{"id":159806,"date":"2022-11-09T11:42:14","date_gmt":"2022-11-09T11:42:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=159806"},"modified":"2023-02-14T08:31:18","modified_gmt":"2023-02-14T08:31:18","slug":"como-invitar-a-un-chico-a-salir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-invitar-a-un-chico-a-salir\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo invitar a un chico a salir: 8 consejos (+50 ejemplos)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aunque creo firmemente que las mujeres son el sexo m\u00e1s valiente, la verdad es que a la mayor\u00eda de nosotros nos sigue aterrorizando dar el primer paso<\/a> when we like someone. Even if we gather the courage to do so, we still don\u2019t know c\u00f3mo invitar a un chico a salir.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019re afraid that we might sound desperate or that our invitation may scare and drive him away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed que decidimos no hacer nada o quedarnos quietos y esperar a que la otra persona d\u00e9 el primer paso.<\/strong>que es, por cierto, lo peor que podemos hacer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The good news is that you don\u2019t need a dating coach or relationship coaching service to help you out because, with just a few good tips, you\u2019ll be ready to ask your guy friend or the guy you met on a dating app out. Of course, these tips are provided for you right here below.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3mo invitar a un chico a salir: 8 consejos<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"pareja<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Inviting a guy you\u2019ve been crushing on forever on a first date is a big deal for you, especially if it\u2019s the first time you\u2019re making the first move with a man.<\/em> Frankly, it\u2019s always a huge deal for us all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why I\u2019ve left you this tiny guide here, so you do it perfectly and get a positive reaction\/answer from the other person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Hazlo cuando te sientas preparado<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Just because you like him and want to go out on a date with him doesn\u2019t mean you must invite him out ASAP. You need to take that step when you feel completely ready for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Primero tienes que reunir fuerzas y ser sincero contigo mismo. <\/strong>Acepta que puede acabar de varias maneras y que puede que no te guste la respuesta que obtengas de la otra persona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Don\u2019t make it a romantic date right away<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"pareja<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If you immediately say that you\u2019re inviting him on a romantic date, it may make you sound a bit desperate, which could make him run away. You need to simply ask him to hang out without being too obvious about the romantic feelings you\u2019ve caught for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, you shouldn\u2019t emphasize that it\u2019ll only be a friendly date because he might use you as su copiloto<\/a> en esa fecha.<\/em> That will hurt you for sure, and that\u2019s why you need to be careful about the way you invite him out. Of course, this is only if you like him romantically.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Pregunte por sus intereses<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you have any mutual friends, you should ask around about your crush’s whereabouts and hangouts. Intenta averiguar cu\u00e1les son sus intereses y qu\u00e9 le gusta hacer en su tiempo libre.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s how you\u2019ll be able to invite him on a date he won\u2019t be able to reject. Por ejemplo, si le gusta el baloncesto o la m\u00fasica en directo, puedes seguir la pista de su artista, grupo o equipo de baloncesto favorito y comprarle dos entradas para el partido o el evento.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then you simply tell him you have a spare ticket for that game or event and ask him to join you. He\u2019ll be delighted and won\u2019t have any other choice but to accept your offer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Incluir una hora espec\u00edfica<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Debe concretar su invitaci\u00f3n con una hora espec\u00edfica por dos razones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First of all, it would be easier for him to answer immediately because he can check his plans for that day\/time. And more importantly, you won\u2019t make yourself too available or flexible, which is highly important when it comes to dating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You should never make it too obvious to a man that you\u2019re always there for him or that he can have you whenever he wants. <\/strong>That is a huge turnoff for almost every man, and it definitely won\u2019t lead you anywhere but to a broken heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Puedes mencionar que tus amigos comunes tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1n invitados<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"grupo<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If you think he may reject your invitation because he\u2019s too shy to be alone with you still, you can also invite some of your mutual friends and mention to him that they\u2019re invited too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That way, you\u2019ll get him to accept your offer even if he isn\u2019t into you, and you\u2019ll get a chance to win him over at that hangout. The more hangouts you can get him to come to, the closer you\u2019ll be to your final goal: to win him over once and for all.