{"id":15958,"date":"2020-06-07T13:17:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-07T13:17:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15958"},"modified":"2022-02-20T22:47:07","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T22:47:07","slug":"carta-abierta-man-will-never-mine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-abierta-man-will-never-mine\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta abierta al hombre que nunca ser\u00e1 m\u00edo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Realmente no vi venir esto. \u00bfC\u00f3mo iba a saber que significar\u00eda tanto para m\u00ed? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo no enamorarme de tus ojos chispeantes cuando me mirabas, de tu sonrisa perfecta y dulce y de tus caricias que me hac\u00edan sentir como nunca antes me hab\u00eda sentido?<\/span><\/p>\n

I admit it\u2014<\/i><\/b>Me enamor\u00e9 de ti<\/i><\/b><\/a>...sin ni siquiera saberlo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Me enamor\u00e9 tanto de ti que me perd\u00ed por completo intentando que te fijaras en m\u00ed. Y durante todo ese tiempo, me negu\u00e9 a creer que nunca ser\u00edas m\u00eda. So\u00f1aba despierta con nosotros y con nuestra perfecta vida futura.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pensaba que nos casar\u00edamos, tendr\u00edamos hijos y vivir\u00edamos felices para siempre.<\/span><\/p>\n

I thought that you are what I have been seeking for such a long time and that you will never disappoint me. But you did. And it broke my heart into pieces so small that it can\u2019t be fixed anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Me qued\u00e9 con el coraz\u00f3n sangrando, rog\u00e1ndote que me miraras y me curaras con un solo toque.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I was begging you to stay with me because my pride didn\u2019t mean anything to me compared to my love for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

I<\/span> was ready to do anything for the man of my dreams. And I didn\u2019t care what others will say about that as long as I was happy. The thing was that I couldn\u2019t get what I craved the most because you didn\u2019t feel even half of what I felt.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know that I was thinking about you the whole day and that I would totally lose myself when you would pass near me. <\/span><\/p>\n

With every word from your mouth, I was melting, even if it was just \u2018hi\u2019 while you were passing by. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cada vez que te ve\u00eda, mi coraz\u00f3n empezaba a latir m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido y sent\u00eda que me iba a desmayar.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Estaba tan nerviosa intentando impresionarte pero nunca pude llegar a ti con la suficiente profundidad como para que me tuvieras en cuenta<\/i><\/b>. <\/span><\/p>\n

For you, I was just a cute girl that you would have fun with when your wife wasn\u2019t there. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfY sabes qu\u00e9 era lo peor de todo? Me conformaba con tener s\u00f3lo un poco de ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Era mejor tener una parte de ti que no tenerte en absoluto. Y eso tambi\u00e9n funcion\u00f3 para ti. Me ten\u00edas siempre que quer\u00edas y yo me comportaba como si fuera mi \u00faltima vez cada vez que estaba contigo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Too bad that I didn\u2019t know that you will never be mine\u2014not because it wasn\u2019t possible but because you didn\u2019t want that. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t think about me as someone you can spend the rest of your life with. <\/span><\/p>\n

You just wanted to have me when you wanted and you didn\u2019t think about my needs. And my only need wasn\u2019t that I sleep with you, hug you or kiss you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mi necesidad esencial era tenerte como mi mejor amigo, mi alma gemela y mi media naranja.<\/i><\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que lucharas por m\u00ed<\/span><\/a>, but you couldn\u2019t even do that. You were a coward for making me fall for you, knowing that you would never reciprocate with the same emotions. <\/span><\/p>\n

Viste una gran oportunidad y la aprovechaste sin preguntarme qu\u00e9 quer\u00eda. Y yo s\u00f3lo esperaba<\/span>tu amor. S\u00f3lo eso. Pero te perdiste de ver lo incre\u00edble que era.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t see my fun spirit, my cheerful temperament and my support for you when you needed it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te perdiste de ver todas las cosas buenas de m\u00ed porque s\u00f3lo te interesaba explorar mi cuerpo en lugar de mi coraz\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

And the main problem was that we didn\u2019t want the same things.  <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9ramos dos mundos diferentes que nunca lo lograr\u00edan.<\/i><\/b> And even if I don\u2019t know why our paths crossed, Todav\u00eda me alegro de haberte conocido<\/a>. No por ti, sino por la lecci\u00f3n de vida que aprend\u00ed mientras estuve contigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aprend\u00ed que la forma en que me trataste no es la forma en que un hombre enamorado debe tratar a su dama.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Being in love is much more than that\u2014much more love, affection, and support.<\/span><\/p>\n

It means not trying to mold your lady into someone who she doesn\u2019t want to be, just so you could be happy. It is accepting the one you love just the way they are and not trying to change them unless they want it.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you ever read this letter, I want you to know that I was crazy in love with you and I don\u2019t regret that. <\/span><\/p>\n

In the end, no matter how hard you try, you really can\u2019t control your feelings. You can just go with the flow or let everything go.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, prob\u00e9 las dos opciones y me gust\u00f3 m\u00e1s la segunda. <\/span>Cuando te deje ir<\/span><\/a>Finalmente me encontr\u00e9 a m\u00ed mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por fin he vuelto a quererme a m\u00ed misma y, para ser sincera, es el \u00fanico amor que necesito.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Carta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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