{"id":160743,"date":"2022-11-29T11:35:59","date_gmt":"2022-11-29T11:35:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=160743"},"modified":"2023-02-01T07:42:47","modified_gmt":"2023-02-01T07:42:47","slug":"como-friendzone-una-chica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-friendzone-una-chica\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo hacer amistad con una chica como un caballero de 15 maneras agradables"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s forget about sitcoms and romcoms just for a while. <strong>A las chicas tambi\u00e9n las friendzonean. <\/strong>And while it\u2019s difficult to get friendzoned by a man you like, he\u2019s also in an unpleasant situation.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Imagina este escenario: tu amigo \u00edntimo o compa\u00f1ero de trabajo te dice <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-saber-si-le-gustas-a-una-chica-senales-de-que-esta-loca-por-ti\/\">le gustas<\/a>. Even though she is an attractive woman with a rocking personality, you don\u2019t see her that way.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00bfY ahora qu\u00e9 haces? <strong>\u00bfC\u00f3mo hacer friendzone a una chica sin romperle el coraz\u00f3n y da\u00f1ar su bienestar mental?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Worry not because I\u2019ve got a step-by-step guide on friendzoning someone while being a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-cosas-que-los-verdaderos-caballeros-no-hacen\/\">verdadero caballero<\/a> en el proceso. \u00a1Abr\u00f3chate el cintur\u00f3n!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-friendzone-a-girl\">C\u00f3mo hacer amistad con una chica&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s actually pretty simple: all you have to do is follow each step mentioned below:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-treat-her-like-one-of-your-buddies\">1. Tr\u00e1tala como a uno de tus colegas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"hombre que trata a una mujer como a una de sus colegas mientras sale a la calle con una taza de caf\u00e9 en la mano\" class=\"wp-image-160748\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esta chica es tu amiga plat\u00f3nica y puede que incluso tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/almas-gemelas-platonicas\/\">alma gemela plat\u00f3nica<\/a>. And I guess you have other platonic friends as well. If you\u2019re not sure how to treat her, just imagine that she\u2019s a guy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No, you shouldn\u2019t arm wrestle her or invite her to a soccer game if that\u2019s not her thing. I\u2019m talking about your relationship here \u2013 just act the same way you\u2019d act with your male friends.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Y aseg\u00farate de que lo vea. <strong>Make sure she realizes that you treat her no differently than your buddies and that, basically, you don\u2019t even notice she\u2019s female.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Since you\u2019re a true gentleman, this might be a bit tricky. I know that you respect and appreciate this woman. But even if you didn\u2019t, you\u2019d still feel the urge to open the door for her, buy her flowers on Women\u2019s Day, or pay for her drinks.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I have to disappoint you, but if you\u2019re trying to figure out how to friendzone a girl, you must stop doing this. I know you\u2019re just trying to be nice, but trust me, all of these small acts of kindness are easy to misinterpret.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-tell-her-that-you-look-at-her-like-a-sister\">2. Dile que la miras como a una hermana<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019ll be honest with you: if you tell her this, you\u2019re likely to break her heart. I mean, this is probably the last sentence you want to hear from someone you\u2019re romantically interested in.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sin embargo, hay que hacerlo. Es la mejor manera de que esta mujer se d\u00e9 cuenta de que no tiene ninguna posibilidad contigo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Besides, it\u2019s not far from the truth. <strong>Te preocupas mucho por ella y le deseas lo mejor. Sientes el impulso de protegerla, pero no tienes ninguna <\/strong><strong>sentimientos rom\u00e1nticos<\/strong><strong> para ella.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When we put it all together, she is like the sister you never had. Too bad she doesn\u2019t see it that way.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-set-her-up-with-one-of-your-friends\">3. Arr\u00e9glale una cita con uno de tus amigos<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you try and set this girl up with one of your guy friends, you\u2019ll kill two birds with one stone. First and foremost, you\u2019ll make it clear that you\u2019re not into her. I mean, if you were, this would be the last thing you\u2019d be doing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But there is one more advantage to this master plan. At the same time, you\u2019ll make this girl feel wanted and attractive.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>You\u2019re sending her the message that you think she\u2019s worthy of love \u2013 it\u2019s just that you can\u2019t give her that type of love.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Besides, maybe she\u2019ll find happiness with your buddy. Maybe he knocks her off her feet, and she forgets you ever existed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The only flaw in this plan is your male friend. To be honest, this arrangement is not entirely fair to him. You know this girl has feelings for you, and you\u2019re trying to set them up regardless.