{"id":158582,"date":"2022-10-12T11:39:54","date_gmt":"2022-10-12T11:39:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=158582"},"modified":"2023-02-24T09:10:14","modified_gmt":"2023-02-24T09:10:14","slug":"cuanto-tiempo-es-demasiado-sin-sexo-en-una-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuanto-tiempo-es-demasiado-sin-sexo-en-una-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo es demasiado sin sexo en una relaci\u00f3n?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Before you can figure out how long is too long without sex in a relationship, think about why you&#8217;re asking this question. The answer largely depends on your reason.<\/p>\n<p>Visite <strong>usted o su pareja<\/strong> a) creer que existe una determinada cuota semanal\/mensual\/anual que debes cumplir para tener una vida sexual satisfactoria, o b) <strong>se sienten insatisfechos con la cantidad de sexo<\/strong> you&#8217;re having?<\/p>\n<p>Si ha elegido la opci\u00f3n a, la respuesta es sencilla:<strong> no hay reglas en lo que se refiere a la cantidad de sexo que debes tener con tu pareja.<\/strong> Depende totalmente de los socios e intentar alcanzar un n\u00famero arbitrario de veces s\u00f3lo conseguir\u00eda frustrarte.<\/p>\n<p>La opci\u00f3n b necesita una respuesta mucho m\u00e1s compleja, as\u00ed que sigue leyendo para averiguar si tu nivel de intimidad con tu pareja es bajo y qu\u00e9 hacer al respecto.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo es demasiado sin sexo en una relaci\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-158585\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada por su vida \u00edntima\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La \u00fanica forma de saber cu\u00e1nto tiempo es demasiado sin sexo en una relaci\u00f3n es averiguar qu\u00e9 significa para ti no tener suficiente sexo y c\u00f3mo se siente tu pareja al respecto.<\/p>\n<p>Si usted o su pareja se sienten insatisfechos con algo relacionado con la actividad sexual en su relaci\u00f3n, <strong>it\u2019s important to talk to each other about it openly.<\/strong> This is the kind of problem that doesn\u2019t go away on its own and needs to be discussed.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 If you\u2019re on the same page<\/h3>\n<p>Si tanto t\u00fa como tu pareja est\u00e1is contentos con la frecuencia de vuestros encuentros sexuales,<strong> you don\u2019t have to worry<\/strong> if you\u2019re not meeting a certain number of times or if you\u2019re exceeding it.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if both you and your partner feel that having sex once a month is not enough, then that\u2019s your answer. If you\u2019re both happy with not having sex at all,<strong> pod\u00e9is seguir disfrutando de una relaci\u00f3n feliz y sana entre vosotros<\/strong> sin experimentar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-frustracion-sexual-y-como-cambiarla\/\">frustraci\u00f3n sexual.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Having or not having sex just because you believe you should won\u2019t make you happy. Instead, <strong>trabajar la comunicaci\u00f3n y la proximidad<\/strong> con tu pareja para seguir disfrutando de una relaci\u00f3n afectiva y sexual satisfactoria.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 When one person is unhappy with how often you have sex<\/h3>\n<p>You need to explore the root of your problem to find the reason for your different sexual activity needs. When there\u2019s a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/efectos-de-la-falta-de-intimidad-fisica-en-una-relacion\/\">falta de intimidad f\u00edsica en una relaci\u00f3n<\/a>, <strong>compromise doesn\u2019t work in the same way as it does with other relationship issues.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you want to create a relationship you\u2019re both happy with, the needs of both partners matter. You need to <strong>colabore con su socio<\/strong> encontrar una soluci\u00f3n que funcione para ambos. Cualquier otra cosa puede acabar f\u00e1cilmente en resentimiento y m\u00e1s problemas.<\/p>\n<p>Pressuring someone for sex or shaming them for wanting it too often doesn\u2019t help. You need to <strong>abordar esta cuesti\u00f3n con empat\u00eda, compasi\u00f3n y voluntad de comprensi\u00f3n,<\/strong> y buscar las otras necesidades que no est\u00e1n siendo satisfechas en la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Explorar todas las formas de<strong> profundizar en su conexi\u00f3n y desarrollar la intimidad,<\/strong> sexual y no sexual, es mucho m\u00e1s importante para la satisfacci\u00f3n de la relaci\u00f3n que la frecuencia de las relaciones sexuales.