{"id":16041,"date":"2020-03-09T07:30:45","date_gmt":"2020-03-09T07:30:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16041"},"modified":"2022-01-21T23:01:01","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T23:01:01","slug":"9-signos-le-gusta-el-rechazo-miedo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-signos-le-gusta-el-rechazo-miedo\/","title":{"rendered":"9 se\u00f1ales de que le gustas (pero tiene miedo al rechazo)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Los hombres no son tan sutiles cuando se trata de ellas enamorado de ti<\/a>. Which is, let\u2019s be honest, a good thing.<\/p>\n

Pero incluso cuando tenemos todas las se\u00f1ales de que realmente les gustamos,<\/a> cuando todas nuestras novias lo han dicho, \u00e9l sigue estancado en un lugar y que haga un movimiento es tan imposible como ir al espacio.<\/p>\n

So, we end up wondering if maybe it\u2019s us, if maybe he\u2019s not attracted to us after all. We are wondering could it be that we have misread the signs.<\/p>\n

But, trust me ladies, it\u2019s not us. Looking for se\u00f1ales de que le gustas<\/a> es tan f\u00e1cil como buscar a Hulk en el club.<\/p>\n

Men are so obvious to everyone except the woman that\u2019s attracted to them. Yes, love has a way of making us blind.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 pasa con los hombres que no son tan obvios? \u00bfQu\u00e9 pasa con los hombres que te tratan de una forma especial, pero no tan especial?<\/p>\n

Hombres que te hacen sentir como una diosa con piropos y te llaman \u2018buddy\u2019<\/em> al minuto siguiente.<\/p>\n

Then, it\u2019s time to look for se\u00f1ales de que le gustas<\/a>pero tiene miedo al rechazo.<\/p>\n

Porque, ver\u00e1s, todo hombre tiene tres miedos principales: el miedo a la irrelevancia, a la decepci\u00f3n y al rechazo.<\/p>\n

A los hombres les aterroriza defraudar a las mujeres, sobre todo a las que de verdad les importan.<\/p>\n

He will seem like the toughest of them all, but deep down, he will go crazy trying to figure out why you\u2019re suddenly sad. Another fear that breaks them is feeling irrelevant.<\/p>\n

Men hate feeling like a piece of furniture or a walking paycheck in a relationship, so naturally, if they\u2019re treated that way, they will treat you back the same.<\/p>\n

O simplemente se marchar\u00e1, buscando relevancia en otra parte.<\/p>\n

And lastly, fear of rejection. You can say it\u2019s both of the fears before combined.<\/p>\n

Teme que su encanto y su trabajo pasen desapercibidos, que le defraude de alguna manera.<\/p>\n

Y esta es tambi\u00e9n una raz\u00f3n por la que los hombres adoran a las mujeres que inician las citas y las cosas en las relaciones.<\/p>\n

No hay que enfrentarse al rechazo y dif\u00edcilmente habr\u00e1 un hombre que te rechace, a menos que est\u00e9 pillado.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s completely natural that he is taking some time to see if you are feeling the same as he does, to see whether you really want to go out before he pops the question.<\/p>\n

Because, no matter how thick-skinned you believe they are, they\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Todo rechazo duele, independientemente del nivel de compromiso o de embriaguez.<\/p>\n

Pica y quema tu confianza como el \u00e1cido. As\u00ed que, para aliviar tus preocupaciones, hemos reunido se\u00f1ales de que realmente le gustas<\/a>, even if he still hasn\u2019t made a move.<\/p>\n

Lenguaje corporal<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

This is something he can\u2019t really control. His words could be distant and cold, but his body will tell you a whole different story.<\/p>\n

You will catch him more than once looking at you with that look\u2014you know which one.<\/p>\n

En cuanto lo atrapes, apartar\u00e1 la mirada o seguir\u00e1 mir\u00e1ndote, porque los hombres son criaturas visuales. Cuando les gusta algo, lo miran. Mucho. As\u00ed que esta es en realidad una buena se\u00f1al de que le gustas (pero tiene miedo)<\/a>. Contacto visual prolongado<\/a> nunca es una coincidencia.<\/p>\n

