{"id":161570,"date":"2022-12-12T21:20:45","date_gmt":"2022-12-12T21:20:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=161570"},"modified":"2023-01-16T06:40:32","modified_gmt":"2023-01-16T06:40:32","slug":"como-las-suegras-arruinan-los-matrimonios","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-las-suegras-arruinan-los-matrimonios\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo las suegras arruinan los matrimonios: El sabotaje silencioso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cuando miramos a los matrimonios, podemos concluir f\u00e1cilmente que son relaciones formadas por dos personas. Pero todos sabemos c\u00f3mo las suegras arruinan los matrimonios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, we can say that partners sometimes aren\u2019t the only participants in a marriage. For generations, mothers-in-law have been known to cause tension and conflict in marriages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most of the time, mothers-in-law won\u2019t directly go to you and talk about the problem \u2013 they will go and talk behind your back. That\u2019s why we often refer to this as silent sabotage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What does this silent sabotage look like? Let\u2019s find out!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-12-ways-how-mothers-in-law-ruin-marriages\">12 maneras en que las suegras arruinan los matrimonios<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este sabotaje silencioso puede tener un impacto significativo en la relaci\u00f3n entre la pareja casada. Puede provocar <strong>resentimiento, desconfianza y sentimientos heridos.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One partner may begin to feel like they\u2019re stuck in the middle, while the other may feel like they are being undermined.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is usually the case with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, but the wife\u2019s family can also cause problems. So let\u2019s find out how mothers-in-law ruin marriages!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-trying-to-control-their-child-s-life\">1. Trying to control their child\u2019s life<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-argues-with-her-son-1.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer discute con su hijo\" class=\"wp-image-161574\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-argues-with-her-son-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-argues-with-her-son-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-argues-with-her-son-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-argues-with-her-son-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-argues-with-her-son-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-argues-with-her-son-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-argues-with-her-son-1-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-argues-with-her-son-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many couples face a common issue when the mother-in-law tries to control her son\u2019s life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When a mother-in-law wants a voice in every part of her son or daughter&#8217;s life, it can be pretty annoying and exhausting for their relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Podr\u00eda creer que su <strong>el ni\u00f1o no toma las mejores decisiones<\/strong>. Esto puede hacerse por amor y cari\u00f1o a su hijo o hija, pero puede <strong>se convierten r\u00e1pidamente en abrumadoras<\/strong> para la pareja si la suegra es demasiado controladora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another reason a mother-in-law can try to exert control over her child&#8217;s life is if she thinks her child isn&#8217;t living up to her expectations. Usually, this is because of how she was raised.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-constant-criticism-and-judgment\">2. Cr\u00edtica y juicio constantes<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s no secret that many people struggle with their toxic mother-in-law\u2019s constant criticism and judgment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Su <strong>el estilo de crianza, la elecci\u00f3n de la ropa o la forma de hacer las tareas dom\u00e9sticas<\/strong>&#8230;The constant criticism of how you should do your job can be really damaging, especially if your mother-in-law is always somewhere around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aunque estos comentarios pueden venir de un lugar de amor y concierto, tambi\u00e9n da\u00f1an su salud mental si son constantes o irracionales.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-showing-favoritism-towards-their-own-children\">3. Mostrar favoritismo hacia sus propios hijos<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">El favoritismo es una tendencia natural de los padres, pero puede provocar sentimientos de resentimiento y dolor en los dem\u00e1s miembros de la familia. Tambi\u00e9n puede llevar a una ruptura de la confianza y la comunicaci\u00f3n en la familia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este favoritismo es a menudo una <strong>fuente de conflictos y tensiones<\/strong> because the son or daughter-in-law may feel like they\u2019re not important or a valued family member.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Suele deberse a que, como toda buena madre, tu suegra considera a su hijo una prioridad y puede que no sea consciente de c\u00f3mo te afecta a ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-emotional-manipulation\">4. 4. Manipulaci\u00f3n emocional<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-is-talking-to-her-son-and-the-girl-is-sitting-next-to-her.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer est\u00e1 hablando con su hijo y la ni\u00f1a est\u00e1 sentada a su lado\" class=\"wp-image-161573\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-is-talking-to-her-son-and-the-girl-is-sitting-next-to-her.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-is-talking-to-her-son-and-the-girl-is-sitting-next-to-her-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-is-talking-to-her-son-and-the-girl-is-sitting-next-to-her-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-is-talking-to-her-son-and-the-girl-is-sitting-next-to-her-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-is-talking-to-her-son-and-the-girl-is-sitting-next-to-her-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-is-talking-to-her-son-and-the-girl-is-sitting-next-to-her-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-is-talking-to-her-son-and-the-girl-is-sitting-next-to-her-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/the-woman-is-talking-to-her-son-and-the-girl-is-sitting-next-to-her-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En algunos casos, la suegra puede utilizar <strong>manipulaci\u00f3n emocional<\/strong> para controlar no s\u00f3lo a su hijo, sino tambi\u00e9n a su yerno o nuera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hacer que su nuera se sienta culpable y avergonzada es una de esas t\u00e1cticas. Esto puede lograrse de varias maneras, por ejemplo <strong>haci\u00e9ndola sentir mal por sus decisiones, compar\u00e1ndola a menudo con otras personas. <\/strong><strong>familiares<\/strong><strong>o destacando insistentemente sus puntos d\u00e9biles.