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuanto-tiempo-se-debe-hablar-con-alguien-antes-de-salir\/\">\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo debes hablar con alguien antes de salir? (Gu\u00eda)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 las parejas empiezan a tener menos sexo?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-158589\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"pareja con problemas en la cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Many variables can affect sexual intimacy. If you\u2019re currently unhappy with the lack of sex in your relationship, <strong>it\u2019s important to explore the reasons and try to understand them<\/strong> because that\u2019s what matters far more than how often it happens.<\/p>\n<p>Intente considerar si algunas de las siguientes \u00e1reas podr\u00edan incluir las causas subyacentes de la disminuci\u00f3n de la intimidad sexual, aplic\u00e1ndolas tanto a usted como a su pareja.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Cuestiones sanitarias<\/h3>\n<p>Lo primero que debe tener en cuenta es su salud f\u00edsica, sobre todo si se ha producido alg\u00fan cambio en ella.<strong> Muchos problemas de salud pueden influir negativamente en el deseo sexual.<\/strong> It\u2019s best to visit your doctor and openly talk to them about your situation.<\/p>\n<p>Las hormonas desempe\u00f1an un gran papel en los niveles de deseo sexual, mientras que problemas como el dolor y las molestias pueden hacer que se sienta desinter\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re taking any medication, check if they have sexual side effects.<\/strong> Many drugs can cause problems such as low sex drive, erectile dysfunction or difficulty reaching orgasm. Your doctor can adjust the dosage of the medicine or give you a replacement if it\u2019s causing you issues.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Problemas emocionales y de salud mental<\/h3>\n<p>Anxiety and depression can kill your libido. If you\u2019re suffering from any emotional or psychological issues, this might easily be the reason behind your problems with sexual intimacy. <strong>When you\u2019re struggling, sex is usually the last thing on your mind.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s,<strong> inseguridades pueden afectar a tus interacciones sexuales,<\/strong> como preocuparte por tu rendimiento o sentirte descontento con tu cuerpo, lo que suele ocurrir si ha cambiado recientemente.<\/p>\n<p>Stress is another area to explore. While everyone is aware that stress can be damaging, most people don\u2019t take it very seriously, even though it happens at home, at work, or in relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando se convierte en demasiado,<strong> el estr\u00e9s puede afectarte a nivel f\u00edsico y emocional hasta el punto de que dejes de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-senales-evidentes-de-que-no-estas-disfrutando-del-sexo-con-tu-pareja\/\">disfrutar del sexo con tu pareja. <\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>The brain is your largest sex organ, so if you\u2019re unhappy with your sex life, it\u2019s one of the likely culprits behind the reasons.<\/p>\n<h3>3. 3. Acontecimientos vitales<\/h3>\n<p>Depending on what your relationship with your partner is like and what\u2019s going on in your lives at the moment, <strong>puede que s\u00f3lo sean las circunstancias.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You might be experiencing a temporary dry spell caused by something that\u2019s going on in your life and not be on a slippery slope leading to a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-matrimonio-sin-sexo-me-esta-matando\/\">matrimonio sin sexo<\/a> que nunca quisiste.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re more busy and tired than usual, if you\u2019ve been through a stressful change, if you changed your job, moved homes, if you have family issues or if you\u2019ve had a baby \u2013 <strong>cualquier situaci\u00f3n que requiera toda tu atenci\u00f3n puede provocar una disminuci\u00f3n del deseo sexual.