It\u2019s pretty ironic since they\u2019re the ones who caused the breakup and who didn\u2019t consider their partner to be enough.<\/p>\n
And now, when they\u2019ve gotten exactly what they wanted, they start to miss them.<\/p>\n
11 razones por las que los infieles echan de menos a su ex<\/h2>\n
\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 ocurre esto? \u00bfCu\u00e1les son las principales razones por las que los infieles echan de menos a su ex?<\/strong><\/p>\n Here\u2019s something every cheater will have a hard time admitting: they doubt their decision. They still haven\u2019t reached the conclusion that they made a horrible mistake when they fooled around behind your back. Or, to be exact \u2013 they haven\u2019t admitted this to themselves.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, no cabe duda de que existen altos niveles de inseguridad en uno mismo. Repiten toda la relaci\u00f3n una y otra vez en sus cabezas, tratando de averiguar d\u00f3nde fallaron las cosas.<\/strong><\/p>\n Pero en lugar de culparse a s\u00ed mismos, como deber\u00edan, hacen todo lo posible por encontrar la excusa perfecta para su transgresi\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n Cuando te enga\u00f1aron, pensaron que era lo mejor que pod\u00edan hacer. Cuando se alejaron de tu relaci\u00f3n, no ten\u00edan dudas sobre si estaban haciendo lo correcto.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, ahora cuando empezaron a sentir tu ausencia por primera vez en sus vidas, empezaron a echarte de menos<\/a> como el infierno. Y este sentimiento les hac\u00eda dudar de todo lo que hac\u00edan.<\/p>\n This type of cheater doesn\u2019t regret what they did \u2013 at least, not yet. But they sure are getting there.<\/p>\n \u00bfLos infieles echan de menos a sus ex de verdad o s\u00f3lo sienten nostalgia de los viejos tiempos?<\/strong><\/p>\n Look, your relationship has been anything but perfect. It obviously wasn\u2019t enough for your cheating ex; otherwise, he wouldn\u2019t have searched for happiness outside of it.<\/p>\n However, a human being\u2019s mind is a strange thing. Tenemos tendencia a mirar al pasado con cristales de color de rosa. De alguna manera, nos las arreglamos para sentir nostalgia incluso por los malos momentos de nuestras vidas.<\/strong><\/p>\n That\u2019s exactly what\u2019s going on in your adulterer\u2019s mind. They can\u2019t help but remember the good old days.<\/p>\n All of a sudden, it\u2019s like they forgot the reasons they cheated on you. They only feel nostalgia for the time when they fell in love with you.<\/p>\n Y la verdad es que quieren recuperar esos tiempos. They want the honeymoon phase to last forever, convinced that they wouldn\u2019t cheat if that were the case.<\/strong><\/p>\n When someone commits adultery, they think that they\u2019re running away from a relationship that got stuck in a rut. They\u2019re bored<\/a> of living the same, monotonous life every day. And in most cases, they\u2019re looking for some excitement.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 this isn\u2019t an excuse for what they did. I\u2019m only trying to explain what was going on inside their heads.<\/p>\n Y vaya si lo consiguen. Al principio, su nueva relaci\u00f3n era todo arco iris y flores.<\/p>\n Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 ocurre cuando este nuevo romance se asemeja a aquel del que escaparon? \u00bfQu\u00e9 pasa cuando empiezan a enfrentarse a constantes discusiones, problemas de confianza y otros problemas?<\/strong><\/p>\n Well, that\u2019s when they realize they miss you. They realize that things didn\u2019t go as planned and that they\u2019ve made the biggest mistake of their lives.<\/p>\n It looks like they haven\u2019t managed to build a healthy relationship with yet another person. Hmm, whose fault could that possibly be? LOL.<\/p>\n No matter how ruthlessly they\u2019ve behaved, deep down, your cheater knows that they left you heartbroken. They might act like they don\u2019t care about hurting you, but deep down, they know that this was the wrong thing to have done.<\/strong><\/p>\n And they\u2019re sorry for the way things went. No, this doesn\u2019t mean that they want you back, especially if they\u2019re happy in their new relationship.<\/p>\n At the end of the day, it doesn\u2019t even mean that they\u2019re sorry for committing adultery in the first place. The bottom line is that they\u2019re sorry for hurting you.<\/p>\n They have no romantic feelings for you anymore, but they\u2019re still human beings with some conscience.<\/p>\n In this case, they don\u2019t miss you in the way you assume they do. They\u2019re haunted by what they did, and that prevents them from being happy.<\/strong><\/p>\n Basically, they\u2019re terribly sorry for breaking your heart, and they want you to know that. This person wants your forgiveness.