{"id":161137,"date":"2022-12-05T12:02:48","date_gmt":"2022-12-05T12:02:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=161137"},"modified":"2023-01-11T09:53:02","modified_gmt":"2023-01-11T09:53:02","slug":"esposa-quiere-matrimonio-medio-abierto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esposa-quiere-matrimonio-medio-abierto\/","title":{"rendered":"14 cosas que debes saber cuando tu mujer quiere un matrimonio a medias"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cMy wife wants a half-open marriage\u201d… I think this is the hardest sentence a man can say out loud. I have nothing against polyamorous relationships when both partners agree to it, but in my opinion, it\u2019s a little difficult when one partner wants to make it one-sided.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, tambi\u00e9n s\u00e9 que IF you love your wife, you\u2019ll choose to stay with her, no matter what. <\/strong>You\u2019ll stay married to her even if she suggests a half-<\/em>relaci\u00f3n abierta<\/em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, I also understand you and all of your mixed emotions. It\u2019s definitely not easy to go through something like this, and I want to be here for you and make your journey through this new life path at least a little bit easier. So, let\u2019s do this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14 cosas a tener en cuenta cuando tu mujer quiere un matrimonio a medias<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed que, si tu mujer quiere esto tipo de relaci\u00f3n<\/a> all of a sudden and you don\u2019t know what to do, I hope these tips will bring you peace and brighten your path so you can make the right decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Piensa en las posibles razones que le hicieron pensar en un matrimonio medio abierto<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

I know you couldn\u2019t even imagine this when you were saying \u201cI do\u201d to your wife, but it\u2019s happening, and now you need to think about how you\u2019re going to deal with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si crees que a\u00fan puedes hacer que tu mujer cambie de opini\u00f3n, entonces tienes que pensar en todas las posibles razones que la han llevado a tomar este tipo de decisi\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfFue su <\/em>relaci\u00f3n sexual<\/em> \u00bfBien? \u00bfSigue viva la chispa entre vosotros? \u00bfMostr\u00f3 ella alg\u00fan deseo de <\/em>poliamor<\/em> cuando sal\u00edais?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

These are all the questions you need to ask yourself to understand your wife\u2019s sudden need for a half-open marriage. And once you come to a conclusion, you should try to fix that part of your marriage or talk to her about it because that might make her give up on the whole half-open marriage thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Conf\u00eda en tu mejor amigo<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

I know it\u2019s not easy to go through this all alone, so my advice is to share what\u2019s going on with the person you trust the most. Naturally, it\u2019s not easy to go to your friend and tell them, \u201cmy wife wants an open marriage,\u201d but in the end, if they don\u2019t understand you, who will then?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m sure your <\/em>mejor amigo<\/em> estar\u00e1 ah\u00ed para apoyarte, decidas lo que decidas. <\/em>Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, puede que incluso le den alg\u00fan buen consejo sobre lo que debe hacer que le ayude a tomar la decisi\u00f3n correcta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, su <\/strong>mejor amigo<\/strong> es la persona que mejor te conoce, quiz\u00e1 incluso mejor que t\u00fa mismo.<\/strong> Is there anyone better to consult with regarding something like this than your bf? You can bet there isn\u2019t!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u00bfEst\u00e1s seguro de que puedes soportar que tu mujer tenga relaciones sexuales con otras personas?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You won\u2019t just need to see your wife with a new partner, but you\u2019ll need to accept the fact that she\u2019s having sexual relations with another man<\/a>. \u00bfSeguro que puedes con esto?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most men are very protective over the woman they love, and they don\u2019t like to share with anyone else.<\/em> If you\u2019re one of these men, then don\u2019t even try with the whole half-open marriage thing because you\u2019ll freak out the first time your wife tells you she has another sexual partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Abrirse a ella<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"una<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Direct and open communication is the key to making this type of relationship work. If you don\u2019t communicate all your needs in the beginning, your marriage will already be doomed to fail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whatever it is that you\u2019re feeling right now, you need to share it with your wife.<\/strong> If at any moment you start feeling that you can\u2019t handle it anymore, you should approach her immediately and admit that you\u2019re having second thoughts about it all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. \u00bfAfectar\u00eda a la confianza entre ustedes?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Si crees que todo este nuevo concepto en tu matrimonio llevar\u00eda a una ruptura de la confianza, tienes que comunic\u00e1rselo a tu mujer porque eso ser\u00eda un enorme <\/em>dealbreaker<\/em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you want to make this work, you\u2019ll need to trust each other above anything else. If it affects the trust between you, you\u2019ll slowly start growing apart and decide to split up sooner or later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. You\u2019ll need to set some ground rules<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Configuraci\u00f3n <\/strong>normas b\u00e1sicas<\/strong> y<\/strong> <\/strong>l\u00edmites claros<\/strong><\/a> <\/strong>son necesarios. <\/strong>Tienes que hablar alto y claro sobre estas cosas en cuanto decidas iniciar este nuevo viaje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you aren\u2019t okay with your wife doing something with new partners, you need to tell her right away. On the other hand, if she doesn\u2019t want you to be involved in her other relationships, she also needs to say that and include it in her boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Y hacer revisiones peri\u00f3dicas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

