{"id":160394,"date":"2022-11-22T15:01:26","date_gmt":"2022-11-22T15:01:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=160394"},"modified":"2022-11-30T08:11:02","modified_gmt":"2022-11-30T08:11:02","slug":"enrollarse-varias-veces-con-la-misma-persona","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/enrollarse-varias-veces-con-la-misma-persona\/","title":{"rendered":"22 cosas que hay que saber sobre enrollarse varias veces con la misma persona"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lately, you\u2019ve been <\/span>conexi\u00f3n<\/span> con el <\/span>la misma persona varias veces<\/span>. Vosotros dos dorm\u00eds juntos desde <\/span>de vez en cuando<\/span>, but you\u2019re clearly not in a <\/span>relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te entiendo porque yo tambi\u00e9n estuve en esa situaci\u00f3n. Y segu\u00ed pregunt\u00e1ndome:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa todo esto? \u00bfQu\u00e9 debo saber antes de <\/b>conexi\u00f3n<\/b> con el mismo chico o chica una y otra vez?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What are the pros and cons of this arrangement? Why do guys hook up with a girl more than once without asking them to be their girlfriends? Why do women do the same thing? What are the surefire signs that it\u2019s <\/strong><\/b>m\u00e1s que un encuentro<\/b><\/strong><\/a>?<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll get the answers to these questions and much more if you read on.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Liarte varias veces con la misma persona: 4 ventajas<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Here\u2019s why <\/span>conexi\u00f3n<\/span> con la misma persona varias veces es una gran idea:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Qu\u00edmica asombrosa<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Una cosa es segura: ustedes dos han tenido <\/span>qu\u00edmica incre\u00edble<\/span><\/a> desde el <\/span>primera vez<\/span> te has enrollado. Y tanto si a algunos les gusta admitirlo como si no, la qu\u00edmica en este tipo de relaci\u00f3n es normalmente mucho m\u00e1s fuerte que en las relaciones de pareja. <\/span>relaciones rom\u00e1nticas<\/span> que siguen las reglas desde el principio.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The butterflies practically never fly away. Whenever you two meet, you can\u2019t keep your hands off each other. It\u2019s like your bodies are magnetically drawn to one another.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that feels great. Maybe it\u2019s not the whole package, and maybe you\u2019d get more somewhere else, but deep down, you know that not many people could evoke these feelings inside you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. M\u00e1s tiempo para ti<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s another amazing advantage to <\/span>relaciones espor\u00e1dicas<\/span><\/a>: tienes todo el tiempo del mundo para ti. <\/span>You\u2019re basically single, but at the same time, you have someone to sleep with, kiss, or cuddle.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you play your cards right, you get the best of both worlds. You don\u2019t have to find time in your busy schedule to meet up with them on a daily basis, you don\u2019t have to respond to boring <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> every morning, and you most certainly don\u2019t have to plan holidays to fit in with their family either.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And the best part of hooking up with the same person multiple times is that you don\u2019t have to invest most of your time and energy in a quest for a new partner. You don\u2019t feel pressured to go on dates or go through endless talking stages because you already have someone.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, you can do whatever you want with your life. You\u2019re free to plan your next vacation without having to consider your partner\u2019s desires. You have enough time for your friends, hobbies, and, most importantly, personal improvement.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Ce\u00f1irse a una <\/b>pareja sexual<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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If you\u2019re <\/span>conexi\u00f3n<\/span> with this person on a regular basis, you likely won\u2019t feel the need to sleep with anyone else. <\/span>Don\u2019t get me wrong, I\u2019m not saying you should be faithful to your casual partner if you\u2019re not exclusive.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, ce\u00f1irse a una sola pareja sexual y no entrar en <\/strong><\/b>sexo de riesgo<\/b><\/strong><\/a> es sin duda uno de los pros de este tipo de acuerdos.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

First and foremost, there is less risk of STDs. Also, you\u2019ve already built a kind of bond with this person. At least you know what their <\/span>torceduras<\/span> y otras preferencias en la cama, y tambi\u00e9n saben c\u00f3mo satisfacerte.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. It\u2019s never boring<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Even though you\u2019re hooking up with the same person all the time, things never get boring. <\/span>Ustedes dos no est\u00e1n en una relaci\u00f3n seria, y no hay absolutamente ninguna manera de que este casi romance caiga en la rutina.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t get enough of each other as you don\u2019t spend all your time together. And every time you miss them, your attraction, chemistry, and feelings intensify.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Engancharse<\/b> Con La <\/b>La misma persona varias veces<\/b>: 5 Contras<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Lamentablemente, no siempre todo va sobre ruedas. A continuaci\u00f3n te explicamos por qu\u00e9 puedes esperar problemas en el para\u00edso:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Problemas de pareja sin tener pareja<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

