{"id":159421,"date":"2022-10-31T17:07:35","date_gmt":"2022-10-31T17:07:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=159421"},"modified":"2022-12-08T21:07:51","modified_gmt":"2022-12-08T21:07:51","slug":"salir-con-un-militar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/salir-con-un-militar\/","title":{"rendered":"Todo lo que necesitas saber para salir con un militar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Salir con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is tough. You\u2019ll face challenges that can, at some point, become too much to handle. You\u2019ll be tested \u2013 your patience, your adaptability and your feelings. <\/span><b>You\u2019ll experience a lot of uncertainty and worry.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por esta raz\u00f3n, antes de entablar una relaci\u00f3n con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><b>aseg\u00farate de que realmente te gusta <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2013 enough to have faith that he\u2019s worth dealing with everything you\u2019ll learn about today.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si al final te casas con tu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">socio militar,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> las cosas cambiar\u00e1n en algunos aspectos. Como <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">c\u00f3nyuge militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><b>you\u2019ll be expected to make more sacrifices<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pero algunos aspectos de tu vida ser\u00e1n m\u00e1s f\u00e1ciles.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So if you\u2019ve fallen for <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un hombre de uniforme<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esto es lo que debe saber.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-things-to-expect-when-dating-a-military-man\"><b>10 cosas que hay que esperar al salir con un <\/b><b>Militar<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja de militares sentados fuera abraz\u00e1ndose\" class=\"wp-image-159474\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ll be <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">por adelantado<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> contigo: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vida militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> isn&#8217;t for everyone. But if the guy you&#8217;ve fallen for is a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">miembro del servicio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it&#8217;s good to be informed and <\/span><b>saber qu\u00e9 esperar<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&#8217;s everything you should know about dating a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 the truth about what it\u2019s like and <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consejos \u00fatiles<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> para ayudarle en esta dif\u00edcil relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-his-job-comes-first\"><b>1. Su trabajo es lo primero<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Al salir con un miembro de la <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fuerzas Armadas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 Army, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Marina<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Guardacostas, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ej\u00e9rcito del Aire<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or Marine Corps \u2013 <\/span><b>debes aceptar que su trabajo es lo primero<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">His job isn&#8217;t like a typical job. Long hours don\u2019t mean that dating a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> es como salir con un adicto al trabajo obsesionado con el trabajo. Un adicto al trabajo puede estar entregado a su trabajo, pero sigue teniendo control sobre sus decisiones y puede reducir sus horas si quiere.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in the military means that if he\u2019s told to go, he goes. He has no say in this, so it doesn\u2019t matter what either of you wants.<\/span><b> No puede haber compromisos cuando se trata de su trabajo.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-your-personal-lives-come-second-to-serving-the-country\"><b>Su <\/b><b>vida personal<\/b><b> est\u00e1n por detr\u00e1s de servir al pa\u00eds<\/b><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He\u2019ll be gone more than he\u2019s home; unavailable more than he\u2019s available. If the military calls, he won&#8217;t be there on <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aniversarios<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cumplea\u00f1os<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> y otras ocasiones especiales.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tiene que tomarse su trabajo muy en serio, esforz\u00e1ndose por no cometer errores porque pueden costarle muy caros. Puedes elegir entre aceptarlo o poner fin a la relaci\u00f3n porque <\/span><b>it\u2019s non-negotiable<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you choose to stay, you\u2019ll never be able to count on him being around and your plans will always be subject to change. The military can require that he works different hours than planned, so <\/span><b>hay que acostumbrarse a la incertidumbre<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-a-stable-job\"><b>Un trabajo estable<\/b><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, being in the military has many perks, the most important being job security. If a soldier performs as required and doesn&#8217;t do something that will get him dismissed, it&#8217;s <\/span><b>un trabajo con el que pueda contar<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The pay is good and he doesn\u2019t have to worry about losing his job, so h<\/span><b>e pueden hacer planes a largo plazo que dependen de la seguridad financiera<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Adem\u00e1s, un empleo en el ej\u00e9rcito tiene excelentes prestaciones, incluidas las que se ofrecen a su c\u00f3nyuge.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-you-can-t-avoid-difficult-choices\"><b>2. You can\u2019t avoid difficult choices<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background.jpg\" alt=\"hombre sentado en la cama con mujer al fondo\" class=\"wp-image-159477\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El ej\u00e9rcito es lo primero, as\u00ed que muchos <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-compromisos-nunca-hacen-relacion\/\"><b>compromisos que se dan en las relaciones t\u00edpicas<\/b><\/a><b> son imposibles<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Normalmente, cuando los socios tienen oportunidades diferentes, la opci\u00f3n saludable es ponerse de acuerdo sobre lo que m\u00e1s beneficiar\u00e1 a ambos.