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. H\u00e1galo en persona<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Why not? Sure, it\u2019s a lot easier to do it over text, but doing it in person will show your man that you\u2019re brave enough to do it face-to-face even though you may be rejected, and it\u2019ll also show him that you really care about him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The fact is, we all don\u2019t handle rejection very well, but forget about this tip if you\u2019re an emotionally unstable or chica t\u00edmida<\/a>. <\/em>Puede que empieces a llorar despu\u00e9s de que te rechace, y tus l\u00e1grimas son, con diferencia, lo \u00faltimo que necesitas mostrarle a un hombre que te rechaza.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Presionarle y chantajearle emocionalmente son un gran NO<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"mujer<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Tu \u00fanica tarea es invitarle a salir de forma normal y educada. Don\u2019t pressure him into immediately answering you because, trust me, it won\u2019t end well.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, don\u2019t ever say things like \u201cit\u2019ll break my heart if you don\u2019t accept my invitation\u201d or \u201cplease say yes because otherwise, you\u2019ll make me sad!\u201d This is emotional blackmail, and it\u2019s one of the things men hate the most.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Don\u2019t despair if he doesn\u2019t agree immediately<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Your man may immediately accept your invitation, but he may also reject it or leave you waiting for an answer. You need to be prepared that the last two options are also on the table for as long as he doesn\u2019t give you a real answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you get one of them, you shouldn\u2019t despair because it doesn\u2019t have to mean that your story ends there. <\/strong>Maybe he\u2019ll reach out to you after a while and accept your invitation after all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if that doesn\u2019t happen, it still doesn\u2019t mean that the world has ended. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, and one of them will be more than happy to go out on a date with you.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo invitar a un chico a salir por SMS? 50 ejemplos<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"chica<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For all of you who always choose the practical over theory, I\u2019ve compiled this list of the best text examples to ask a guy out. With these texts and the tips above, you most definitely won\u2019t sound desperate, and your crush will have no choice but to accept your invitation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. I\u2019m going to the mall. Wanna come with me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. I was going to go to the art exhibit that\u2019s in town right now. Wanna come with me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u00bfQuieres ir a patinar sobre hielo el viernes despu\u00e9s de clase? \u00a1He o\u00eddo que la pista de patinaje del centro es incre\u00edble!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. \u00bfQu\u00e9 d\u00edas sueles tener libres? \u00bfQuieres quedar alg\u00fan d\u00eda?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. \u00bfQuieres ir a tomar un caf\u00e9 alg\u00fan d\u00eda?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. \u00bfQuieres quedar para estudiar en la biblioteca despu\u00e9s del trabajo?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Deber\u00edamos reunirnos alguna vez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. \u00bfQuieres venir a mi casa despu\u00e9s del trabajo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. \u00bfQu\u00e9 vas a hacer esta noche? \u00bfQuieres ir a tomar una cerveza?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. \u00bfTe gustar\u00eda venir a la bolera conmigo este s\u00e1bado?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. I’m going to go see (some band) when they come to town in three weeks. Live music is always fun, and tickets are cheap. Want to come with me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. \u00bfQuieres dar un paseo en bici por el r\u00edo despu\u00e9s del trabajo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Amigo, tenemos que salir alg\u00fan d\u00eda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. It’s so nice outside I’ve decided to go for a walk. Want to join me?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. Voy a esquiar con mis amigos este fin de semana. \u00bfQuieres venir con nosotros? Nos sobra un asiento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