<\/p>\n Mira, nadie te est\u00e1 diciendo que debes perdona a tu infiel<\/a>. Lo que hicieron estuvo terriblemente mal, y lo \u00faltimo que merecen de ti es compasi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n However, sometimes it\u2019s a buena idea perdonar<\/a>. El perd\u00f3n definitivamente te har\u00e1 una mejor persona. Te ayudar\u00e1 a deshacerte de tus demonios.<\/p>\n It will help you be less angry and resentful. It will be beneficial for your mental health, that\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n But hey, the important thing is to do everything at your own pace. Don\u2019t let anyone push you into forgiving them \u2013 do it if and when you\u2019re ready.<\/p>\n When a cheater tells you they miss you, you think to yourself that they\u2019ve finally realized lo que perdieron<\/a>. The other woman or man they\u2019re with now can\u2019t possibly give them what they need. Besides, this is proof that they love you and that this was nothing but a huge mistake.<\/p>\n Vale, entiendo por qu\u00e9 piensas as\u00ed. Al final del d\u00eda, realmente quieres que las cosas salgan as\u00ed.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, si un el infiel quiere que vuelvas<\/a>, it doesn\u2019t have to mean that they\u2019re doing it because they still love you. In some cases, you\u2019re simplemente m\u00e1s conveniente<\/a> para ellos, y volver a ti les har\u00eda la vida mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil.<\/strong><\/p>\n The other woman (or a man) doesn\u2019t give a damn about their needs. They don\u2019t take care of them the way you did.<\/p>\n Usted y su ex mujer o marido tienen hijos juntos. Y aunque t\u00fa no tienes ning\u00fan problema en que vean a los ni\u00f1os, ellos siguen sinti\u00e9ndose excluidos.<\/p>\n Now they feel left out of your family, and they can\u2019t stand that.<\/p>\n But is this possible only if you have children? What if it was just the two of you? Well, that fact didn\u2019t make you any less of a family.<\/p>\n The truth is that they don\u2019t necessarily miss you as a romantic partner. Maybe they miss everything else they had in you: a family member and a best friend.<\/strong><\/p>\n They obviously didn\u2019t succeed in building a home with the other woman or man. They might still be in a relationship with them, but they don\u2019t see them as their family. And they probably never will.<\/p>\n \u00bfLos infieles echan de menos a sus ex cuando prueban de su propia medicina? Claro que s\u00ed.<\/p>\n Karma got to your ex, and they\u2019re going through the same heartbreak you felt. It looks like their new girlfriend or boyfriend cheated on them as well.<\/p>\n You didn\u2019t do anything to get your revenge. However, sooner than you might have hoped, they experienced the same pain. And now, they know exactly how you felt.<\/strong><\/p>\n Esto les hizo darse cuenta de lo que hab\u00edan hecho. Y les hizo echarte de menos.<\/p>\n After all, you\u2019re the only person they have no trust issues with \u2013 the only person who would never betray them. You were the only human being in their lives who never did them any harm.<\/p>\n Well, what can you do about it? That\u2019s right, absolutely nothing. You know what they say: el karma es una perra<\/a> s\u00f3lo si lo eres.<\/p>\n All those women (or men), all those clubs, and dating apps are clearly not enough. They don\u2019t necessarily have to go to bed alone every night, but the company they have can\u2019t fill the void inside their heart.<\/p>\n It looks like everyone abandoned them. Well, at least everyone that matters \u2013 I\u2019m not counting the one-night stands they have.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sus mejores amigos, sus familiares y todo el mundo juzga su comportamiento. No tienen a nadie con quien hablar. Nadie parece entenderlos como t\u00fa.<\/strong><\/p>\n This person has nobody to go to. They don’t have anyone to call in the middle of the night when the despair gets to them.<\/p>\n I hate to break it to you, but this doesn\u2019t mean much, and it actually sounds better than it is. This is nothing but a sign that you\u2019re their last resort \u2013 the person they go to when everyone else abandons them.<\/p>\n Do cheaters miss their ex, or do they just think of them in certain moments? In most cases, it\u2019s the latter.<\/strong><\/p>\n Regardless of the way the breakup happened, you and your ex spent a lot of time together, and you shared some beautiful moments. It doesn\u2019t mean that they still love you just because they think of you every now and then.<\/p>\n Tal vez escucharon una canci\u00f3n que sol\u00edais bailar. O vieron a alguien que se parec\u00eda a ti cuando os conocisteis. Tal vez alguien les pregunt\u00f3 por ti, y fue entonces cuando se volvieron locos.<\/p>\n Either way, the point is that this person missed you at a certain moment. But they\u2019re not missing you all the time.