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re dating a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, if your paths are going in different directions, he\u2019ll never follow yours. Your education or career will never take priority over his job. <\/span><b>Puedes elegir ir donde \u00e9l va, esperarle o terminar las cosas<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Miembros del servicio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> se mueve mucho, as\u00ed que cuando tenga que mover bases, \u00bfte quedas o le sigues? Puede que tengas que <\/span><b>decidir entre renunciar a tu vida tal y como la conoces y a la relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You\u2019d have to leave your family, friends, school, job, lifestyle and more to stay with him.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your plans don\u2019t clash with his job, nothing has to change, but whenever there\u2019s a compromise to be made regarding your life together, <\/span><b>siempre ser\u00e1s t\u00fa quien tenga que ceder<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-rushing-into-marriage\"><b>Apresurarse a casarse<\/b><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El estilo de vida militar significa que <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">parejas de militares<\/span> <b>se casan antes que las parejas civiles.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> La raz\u00f3n para apresurarse a contraer matrimonio es poder pasar m\u00e1s tiempo el uno con el otro y por los muchos beneficios disponibles despu\u00e9s de un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">miembro del servicio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> se casa.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Una vez que te grad\u00faes en <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">novia militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">esposa de militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><b>you\u2019ll have access to various benefits <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that weren\u2019t available prior to your marriage. On the other hand, you\u2019ll also face new challenges.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 Single soldiers must live in the barracks and only after getting married can they <\/span><b>mudarse a una casa<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You&#8217;ll have a choice between military housing or living off-base.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 Even though you don&#8217;t get paid, the housing and cost-of-living allowances for a soldier increase when he gets married, so he will receive <\/span><b>un salario m\u00e1s elevado<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 You&#8217;ll get educational assistance, recreational opportunities, healthcare, childcare and housing benefits. If you\u2019re considering starting a family with a soldier, it&#8217;s much easier if you&#8217;re married.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 It becomes <\/span><b>m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil mantener el contacto<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and, in case of a family emergency, your spouse can be sent home and receive assistance. None of this is available until you&#8217;re legally married.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 However, <\/span><b>muchos<\/b> <b>c\u00f3nyuges de militares<\/b><b> est\u00e1n en paro<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> debido a un estilo de vida dif\u00edcil que dificulta encontrar y mantener un empleo.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-you-ll-have-to-be-independent-and-self-reliant\"><b>3. You\u2019ll have to be independent and self-reliant<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si debes tener a tu pareja cerca todo el tiempo, una relaci\u00f3n con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">miembro del servicio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> no es para ti. En<\/span><b> independiente<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> har\u00e1 que el <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">novia militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o estilo de vida del c\u00f3nyuge mucho m\u00e1s manejable.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s of great importance that you don&#8217;t focus entirely on him. While he&#8217;s away, <\/span><b>you must do the things that are important to you<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> en lugar de poner tu vida en suspenso para sentarte a esperarle.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Developing your own interests and connections can be challenging. Making friends, organizing your life or developing your career will be difficult because you&#8217;re never long enough in one place to put down roots.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 Choosing a profession you can do anywhere<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">como <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">blogger<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Asistente virtual, el instructor puede ayudarte a evitar la sensaci\u00f3n de tener que empezar de nuevo cada vez que te mudas.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> <\/b>- <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/aficiones-para-mujeres-de-30-anos\/\"><b>Desarrollar aficiones<\/b><\/a><b>,<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> staying busy and focusing on learning new things can fill your time and help you grow. Find something that fulfills you, so that you can live your life independently from your boyfriend or spouse. You&#8217;ll miss him, but you\u2019ll know that you can handle it.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 This will also <\/span><b>le ayudar\u00e1 a echarle menos de menos y a preocuparse menos<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when you don&#8217;t know if he&#8217;s safe.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 Additionally, if he knows that you can cope and take care of yourself while he&#8217;s away, his time away will be much easier on him because <\/span><b>he won&#8217;t have to worry as much<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 In <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">familias de militares<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><b>la crianza en solitario siempre es una posibilidad<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. If you have a child, at times you&#8217;ll feel like a single parent because of how often your partner is absent. You should be prepared for this, emotionally, mentally and practically.