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But hey, it\u2019s not like you\u2019re forcing them into anything \u2013 you\u2019re just giving them a chance to get to know each other better. Everything else is up to them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-tell-her-you-have-a-girlfriend\">4. Dile que tienes novia<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking.jpg\" alt=\"hombre dici\u00e9ndole a una mujer que tiene novia sentado a la mesa \" class=\"wp-image-160745\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here\u2019s a pro tip: if an acquaintance or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-le-gustas-a-una-companera-de-trabajo-pero-lo-oculta\/\">un compa\u00f1ero de trabajo te est\u00e1 tirando los tejos<\/a> or confesses her feelings for you, the best thing to do is tell her that you have a girlfriend. You don\u2019t have to have \u201cthe talk\u201d with her; it\u2019s enough to casually mention you\u2019re in a serious relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Tell her how in love you are with your GF and that you two are planning on taking your relationship to the next level. This way, she\u2019ll be too embarrassed to try <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/canta-que-una-chica-quiere-que-te-fijes-en-ella\/\"><strong>haciendo que te fijes en ella<\/strong><\/a><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Besides, you\u2019ve somehow taken the responsibility off your shoulders. It\u2019s not that you don\u2019t like her \u2013 you\u2019re already taken.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, you can\u2019t use this awesome excuse when a close friend is in love with you. Sooner or later, you\u2019d have to introduce your imaginary girlfriend to the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-talk-to-her-about-your-love-life\">5. H\u00e1blale de tu vida amorosa<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But here\u2019s what you can do: you can talk about your past relationship with her. Even if you no longer have feelings for your ex, she doesn\u2019t have to know that, does she?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00eddele una taza de caf\u00e9 y <strong>tell her that you\u2019ve been thinking about your ex-girlfriend a lot lately<\/strong>. You can even add that you two started talking again and that you\u2019re considering getting back together.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you don\u2019t want to drag your ex into this mess, <strong>just start casually mentioning that you\u2019re falling for some new girl in your life. <\/strong>You don\u2019t have to say that you\u2019re in a relationship just yet, but one thing is for sure: you\u2019re in love.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Is this cruel? Absolutely yes! It will shatter this poor girl\u2019s heart into a million pieces.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But trust me when I tell you that it\u2019s one of the nicest ways to send her to the friendzone. At least she\u2019ll know where she stands.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-don-t-give-her-false-hope\">6. Don\u2019t give her false hope<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you\u2019re trying to figure out how to friendzone a girl, whatever you do, please don\u2019t give her false hope. Trust me, it\u2019s what will hurt her most.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No s\u00f3lo eso: arruinar\u00e1 su confianza en los hombres, e incluso podr\u00eda dejar de creer en el amor. \u00bfDe verdad quieres ser responsable de todo eso?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Always make sure that you act like you don\u2019t even notice that she\u2019s of the opposite sex. Yes, you care for her very much, but not in that way.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>No matter what, you must tell her straight up. After all, we\u2019re talking about a woman in love who will interpret everything you say or do as what she wants to hear and see in the blink of an eye.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Por eso hay que tener mucho cuidado con ella.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don\u2019t flirt with her, don\u2019t make deep eye contact, don\u2019t pay her too many compliments, don\u2019t use her to make other girls jealous, and don\u2019t send any other body language signs that you\u2019re into her.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-imply-that-she-s-not-your-type\">7. Imply that she\u2019s not your type<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre le dice a su compa\u00f1era de trabajo que ella no es su tipo\" class=\"wp-image-160750\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Once again, this is a hurtful way to friendzone a girl. But hey, a man\u2019s got to do what a man\u2019s got to do. Remember: you\u2019re doing this to keep her heart from breaking even more.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>You have to make this woman realize that she\u2019s not your type. But please, you can\u2019t say anything that might offend her when explaining this.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">First of all, you won\u2019t use her as an example at all. Let\u2019s say that she\u2019s blonde. You won\u2019t tell her that you don\u2019t like blondes. Instead, you\u2019ll keep on checking out black-haired women and commenting on how crazy you are for that hair color.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Por ejemplo, si un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-saber-si-le-gustas-a-una-chica-timida-22-senales-innegables\/\">chica t\u00edmida le gustas<\/a>, you can casually mention that you\u2019re crazy about extroverted, outgoing girls.