16. Deber\u00edamos reunirnos fuera de clase\/trabajo pronto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"pareja<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

17. My phone’s been acting weird all day. I gotta go to the mall to see if they can fix it. Want to keep me company?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

18. \u00bfQu\u00e9 vas a hacer este domingo por la ma\u00f1ana? \u00bfQuieres que hagamos ejercicio juntos?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

19. I haven\u2019t been to the movies in forever! Let\u2019s go someday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

20. This is pretty last minute, but I\u2019m in your area tonight with some of my friends. Would you care to grab some drinks with us?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

21. \u00bfQuieres venir a hacer un picnic y una hoguera en la playa? He invitado a unas cuantas personas, \u00a1as\u00ed que ser\u00e1 divertido!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

22. \u00bfQuieres cenar algo este viernes?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

23. Quer\u00eda invitarte a cenar. \u00bfQu\u00e9 te parece esta noche?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

24. \u00bfQuieres venir a jugar a videojuegos? Algunos de mis amigos tambi\u00e9n se unir\u00e1n a nosotros, as\u00ed que ser\u00e1 muy divertido.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

25. \u00bfQu\u00e9 vas a hacer este fin de semana? \u00bfTienes planes? Estaba pensando en ir al estreno de esa nueva pel\u00edcula, \u00bfte gustar\u00eda venir conmigo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

26. Am I horrible if I say my desk is the most boring place in the world? I\u2019m going for a coffee break in about 15 minutes. You should come along.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

27. \u00bfQuieres ir a la playa este fin de semana?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

28. There\u2019s a concert next Monday at 7. Do you want to come with me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

29. \u00bfQuieres ir a tomar un helado? Hay un sitio nuevo cerca del colegio que quiero probar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

30. So, tell me: how does dinner at my place sound? FYI, I\u2019m a good cook.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

31. Oye, \u00bfquieres ir a ese nuevo restaurante conmigo el viernes?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

32. \u00bfQuieres quedar para almorzar el domingo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"pareja<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

33. \u00bfQuieres unirte a Ashley y a m\u00ed para tomar un par de copas despu\u00e9s del trabajo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

34. Since it appears you may not be asking me out anytime soon, can I ask you out instead? (Only for the bravest women among you \ud83d\ude01)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

35. Hey, I\u2019ve got this work party I have to go to, do you wanna be my wingman for it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

36. \u00bfQu\u00e9 vas a hacer este fin de semana? \u00bfQuieres ir de excursi\u00f3n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

37. Hey, I\u2019m having some friends over to watch the Olympics this weekend. Feel free to join us!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

38. Este viernes voy a hacer surf. \u00bfQuieres venir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

39. This calls for drinks! Let\u2019s meet up somewhere Friday night to celebrate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

40. There\u2019s a free yoga class at the park this Saturday that I\u2019m going to. You should come with me!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

41. \u00bfQuieres venir un rato y ayudarme a estudiar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

42. \u00a1Eh! Un grupo de nosotros vamos a tomar unas pizzas y unas copas este viernes por la noche. \u00bfQuieres venir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

43. We\u2019ve been having some good weather lately. Good enough for a picnic. Want to meet up in the park on Sunday?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

44. I\u2019m going to the park with my new puppy, want to join me?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

45. I\u2019d kill for a coffee right now. Do you want to hit that new coffee shop with me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

46. I\u2019m having a party on Saturday. Do you want to come?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

47. Oh, by the way, I\u2019m going to the museum in the city this weekend. Feel free to join.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

48. Voy a hacer una barbacoa este fin de semana. \u00bfQuieres venir?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

49. Hey, feel free to say no, but I\u2019m going to an \u201880s night at this bar tonight if you wanna join!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

50. \u00bfQuieres quedar para comer pizza y jugar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 175 hilarantes pero dulces frases de conquista para chicos y chicas<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al final<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"chica<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Now you know how to ask a guy to hang out, and you\u2019re also equipped with the best text examples to do so. Gather the courage and finally make the first move.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust me, you\u2019ll regret it if you don\u2019t.<\/strong> Even if you get rejected, it may hurt in the beginning, but later on, you\u2019ll realize that you\u2019ve done the right thing by inviting them out. At least you know it\u2019s not up to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Otherwise, if you don\u2019t invite him out, you\u2019ll stay curious forever about what could have happened if you were only brave enough to ask him out.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Good luck, even though I\u2019m pretty sure you don\u2019t even need it because you\u2019ll sweep your man off his feet instantly. He\u2019ll fall for your bravery and the fact you had the guts to make the first move. However, I\u2019m keeping my fingers crossed for you. \ud83e\udd1e<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Even though I firmly believe that women are the more courageous sex, the truth is, most of us are still terrified to make the first move when we like someone. Even if we gather the courage to do so, we still don\u2019t know how to ask a guy to hang out. We\u2019re afraid that we…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":159804,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-159806","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/How-To-Ask-A-Guy-To-Hang-Out-8-Tips-50-Examples-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/159806","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=159806"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/159806\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/159804"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=159806"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=159806"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=159806"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}