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>RELACIONADO: <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/aficiones-para-mujeres-de-20-anos\/\"><b>55 aficiones que empoderan a las veintea\u00f1eras<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-it-s-a-long-distance-relationship\"><b>4. It&#8217;s a <\/b><b>relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mujer que trabaja de noche respondiendo a su novio a distancia\" class=\"wp-image-159478\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Amor militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> needs a lot of patience. Soldiers go away and you can never be sure when they\u2019ll be back. He\u2019ll leave for training, duty, mission, course; all pretty regularly. <\/span><b>Miembros del servicio<\/b><b> can\u2019t refuse to go,<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and you must accept this. Otherwise, your relationship can\u2019t last.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A lot of your time will be spent apart, and even when he\u2019s home, <\/span><b>la salida est\u00e1 siempre a una llamada de distancia<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Often, you\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-cosas-que-nadie-cuenta-a-las-relaciones-a-distancia\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">una relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he\u2019s deployed, you won\u2019t be able to come with him. <\/span><b>Podr\u00edais estar separados durante meses. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He\u2019s going to miss plans and special occasions and won\u2019t be available when you need him. At best, you might be able to text him or talk to him, but it\u2019s not guaranteed.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Going through deployment is tough, especially because it lasts for a long time. You can\u2019t count on being able to reach him because sometimes there are no channels of communication.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While you\u2019re dating, you can <\/span><b>aprende qu\u00e9 esperar si te casas con \u00e9l<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and what your future will look like. You\u2019ll always be the one who has to make sacrifices, and you never come first.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Para un <\/b><b>militar<\/b><b>su trabajo es el n\u00famero uno. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hasta que deje el servicio y se convierta en <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">veterinario<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">no tiene control sobre su vida.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>RELACIONADO: <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relacion-a-distancia-prueba-definitiva-amor\/\"><b>11 consejos para relaciones a distancia que os unir\u00e1n m\u00e1s<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-infidelity\"><b>Infidelidad<\/b><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hay que se\u00f1alar que, por desgracia, <\/span><b>algunos militares <\/b><b>miembros del servicio<\/b><b> terminar <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relacion-a-distancia-engano\/\"><b>enga\u00f1ar a sus c\u00f3nyuges<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> mientras est\u00e1s fuera<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El estr\u00e9s, la soledad y la camarader\u00eda nacida de unas circunstancias \u00fanicas pueden desembocar en la infidelidad. Un soldado puede racionalizarla <\/span><b>creer que su pareja en Estados Unidos le enga\u00f1a<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> en ellos.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por supuesto, no todos <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">miembros del servicio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> cheat on their significant others. Still, you should be aware that it happens before your relationship gets serious, especially if you don\u2019t have complete confidence in the man you\u2019re dating.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-you-ll-be-lonely\"><b>5. You&#8217;ll be lonely<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You won\u2019t only be alone, but you\u2019ll also get lonely. Dating and especially being married to a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> es muy diferente a salir con un civil.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 Moving away to be with him will send you <\/span><b>lejos de tus seres queridos<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 If you live near them, you still might face <\/span><b>reacci\u00f3n violenta y falta de comprensi\u00f3n <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">por las decisiones que tienes que tomar para permanecer en tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 People who don\u2019t know anything about military relationships might not be able to grasp what your life is like. You\u2019ll feel like <\/span><b>no one understands what you\u2019re going through<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> because outsiders can\u2019t relate to the world you live in.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>\u2022 Connecting with your boyfriend or husband might be challenging<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Los soldados est\u00e1n entrenados para ocultar su vulnerabilidad, as\u00ed que puede que tarde un poco en abrirse a ti.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 After you create an <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-formas-de-establecer-una-conexion-emocional-mas-profunda-con-tu-hombre\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">v\u00ednculo emocional<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you\u2019re not done building your relationship;<\/span><b> tienes que trabajar en ello<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tanto como quieras que dure.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 During long periods of waiting, when you don\u2019t hear from him for weeks, the feelings of worry and insecurity will become overwhelming.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 If your partner <\/span><b>doesn\u2019t want to talk<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> about his experiences after returning home, it\u2019s because he needs time to process what he\u2019s been through.