La primera desventaja de <\/span>conexi\u00f3n<\/span> con el <\/span>la misma persona varias veces<\/span> is having relationship problems without actually being in a relationship. If you don\u2019t know what you\u2019re doing, it\u2019s easy to fall into this trap.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Basically, you two fight, you\u2019re both jealous, you fix each other\u2019s problems, and you break one another\u2019s heart… Yes, all of these things happen in a real relationship, but you also get a lot of the good things.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, you don\u2019t get the nice parts. You don\u2019t have someone to hold your hand when you need it most. You don\u2019t have a plus one at weddings and family functions. You don\u2019t have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, and as hard as it is to admit, at the end of the day, you\u2019re single.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Demasiado drama emocional<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Tener una relaci\u00f3n intermitente con <\/span>una persona<\/span> for some time brings too many emotional ups and downs, especially if you\u2019re sensitive. As much as you try not to get attached, frequently, that\u2019s possible.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Antes de que te des cuenta, tu coraz\u00f3n est\u00e1 pasando por diferentes etapas.<\/span> You\u2019re trying not to fall in love with them, and then you realize that you can\u2019t help yourself. After that, you hide your emotions and do your best to fight them off.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, in the meantime, you\u2019re constantly overthinking and overanalyzing their every move. Do they love you back? Is this more than a casual fling?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And don\u2019t even get me started on the mind games. You try not to play them, but this kind of situationship makes them inevitable.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin m\u00e1s, acabas m\u00e1s herido y con el coraz\u00f3n m\u00e1s roto que nunca. Acabas en un <\/b>tipo de relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/b><\/a>, even though you\u2019re technically not in a relationship. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. It\u2019s unlikely to become a <\/b>relaci\u00f3n seria<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s one thing if you really want this to stay a <\/span>conexi\u00f3n<\/span> para siempre. Sin embargo, si planea <\/span>convirti\u00e9ndose en algo m\u00e1s que un <\/span>llamada de bot\u00edn<\/span><\/a> a este chico\/chica, tengo que reventar tu burbuja.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Casual relationships are unlikely to become real ones, so don\u2019t get your hopes up. This means that one of these times will really be the last time you sleep with your sexual partner.<\/strong><\/b> Las cosas tendr\u00e1n que acabar entre vosotros tarde o temprano porque no ten\u00e9is futuro juntos.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. You\u2019re not allowed to be jealous<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s make things clear: <\/span>your almost boyfriend\/girlfriend has all the right to see other people. You two aren\u2019t <\/b>citas exclusivas<\/b><\/a>, and no matter what they do, you can\u2019t classify it as cheating.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfY c\u00f3mo te sientes al respecto? En muchos casos, acabas con el coraz\u00f3n roto, como si te hubieran enga\u00f1ado.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But the worst part is that you\u2019re not allowed to say anything about it. If you do, you\u2019re stepping out of line. Besides, you\u2019re the one who agreed to these terms, aren\u2019t you?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t ask them where they\u2019ve been, you can\u2019t get angry if you see them with someone else, and you\u2019re not allowed to check up on them. Of course, you feel jealous \u2013 you just can\u2019t do anything about it.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Relaciones futuras<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Officially, you\u2019re single. However, <\/span>conexi\u00f3n<\/span> con la misma persona varias veces te da la idea de estar en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aunque a veces no tener que acudir a citas es algo positivo, tambi\u00e9n tiene su parte de desventajas. <\/span>Tu situaci\u00f3n te hace perder algunos buenos hombres y mujeres que podr\u00edan haberte hecho feliz.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te niegas a dar una oportunidad a alguien nuevo simplemente porque tu enganche est\u00e1 ocupando todo tu tiempo y energ\u00eda. <\/strong><\/b>Even more, if you\u2019re falling for them, you don\u2019t even think of letting someone new into your life.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por qu\u00e9 los chicos se enrollan con la misma chica<\/b> Varias veces<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Una vez tuve un hombre que siempre volv\u00eda a m\u00ed, pero nunca quiso hacer las cosas oficiales. Y yo me preguntaba <\/span>por qu\u00e9 los chicos se enrollan con la misma chica<\/span> una y otra vez. Despu\u00e9s de pensarlo mucho, he aqu\u00ed mi conclusi\u00f3n:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Est\u00e1 demasiado disponible<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re the girl in the story, you won\u2019t like what I have to say. Why does your <\/span>chico quiere<\/span> a <\/span>conectar<\/span> with you all the time? Well, in most cases, it\u2019s not because he\u2019s in love with you but trying to hide it.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