<\/p>\n Vale, lo has hecho todo seg\u00fan las normas. Usted fue ning\u00fan contacto<\/a> el momento en que te enteraste del enga\u00f1o, y nunca miraste atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n You went through a massive heartbreak \u2013 there is no doubt about that. However, you never allowed them to see the pain that\u2019s been consuming you.<\/p>\n Si alguien pregunt\u00f3 o revis\u00f3 tus posts y estados en las redes sociales<\/a>, everyone would assume that you\u2019re having the time of your life.<\/p>\n You\u2019re going out with your friends, started working out, you\u2019re partying and traveling. You\u2019ve even gotten back into the dating pool. Basically, you live as if your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend ever existed.<\/strong><\/p>\n And that\u2019s exactly what\u2019s killing them. They\u2019re jealous<\/a> of these new people in your life, especially if they assume that you\u2019ve gotten into a new relationship. And this jealousy makes them miss you more than ever.<\/p>\n Does this mean that you\u2019re their only true love? Hell no! This is just a red flag that your ex\u2019s ego is broken.<\/p>\n They\u2019ve always looked at you as their possession. And they can\u2019t believe that you had the courage to move on with your life after they betrayed you in the worst possible way.<\/p>\n I mean, what did they expect? That you\u2019d cease to exist just because they couldn\u2019t keep it in their pants? LOL.<\/p>\n Lo \u00fanico que quer\u00edan era escapar de la aburrida relaci\u00f3n mon\u00f3gama que ten\u00edan contigo. Lo arriesgaron todo y se adentraron en lo desconocido.<\/p>\n And they had their share of fun. But now, when the adrenaline is gone, the cheater realizes something: they desperately want to go back to their comfort zone \u2013 to the relationship they had with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re the only person in the world who makes them feel at ease. Your love feels like home to them.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve had no trouble letting go. You left them to go out into the world, looking for something new, for something that would make them feel alive.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, una vez que lo hicieron, se dieron cuenta de que quer\u00edan volver a sentirse seguros. Quieren volver a ti, pero por las razones equivocadas.<\/p>\n No, this is not your dream come true. This doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re their true love. On the contrary \u2013 they want you back because they\u2019re certain that you won\u2019t hurt them.<\/p>\n They know what to expect in your boring, monogamous relationship. There is no fear, no anticipation… they\u2019re safe. So do you really want someone to be with you because of this?<\/p>\n \u00bfLos infieles echan de menos a su ex de verdad, o siempre hay algo m\u00e1s oculto detr\u00e1s? Bueno.., I have to admit that a small portion of adulterers without a hidden motif do exist \u2013 all they want is a segunda oportunidad<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n Somewhere along the road, this person realized they couldn\u2019t live without you. It was hard for them to admit this, but you\u2019ve been their soulmate from the first day you two met. You\u2019re the one, and no one else can take your place.<\/p>\n Aunque no les creas, dicen la verdad. La culpa les est\u00e1 comiendo vivos, y todo lo que quieren es tu perd\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n They want things to go back to the way they used to be. And they\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes to make that happen.<\/strong><\/p>\n Here they are, begging you just to give them a chance to show you that they\u2019ve changed.<\/p>\n \u00bfQuieres d\u00e1selo<\/a>? Well, you\u2019re the only one who can make that call.<\/p>\n \u00bfQu\u00e9 hiciste cuando descubriste que tu ex te enga\u00f1aba? \u00bfHiciste el mayor drama, te peleaste con la otra mujer\/hombre y le rogaste a tu SO que no te dejara?<\/p>\n \u00bfO lo manejaste con dignidad? \u00bfLes deseaste buena suerte y nunca miraste atr\u00e1s, aunque estuvieras roto por dentro?<\/p>\n Si este es el caso, has aplastado su confianza en s\u00ed mismos. You showed them that you can make it without them just fine and that you don\u2019t need them in your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n Por supuesto, esperaban que te destruyeras. Esperaban que mostraras algo m\u00e1s que indiferencia.<\/strong><\/p>\n Y ahora, cuando les das con la cara fr\u00eda, de repente empiezan a echarte de menos.<\/p>\n Trust me, this is not love \u2013 it\u2019s their ego roto<\/a>. S\u00f3lo quieren demostrar que pueden tenerte cuando quieran.<\/p>\n S\u00ed, es probable que los tramposos lamentan sus asuntos<\/a><\/strong>. But here\u2019s the harsh truth: in most cases, they don\u2019t regret cheating.