Another cue to look for is the way he behaves around you. If he seems nervous and keeps on fixing his appearance (hair, tie, shirt etc.), that\u2019s because he wants to look his best for you and he wants to charm you off of your feet.<\/p>\n

Y el miedo a la decepci\u00f3n le est\u00e1 poniendo nervioso, as\u00ed que podr\u00eda estar jugueteando mucho con los dedos.<\/p>\n

Incluso parecer\u00e1 que ha olvidado c\u00f3mo usarlas. Su cuerpo siempre estar\u00e1 inclinado hacia ti y se inclinar\u00e1 m\u00e1s hacia ti.<\/p>\n

He will also find any excuse to touch you. Whether it\u2019s a strand of hair that got lost on your face or to touch your back while you\u2019re sitting down.<\/p>\n

To him, you\u2019re like the strongest magnet he simply can\u2019t resist. And to be honest, he\u2019s not even trying.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n sonreir\u00e1 mucho. En cuanto entres en la habitaci\u00f3n, se le dibujar\u00e1 una est\u00fapida sonrisa en la cara de oreja a oreja.<\/p>\n

When we\u2019re spending time with someone we are interested in, we are happy.<\/p>\n

Nervous and nauseous maybe, but still happy. It\u2019s the same with him spending time with you.<\/p>\n

His face will light up when he sees you and his eyes will smile. That\u2019s a genuine reaction to you which he cannot fake.<\/p>\n

Mientras que las sonrisas falsas se quedan en la boca, la suya ilumina toda la habitaci\u00f3n, no s\u00f3lo la cara.<\/p>\n

Se pavonea y habla de s\u00ed mismo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He will smell his best, fix his hair and dress better than usual. This one is easy to catch on to if you\u2019ve seen him with his friends.<\/p>\n

If he is not trying so hard with them but you can see he tried hard for you, that\u2019s the only sign you really need.<\/p>\n

He will fix his appearance while you\u2019re around all the time. Fix his tie, his jacket or pop a breath mint in his mouth.<\/p>\n

He wants to be the best version of himself, so he can show you that he\u2019s actually worth it.<\/p>\n

While we\u2019re at the best version of him, he will talk himself up. He will keep on talking about how he is successful at his job but not in a douche, asshole, arrogant kind of a way.<\/p>\n

He will give you enough info for you to know what it is about, but not too much to smother you\u2014often called, \u2018humble bragging\u2019.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if he\u2019s talking about himself and nothing but himself in that \u2018I\u2019m-the-best-one-out-there\u2019<\/em> kind of tone, it\u2019s time for you to back away.<\/p>\n

No es m\u00e1s que un narcisista<\/a> and that\u2019s not someone you really want to have in your life.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 17 se\u00f1ales de que le gustas m\u00e1s que una amiga, pero le da miedo admitirlo<\/a><\/p>\n

Agradece cualquier toque<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

While he\u2019s trying to find a way to touch you, how does he react when you touch him? Does he flinch or move away when you touch him? Or he\u2019s relaxed and actually enjoys when you do it? This is a big sign that he likes you because he would move away if he didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Pay attention to the subtle moves he makes. If your legs are touching and he doesn\u2019t move his away, he\u2019s more than okay with touching you.<\/p>\n

Or if your high five or handshake lasts longer than the usual ones do, maybe it\u2019s time for something little bit more intimate than that?<\/p>\n

BUT. With this one, you need to look at the bigger picture. If he\u2019s moving away but you know that he is shy, that doesn\u2019t have to be a sign he doesn\u2019t like you. It could simply be saying that he\u2019s just too shy to make a move.<\/p>\n

O si sabes que es un jugador, podr\u00eda estar recibiendo caricias de cualquier mujer.<\/p>\n

F\u00edjate siempre en el conjunto y no en los peque\u00f1os detalles. F\u00edjate en c\u00f3mo os mov\u00e9is juntos y en la qu\u00edmica que hay entre vosotros.<\/p>\n