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important not to become used to the lack of intimacy during these circumstances. This includes sexual intimacy, but also other types of intimacy with your partner that might also be suffering from the current situation.<\/p>\n<h3>4. 4. Problemas de comunicaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing like a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/falta-de-comunicacion-en-una-relacion\/\">falta de comunicaci\u00f3n<\/a> causar problemas en las relaciones. Desde malentendidos hasta resentimiento,<strong> no comunicarse de forma eficaz y abierta puede crear un problema<\/strong> donde podr\u00eda haberse evitado f\u00e1cilmente.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Problemas generales de comunicaci\u00f3n<\/strong> will often cause a lack of interest in sex. When one partner feels that the other person isn&#8217;t listening or doesn&#8217;t understand or if you argue, criticize or ignore each other, the desire to be intimate with each other goes away.<\/p>\n<p><strong>No hablar de tu vida sexual<\/strong> is another likely cause. It\u2019s important to talk openly about sex, your needs and your feelings. Expecting the other person to read your mind and anticipate what you want doesn&#8217;t work.<\/p>\n<h3>5. 5. Problemas de relaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-158590\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sin hablar \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What everyone fears when facing problems with physical intimacy in a relationship is that their partner\u2019s feelings for them have changed or that they\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-novio-ya-no-parece-interesado-en-mi-sexualmente\/\">ya no me interesan sexualmente.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t have to be the case, but if it is, <strong>sex won\u2019t solve it,<\/strong> independientemente de si lo tomas a diario o no. A<strong> la falta de sexo puede ser un s\u00edntoma<\/strong> of a larger problem, but it\u2019s almost never the only one.<\/p>\n<p>Debes hablar con tu pareja y encontrar soluciones que funcionen si quieres continuar tu relaci\u00f3n y evitar una ruptura.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re having other problems besides less frequent sexual activity, this is what you need to focus on. <strong>No matter how much sex you have with each other, it won\u2019t help unless you deal with the underlying issues.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Lo que sientes por tu pareja y lo conectados que est\u00e1is es otra variable importante. A menos que se sienta <strong>seguro y c\u00f3modo<\/strong> with your partner, your sex life won\u2019t be satisfactory.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Adaptaci\u00f3n a una relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/h3>\n<p>When you enter into a new relationship, you still don\u2019t know the person well. You\u2019re infatuated with the idealized image you created and hormones are running wild.<\/p>\n<p>Deseo inicial nacido de<strong> novedad, respuestas f\u00edsicas exacerbadas y fantas\u00eda<\/strong> El resultado es un mayor deseo sexual. Al principio, en lo \u00fanico que piensas es en mantener relaciones sexuales con tu nueva pareja, pero a medida que os vais conociendo mejor, esto cambia.<\/p>\n<p>Vuestros sentimientos mutuos se transforman en algo m\u00e1s profundo y estable y<strong> tu deseo cambia<\/strong> tambi\u00e9n. La mayor\u00eda de las personas que mantienen relaciones duraderas tienen menos relaciones sexuales entre s\u00ed que cuando acababan de conocerse.<\/p>\n<p>La cohabitaci\u00f3n y el d\u00eda a d\u00eda pueden hacer que el sexo ocupe el \u00faltimo lugar en la lista de prioridades. Puede que empieces a sentir que tu pareja <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-mujer-me-quiere-pero-no-me-desea\/\">loves but doesn\u2019t desire you<\/a>. If you\u2019re unhappy with your sex life and you believe this is the reason, there\u2019s plenty you can do.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Centrarse en profundizar en la intimidad<\/strong> con tu pareja habl\u00e1ndole con empat\u00eda y sin juzgarle. Dile c\u00f3mo te sientes y escucha lo que tiene que decir.<\/p>\n<p>Expresar tus necesidades es la mejor manera de satisfacerlas. Si t\u00fa y tu pareja sois <strong>ambos dispuestos a trabajar<\/strong> en su relaci\u00f3n, este problema puede resolverse.