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can do the same about different personality traits, but whatever you do, don\u2019t play this game with a body type. Even if she\u2019s the prettiest woman in the world, her insecurities will surely skyrocket.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-no-physical-touch\">8. Sin contacto f\u00edsico<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La mayor diferencia entre ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-de-que-quiere-que-seais-solo-amigos\/\">s\u00f3lo amigos<\/a> y estar en una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica es intimidad f\u00edsica.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I mean, you can spend a lot of your time with your good friends, text them all the time, and do other activities together. However, if you\u2019re only friends with someone, you wouldn\u2019t sleep with them, would you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bueno, d\u00e9jame decirte que la forma m\u00e1s eficaz de friendzone alguien es retener el contacto f\u00edsico. S\u00e9 que esta es tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-senales-que-demuestran-que-has-encontrado-a-tu-mejor-amigo\/\">buen amigo<\/a>y probablemente quieras abrazarla de vez en cuando o besarla en la mejilla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cr\u00e9eme cuando te digo que esta no es la forma de mantener la amistad. Aunque estas caricias sean inofensivas para ti, ella podr\u00eda interpretarlas como se\u00f1ales de lenguaje corporal de que te gusta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As\u00ed que, por favor,<strong> no holding hands, no cuddling, no hugging (except when you two greet), no touching her face, no putting your hand on her knee&#8230; <\/strong>That is, of course, unless you don\u2019t want her to become your romantic partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-don-t-show-her-pity\">9. Don\u2019t show her pity<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Just because you\u2019re wondering how to friendzone a girl doesn\u2019t mean she\u2019s lost much. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying that you don\u2019t have your own set of qualities or that you\u2019re not an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-saber-si-eres-un-chico-atractivo\/\">chico atractivo<\/a>. Despu\u00e9s de todo, ella se enamor\u00f3 de ti por una raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>You might be the biggest catch in the world, but that doesn\u2019t mean that you should feel sorry for her. Even if you are sorry for the way things turned out, never show pity.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trust me, that will ruin her confidence even more than your rejection. And don\u2019t try to act like you feel sorry for her under false pretenses \u2013 if you two are really good friends, she\u2019ll see right through you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you behave like this, she\u2019ll feel even more miserable. Without even being aware of it, you\u2019re sending her an indirect message that she is unworthy of anyone\u2019s love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-use-social-media-to-your-advantage\">10. Utiliza las redes sociales en tu beneficio<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Okay, you obviously won\u2019t put the word friendzone in your post\u2019s caption \u2013 that would be too much and incredibly insensitive. But you can definitely use social media to send a message to this girl in real life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Cada vez que publiques una historia o una foto con ella (o compartas su publicaci\u00f3n), a\u00f1ade un mont\u00f3n de hashtags o gifs de amistad. Incluso puedes usar<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estado-de-amistad-150-subtitulos\/\"><strong> a <\/strong><strong>estado de la amistad y subt\u00edtulos<\/strong><\/a><strong> whenever you\u2019re posting anything involving her online.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This way, all the other girls in your followers\u2019 list will know that she is your best friend and nothing more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here\u2019s another thing you should pay attention to: don\u2019t reply with fire or heart emojis to her stories and don\u2019t pay her too many <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-felicitar-a-una-chica-guapa\/\">cumplidos en los comentarios<\/a>. Esto es otra cosa que podr\u00eda ilusionarla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Besides, this is how you treat a girl you\u2019re hitting on \u2013 not your best friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-11-do-it-as-soon-as-possible\">11. H\u00e1galo lo antes posible<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados en un sof\u00e1 hablando\" class=\"wp-image-160746\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The worst thing you can do is postpone this talk. If you\u2019ve noticed that this woman is falling in love with you, you have to burst her bubble as soon as possible. I know that this is something you\u2019d rather not do, but guess what? Nobody will do your dirty work for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esto es especialmente importante si te ha confesado lo que siente por ti. <strong>If she\u2019s just hinting and using <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-signos-de-lenguaje-corporal-chica-que\/\"><strong>body language signs to show you that she\u2019s into you<\/strong><\/a><strong>, you also can do the same back. However, if she\u2019s spilled her heart out to you, she\u2019ll expect an answer.