As much as it\u2019s important to have open communication, it\u2019s also important to have regular communication. You need to share how you feel often because there will be a lot of mixed feelings along the way, especially when your wife meets her first new partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Controles peri\u00f3dicos<\/strong><\/a> evitar\u00e1 cualquier malentendido entre vosotros y har\u00e1 que todo esto sea mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil. <\/strong>That way, your partner will know how you feel in every moment, and they will be able to sense when something is wrong with you or when you aren\u2019t okay with certain things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Mant\u00e9n unas expectativas realistas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"un<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Right from the beginning, you\u2019ll need to set and maintain realistic expectations. Don\u2019t expect your wife to change her mind one day and go back to having<\/strong> <\/strong>un <\/strong>relaci\u00f3n exclusiva<\/strong><\/a> <\/strong>contigo otra vez.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

La verdad es que puede que nunca ocurra, y tienes que ser consciente de ello. <\/em>If you can\u2019t handle sharing your wife with other men, just say so right away \u2013 don\u2019t keep those false hopes in because they may break your heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Resuelva todos sus problemas subyacentes de la forma correcta y a tiempo<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Despu\u00e9s de ajustar el <\/em>normas b\u00e1sicas<\/em>Tambi\u00e9n deber\u00edas deshacerte de las dudas que puedas tener sobre tu mujer.<\/em> I know you have so many questions running through your head, so don\u2019t be afraid to ask her each and every single one of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll encounter many ups and downs if you decide to have a half-open marriage. And you\u2019ll need to take care of them in time if you want to maintain your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Los resentimientos ocultos conducir\u00e1n tarde o temprano al divorcio<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You might immediately accept your wife\u2019s suggestion just to make her happy or to keep her by your side, but this would definitely be the wrong decision. You need to think it through and be ready for everything that comes with it before accepting your wife\u2019s suggestion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En caso contrario, el <\/em>resentimiento oculto<\/em> acabar\u00e1 destruyendo tu matrimonio por completo. <\/em>If you aren\u2019t honest from day one, you can be sure that you won\u2019t be able to maintain your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Tu vida sexual se ver\u00e1 definitivamente afectada<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not sure how, but the fact is that your sex life will be affected by the new concept in your marriage. It may be beneficial, but it will also bring many new issues into the bedroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why you need to set clear boundaries regarding a <\/strong>relaci\u00f3n sexual<\/strong> tambi\u00e9n. <\/strong>Su esposa tendr\u00e1 que tener cuidado con su <\/em>nuevos socios<\/em> and use protection every time to keep you both safe. It\u2019s really the <\/em>norma b\u00e1sica<\/em> para todos<\/em> <\/em>relaciones abiertas<\/em>.<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, your wife may learn some new things, and you may start experimenting with different sexual positions and toys in bed. That\u2019s the good side of having a half-open marriage, reigniting the spark between a married couple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Mant\u00e9n fuerte tu conexi\u00f3n<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"sonriente<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll need to work on your connection constantly. If, at any moment, your connection starts weakening, you can see it as the end of your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You won\u2019t be able to handle the <\/strong>matrimonio medio abierto<\/strong> thing if you don\u2019t keep your connection rock solid. <\/strong>Open relationships are never easy to maintain, but when the couple has a strong connection, they\u2019ll always know clearly what their priorities are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Don\u2019t let other people\u2019s opinions affect you<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Debe ser consciente de que un <\/em>mucha gente<\/em> son<\/em> <\/em>contra <\/em>poligamia<\/em><\/a> and won\u2019t approve of your decision \u2013 even some of your loved ones may be against it. <\/em>However, the decision is up to you, and you shouldn\u2019t bother about others and their opinions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They have their own lives, and they should focus on them. Don\u2019t let their judgy looks interfere with your decision because you and your own happiness are all that matters in this story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. Lo que quiere tu mujer es importante, \u00a1pero lo que quieres t\u00fa es mucho m\u00e1s importante!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Your wife\u2019s wishes are important, but yours are equally or even more important. <\/em>While you\u2019re making a decision, try to keep that in mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know that you want to make your wife happy and that you would make all of her wishes come true if it were up to you. However, do you really want to be stuck in a marriage where you don\u2019t feel happy for the rest of your life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esto puede ser una <\/strong>momento bombilla<\/strong> for you because you might now understand that your wife doesn\u2019t love you the same way you love her. <\/strong>She is more than enough for you, while on the other hand, she\u2019s the one who wants to try new relationships and have a half-open marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfPuede funcionar un matrimonio a medias?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"un<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