<\/p>\n<h2>C\u00f3mo ayudar a su relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-158587\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room.jpg\" alt=\"pareja en la habitaci\u00f3n\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3mo afrontarlo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-se-acaba-la-intimidad-en-una-relacion\/\">\u00bfcu\u00e1ndo se acaba la intimidad?<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>El sexo es saludable.<\/strong> Mejora su bienestar general, aumenta la salud cardiovascular y reduce el estr\u00e9s. Por otro lado, todos estos beneficios para la salud est\u00e1n ausentes cuando tu vida sexual te provoca ansiedad.<\/p>\n<h3>La intimidad es la clave<\/h3>\n<p>If you can pinpoint the reason why you and your partner aren\u2019t having sex, it becomes much easier to work on this issue. When there are other issues affecting your sexual activity, first work on solving them.<\/p>\n<p>Tenga en cuenta, no obstante, que <strong>una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica puede ser sana y feliz incluso sin sexo,<\/strong> if both partners are okay with it. A sexless relationship doesn\u2019t mean a relationship without intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>A eso se reduce todo: a la intimidad. <strong>La intimidad es la cercan\u00eda entre las personas en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re intimate with someone, <strong>puedes ser vulnerable y abierto<\/strong> con ellos. Significa que puedes hablar con tu pareja y trabajar los problemas subyacentes, los suyos y tus propias actitudes hacia el sexo, tus pensamientos, sentimientos y creencias.<\/p>\n<p>It means that there\u2019s a<strong> voluntad por ambas partes de solucionar los problemas de la relaci\u00f3n<\/strong> y aseg\u00farate de que ambos sois felices en ella.<\/p>\n<p>Seg\u00fan<a href=\"https:\/\/link.springer.com\/article\/10.1007\/s10508-015-0672-4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> un art\u00edculo en Archives of Sexual Behavior volumen 46<\/a>la publicaci\u00f3n oficial de la Academia Internacional de Investigaci\u00f3n sobre el Sexo,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen it comes to feelings of marital satisfaction, therefore, a satisfying sex life and a warm interpersonal climate appear to matter more than does a greater frequency of sexual intercourse.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Cultivar una intimidad sexual y no sexual que funcione para ambos es clave para una relaci\u00f3n sana. Existen muchas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-cosas-intimas-en-lugar-de-sexo\/\">cosas \u00edntimas que hacer en lugar de sexo<\/a>, but when it\u2019s as important to help each other meet your sexual needs as well.<\/p>\n<h3>Despertar y mantener el deseo<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-158591\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately.jpg\" alt=\"pareja de enamorados bes\u00e1ndose apasionadamente\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Investigaci\u00f3n publicada en <a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1177\/1948550612457185\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">un art\u00edculo en la revista Social Psychological and Personality Science, volumen 4, n\u00famero 3<\/a> ofrece los resultados de una investigaci\u00f3n sobre la fuerza comunitaria en el aspecto sexual de una relaci\u00f3n. En \u00e9l se afirma que <strong>&#8220;being motivated to meet a partner\u2019s sexual needs sustains sexual desire in long-term romantic relationships.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa esto y qu\u00e9 es la fuerza comunitaria?<\/p>\n<h4>Fuerza comunitaria<\/h4>\n<p>Motivation to meet your partner&#8217;s needs is called \u201ccommunal strength.\u201d This implies <strong>Dar a tu pareja lo que necesita sin esperar que te corresponda en la misma medida.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to note that this is different from prioritizing your partner\u2019s needs without considering your own, but about the<strong> equilibrio entre responder a sus necesidades y hacer valer las tuyas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ya se ha demostrado que las personas con una mayor fuerza comunitaria se sienten bien dando a sus parejas y, en consecuencia, tienen relaciones m\u00e1s felices. En otras palabras, <strong>hacer cosas por tu pareja sin llevar la cuenta contribuye a una relaci\u00f3n feliz.