<\/p>\n They don\u2019t regret meeting this other person, sleeping with them, let alone falling in love with them. As far as that part is concerned, they would probably do it all over again. I mean, they did it because they wanted to \u2013 nobody forced them to cheat.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, se arrepienten de haberte hecho da\u00f1o. They do regret getting into a new relationship that didn\u2019t turn out to be what they expected. They do regret getting caught.<\/strong><\/p>\n Y hay una gran diferencia entre estos arrepentimientos.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re wondering c\u00f3mo se siente un infiel<\/a> despu\u00e9s del enga\u00f1o, la respuesta es que todo depende de la persona.<\/p>\n Algunos tramposos sienten un subid\u00f3n de adrenalina recorri\u00e9ndoles las venas.<\/strong> They\u2019ve succeeded, once again. They feel like a superhero who went through with a secret mission and didn\u2019t get caught by the enemy.<\/p>\n At the same time, their self-esteem blows out of proportion. They\u2019re not only attractive and desirable, but they\u2019re also capable, sneaky, smart, and cunning. What a combination! People who feel this way after cheating are usually narcissists.<\/p>\n Por otro lado, algunos ad\u00falteros se enfrentan a una incre\u00edble verg\u00fcenza, miedo, ansiedad y culpabilidad despu\u00e9s de haber sido infiel<\/a>.<\/strong> They\u2019re ashamed for not being able to control their urges. They are ashamed for not knowing better and for betraying their principles.<\/p>\n Se sienten culpables por su coraz\u00f3n roto. Se sienten culpables por herir a la persona que m\u00e1s les quer\u00eda, por hacer da\u00f1o a un buen hombre o a una buena mujer que les dio su confianza.<\/p>\n Algunos infieles sienten ansiedad y miedo a que les pillen.<\/strong> They\u2019re certain that their SO will find out about their affair and walk out on them right away.<\/p>\n Hay dos opiniones opuestas respecto a esta pregunta. Algunos dicen que la respuesta es s\u00ed, mientras que otros se oponen.<\/p>\n Someone who loves you doesn\u2019t cheat on you. Someone who loves you won\u2019t lay eyes on another person.<\/p>\n In fact, they\u2019d rather spend the rest of their life alone than with someone else. They couldn\u2019t and wouldn\u2019t break your heart, even if their life depended on it.<\/p>\n At least, that\u2019s how things should be, right? Well, sadly, in most cases, this sounds like a fairytale. And real life is nothing like a fairytale.<\/p>\n En la vida real, la gente enga\u00f1a a las personas que ama<\/a>. In real life, people love their partners and, despite that, visit dating sites to find a new girlfriend or boyfriend, go to social media and like other people\u2019s pics, or go clubbing to flirt with someone they\u2019ve met for the first time.<\/strong><\/p>\n La falta de amor rom\u00e1ntico no es la \u00fanica raz\u00f3n por la que la gente enga\u00f1a<\/a>. Muchas personas lo hacen porque ans\u00edan una satisfacci\u00f3n f\u00edsica, otras por inseguridad y otras en un momento de debilidad. Pero en todos estos casos, los infieles siguen queriendo a su pareja principal.<\/p>\n Why did you want to know the answer to the question, \u201cDo cheaters miss their ex?\u201d Be honest!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00bfEs porque tu ex novio o novia infiel muestra signos de que te echa de menos? \u00bfY qu\u00e9 si lo hacen?<\/strong><\/p>\n I hope you\u2019re not thinking of recuperar a tu ex<\/a> just because they\u2019ve shown some signs of remorse. Why didn\u2019t they think of the consequences of their actions in time?<\/p>\n1. Duda de s\u00ed mismo<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Nostalgia<\/h3>\n
3. Things didn\u2019t work out the way they planned<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Quieren tu perd\u00f3n<\/h3>\n
\u00bfDeber\u00edas perdonarlos?<\/h4>\n
5. You\u2019re more convenient<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Echan de menos a su familia<\/h3>\n
7. El karma les alcanz\u00f3<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n8. They\u2019re lonely, and you\u2019re their last resort<\/h3>\n
9. Algo les record\u00f3 a ti<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n10. They\u2019re jealous<\/h3>\n
\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 est\u00e1n celosos?<\/h4>\n
11. You\u2019re their comfort zone<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa esto?<\/h4>\n
12. Quieren una segunda oportunidad<\/h3>\n
13. Destruiste su autoestima<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00bfSe arrepienten los infieles?<\/h2>\n
\u00bfC\u00f3mo se sienten los infieles despu\u00e9s de enga\u00f1ar?<\/h2>\n
\u00bfLas personas infieles siguen queriendo a su pareja?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPara terminar:<\/h2>\n
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