{"id":15923,"date":"2018-03-07T11:22:15","date_gmt":"2018-03-07T11:22:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15923"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:11:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:11:24","slug":"im-label-less-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/im-label-less-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Ya he superado esta relaci\u00f3n sin etiquetas"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cBut our biggest regrets are not for the things we did but for the things we didn’t do, things we didn’t say that could have saved someone we care about\u2014specially when we can see the dark storm that’s headed their way.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Sinceramente, te quiero. Me enamor\u00e9 de ti tan fuerte y durante tanto tiempo sent\u00ed que no hab\u00eda vuelta atr\u00e1s. Me encantaba esta sensaci\u00f3n que ten\u00eda cuando estaba contigo y me qued\u00e9 durante tanto tiempo atrapado en alg\u00fan lugar en el aire sin saber lo que somos.<\/p>\n

I let us go through our lives like this, unlabeled, because then, I was led by my feelings. I didn\u2019t care how you called me. I only cared how you made me feel. I was in seventh heaven when I was with you. And that was enough. Note I said it was. Because now things have changed.<\/p>\n

I can no longer stay blind to the things I deserve. Now that all those wild emotions have calmed and the storm in me is a bit stiller, I\u2019m able to see things clearly. I\u2019m able to see how my actions were clouded by my feelings, how I settled for just the crumbs of love you gave me. I\u2019m able to see how I went all in with my heart while you choose not to go half as much as I did.<\/p>\n

Y it’s time for me to forget what I feel and remember what I deserve<\/a>. So what if I love you so unconditionally? So what if I can\u2019t picture my life without you? So what if I forget to breathe when it crosses my mind that I might lose you? All the love I give you, I\u2019ll save it for myself. The life I pictured with you, I\u2019ll make it happen for me either way. I\u2019ll remind myself to breathe and I\u2019ll remind myself I\u2019m worth so much more than you made me believe.<\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>\n

Vale la pena luchar por el amor<\/a>. I\u2019m worth fighting for. that we could have is worth fighting for. What we have is a God-given gift and plenty would kill for this. But you take it for granted so easily. You behave like we\u2019re going to have each other for the rest of our lives. But we won\u2019t if we continue to treat each other the way we do now. This isn\u2019t healthy and this isn\u2019t real. This isn\u2019t what love should look like.<\/p>\n

I gave you my everything and I got nothing in return. No real commitment, no promise for the future, no certainty. I only got all those possibilities and a lot of maybe\u2019s that could happen but also could not. I have no idea how to present you to my family and my friends, but I know how I\u2019d like to do it. It\u2019s just that I don\u2019t have the right to do that since we\u2019re somewhere in between: not together, but yet so much more than we\u2019ve been to other people.<\/p>\n

And I really don\u2019t want to let you go. I want to love you, but I\u2019m done settling for less. I\u2019m done allowing myself to be trapped in this \u2018relationship\u2019 that I\u2019m not even allowed to call a relationship. And my heart is breaking, but all I get from people is, \u201cWhat? It\u2019s not like you\u2019re in an actual relationship.\u201d Well, try telling that to my heart. Try explaining all those times we looked each other\u2019s eyes and saw the ocean\u2019s depth; all those times we held each other\u2019s hands; all those times we waited for mornings together. But even this didn\u2019t make you claim me.<\/p>\n

I just want a normal and a healthy relationship. I want a future and I want to know that I have all the right to look forward to something. I want to know I\u2019m the only one. I want to not be afraid of falling in love. I want to know that you\u2019ll stand in front of all those girls hitting on you and say how you\u2019re taken and how your heart belongs to me.<\/p>\n

I won’t put my life on hold for your almost love anymore. I won\u2019t wait for you to choose me forever. I won\u2019t allow myself to feel like I\u2019m missing something and how that\u2019s the reason why you\u2019re so indecisive and why you\u2019re still choosing to keep us in this label-less relationship. It\u2019s ugly, you know. And it hurts so freaking much.<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve come to a crossroads of our lives. We either take the next path together as a labeled couple or we part here. Just don\u2019t forget that our biggest regrets are not for the things we did but for the things we didn’t do, things we didn’t say that could have saved someone we care about.<\/em><\/p>\n

Hay un tiempo para cada cosa y una estaci\u00f3n para cada actividad bajo los cielos.<\/em> I used to believe that our time has yet to come. But now I\u2019ve made my peace and now I see that I allowed it to trap me in the label-less relationship waiting for something bigger to happen. But that something never came. And I\u2019m done waiting and putting my life on hold for something that might happen.<\/p>\n

I no longer want to be trapped in this limbo. It\u2019s gonna be right or I\u2019m moving on. Years from now, I won\u2019t look back with regret because I\u2019ll know I did everything for us. But I won\u2019t regret missing out on life and my chance for love because I was stuck in a label-less relationship either.<\/p>\n

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\u201cBut our biggest regrets are not for the things we did but for the things we didn’t do, things we didn’t say that could have saved someone we care about\u2014specially when we can see the dark storm that’s headed their way.\u201d Honestly, I love you. I fell for you so hard and for long I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":15929,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15923","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/jeremy-bishop-127190-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15923","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15923"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15923\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15929"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15923"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15923"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15923"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}