His phone is nonexistent while he\u2019s with you<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

This one is really important and goes both ways. My friends always say that they can notice when I\u2019m in love just by looking at where is my phone when I\u2019m with the guy.<\/p>\n

Debido al ritmo y la forma en que vivimos nuestras vidas hoy en d\u00eda, nuestros tel\u00e9fonos son un mal necesario.<\/p>\n

Son todo lo que necesitamos y esenciales para nuestra existencia. Tristemente, pero lo son.<\/p>\n

If you notice that he didn\u2019t even get his phone out of his pocket while sitting with you, there are no worries that you te har\u00e1 perder el tiempo<\/a> con \u00e9l. Su atenci\u00f3n se centra por completo en ti; parece que no hay nadie m\u00e1s que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Like the whole world disappeared to him and you\u2019re the only thing that\u2019s left.<\/p>\n

E incluso si recibe llamadas o mensajes de texto, los atiende r\u00e1pidamente y se disculpa varias veces.<\/p>\n

To him, you are more interesting than thousands of phones and that\u2019s something worth fighting for.<\/p>\n

Honestly, as someone who is addicted to the phone\u2014and I rarely drop it out of my arms\u2014if a man is amazing enough to make me leave my phone, that\u2019s the kind of a man I\u2019m willing to do anything for. And it\u2019s the same for men too.<\/p>\n

Se burla de ti<\/h2>\n

\"los<\/p>\n

This is a great way for him to check the ground, to see if you\u2019re up for something a little bit more than just goofing around or hanging out as friends.<\/p>\n

Se burlar\u00e1 de ti juguetonamente o te empujar\u00e1 ligeramente, s\u00f3lo para mantener el ambiente ligero y desenfadado.<\/p>\n

Plus, it\u2019s a great way to make an excuse for touching you. Men don\u2019t ever really grow up.<\/p>\n

From pulling your ponytail to teasing you about the stain on your shirt, it\u2019s all about game and finding a way to your heart through smiles and laughter.<\/p>\n

Y otra forma de burlarse es que bromee sobre que le gustas. Es una forma estupenda de que los hombres que tienen miedo al rechazo afronten sus sentimientos y vean a qu\u00e9 atenerse contigo.<\/p>\n

Muchos hombres t\u00edmidos o con miedo al rechazo bromean sobre estar con la persona exacta con la que quieren estar.<\/p>\n

Nunca le oir\u00e1s bromear sobre eso con otras mujeres, cr\u00e9eme.<\/p>\n

De esta forma, aunque se produzca el rechazo, podr\u00e1 decir que todo fue diversi\u00f3n y juegos, sin sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Si encuentra este signo junto a otros de la lista, no hay necesidad de buscar m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Quiere conocerte<\/h2>\n

\"tres<\/p>\n

Y me refiero a conocerte de verdad. No le interesan las cosas que le cuentas a todo el mundo cuando charl\u00e1is.<\/p>\n

He is interested in dreams you\u2019re dreaming and passions you\u2019re following. And he will truly enjoy listening to you while you\u2019re talking.<\/p>\n

Recordar\u00e1 todas las peque\u00f1as cosas que mencionaste una vez y te preguntar\u00e1 por ellas.<\/p>\n

And even if you feel uncomfortable talking about yourself all the time, with him it won\u2019t be the case.<\/p>\n

You are the one person he wants to spend all of his free time with and you don\u2019t have to look for any signs to prove this one.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s texting you and calls you to go out all the time, not because he wants something from you but because he just wants to spend some time with you, he is interested in you.<\/p>\n

If you know that he\u2019s not going out of his way for anyone else and that he\u2019s even cancelling some of the plans he already made just so he could be with you, it not because he is a great friend.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s because he really likes you and wants to move things to the next level, but he is just demasiado t\u00edmido para hacer un movimiento<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Te hace cumplidos \u00fanicos<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t mean those \u2018You\u2019re pretty\/hot\/smoking\u2019 kind of compliments but rather the compliments where he actually looks at you and sees you.<\/p>\n

