{"id":16119,"date":"2020-10-12T08:45:49","date_gmt":"2020-10-12T08:45:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16119"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:32:47","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:32:47","slug":"tengo-suficientes-mentiras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tengo-suficientes-mentiras\/","title":{"rendered":"Ya he tenido suficiente de tus mentiras"},"content":{"rendered":"

He malgastado a\u00f1os de mi vida contigo y ahora me doy cuenta de que ni siquiera te conozco. No s\u00e9 qui\u00e9n eres por tus mentiras.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know who the person I loved for so long was. Did I ever see your true face or have I loved someone imaginary all of this time?<\/p>\n

Cuando te conoc\u00ed, pens\u00e9 que eras perfecta.<\/p>\n

You presented yourself as a loving and caring guy who would move the world for my sake. I didn\u2019t believe you at first, but you tried very hard to convince me that you were the one for me.<\/p>\n

Me dec\u00edas que eras diferente a los dem\u00e1s y que deb\u00eda confiar en ti. Y tambi\u00e9n intentaste demostr\u00e1rmelo.<\/p>\n

You were giving me more attention and love than anyone before you. Even though I didn\u2019t want to give myself completely to you, you were chasing me.<\/p>\n

You just wouldn\u2019t give up on me. You were always there for me and always ready to help me with my problems.<\/p>\n

Y despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, aunque una voz interior me dec\u00eda que eras demasiado bueno para ser verdad, me permit\u00ed creer en tu amor.<\/p>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Baj\u00e9 la guardia. Romp\u00ed todos mis muros y te dej\u00e9 entrar completamente.<\/p>\n

Pero, en lugar de disfrutar de nuestro amor juntos, fue entonces cuando cambiaste.<\/p>\n

De repente, empec\u00e9 a notar tus mentiras<\/a> and deceptions. At first, those were all white lies and I wasn\u2019t taking your lying seriously.<\/p>\n

Pero m\u00e1s tarde, vi que no te parec\u00edas en nada al hombre que me aseguraste que eras. Supongo que viste que me ten\u00edas completamente, as\u00ed que pensaste que era el momento de mostrar todos tus verdaderos colores.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, ten\u00edas raz\u00f3n, no eras como los dem\u00e1s. Eras mucho peor. <\/b><\/p>\n

I know there are some things most men lie about, but you lied about literally everything\u2014about the little things and about the big ones.<\/p>\n

Fue entonces cuando comprend\u00ed que mentir est\u00e1 en tu naturaleza. Quer\u00edas ocultar tu verdadera personalidad, tratando de presentarte como sin pecado.<\/p>\n

Pero, la verdad era completamente diferente. En realidad estabas llevando una doble vida todo este tiempo.<\/p>\n

Eras un jugador que me minti\u00f3 en la cara <\/a> , a man who was cheating on me for years and it took me a long time to realize that. Even when I had signs, when I knew something was wrong, I didn\u2019t want to accept the truth.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

You may say I was foolish for believing you when everything was pretty much clear, but I had no other choice. I knew how much I loved you and I thought I couldn\u2019t live without you.<\/p>\n

But, I also couldn\u2019t stand being with someone who was lying to me and who was constantly cheating on me. So, I decided it was better to start lying to myself and pretending like I knew nothing about your deceptions.<\/p>\n

But, that state I was in couldn\u2019t last forever.<\/p>\n

Tarde o temprano, tuve que enfrentarme a la verdad. Tuve que comprender que nunca fuiste del todo sincero conmigo, que s\u00f3lo me utilizabas para aumentar tu ego, que ninguna de esas chicas era amiga tuya ni compa\u00f1era de trabajo y que volver\u00edas a hacerlo.<\/p>\n

I had to understand that even your \u201cI love you\u201d was a lie. Because you don\u2019t lie to a person you love <\/a> .<\/p>\n

Nunca fuiste lo suficientemente hombre para admitir todas tus malas acciones y nunca fuiste lo suficientemente maduro para asumir la responsabilidad de tus actos.<\/b><\/p>\n

Todos cometemos errores en la vida y probablemente te perdonar\u00eda la mayor\u00eda de los tuyos, s\u00f3lo con que fueras sincero conmigo.<\/p>\n

Pero.., cuando me mentiste, me quitaste la libertad de elegir. Tomaste decisiones en mi nombre e insultaste mi inteligencia<\/b> asumiendo que nunca llegar\u00eda al fondo de tus enga\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t lie by accident\u2014 fue tu decisi\u00f3n repetida mentirme conscientemente y eso es algo que nunca podr\u00e9 perdonarte.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

After a lot of time, I\u2019ve finally had enough. After I caught you lying so many times, after I\u2019ve given you the benefit of the doubt for more times than you deserved, I came to the point where I couldn\u2019t stand looking at myself in the mirror anymore.<\/p>\n

I just couldn\u2019t believe that I allowed you to feed me with your lies and that I acted like I was enjoying it. I started feeling sorry for myself and I was afraid I\u2019d lose my mind.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, para sobrevivir, tuve que crear esta realidad imaginaria en la que t\u00fa eras un hombre honesto que merec\u00eda mi respeto.  <\/p>\n

In that alternative reality, all of your lies were just misunderstandings, all of your excuses made perfect sense and you weren\u2019t undermining my intelligence by constantly trying to deceive me. In that kind of scenario, you were the man we both wanted you to be.<\/p>\n

But, the reality is completely different. The reality is that you will never change and that you\u2019ll never respect me enough to start telling me the truth, no matter how harsh it is.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., this is me telling you I\u2019m done<\/b> . I\u2019ve had more than enough of your lies and it\u2019s time for me to walk away from you. I gave you enough chances and you played with all of them.<\/p>\n

Y no, no tendr\u00e1s mi perd\u00f3n. Incluso si pudiera te perdono por mentir <\/a> to me and cheating on me, I could never forgive you for turning me into the pessimistic, paranoid woman I am today.<\/p>\n

Y ambos sabemos que merec\u00eda m\u00e1s de ti. <\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Ya<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ve wasted years of my life on you and now I realize I don\u2019t even know you. I don\u2019t know who you are because of your lies. I don\u2019t know who the person I loved for so long was. Did I ever see your true face or have I loved someone imaginary all of this…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":123708,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16119","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Ive-Had-Enough-Of-Your-Lies-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16119","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16119"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16119\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123708"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16119"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16119"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16119"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}