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Besides, if this girl was brave enough to tell you she loved you, the least you can do is also be brave and tell her you don\u2019t feel the same way. The longer you put it off, the worse her heartbreak will end up being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, be a man about it, set up a get-together without anyone else, and tell her everything that\u2019s on your mind. Just make sure she doesn\u2019t confuse this invitation with a date!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-12-explain-your-reasons-for-friendzoning-her\">12. Explica tus razones para friendzonearla<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Of course, you don\u2019t have to explain the reasons why you\u2019re putting her in the friendzone. You have the right to be attracted to whomever you want and not to be attracted to whomever you don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>However, if you want to remain good friends, it would be nice to explain yourself. Don\u2019t be cruel, and don\u2019t think of only telling her that you don\u2019t like her.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m not saying you should justify yourself. Just tell her that you don\u2019t see her as a potential romantic partner, that you\u2019re still in love with your ex, or that you just want to be single at the moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De este modo, su dignidad permanecer\u00e1 intacta. Y esa deber\u00eda ser tu intenci\u00f3n en primer lugar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She\u2019ll realize that you\u2019re not turning her down because she\u2019s not worthy of your love, because you don\u2019t see her qualities, or because you\u2019re out of her league.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is a kind of \u201cit\u2019s not you \u2013 it\u2019s me\u201d situation. And it doesn\u2019t really matter whether what you\u2019re saying is empty words \u2013 the point is to repair as much damage as possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-13-don-t-use-her-as-an-ego-boost\">13. Don\u2019t use her as an ego boost<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here\u2019s another thing you should never do: don\u2019t take advantage of this girl\u2019s feelings. I know that her love has had a positive impact on your self-confidence but think of the stakes if you start using her as an ego boost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is pretty much how it goes: the girl you\u2019re into rejects you, you break up with the woman you loved, or you\u2019re just going through a dry period. So you end up feeling bad about yourself. Your confidence disappears, and you start feeling unlovable and think that no other woman will ever want you again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Y entonces te acuerdas de esta chica.<strong> Sabes que est\u00e1 desesperadamente enamorada de ti y decides regalarle un anillo. O tal vez <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-provocar-a-una-chica\/\"><strong>burlarse de ella<\/strong><\/a><strong>env\u00edale se\u00f1ales contradictorias s\u00f3lo para sacudir el barco y reavivar sus sentimientos.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ella te da el empuj\u00f3n de ego que tanto necesitas y t\u00fa sigues con tu vida. Mientras tanto, a ella se le rompe el coraz\u00f3n una vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So please, be fair and don\u2019t even think about doing this. In fact, make sure you don\u2019t do it unconsciously either, just because her attention suits you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-14-offer-her-your-friendship\">14. Ofr\u00e9cele tu amistad<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking.jpg\" alt=\"mujer y hombre hablando\" class=\"wp-image-160749\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now that you\u2019ve established her position in your life, there is no need to cut this girl off. On the contrary, it\u2019s your job to tell her that you two can still remain the same friends you were before all of this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>As far as you\u2019re concerned, you\u2019ll treat her the same way you treated her before she started growing feelings for her. You won\u2019t talk to anyone about this, and you\u2019ll never mention it again.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Demu\u00e9strale que consideras vuestra amistad lo suficientemente fuerte como para superar este obst\u00e1culo. Esto no es m\u00e1s que una fase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Besides, you love her (as a friend) enough not to let her go so easily. She hasn\u2019t done anything to hurt you, betray you, or endanger your friendship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-15-but-understand-if-she-declines\">15. Pero entiende que si ella declina<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, you have to prepare yourself for the possibility of this girl turning your offer down. If she tells you that she can\u2019t be just friends, don\u2019t see it as blackmail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Make it clear that you\u2019re sad about her decision, but don\u2019t make a big scene about it \u2013 it will only make things more difficult for her. Don\u2019t try convincing her to stay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Remember that she\u2019s cutting you off to heal in a healthy manner.<\/strong> Ya sabes lo que dicen: ojos que no ven, coraz\u00f3n que no siente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Well, this girl couldn\u2019t stand looking at you without being able to kiss you or text you without telling you she loves you. Most importantly, she couldn\u2019t stand seeing you with other women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Por lo tanto, si ella cree que es lo mejor, no tienes m\u00e1s remedio que desearle buena suerte. Qui\u00e9n sabe, quiz\u00e1 vuelva a tu vida cuando te haya superado. Entonces, pod\u00e9is continuar donde lo dejasteis y volver a ser amigos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-can-a-guy-friendzone-a-girl\">\u00bfPuede un chico hacer friendzone a una chica?