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Although communal giving isn&#8217;t about being giving because you expect something in return, <strong>communal motivation also implies that it&#8217;s mutual.<\/strong> People who are motivated to meet their partner\u2019s needs reasonably expect their partners to be motivated to meet their needs as well.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando un miembro de la pareja es comunal y el otro se aprovecha de ello, <strong>el socio que da debe dejar de dar<\/strong> o reconsiderar la relaci\u00f3n. Las relaciones verdaderamente felices son aquellas en las que ambos miembros de la pareja dan sin llevar la cuenta.<\/p>\n<h4>Fuerza sexual comunitaria<\/h4>\n<p>La investigaci\u00f3n mencionada ha encontrado que la gente alta en fuerza comunal sexual<strong> disfrutar de sus experiencias sexuales<\/strong> m\u00e1s, sentir m\u00e1s <strong>satisfacci\u00f3n en las relaciones<\/strong> y <strong>mantener el deseo sexual<\/strong> a lo largo del tiempo en las relaciones duraderas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cuando ambos interlocutores responden mutuamente y est\u00e1n motivados comunitariamente, los dos salen beneficiados.<\/strong> They go out of their way to meet their partner&#8217;s needs without forgetting their own in the process.<\/p>\n<p>Tener una pareja que satisfaga tus necesidades te hace sentir m\u00e1s feliz en la relaci\u00f3n y m\u00e1s comprometido con ella. Por supuesto, esto s\u00f3lo se aplica <strong>when it\u2019s mutual.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s say your partner loves a restaurant you don\u2019t particularly like, but don\u2019t really hate. Going to that restaurant isn\u2019t ideal for you, but your partner loves it so much that<strong> su felicidad compensa los sentimientos negativos<\/strong> que tiene sobre el restaurante.<\/p>\n<p>A tu pareja, en cambio, le gusta dormir con la ventana abierta, pero como tiendes a enfriarte, la cierra de todos modos antes de acostarse porque tu comodidad es m\u00e1s importante para ella que una ligera preferencia suya.<\/p>\n<h4>\u00bfC\u00f3mo se aplica esto a su vida sexual?<\/h4>\n<p>Significa: ten sexo de todos modos.<\/p>\n<p>An example of sexual communal strength would be having sex when your partner suggests even if you\u2019re not feeling desire at the moment. It\u2019s not about doing something you don\u2019t actually want to do but feel pressured to.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s about doing things that will make your partner happy but not at your own expense.<\/strong> Your needs matter as much and communal strength is about figuring out how to meet your partner\u2019s needs without ignoring your own.<\/p>\n<p>When you engage in sexual activity with your partner even if you aren\u2019t already aroused, <strong>los preliminares, explorarse mutuamente y disfrutar del tiempo juntos te <\/strong><strong>all\u00ed<\/strong> la mayor parte del tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>If they don\u2019t and you decide that you want to stop, that\u2019s also a part of it. At that point, your partner should choose to meet your needs because, <strong>en este momento, importan m\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Having sex even if you\u2019re not feeling burning passion at the moment has all the benefits of sex and both of you enjoy it. This is why the result of sexual communal strength is increased and sustained desire \u2013<strong> te ense\u00f1a a despertarla en lugar de esperar a que venga por s\u00ed sola.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Comunicar tus sentimientos y necesidades con empat\u00eda y comprensi\u00f3n te ayudar\u00e1 a llegar al punto en el que puedas encontrar la fuerza comunitaria en ambos.<\/p>\n<h2>3 pasos para reavivar su vida sexual<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-158586\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her.jpg\" alt=\"hombre inclinado sobre una mujer para besarla\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve read the article this far, what follows is already clear to you, but here it is anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Para lograr la satisfacci\u00f3n sexual, lo importante es la comunicaci\u00f3n honesta y eficaz, la intimidad y asegurarse de que el sexo realmente se produzca.