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Still, it\u2019s not uncommon for <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">c\u00f3nyuges de militares<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to believe that the reason their partner doesn\u2019t want to talk is their fault. This kind of thinking can make you feel even worse because you\u2019re already feeling isolated, but things will get better <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-marido-me-ignora-10-maneras-de-hacer-que-se-abra-a-ti\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cuando se abre a ti<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-life-on-the-move\"><b>6. La vida en movimiento<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out.jpg\" alt=\"pareja que se muda\" class=\"wp-image-159472\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Conoce a un soldado a trav\u00e9s de un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sitio de citas en l\u00ednea<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o en una aplicaci\u00f3n, y empez\u00e1is a salir. Las cosas se est\u00e1n poniendo serias, entonces un d\u00eda,<\/span><b> he tells you that he\u2019s moving away<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. \u00bfQu\u00e9 hacer? \u00bfEst\u00e1s dispuesta a mudarte con \u00e9l? \u00bfOptar\u00e1s por estar en una <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-problemas-de-las-relaciones-a-distancia-y-como-hacer-que-funcionen\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Continuar su relaci\u00f3n con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is going to be a challenge if you\u2019re not committed enough to move with him or you don\u2019t want to do it. Dating a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">miembro del servicio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tiene fecha de caducidad si quieres vivir en un lugar concreto.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estar en una relaci\u00f3n comprometida con un militar significa que <\/span><b>you can\u2019t put down roots anywhere<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> because a PCS can come at any time. PCS is an acronym that stands for Permanent Change of Station \u2013 a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.armymwr.com\/about-us\/army-terms\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">t\u00e9rmino militar<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that means he\u2019s being relocated and that you\u2019re moving.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can take you to a different state, across the country or anywhere in the world. If you like to travel and enjoy meeting lots of new people, you\u2019ll love this aspect of being a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">c\u00f3nyuge militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but if you\u2019d like to settle down, it\u2019s going to be tough.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Entablar amistad con otros <\/b><b>c\u00f3nyuges de militares<\/b> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dondequiera que acabe es lo mejor que puede hacer despu\u00e9s de trasladarse, ya que puede ahorrarle muchos quebraderos de cabeza.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They\u2019ve been where you are now, so they can share their experience with you and give you advice. More importantly, <\/span><b>entienden c\u00f3mo es tu vida<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> de la forma en que nadie m\u00e1s lo hace, para que puedan hacerte sentir que perteneces.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-rules-and-etiquette\"><b>7. Reglas y etiqueta<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuando te conviertes en <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">c\u00f3nyuge militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you\u2019ll be expected to follow various rules. They include:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 Following protocol on base<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. For example, observing ceremony while the national anthem and colors are playing and showing respect when you see the raising of the flag (stop doing whatever you\u2019ve been doing, stand, face the flag and put your right hand over your heart.)<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 Behavior in daily life<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. For example, you should always stay on the left side while walking with your partner so that he\u2019s able to salute if you encounter a senior officer.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 Protocol for formal events<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">como las pelotas militares obligatorias.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 Proper attire<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Nada de ropa reveladora o inapropiada.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 Respecting the uniform<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Nadie excepto <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">personal militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> puede llevarlo; debe comportarse adecuadamente mientras su pareja lo lleva.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 OPSEC awareness<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. OPSEC stands for Operations Security \u2013 exists to protect U.S. operations. Being mindful of OPSEC means that <\/span><b>you\u2019re not allowed to share anything that might lead to potential enemies discovering critical information<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, you\u2019re not allowed to talk about your spouse\u2019s job on social media, make his address publicly available, share pictures that might show the location of the base, etc.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/saliendo-con-un-hombre-arabe\/\">\u00bfC\u00f3mo es salir con un \u00e1rabe? (Gu\u00eda completa)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-military-friends\"><b>8. Amigos militares<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends.jpg\" alt=\"hombre pasando el rato con sus amigos\" class=\"wp-image-159479\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">comunidad militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> est\u00e1 muy unida. Despu\u00e9s de pasar tiempos dif\u00edciles juntos, <\/span><b>miembros del servicio<\/b><b> pueden llegar a ser incluso m\u00e1s cercanos que la familia<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Their lives depend on having each other\u2019s backs, so their bonds are unique and strong.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re with a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pronto te das cuenta de que sus compa\u00f1eros de trabajo son tambi\u00e9n sus amigos. Socializan en sus horas libres y <\/span><b>they\u2019ll drop everything for each other<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You\u2019ll be seeing these people often, so learn to get along with them or build friendships of your own with some of them.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you dislike some of his military friends, learn to at least tolerate them. You\u2019ll often feel like you don\u2019t fit in, but do your best to make friends. You might also develop relationships with his friends\u2019 spouses along the way.