He noticed how your eyes change the color in the sunlight and how they\u2019re gloomy when it\u2019s raining.<\/p>\n

He noticed how your face lights up when you see Marvel-themed anything and he\u2019s even sending you Marvel memes to bring a smile to your face.<\/p>\n

Se ha dado cuenta de lo ocurrente que eres y admira tu esfuerzo y tu mente brillante.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not spending time with you just because you\u2019re good-looking.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s doing it because he enjoys talking with you and listening to you, not just looking at you.<\/p>\n

And you know that when he gives you a compliment, that\u2019s not something he usually does.<\/p>\n

Realmente puedes sentirlo en tus entra\u00f1as. Empezar\u00e1 a sonrojarse enseguida o cambiar\u00e1 de tema tan r\u00e1pido como pueda.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not comfortable with being vulnerable around you and that\u2019s exactly the time when he is open to you.<\/p>\n

Se dio cuenta de algo que no todo el mundo ve y \u00e9l lo sabe, pero se dej\u00f3 llevar por el momento y se le escap\u00f3.<\/p>\n

So, he will try to step away from it as soon as possible and that\u2019s a sign he has feelings stronger than just as \u2018a friend\u2019.<\/p>\n

Es muy protector<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He makes sure that you got home safe and sound and checks on you how you\u2019re doing after a crazy night out.<\/p>\n

E incluso si trabajabas en el turno de noche, se quedaba hasta tarde, haci\u00e9ndote compa\u00f1\u00eda por tel\u00e9fono, asegur\u00e1ndose de que estuvieras bien.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re walking, he makes sure that you\u2019re walking on the safer side of the sidewalk and no matter what happens, he is always there.<\/p>\n

The moment you call him, he picks up his phone. The moment you tell him that you\u2019re upset, he is already looking for a solution to the problem and trying to figure things out so you get better soon.<\/p>\n

He goes out of his way to make sure you are doing okay, to make sure that you\u2019re safe and protected.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s highly possible that he is protecting you even though he\u2019s not making a move.<\/p>\n

This is because he\u2019s not sure about your feelings and he\u2019s worried that you\u2019ll cut him out of your life when he makes a move.<\/p>\n

Or, he thinks that he\u2019s not worthy of you. He is happy with just being around you and doing whatever it takes to keep you protected.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed, mantiene sus sentimientos bajo el radar y te hace feliz como amigo. Si hay sentimientos por tu parte, aseg\u00farate de que \u00e9l lo sepa.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the only one he wants to spend time with<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Even if his schedule is tight, he still finds time for you. Whether he and you are going out with the rest of your friends or alone, it seems like you\u2019re the only one there.<\/p>\n

Toda su atenci\u00f3n se centra en ti y eres lo \u00fanico que le importa en este momento.<\/p>\n

Si hay alguien m\u00e1s contigo, se sentar\u00e1 a tu lado y continuar\u00e1 burl\u00e1ndose de ti con bromas internas, haciendo que parezca que sois pareja.<\/p>\n

Pero en cuanto alguien lo menciona, se r\u00ede o hace bromas al respecto.<\/p>\n

Aprovechar\u00e1 la ocasi\u00f3n para comprobar su reacci\u00f3n y actuar en consecuencia, evitando al mismo tiempo la posibilidad de ser rechazado.<\/p>\n

Y en cuanto le llames, despejar\u00e1 su agenda s\u00f3lo para ti, aunque eso signifique que se quedar\u00e1 despierto el resto de la noche, terminando el trabajo que le queda por hacer.<\/p>\n

Podr\u00eda tener miedo de que su coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a> una vez m\u00e1s, si tuvo una ruptura desagradable en el pasado. <\/em><\/p>\n

Or he\u2019s simply afraid of rejection if he never had any luck in love. The important thing is that you let him know where he stands.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you want him just as a friend, it\u2019s up to you to decide if you want to keep him around or cut him loose so he can get over it. But, if you want something more, go for it girl!<\/em><\/p>\n

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