{"id":15981,"date":"2018-03-08T07:57:53","date_gmt":"2018-03-08T07:57:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15981"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:07:01","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:07:01","slug":"chico-atrapado-mano-cookie-jar-dont-blame-cookie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/chico-atrapado-mano-cookie-jar-dont-blame-cookie\/","title":{"rendered":"Al ni\u00f1o que pillaron con la mano en el tarro de las galletas: No culpes a la galleta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Oh, you\u2019re mad at me I hear. I made things difficult for you, did I? Am I supposed to apologize? Sabes lo que hiciste, \u00bfverdad? Hiciste trampa, y luego te atraparon.<\/strong> I didn\u2019t try to cheat on my wife. I didn\u2019t track down my high school sweetheart nearly a decade after I broke her heart to apologize. I was minding my own fucking business. Living my life. You, a distant memory accompanied by a bad taste in my mouth. The taste of pain, betrayal and desperation.<\/p>\n

Eras un sue\u00f1o de instituto hecho realidad que se convirti\u00f3 en pesadilla.<\/strong> Entraste en mi vida como una fantas\u00eda. Capit\u00e1n del equipo de f\u00fatbol y del de baloncesto. Inteligente, carism\u00e1tico, guapo, encantador y divertido. Todas esas cosas. El tipo de atractivo que es innegable. Dejaste que me enamorara de ti y luego la elegiste a ella. ENTONCES, en lugar de dejarme ir, me retuviste hasta que me convert\u00ed en un inconveniente para ti. Luego, finalmente, te deshiciste de m\u00ed de la peor manera. Sabes lo que hiciste. Y luego te persigui\u00f3. Durante ocho a\u00f1os te persigui\u00f3. Preguntaste por m\u00ed a nuestros amigos, seguiste mi evoluci\u00f3n y esperaste. You waited until I was perfectly fine. When the ghost of who you were to me had long since settled in my mind, and then you decided to assuage your own guilt. At the expense of my heart\u2014and had I let you in\u2014possibly my future.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cuando o\u00ed tu voz, volv\u00ed a tener quince a\u00f1os. Cuando me dijiste que me quer\u00edas, la joven que hab\u00eda en m\u00ed se sinti\u00f3 euf\u00f3rica. Fue como si el tiempo desapareciera y volvi\u00e9ramos a ser nosotros. Todas las cosas que nos gustaban de ser nosotros. Pero las mujeres adultas culo me llam\u00f3 bullshit. Puta mierda. \u00c9ramos una mentira. \u00c9ramos una ilusi\u00f3n<\/a> that disappeared when you returned to your girlfriend and pretended that we were just friends, and I pretended that it didn’t kill me.<\/strong> We were nothing more than me idolizing you to the point that I couldn\u2019t see you were using me. I gave you all the things you were missing from your relationship, and then you got to go back to it while I was left twisting in the wind until the next time you needed what you needed from me. Yo era tu lugar seguro. Tu persona. Pero ELLA era tu mujer. Y all\u00ed pas\u00e9 10 a\u00f1os, esperando a que despertaras y vieras que yo pod\u00eda ser tu todo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can pretend that you didn\u2019t know that I LOVED you, that we were something that we weren\u2019t. Puedes reescribir la historia en tu cabeza para que tu personaje parezca m\u00e1s cercano. Pero la verdad es que eras ego\u00edsta. Eras ego\u00edsta entonces y eres ego\u00edsta ahora.<\/strong> After everything you put me through, and you put me through some shit that could fill up a novel\u2026 you don\u2019t even deserve to be forgiven. But I did forgive you. A long time ago. When I stopped loving you. When I looked long and hard at the situation and determined that you did what you thought you needed to for yourself and your family, I let it go. Me mud\u00e9 tan lejos<\/a> past it that I didn\u2019t even hate you anymore.<\/p>\n

En todo ese tiempo, te dej\u00e9 solo. Para vivir tu vida con la mujer que elegiste. Para construir una familia con el ni\u00f1o que creaste mientras a\u00fan te acostabas conmigo y a sabiendas no usabas anticonceptivos. Incluso cuando me dejaste enterarme por otra persona de que tu hijo hab\u00eda nacido, dos semanas despu\u00e9s de la \u00faltima vez que estuve contigo y no ten\u00eda ni idea de que estabas a semanas de ser padre. Te dej\u00e9 sola. Despite how much you hurt me, I didn\u2019t try to hurt you back, or shatter your world like you did mine. I left you alone\u2014to marry her, have another child with her, raise those children with her. I left you alone.<\/strong> That\u2019s what you do when you actually love somebody. Los dejas ir<\/a>. You let them live their life, even if it\u2019s not with you because you sincerely want the best for them\u2026 even when they have given you no reason to show such loyalty.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, ahora usted Se\u00f1or, NO se enfade conmigo.<\/strong> I did NOTHING to you, aside from express what effect your appearance in my life (8 years after you extinguished yourself from it in the cruelest possible way) was having on my psyche. And just to be clear about what that effect was, for starters, I cried for three full days. I called in sick to work for two. My mom came to visit me, got off the plane, took one look at me and thought I was vomiting all day. Nope, just crying. Non-stop. Because mom, you remember that time you told me, \u201cThat guy doesn\u2019t love you. He is not your friend, and you need to leave him alone.\u201d Remember that? Yeah, well, apparently he really DID love me. So there. See. More tears. Some mom rage. Reminders of alllllllll the things he did that were terrible. Like I forgot. That was the start of it.<\/p>\n

Luego la incertidumbre cuando intentabas decirme que era a m\u00ed a quien quer\u00edas y con quien quer\u00edas estar. El profundo deseo en m\u00ed de creerte. La necesidad de que fuera verdad. De validar que todo lo que hab\u00eda pasado formaba parte de una retorcida historia de amor que iba a terminar felizmente contigo y conmigo saltando hacia la puesta de sol.<\/strong> The months of anguish as I heard from you sporadically at best, but you kept swearing you loved me, and wanted to be with me, and you just want to see me\u2026 and me saying no. Wanting to say yes. Missing you, wanting you, aching for something that I had resigned to myself would never be. Until finally I was like, fuck you in a flurry of texts\u2026 seemingly out of nowhere. Just expressing how selfish you\u2019ve been, and how much you\u2019ve really hurt me over the years. I was entitled to that. At the very least. So you don\u2019t get to be mad at me because your wife saw that. That\u2019s not my fault, nor was it my intention. I\u2019ll be honest though, I feel bad for her\u2026 but you? Puedes irte a la mierda.<\/strong> You\u2019re mad at me? Go on.<\/p>\n

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Oh, you\u2019re mad at me I hear. I made things difficult for you, did I? Am I supposed to apologize? You do know what you did, right? You cheated, and then you got caught. I didn\u2019t try to cheat on my wife. I didn\u2019t track down my high school sweetheart nearly a decade after I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":15984,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15981","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/toa-heftiba-295056-unsplash.jpg",800,574,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15981","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15981"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15981\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15984"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15981"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15981"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15981"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}