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Familias de militares<\/b><b> apoyarse mutuamente<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">que aprender\u00e1s en cuanto necesites algo.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-no-control-over-your-life\"><b>9. No controlas tu vida<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Muchos aspectos de tu vida quedar\u00e1n fuera de tu control. Esta puede ser la parte m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de estar con un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>\u2022 Someone else decides where you live<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. El traslado aleatorio significa que tienes que mudarte aunque te guste el lugar donde est\u00e1s. La sensaci\u00f3n de hogar ya no est\u00e1 ligada a un lugar.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 His <\/span><b>ausencia frecuente y prolongada<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">s mean plans that change all the time, vacation available only when you\u2019re allowed, and not being able to count on him.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 The constant <\/span><b>incertidumbre y preocupaci\u00f3n<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> que su vida corre peligro cuando se va de despliegue.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many aspects of your life will be decided by other people. You have to accept it, but don\u2019t endure it in silence \u2013 <\/span><b>solicitar apoyo<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> de su propia familia y otros <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">familias de militares<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. When you\u2019re feeling frustrated, sometimes it\u2019s enough to know that someone understands.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Adem\u00e1s, existen<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/installations.militaryonesource.mil\/?looking-for-a=program\/program-service=26\/focus=program\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">varios recursos oficiales<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> que pueden proporcionarle ayuda cuando la necesite, as\u00ed como grupos de apoyo a c\u00f3nyuges de militares.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-emotionally-demanding-lifestyle\"><b>10. Estilo de vida emocionalmente exigente<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja de militares cogidos de la mano\" class=\"wp-image-159476\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Usted debe ser <\/span><b>estable, flexible y adaptable <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">if you\u2019re to thrive in a relationship with a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>While you\u2019re dating, you don\u2019t have any rights<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that will make your relationship easier. If you move to be with him, you have to pay for everything yourself. You might have to leave your education or job behind. If he leaves on deployment, you won\u2019t receive any information from official sources.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Si te casas, algunas de estas cosas cambian<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. On the other hand, you commit to an incredibly demanding lifestyle. Loneliness, lack of communication, lack of support, unfriendly attitudes \u2013 you might be overwhelmed the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primera vez<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you realize what you\u2019re in for, but soon enough, you\u2019ll learn how to handle it.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cuando tu novio o c\u00f3nyuge est\u00e1 desplegado, <\/span><b>nada es seguro<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Not knowing whether he\u2019s safe or not is incredibly exhausting and scary. Information can be scarce or non-existent, so there will be <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">d\u00edas malos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when all you\u2019re left with is worry.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even though your partner has to be emotionally strong to do what he does, he\u2019ll need lots of <\/span><b>comprensi\u00f3n y apoyo emocional<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Las experiencias militares son estresantes y pueden afectar a su salud mental. Est\u00e9 a su lado y esc\u00fachele cuando lo necesite.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por muy exigente que sea la vida de un c\u00f3nyuge de militar, <\/span><b>superar los retos te ayudar\u00e1 a crecer y aprender<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/salir-con-un-irlandes\/\">19 cosas que debes saber antes de salir con un irland\u00e9s<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-in-closing\"><b>Para terminar<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja de militares cuidando a su hijo\" class=\"wp-image-159475\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfCrees que puedes manejar un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaci\u00f3n militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? <\/span><b>Salir con un <\/b><b>militar<\/b><b> implica una serie de retos<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but if you\u2019re prepared and know what to expect, it\u2019s easier to adjust.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A pesar de todas las dificultades, si le gustas a tu chico militar y \u00e9l te gusta a ti, ten\u00e9is la oportunidad de ser una de las parejas militares que funcionan. Como en cualquier relaci\u00f3n, <\/span><b>si hay voluntad, comunicaci\u00f3n y amor, pod\u00e9is encontrar la felicidad el uno con el otro.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Todo lo que debes saber sobre salir con un militar Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-160131\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating a military man is tough. You\u2019ll face challenges that can, at some point, become too much to handle. You\u2019ll be tested \u2013 your patience, your adaptability and your feelings. You\u2019ll experience a lot of uncertainty and worry. For this reason, before you enter into a relationship with a military guy, make sure you really&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":159473,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-159421","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/159421","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=159421"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/159421\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/159473"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=159421"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=159421"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=159421"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}