{"id":159190,"date":"2022-10-28T10:23:34","date_gmt":"2022-10-28T10:23:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=159190"},"modified":"2022-11-07T12:18:16","modified_gmt":"2022-11-07T12:18:16","slug":"por-que-la-gente-tiene-citas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-la-gente-tiene-citas\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 la gente tiene citas? Las 13 razones m\u00e1s comunes y l\u00f3gicas"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m sure we have all asked ourselves this one question at least once in our lives… Why do <\/span>personas fecha<\/span>? Why do we feel the need to find someone we\u2019ll build that emotional connection with?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And? Were you ever able to find the right answer to that question? I\u2019m sure you weren\u2019t, but today is your lucky day because that answer is about to be revealed in this article.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, a more important question you need to know the answer to is, \u201cWhy should people engage in <\/span>romantic relationships?\u201d<\/span> Y s\u00f3lo hay una raz\u00f3n para ello: el amor, por supuesto.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si tu raz\u00f3n es otra, deber\u00edas replantearte tu relaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/i>Otherwise, you\u2019ll never be able to maintain a <\/span>relaci\u00f3n significativa<\/span> con tu pareja o con cualquier otra persona.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por qu\u00e9 la gente tiene citas: 13 razones<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Sin m\u00e1s pre\u00e1mbulos, les presento esta lista de las razones m\u00e1s comunes y frecuentes por las que la gente<\/span> fecha<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Satisfacer las necesidades emocionales<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Todos somos seres humanos emocionales con<\/span> necesidades emocionales<\/span><\/a>. Entre esas necesidades, amar y ser amado son las m\u00e1s importantes.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Todos queremos encontrar a nuestra media naranja, alguien que nos complete<\/b>. It\u2019s just a part of our nature and something our hearts deeply long for.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Otras necesidades emocionales que satisfacemos a trav\u00e9s de <\/span>relaciones de pareja<\/span> son sentirse conectado, la sensaci\u00f3n de pertenecer a alguien, y ser apoyado, apreciado, comprendido y respetado.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yo salgo principalmente por estas razones, y espero que la mayor\u00eda de la gente tambi\u00e9n lo haga.<\/span> I hope that one day, I\u2019ll find the kind of relationship that will make me feel like I\u2019m on cloud nine… <\/em><\/span><\/i>To find that one person who\u2019ll love me unselfishly and unconditionally and be able to fulfill all of my needs. And, of course, I\u2019ll try to reciprocate in the same way.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Conseguir la comprensi\u00f3n y el apoyo que todos necesitamos<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Cerrar <\/span>relaciones<\/span> y las citas permiten a las personas conectar entre s\u00ed y hacer <\/span>unos a otros<\/span> sentirse comprendidos y apreciados. Y todos sabemos cu\u00e1nto significan esas cosas para todos nosotros.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s such a relief to know you have someone you can send a text message to in the middle of the night or simply whenever you feel bad or need someone to talk to.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s even better to know you can always count on that person understanding because you know they\u2019re the last one who would dare to judge you. <\/span><\/i>They may not always justify your actions, but they\u2019ll definitely try to find a way to understand them, all in the name of the love they feel for you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Las citas como <\/b>autoestima<\/b> impulsar<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

La verdad es que todos entramos en <\/span>mundo de las citas<\/span> como <\/span>j\u00f3venes adultos<\/span> en <\/span>instituto,<\/span> y en esos momentos, todos luchamos un poco con fr\u00e1giles <\/span>autoestima<\/span>. Sin embargo, todo eso cambia cuando entramos en la edad adulta. <\/span>vida sentimental<\/span>mejorar nuestra <\/span>habilidades sociales<\/span> y encontrar a esa persona que nos motive a ser m\u00e1s felices con nuestra <\/span>propia vida<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The first time you notice your dating partner doesn\u2019t positively affect your self-esteem, you should stop dating them.<\/strong> <\/b>Sooner or later, it\u2019ll turn into a toxic type of relationship, and you\u2019ll end up hurt or lose your self-esteem completely.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Cuidar su vida social<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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Algunos <\/span>personas fecha<\/span> simply because they want to meet new people and keep their social life flourishing. Of course, that can never happen if you don\u2019t put yourself out there in the <\/span>escena de citas<\/span> y estar abierto a conocer gente nueva.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este tipo de personas tienen unas habilidades sociales perfectas y encuentran las citas muy divertidas e interesantes. Pasan todo su tiempo libre en diferentes aplicaciones de citas, buscando nuevas parejas.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019re particularly interested in <\/span>sitios de citas<\/span> que ofrecen doble o <\/span>fechas de grupos<\/span> porque les parece una oportunidad perfecta para conocer a mucha gente nueva y ampliar su c\u00edrculo de amigos y conocidos.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Intentar comprender y conocer el <\/b>sexo opuesto<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Esta es una raz\u00f3n muy interesante por la que la gente tiene citas. <\/span>Algunos simplemente utilizamos las citas para conocer al sexo opuesto y descubrir cu\u00e1les son sus preferencias, perspectivas y formas de pensar.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Puede que sea por simple curiosidad o porque creen que les ayudar\u00e1 a construir y mantener <\/span>una relaci\u00f3n sana<\/span><\/a> con alguien del sexo opuesto.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Miedo a la soledad<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s admit it, we are all afraid of <\/strong><\/b>estar solo<\/b><\/strong><\/a> y solitario.<\/strong> <\/b>And it\u2019s definitely the most common reason why people date and engage in relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