It can, but even if it doesn\u2019t seem like it, a lot of work and effort is needed to maintain this type of marriage. The truth is, cada <\/strong>tipo de relaci\u00f3n<\/strong> puede funcionar cuando la pareja se compromete a luchar para que funcione.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo m\u00e1s importante para mantener un matrimonio medio abierto es la sinceridad. Los dos miembros de la pareja deben ser sinceros el uno con el otro en todo momento y mantener relaciones regulares. <\/em>check-ins<\/em> where they\u2019ll be able to share their feelings.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Otra cosa que una pareja debe hacer en un <\/strong>matrimonio medio abierto<\/strong> se establece alg\u00fan <\/strong>normas b\u00e1sicas<\/strong>. <\/strong>Without it, things won\u2019t be completely clear to both sides, and sooner or later, those discrepancies will raise far greater issues and problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, open communication is a must in these types of marriages (it\u2019s actually a must in every type of marriage). All underlying issues need to be solved on time; otherwise, they\u2019ll provoke bigger issues and lead to a potential divorce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfSe divorcian m\u00e1s los matrimonios abiertos?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s a fact that non-monogamous marriages have a low success rate. It\u2019s probably due to the fact that most couples run into it too soon or without thinking it through properly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Algunos estudios han demostrado incluso que 92% de <\/strong>matrimonios abiertos<\/strong> fracasan y acaban en divorcio.<\/strong> It\u2019s really not that hard to believe this data because it\u2019s very hard to maintain this kind of marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Both partners need to be in it 100%, and if one of them isn\u2019t honest about their feelings, their <\/em>matrimonio abierto<\/em> est\u00e1 en peligro. <\/em>And once a couple decides to try a non-monogamous relationship, it\u2019s hard for them to get back on track and continue having a monogamous marriage. It\u2019s actually close to impossible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfPuede un matrimonio abierto ser unilateral?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It can, but it\u2019s very difficult to maintain that kind of marriage. Tarde o temprano, el socio que quiere tener una <\/strong>matrimonio mon\u00f3gamo<\/strong> empieza a sentirse inc\u00f3modo y cambia de opini\u00f3n sobre la <\/strong>matrimonio medio abierto<\/strong> cosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Actually, it\u2019s hard to maintain an open marriage, and it\u2019s so much harder and way too complicated when it\u2019s half-open.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los miembros de la pareja deben ser muy liberales o estar locamente enamorados el uno del otro. <\/em>Una vez m\u00e1s, como ya he dicho, habr\u00e1 algunos reconsiderar y reevaluar las cosas con el tiempo que puede conducir al final de su matrimonio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para terminar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Enfrentarse a la dif\u00edcil situaci\u00f3n que se produce cuando una esposa quiere un matrimonio a medias nunca es f\u00e1cil, sobre todo cuando el marido sigue locamente enamorado de su mujer. It\u2019s easy for those who\u2019ve stopped loving their wives because they can simply reject their suggestion or respond to it with divorce.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most men want a traditional marriage, and that\u2019s what they hope they\u2019ll get when they commit to one woman. Of course, a matrimonio tradicional<\/strong> siempre ser\u00e1 un <\/strong>matrimonio mon\u00f3gamo<\/strong> \u2013 <\/strong>no monogamia<\/strong> no forma parte de la tradici\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s one reason most men will struggle to accept this idea, and the wife\u2019s wish for a half-open relationship will, in most cases, lead to divorce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La cuesti\u00f3n es que debes tener en cuenta que tienes que tomar una decisi\u00f3n y, sea del tipo que sea, nadie tiene derecho a juzgarte. If you love your wife and feel that it\u2019s the right thing to give her what she wants, go for it.<\/strong>On the flip side, if you can\u2019t accept it or think that a non-monogamous relationship would make you miserable, you have every right not to agree to it.<\/em> Aunque le cueste su matrimonio, al fin y al cabo, su propia felicidad y tranquilidad deben ser su prioridad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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