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Comunicar<\/h3>\n<p>\u00bfLe incomoda hablar de sexo o se siente inc\u00f3modo cuando intenta abordar el tema con su pareja? Aunque as\u00ed sea, deber\u00edas armarte de valor y hacerlo de todos modos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Comparta sus necesidades y deseos y escuche a su pareja cuando hable de los suyos.<\/strong> Open up to each other and show curiosity without judgment. When problems arise, don\u2019t wait to bring them up. Learn about each other.<\/p>\n<p>Si hablar de sexo te resulta especialmente dif\u00edcil, contar con la ayuda de un sex\u00f3logo o un terapeuta sexual puede ser muy \u00fatil para empezar.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Hacer del sexo una prioridad<\/h3>\n<p>Cuando la vida se vuelve agitada, el sexo, por desgracia, suele olvidarse. Despu\u00e9s de un d\u00eda ajetreado, lo \u00fanico que apetece es dormir y el tiempo para la actividad sexual nunca llega.<strong> Si quieres tener m\u00e1s sexo, saca tiempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>One solution is to have a set time at the frequency that works for both partners. Planning sex might not seem that romantic, but it\u2019s much more romantic than feeling sexually dissatisfied.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you can decide to have sex once a week and then clear your schedule to accommodate it. It\u2019s <strong>un recordatorio para no descuidar este aspecto de su relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s something to look forward to between sessions, but also doesn\u2019t have to be the only time you have sex.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Explorar la intimidad<\/h3>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t have to mean learning how to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-reglas-de-alcoba-para-mejorar-tu-vida-sexual\/\">condimenta tu vida sexual<\/a> mediante el uso de juguetes sexuales o nuevas posiciones, aunque podr\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Para tener una vida sexual feliz y una relaci\u00f3n sana, debes cultivar todo tipo de intimidad.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando baja la frecuencia sexual, <strong>intimidad f\u00edsica no sexual<\/strong> a menudo tambi\u00e9n disminuye. Acurr\u00faquese, b\u00e9sese y t\u00f3mese de la mano adem\u00e1s de mantener relaciones sexuales.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t neglect <strong>intimidad emocional<\/strong> either. Share your feelings, support each other and don\u2019t be afraid to be vulnerable.<\/p>\n<h2>En resumen<\/h2>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo es demasiado sin sexo en una relaci\u00f3n? Cuando se trata de tu propia relaci\u00f3n, <strong>s\u00f3lo t\u00fa sabes la respuesta<\/strong> y espero que este art\u00edculo le haya ayudado a encontrarlo.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre que t\u00fa y tu pareja est\u00e9is de acuerdo, la frecuencia sexual ideal es aquella con la que ambos est\u00e9is satisfechos.<\/p>\n<p>If there\u2019s a difference in the levels of desire for sexual activity, you can examine the possible reasons <strong>until you find what non-sexual needs aren\u2019t being met in your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Crear una relaci\u00f3n en la que ambos miembros de la pareja<strong> focus on meeting the other person\u2019s emotional, physical and sexual needs without compromising their own<\/strong> es clave para mantener el deseo y la felicidad.<\/p>\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s importante en todos los escenarios es <strong>comunicaci\u00f3n y compasi\u00f3n.<\/strong> Este asunto puede hacer o deshacer su relaci\u00f3n, as\u00ed que tenga mucho cuidado de trabajar conjuntamente con su pareja.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Cu\u00e1nto tiempo es demasiado sin sexo en una relaci\u00f3n Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-162428\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Before you can figure out how long is too long without sex in a relationship, think about why you&#8217;re asking this question. The answer largely depends on your reason. Do you or your partner a) believe that a certain weekly\/monthly\/yearly quota you must fulfill to have a satisfactory sex life exists, or b) feel unhappy&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":158588,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-158582","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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