La mayor\u00eda (o incluso dir\u00eda que todos) <\/span>personas solteras<\/span> me siento muy mal en <\/span>Valentine\u2019s Day<\/span> and other important holidays because it\u2019s when we realize that we are all alone, and it scares us as hell.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You shouldn\u2019t hide or deny it. Sharing our lives with another person is simply a part of our nature, and we all want to feel that we belong to someone and have that person belongs to us too.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Relatives, family members, friends… <\/span>S\u00ed, todas esas personas tambi\u00e9n forman parte de nuestras vidas, pero tener a tu persona, esa persona que SIEMPRE est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para ti pase lo que pase, es una historia completamente diferente, y todos merecemos tener ese tipo de persona en nuestras vidas.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Sensaci\u00f3n de seguridad<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Queramos admitirlo o no, todos anhelamos estabilidad y seguridad en la vida. <\/span>Es decir, todos queremos encontrar a esa persona que nos haga sentir seguros.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Queremos poder abrirnos y conectar emocionalmente con ellos. Queremos construir un hogar con ellos, una zona que sea segura para nosotros y tambi\u00e9n para nuestra futura familia.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. La emoci\u00f3n de las citas en l\u00ednea<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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Puede que no lo entiendas, pero a algunas personas les gusta <\/span>citas en l\u00ednea<\/span>. Simplemente les gusta pasar el tiempo en diferentes <\/span>aplicaciones de citas<\/span> y conocer gente nueva.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t quite understand it, but we all have to admit that there is some kind of magic in first dates<\/strong>. <\/b>Cada vez que salgas a <\/span>una primera cita<\/span><\/a> with someone, you have those butterflies in your stomach because you simply don\u2019t know how it\u2019ll go.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And, of course, that moment when you get your crush\u2019s <\/span>n\u00famero de tel\u00e9fono<\/span> y esos primeros <\/span>llamadas telef\u00f3nicas<\/span> y <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> can\u2019t be compared to anything else. Then you agree to <\/span>reunirse<\/span> and meet in person, and that strange excitement mixed with nervousness you feel until you finally meet them simply can\u2019t be described in words.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Disfrutar <\/b>sexo prematrimonial<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Some people are afraid of commitment, and that\u2019s why they don\u2019t indulge in serious relationships. However, they have physical needs and want to enjoy <\/span>sexo prematrimonial,<\/span> lo que se convierte en una de las principales razones por las que salen con otras personas: obtener placer f\u00edsico.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aunque algunas personas y culturas siguen considerando tab\u00fa el sexo prematrimonial, en el mundo moderno se ha convertido en algo completamente normal y aceptable.<\/em> <\/span><\/i>That\u2019s why it\u2019s no wonder it also finds its place on our list of reasons why people date.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. A <\/b>forma de encuentro<\/b> una posible <\/b>compa\u00f1ero de vida<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 <\/span>personas fecha<\/span>? The answer is actually quite simple because most of us date hoping we\u2019ll find our soulmate that way.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t know on the <\/span>primera cita<\/span> whether that person is the right one for you. That\u2019s why you date them, get to know them a bit deeper, and the time helps you realize whether they\u2019re really your soulmate or not.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Las citas fueron una experiencia positiva para muchas personas porque les ayudaron a encontrar a su compa\u00f1ero de vida.<\/strong><\/b> <\/strong>Espero que t\u00fa y yo podamos decir lo mismo alg\u00fan d\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Intentando olvidar al ex al que a\u00fan quieren<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Some of us spend (waste) so much time jumping from relationship to relationship, trying to forget an ex we are still in love with. However, that\u2019s not how things work, and it\u2019s definitely never the right way to delete someone from our hearts or minds.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re struggling with past relationship baggage, the best dating tip you\u2019ll ever get is to give yourself time.<\/strong><\/b> Don\u2019t immediately jump into a new relationship hoping it\u2019ll help you get rid of your feelings and forget about your ex.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust me, it won\u2019t. <\/span>It may postpone your pain for a bit, but it\u2019ll come back to haunt you, that\u2019s for sure. <\/em><\/span><\/i>On the other hand, if you give yourself the proper time to grieve and confront your feelings, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll find a way to deal with them in the right way.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Estatus social<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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Hay personas a las que les importa mucho el estatus social, y su objetivo en la vida es ser ricas, famosas y tener un gran estilo de vida.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they can\u2019t achieve it by themselves, they\u2019ll try to get it through their romantic partner. They\u2019ll start dating someone of a higher social status, and they think that will allow them to achieve all of their <\/span>objetivos en la vida<\/span> y sue\u00f1os.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. 13. Razones financieras<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Por desgracia, esta es la raz\u00f3n m\u00e1s terrible por la que la gente<\/span> fecha,<\/span> and the worst thing is that it\u2019s also very common.<\/span> Salir con alguien por dinero est\u00e1 mal porque, cr\u00e9eme, el dinero nunca puede darte la felicidad sincera ni el amor verdadero.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some people understand this sooner or later, but unfortunately, some never do and keep choosing the wrong partners because of it. And as long as they don\u2019t understand this, they will never be truly happy. Also, they will never be able to find their soulmate, which is the saddest thing of all.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 es importante salir con alguien?<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Dios nos cre\u00f3 por parejas, y la mejor prueba de ello son Ad\u00e1n y Eva. <\/span>He wanted us all to have our soulmates, our life partners, the people we\u2019re going to share and spend the rest of our lives with.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He didn\u2019t want us to be alone and lonely. God knows that being single is hard, especially as you get older. That is why He made a soulmate for each and every single one of us.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adem\u00e1s, las citas tienen un impacto positivo en todas las esferas de nuestra vida. Tambi\u00e9n afecta a nuestra salud mental, emocional y f\u00edsica.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

