{"id":15899,"date":"2020-12-07T10:18:23","date_gmt":"2020-12-07T10:18:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15899"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:49:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:49:03","slug":"7-cosas-irrelevantes-que-no-deberian-importar-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-irrelevantes-que-no-deberian-importar-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cosas irrelevantes que no deber\u00edan importar en una relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

When we were younger, we all imagined our future partner in ways that aren’t really rational. You probably wanted someone with big muscles or a nice beard but do those things really matter? Some things are more important, like if he respects you or if he makes you feel safe and appreciated. But there are a few things that are completamente irrelevante<\/a> when you’re in a relationship with the right person.<\/p>\n

Su aspecto<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

OK, I won’t be one of those people who says that looks don’t matter but let’s be honest, if he puts effort into how he looks and dresses nicely, then nothing else matters.<\/p>\n

You shouldn’t be judging a man on whether he has muscles or nice eyes. The thing that is important here is if he treats you well. Maybe that guy who looks like he’s never seen the gym can love you more than someone who’s in the gym every day. Stay away from stereotypes and have an open mind.<\/p>\n

Lo extrovertido que es<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

I get that your friends and family are very important to you and to spend time with them is crucial for you but it may not be for him. You shouldn’t be forcing your partner to run to every social event you’re going to.<\/p>\n

Maybe he’s an introvert and it can easily suck all of his energy from him. He’ll go with you every once in a while when you’re going out with a small group of people that he has something in common with but it’s completely irrelevant for him to go to every party together with you.<\/p>\n

Diferencias<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Aren’t differences one of the most important things in relationships? If you like and do all the same things, doesn’t it get boring? Don’t only search for a partner with the same music taste as yours but if you find one, it\u2019ll be awesome.<\/p>\n

Si ten\u00e9is intereses diferentes, podr\u00e9is crecer juntos porque ampliar\u00e9is la mente del otro y ser\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s divertido estar juntos. Siempre encontrar\u00e9is algo de lo que hablar.<\/p>\n

The exception here is when you’re a monogamist and your partner loves to have sex with different women. Well, this difference doesn’t make it fun but rather makes the pain unbearable.<\/p>\n

Si tienes tendencia a preocuparte por cosas insignificantes, tienes que ver esto: How to stop worrying – today!<\/a><\/p>\n

A qu\u00e9 se dedica<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Does it really matter if your partner is the CEO of a huge IT company or if he’s working as a waiter in a restaurant? Well, it shouldn’t.<\/p>\n

Once again, the most important thing in the relationship is to be trustworthy, caring and to put effort into your partner’s well-being. If he’s putting so much effort into your relationship, and he works shifts up to 10 hours and still manages to find time for you, then he’s a keeper.<\/p>\n

He’d much rather save up some money to buy you something nice and spoil you than to be occupied with his job all the time because he’s making so much money.<\/p>\n

Lo mucho que te gusta su familia<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You’ve fallen in love with him and the way he treats you. If he had a bad childhood because of abusive parents, then there’s really nothing you can do about it, right?<\/p>\n

All you can do now is love him. His parents shouldn’t even be involved in your relationship. Or your parents even.<\/p>\n

How many people he’s slept with<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Supongo que \u00e9sta es razonable hasta cierto punto. Quiz\u00e1 se sinti\u00f3 inseguro en el pasado y necesitaba que le tranquilizaran o simplemente quer\u00eda divertirse y experimentar en su juventud.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, nada de eso importa ahora y debes estar tranquilo. Te quiere y te desea<\/a> ahora. Ninguna de esas chicas anteriores importa en este momento. Son su pasado, su historia.<\/p>\n

Si a\u00fan vive en casa<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

When we get to a certain age, people expect us to become independent and move out from our parents\u2019 house. But why?<\/p>\n

You can have a great career and still live with your parents, because it has little to nothing to do with who you are a person. Maybe he simply doesn\u2019t want to live alone and he wanted to wait for someone to come into his life to change that? Don’t be judgmental.<\/p>\n

\"7<\/p>\n

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