{"id":15853,"date":"2018-03-06T13:27:22","date_gmt":"2018-03-06T13:27:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15853"},"modified":"2022-03-04T10:52:24","modified_gmt":"2022-03-04T10:52:24","slug":"significaba-permanecer-juntos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/significaba-permanecer-juntos\/","title":{"rendered":"Si hubi\u00e9ramos estado hechos el uno para el otro, habr\u00edamos seguido juntos"},"content":{"rendered":"

I was always someone who believed in fairy tales. I thought true love could conquer and defeat everything and everyone, just if it was strong enough. I don\u2019t think I looked at life through rose-colored glasses<\/span>\u2014<\/span>Esperaba que fuera dif\u00edcil y desafiante, pero cre\u00eda en los finales felices.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero, sobre todo, cre\u00eda en nuestro final feliz. <\/b><\/p>\n

Yo cre\u00eda en el destino. Siempre pens\u00e9 que nada ocurre sin una raz\u00f3n y que cada persona que se cruza en nuestro camino tiene un prop\u00f3sito en nuestra vida. Cre\u00eda en el destino y en que todo lo que ocurre en nuestra vida est\u00e1 predestinado a ser.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero sobre todo, cre\u00eda que eras mi destino.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cre\u00eda en las almas gemelas y cre\u00eda que s\u00f3lo hab\u00eda una persona destinada a ser para todos. Y no importa lo que pase y a donde te lleve la vida, esta es la persona para ti.<\/span>\u2014<\/span>esta es tu persona para siempre<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero sobre todo, cre\u00eda que eras mi alma gemela.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cre\u00eda que eras la indicada para m\u00ed. Cre\u00eda que est\u00e1bamos hechos el uno para el otro.<\/span><\/p>\n

When we first met, I put all of my cards on the table. When I saw you, I felt like I\u2019d known you for my entire life. I felt like you were the one I had been waiting for all along<\/span>\u2014<\/span>eras la pieza que me faltaba. Vi todas las se\u00f1ales de que eras definitivamente mi alma gemela. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lo que ten\u00edamos era<\/span> impresionante. Lo pens\u00e9 entonces y lo sigo pensando ahora<\/span>\u2014<\/span>ten\u00edamos un amor sin igual. Nos <\/span>se completaron mutuamente<\/span><\/a> de una manera extra\u00f1a, como si fu\u00e9ramos una sola alma en dos cuerpos. Todo era como en las pel\u00edculas<\/span>\u2014<\/span>we finished off each other\u2019s sentences, we understood and supported each other. And most of all, nos quer\u00edamos<\/a> incondicionalmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como dije, todo fue como en las pel\u00edculas. Todo, excepto el final.<\/b><\/p>\n

Siempre que ves a dos personas que comparten un amor y una conexi\u00f3n tan intensos como los nuestros, esperas que acaben juntos. Esperas un final feliz. Pero el nuestro fue todo menos feliz.<\/span>
\n<\/span>If someone had asked me why we didn\u2019t work out, I swear I wouldn\u2019t know the answer. All I know is that we both got tired of fighting all the time. We got tired of each other\u2019s stubbornness, of each other\u2019s jealousy and each other\u2019s hot temper. We were so much alike and we started to hate our own flaws once we found them in one another. But if someone had asked me what the last straw was that killed us, I wouldn\u2019t know. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que s\u00e9 es que me odi\u00e9 durante mucho tiempo por no esforzarme m\u00e1s. Te odi\u00e9 a\u00fan m\u00e1s por seguir adelante<\/a> con tu vida mientras yo a\u00fan intentaba recoger lo que quedaba de m\u00ed. Y odiaba al universo. Culp\u00e9 al destino de todo lo que hab\u00eda pasado, porque estaba segura de que est\u00e1bamos destinados a estar juntos.<\/span><\/p>\n

You were my soulmate, my forever person, my love, my Mr. Right, so how come we didn\u2019t work out?<\/span><\/p>\n

Durante uno de mis lamentos, un amigo me dijo: <\/span>\u201cIf the two of you were meant to be, you would have stayed together.\u201d<\/b> Al principio, me enfad\u00e9 con ella. \u00bfQui\u00e9n era ella para decirme algo as\u00ed? Por supuesto que est\u00e1bamos destinados a estar juntos<\/span>\u2014<\/span>for God\u2019s sake, we were made for each other, everyone could see that. She just didn\u2019t understand it because she had never experienced something similar to our love.<\/span><\/p>\n

But after a while, I grew to realize that she was actually right. It was one of the hardest things I had to face in life, that we were really not meant to be. For me, it was more difficult to accept this notion than the fact that we didn\u2019t work out. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esto fue lo que m\u00e1s me ayud\u00f3. <\/span><\/p>\n

Me di cuenta de que nunca podr\u00eda avanzar hasta que dejara de mirar al pasado. <\/span><\/p>\n

I realized I had become trapped in thinking what could have been and what might have been. I was mourning all the years we wouldn\u2019t spend together more than the time we did spend side by side. I was crying about the house we would never move into, about the kids we would never have and about the future we would never have together. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estaba segura de que nunca podr\u00eda volver a amar hasta que esto me ayud\u00f3:  <\/span>Recupere ese sentimiento especial y aprenda a amar de nuevo<\/a>. Y entonces me di cuenta de que todo esto ocurr\u00eda por mi fijaci\u00f3n en que t\u00fa y yo est\u00e1bamos destinados a estar juntos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero en realidad, no lo \u00e9ramos. Me di cuenta de que <\/span>you weren\u2019t right for mepor mucho que quisiera que lo fueras.<\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that we didn\u2019t love each other, because we did. We were just not made for each other. It is quite simple<\/span>\u2014<\/span>los que est\u00e1n destinados a estar juntos, permanecen juntos.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Si <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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