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague.jpg\" alt=\"mujer hablando con su colega\" class=\"wp-image-160751\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>S\u00ed, un tipo puede <\/strong><strong>friendzone una chica<\/strong><strong>y ocurre m\u00e1s a menudo de lo que imaginas. <\/strong>Aunque las pel\u00edculas y la cultura pop, en general, intentan convencerte de que las mujeres son las \u00fanicas que hacen friendzone a los hombres, la cosa va en ambos sentidos.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Olv\u00eddate de la idea de que un chico estar\u00eda con todas las chicas del mundo si tuviera la oportunidad. No, no todos los hombres se arriesgar\u00e1n e intentar\u00e1n acostarse con una mujer a la que le guste.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Algunos somos lo bastante decentes como para decirle a una chica lo que sentimos de verdad, aunque eso signifique herir sus sentimientos.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-you-text-friendzone\">\u00bfC\u00f3mo se env\u00eda un mensaje a Friendzone?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want to friendzone a girl who you\u2019re texting on a regular basis, you have to start by <strong>envi\u00e1ndole menos mensajes.<\/strong> I\u2019m not telling you to ignore the poor girl completely, but you don\u2019t have to send her a good morning text every day either, do you?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Reply as a gentleman when she texts you, but try to leave it at that. Be as polite as possible, but don\u2019t start new topics or engage in deep conversations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Don\u2019t send her innuendos or flirty jokes.<\/strong> S\u00e9 que puede resultarte gracioso, pero cr\u00e9eme, ella lo ve como una mirada de esperanza.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Finally, it would be great if you could stop with heart and kissing emojis. If she\u2019s your friend, I\u2019m sure you have a habit of kissing her good night or replying with a heart reaction to her stories, but that has got to end.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-you-ask-a-girl-to-be-friend-zoned\">\u00bfC\u00f3mo pedirle a una chica que sea tu amiga?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Si te confiesa lo que siente por ti, <strong>just tell her that you\u2019d like to be friends.<\/strong> Estar\u00eda bien que explicara con m\u00e1s detalle su respuesta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For example, you can tell her that you don\u2019t want to ruin your friendship or that you simply don\u2019t see her in a romantic way. Make sure she knows that you\u2019re not doing this because you don\u2019t find her physical looks or personality attractive.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But what if she doesn\u2019t make the first move, but you see that she\u2019s developed feelings for you? In that case, you\u2019ll have to be more subtle.<strong> Just tell her that you have a girlfriend or that you\u2019re in love with someone else<\/strong>. Trust me, she\u2019ll get the hint!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-to-wrap-up\">Para terminar:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker.jpg\" alt=\"mujer hablando con su compa\u00f1ero de trabajo\" class=\"wp-image-160752\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Since you\u2019re wondering how to friendzone a girl, I suppose you\u2019re sure about what you\u2019re doing. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not trying to convince you into liking her.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Al fin y al cabo, tienes derecho a que te guste quien quieras. Sin embargo, s\u00f3lo quiero que pienses bien las cosas antes de actuar en consecuencia.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019d hate to see you regret your actions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Por otro lado, <strong>if you realize that this is what you really want to do, please, don\u2019t let guilt get the best of you. You\u2019ve done nothing wrong.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Al contrario, es mucho m\u00e1s justo que enga\u00f1arla y dejarla so\u00f1ar despierta con que acab\u00e1is juntos. Cr\u00e9eme, puedes estar orgulloso de haber actuado como un perfecto caballero.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo Friendzone Una Chica Como Un Caballero En 15 Maneras Agradables Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-162319\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s forget about sitcoms and romcoms just for a while. Girls get friendzoned too. And while it\u2019s difficult to get friendzoned by a man you like, he\u2019s also in an unpleasant situation.&nbsp; Just imagine this scenario: your close friend or coworker tells you she likes you. Even though she is an attractive woman with a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":160744,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29641],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-160743","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips-for-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29641,"label":"dating tips for him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29641,"name":"dating tips for him","slug":"dating-tips-for-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29641,"taxonomy":"category","description":"These are not just any dating tips. 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