De hecho, el principal <\/span>prop\u00f3sito de las citas<\/span> is to make people feel like they aren\u2019t alone. To make us feel like we always have that one person, our partner, we can count on, no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 no debe hacer cuando sale con alguien?<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There are some things you shouldn\u2019t do when you\u2019re in a relationship with another person. Not only because that person might <\/span>romper<\/span> contigo, sino porque puedes herir sus sentimientos y dejarles emocionalmente discapacitados para siempre.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lying, flirting with others, belittling, being violent, avoiding communication, neglecting your partner, and, of course, CHEATING… <\/b>Todas estas son cosas que nunca debes hacer mientras sales con alguien, a ning\u00fan precio.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Besides that, if you want to maintain a healthy relationship with another person, you also shouldn\u2019t talk badly about their loved ones, focus only on yourself, set expectations that are too high, judge them, be unsupportive, and compare them to your ex-partners.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re doing these things, you should stop it immediately IF you want to keep the person you\u2019re dating in your life. Otherwise, they\u2019ll almost definitely run from you and very soon.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 ocurre durante las citas?<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Simplemente <\/span>pasar el rato,<\/span> pasar alg\u00fan tiempo con la otra persona y llegar a conocerla. <\/span>unos a otros<\/span> un poco m\u00e1s profundo. Mientras os conoc\u00e9is, tambi\u00e9n establec\u00e9is cierta conexi\u00f3n que, m\u00e1s adelante, ser\u00e1 una gran ventaja si decid\u00eds pasar de las citas a una relaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s seria.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

After dating for some time, you\u2019re also able to figure out whether you\u2019re compatible or not.<\/b> Es decir, si su pareja es realmente el <\/span>persona adecuada<\/span> para ti.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you manage to build a connection and if you\u2019re compatible with the other person, you\u2019ll probably catch some feelings for them and sail into a <\/span>relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica<\/span> con ellos.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, if you notice that there is no compatibility between you, you\u2019ll probably decide to let go of that person. You\u2019ll return to single life and continue your search for your soulmate.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

En resumen<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 <\/span>personas fecha<\/span>? A trav\u00e9s de mi propio <\/span>experiencia en citas<\/span> y la de mis amigos \u00edntimos, he conseguido averiguar las razones m\u00e1s comunes. El hecho es que <\/span>mucha gente<\/span> entrar en <\/span>relaciones rom\u00e1nticas<\/span> por sus necesidades emocionales, pero hay quienes tienen razones diferentes.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why some of us are only interested in hookups while others long to establish a serious, <\/strong><\/b>relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/b><\/strong><\/a> con otra persona.<\/strong> <\/b>We all have our reasons, and we should respect each other\u2019s decisions and wishes.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, para entablar una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica seria con alguien, tu principal motivo debe ser el amor.<\/em><\/span><\/i> Si cualquier otra cosa representa una raz\u00f3n o un motivo mayor para que salgas con alguien, realmente deber\u00edas reconsiderar tus elecciones y pensar en poner fin a esa relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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I\u2019m sure we have all asked ourselves this one question at least once in our lives… Why do people date? Why do we feel the need to find someone we\u2019ll build that emotional connection with? And? Were you ever able to find the right answer to that question? I\u2019m sure you weren\u2019t, but today is…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":159299,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-159190","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Why-Do-People-Date-13-Most-Common-and-Logical-Reasons-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/159190","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=159190"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/159190\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/159299"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=159190"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=159190"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=159190"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}