La verdad es que <\/b>you\u2019re too available<\/b><\/a>. He\u2019s run out of options. All the other girls have turned him down, he has nowhere else to be, and he turns to you \u2013 his backup choice.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He knows that you\u2019ll always reply to his <\/span>mensaje de texto<\/span>. It doesn\u2019t matter if it\u2019s the middle of the night, if you\u2019re getting up early in the morning or if you\u2019re super busy. You always have time for him.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, yes, you\u2019re this guy\u2019s <\/span>llamada de bot\u00edn,<\/span> and he calls you because he knows you\u2019ll pick up \u2013 It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Es buena en la cama<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s another pretty obvious answer to the question, \u201cwhy does a <\/span>chico quiere<\/span> a <\/span>conectar<\/span> con el <\/span>misma chica<\/span> over and over again?\u201d <\/span>You\u2019re <\/b>bueno en la cama<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Su <\/b>torceduras<\/b> son los mismos, usted <\/b>enci\u00e9ndelo<\/b><\/a> como ning\u00fan otro, y le encanta dormir contigo.<\/b> Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying that you don\u2019t have other qualities.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019re an amazing person, but for now, this is all he sees and needs.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. He is testing if she\u2019s girlfriend material<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

S\u00e9 que dicen que los chicos son <\/span>criaturas visuales<\/span>. Sin embargo, cr\u00e9eme cuando te digo que se necesita mucho m\u00e1s que tu incre\u00edble aspecto para que un hombre te vea como <\/span>material de novia<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, guys start things casually just to see if the girl they\u2019re with will suit them for a relationship. They don\u2019t want to give her false hope and call her their girlfriend from the very start.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

At the same time, they also want to be single to keep seeing other girls. However, if it turns out they\u2019re compatible through their <\/span>conexi\u00f3n<\/span>planean etiquetar su romance.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. No est\u00e1 disponible emocionalmente<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Este hombre es <\/span>conexi\u00f3n<\/span> contigo porque <\/span>he\u2019s emotionally unavailable<\/span><\/a>. This has nothing to do with you; he wouldn\u2019t be able to love any other girl in the world, either.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deep down, he might have feelings for you. But sadly, he doesn\u2019t allow them to appear on the surface. In fact, he himself is probably unaware of these emotions.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So instead of trying to get him to love you, just accept that you\u2019ll never defrost his cold heart and move on. Unless, of course, you\u2019re perfectly okay with being nothing more than his <\/span>conexi\u00f3n<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por qu\u00e9 las chicas <\/b>Conexi\u00f3n<\/b> Con el mismo chico varias veces<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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But girls do it too. They\u2019re also <\/span>conexi\u00f3n<\/span> con el <\/span>la misma persona varias veces<\/span>. Sin embargo, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, tienen distintos motivos. He aqu\u00ed los m\u00e1s comunes:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. La hace sentir segura<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Una mujer volver\u00e1 a <\/span>una persona<\/span> all the time only if that person makes her feel safe. The wildest thing is that she doesn\u2019t necessarily have to love him to feel this way.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A lot of men don\u2019t know this, but in general, women have to feel comfortable sleeping with a man. She has to deal with a bunch of insecurities and fears. And she can\u2019t disregard all of these negative emotions in front of every random guy.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si una mujer se siente segura con un hombre el <\/span>primera vez<\/span> she sleeps with him, she\u2019ll remember that emotion forever. And she\u2019ll go back to him whenever she has the chance.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Est\u00e1 enamorada de \u00e9l<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Otra raz\u00f3n por la que una mujer <\/span>conexi\u00f3n<\/span> con el <\/span>la misma persona varias veces<\/span> es el amor.<\/span> Maybe she won\u2019t admit it because she agreed to take things casually at first, but the truth is that she fell for this guy hard.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This woman is trying to fight her feelings, but she can\u2019t help it. She is too scared to ask him to take their relationship to the next level. So, she settles for having him as a <\/span>conexi\u00f3n<\/span> y nada m\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or she hopes he\u2019ll realize she\u2019s the one for him. She is dying for him to finally see her as the woman of his dreams and to give her the title of his girlfriend.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. She doesn\u2019t want to sleep around<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s pretty simple: <\/span>esta chica ha encontrado su pareja en el dormitorio. Este hombre la complace y satisface sus necesidades sexuales, as\u00ed que \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 iba a buscar a otro?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019s not a prude, but she doesn\u2019t like sleeping around, either. First of all, she\u2019d be too concerned for her health if she does.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adem\u00e1s, necesita tiempo para relajarse y sentirse c\u00f3moda con un hombre. Tiene cosas mejores que hacer que buscar un compa\u00f1ero sexual perfecto cuando ya lo tiene.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

How Do You Tell If It’s More Than A <\/b>Conexi\u00f3n<\/b>?<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You\u2019re sleeping together, <\/span>you\u2019re <\/span>mimos<\/span><\/a> afterward, and they\u2019re sending you cute <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span>… Everything is starting to feel more and more like a real relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, you\u2019ve never made things official, and you\u2019re <\/span>su media novia<\/span><\/a>. No obstante, todo lo mencionado anteriormente es una <\/span>signo seguro<\/span> que esto es mucho m\u00e1s que <\/span>sexo casual<\/span>. Aqu\u00ed tienes otras pistas que pueden ayudarte a verlo:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n