this man, especially if it\u2019s likely that you\u2019ll build an emotional connection with him.<\/p>\n In fact, most guys who claim to be emotionally unavailable are actually walking red flags. Deep down, they want you to fight for them and give them your everything. At the same time, you\u2019re expected to understand that they can\u2019t give you their love back.<\/p>\n Muchos de mis amigos varones dicen que las relaciones situacionales son mucho m\u00e1s divertidas que las relaciones reales. Quiero decir.., you\u2019re only getting the good parts of the romantic relationship. You get the butterflies, you have the chase, and you have regular sex.<\/strong><\/p>\n But there is no fighting over everyday things, like who will take out the trash or who liked another person\u2019s photo on social media. There is no jealousy, no neediness, and no responsibility.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re in a situationship, you\u2019re not required to see your partner on a regular basis. You don\u2019t have to stay and listen to them nag, and you don\u2019t have to put up with their annoying friends and family.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t have to hold their hand during hard times, and you don\u2019t have to be at their disposal when they need you. Also, when you want to break up, you don\u2019t have to think of how you\u2019ll do it. You just disappear from each other\u2019s lives, and that\u2019s about it.<\/p>\n There is no such thing as falling into a rut. The moment the excitement is gone, you\u2019re gone as well.<\/strong><\/p>\n Let\u2019s get one thing clear: if a man knows that you care for him, but he keeps enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote<\/a> con esta situaci\u00f3n, he doesn\u2019t care<\/a> sobre tus sentimientos. The harsh truth is that he doesn\u2019t love you enough to make you his girlfriend.<\/strong><\/p>\n Debe estar dici\u00e9ndote que es no est\u00e1 preparado para una relaci\u00f3n<\/a> right now. Well, guess what? He\u2019s no est\u00e1 preparada para una relaci\u00f3n contigo.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Does he care that he\u2019s hurting you? Absolutely not! Does he feel guilty for ruining your mental health? No! Does he give a damn about putting you through this heartbreak? Also no.<\/p>\n Well, if he loved you, he wouldn\u2019t be immune to your pain. He\u2019d do everything in his power to make you happy. Instead, he\u2019s only making you miserable!<\/p>\n This is something not many men will admit, but the truth is that situationships boost their self-esteem. Of course, I\u2019m talking about the ones they initiate.<\/p>\n If your almost-boyfriend sees that you\u2019re ready to stay with him, even though he refuses to give you what you want and deserve, he sees himself as Apollo. He thinks of himself as irresistible.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re there, begging him to give you migajas de su atenci\u00f3n<\/a>. You\u2019re there, loving him despite his behavior and despite the fact that he doesn\u2019t love you back.<\/p>\n Everything happens according to his terms. He can see other girls, while you only have eyes for him. Basically, he can do whatever he wants, and you\u2019ll stick by his side, no matter what.<\/p>\n \u00bfEsto le convierte en un ser humano horrible y t\u00f3xico? Absolutamente, s\u00ed, pero un ser humano horrible y t\u00f3xico seguro de s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 a los chicos les gustan las relaciones sentimentales? Bueno, una de las razones es el hecho de que casi las relaciones les alivian de las obligaciones de novio.<\/p>\n Your almost-boyfriend doesn\u2019t have to put any effort into keeping you by his side. All he has to do is text you, and you\u2019ll appear on his doorstep in a matter of minutes.<\/strong><\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t have to buy you flowers on a regular basis, nor is he expected to throw you romantic surprises. He doesn\u2019t have the \u201cresponsibility\u201d of sending you a good morning and a good night text every day.<\/strong><\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t have to make time in his tight schedule to see you. He can go on a trip with his friends without even notifying you, let alone consulting you.<\/p>\n The list is pretty much endless, but I guess you see where I\u2019m going. This man invests no energy in your situationship.<\/p>\n A situationship doesn\u2019t always have to be toxic. In fact, it is only toxic when it\u2019s not a mutual agreement. What does this mean?<\/p>\n Well, if you\u2019re in a situationship with a man just because he wants it, then it\u2019s toxic and unhealthy. At the same time, you would give anything for you two to be in a relaci\u00f3n real<\/a>, but you\u2019re settling for less this way.<\/p>\n You know that if you give him an ultimatum to make you his girlfriend or leave, you will lose him forever. So you assume that it\u2019s better to have him this way than not have him at all.<\/p>\n Por supuesto, en secreto esperas que pronto se conviertan en una pareja de verdad. \u00bfY qu\u00e9 pasa con \u00e9l? En vez de ser justo y dejarte marchar, te mantiene como su plan de respaldo<\/a> en caso de que no aparezca nada mejor.<\/p>\n Si esto es algo con lo que te puedes identificar, no hay duda de que tu situaci\u00f3n es t\u00f3xica.<\/p>\n S\u00ed, situationships can be healthy \u2013 if all people involved agree on having things this way.<\/strong> Sometimes, both you and the guy you\u2019re seeing enjoy spending time together without defining your relationship status. But this is what you really both want \u2013 you didn\u2019t agree to it to protect your egos and not look desperate.<\/p>\n Si todas las cartas est\u00e1n sobre la mesa desde el principio, la relaci\u00f3n puede ser sana. Por supuesto, si uno de los dos cambia de opini\u00f3n de repente, hay que ser sincero al respecto. Comunica tus necesidades y deseos, y no habr\u00e1 problemas por el camino.<\/p>\n I\u2019ll be honest with you: m\u00e1s las relaciones circunstanciales nunca se convierten en relaciones duraderas.<\/a><\/strong> In fact, the most likely scenario is that you will fall in love with your almost-boyfriend, while he won\u2019t form an emotional connection. Just like that, you are left heartbroken.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, this doesn\u2019t mean that it\u2019s impossible for an almost-relationship to turn into a healthy relationship. In fact, some one-night stands end up in long-term marriages. Basically, it all depends on the couple.<\/strong><\/p>\n\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 a los hombres les gustan las situaciones?<\/h2>\n
1. La emoci\u00f3n de la persecuci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Beneficios de la relaci\u00f3n sin la relaci\u00f3n real<\/h3>\n
3. F\u00f3bicos al compromiso<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. \u201cLegal\u201d cheating<\/h3>\n
5. Mantener abiertas sus opciones<\/h3>\n
6. Hombres emocionalmente no disponibles<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n7. It\u2019s more fun<\/h3>\n
8. They don\u2019t love you enough<\/h3>\n
9. Aumenta su ego<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n10. Menos esfuerzo<\/h3>\n
\u00bfEs una situaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00bfEs sana una situaci\u00f3n de pareja?<\/h2>\n
\u00bfLas situaciones se convierten en relaciones?<\/h2>\n
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