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The daughter-in-law\u2019s self-esteem and mental health may be severely damaged as a result of this emotional manipulation through guilt and shame, even eventually leading to a breakup.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-rivalry-for-their-child-s-affection\">5. Rivalry for their child\u2019s affection<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Muchas suegras y nueras experimentan una rivalidad por el afecto de su hijo, y puede ser dif\u00edcil de gestionar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The conflict between your husband\u2019s mother and you is often rooted in the mother-in-law feeling a sense of loss as her child transitions into a different family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She needs to protect and control her son but doesn\u2019t realize that he has his own home now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-inability-to-let-go\">6. Incapacidad para dejarse llevar<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Parental relationships need to evolve as children grow up and they build new families: it\u2019s the normal cycle of life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, sometimes it\u2019s really hard to let go, and this is when mothers-in-law cause problems. For many of them, it can be <strong>dif\u00edcil dejar ir a su hijo o hija<\/strong> despu\u00e9s de haber sido una parte importante de su vida durante tanto tiempo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They can\u2019t accept the fact that their child is now starting their own family, has responsibilities for other people, and isn\u2019t around all the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Por lo tanto, ejercen mucha presi\u00f3n sobre ambos miembros de la pareja, lo que provoca conflictos e incluso puede arruinar los matrimonios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-refusal-to-respect-the-couple-s-boundaries\">7. Refusal to respect the couple&#8217;s boundaries<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many couples struggle with the issue of their mother-in-law not respecting their boundaries. It can be difficult for couples to cope with their mother-in-law\u2019s refusal to respect the boundaries they have set.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Una cosa com\u00fan que hace una suegra es que <strong>espera ser incluida en <\/strong><strong>eventos familiares<\/strong> that the couple would like to keep private, which can be especially difficult if she doesn\u2019t live close to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De este modo, intenta inmiscuirse constantemente en su espacio personal, y eso no le gusta a nadie, \u00bfverdad? Como consecuencia de querer controlar su vida, las llamadas telef\u00f3nicas suelen ser demasiado frecuentes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This can be especially difficult if you have young children and the mother-in-law is calling to check in on them, which may seem as if she\u2019s intruding on your family time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-passive-aggressive-behavior\">8. Comportamiento pasivo-agresivo<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-leaning-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer triste est\u00e1 sentada apoyada en el sof\u00e1\" class=\"wp-image-161575\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-leaning-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-leaning-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-leaning-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-leaning-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-leaning-on-the-couch-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-leaning-on-the-couch-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-leaning-on-the-couch-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/a-sad-woman-is-sitting-leaning-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Si su suegra muestra<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/pasivo-agresivo\/\"> comportamiento pasivo-agresivo<\/a>puede ser dif\u00edcil mantener una buena relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This toxic behavior is usually what keeps newly married couples from building strong relationships with each other\u2019s parents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Una suegra pasivo-agresiva puede hacer que<strong> rude comments about her son&#8217;s wife, criticize her decisions and viewpoints, or simply avoid eye contact.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este comportamiento suele ser sutil, por lo que puede resultar dif\u00edcil advertirlo y manejarlo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-lack-of-empathy\">9. Falta de empat\u00eda<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You must have empathy and understanding if you want any relationship to be successful, but we all know this isn\u2019t always the case with mothers-in-law.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Often, mothers-in-law are seen as intrusive, demanding, and lacking in understanding of the couple\u2019s needs and wants. Some of them are difficult to get along with when it comes to a couple\u2019s relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Puede que haya <strong>expectativas poco realistas o ninguna consideraci\u00f3n por tus sentimientos,<\/strong> which often may seem as if she doesn\u2019t truly care about you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-pitting-the-spouse-against-their-child\">10. Enfrentar al c\u00f3nyuge con su hijo<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uno de los efectos m\u00e1s perjudiciales que puede tener una suegra es poner a su hijo en contra de su c\u00f3nyuge cuando habla mal de ti sin ninguna raz\u00f3n v\u00e1lida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esto se nota especialmente cuando intenta convencer a su hijo de que tome partido tras una discusi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Your partner may feel like they are trying to put out two fires, and even though they love you and want to have a good relationship with both of you, under constant pressure, they\u2019ll need to pick a side.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Si tu pareja se pone de tu parte, tu suegra puede utilizar el<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hacer-callar-a-alguien-dice-mucho-de-tu-caracter\/\"> tratamiento silencioso<\/a> como venganza y causar a\u00fan m\u00e1s tensi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-11-she-always-comes-over-unannounced\">11. Siempre viene sin avisar<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cuando se trata de matrimonio, la mayor\u00eda de las parejas se esfuerzan por que sea una uni\u00f3n feliz y pac\u00edfica.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unfortunately, this can be difficult to achieve when a mother-in-law constantly comes over unannounced. You may think this is a silly way mothers in law ruin marriages, but trust me, it\u2019s more common than you think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When she comes over unannounced, it\u2019s like a breach of privacy and trust, and in fact, it\u2019s extremely disrespectful to the couple\u2019s privacy. You aren\u2019t respected and valued even in your own home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-12-she-doesn-t-value-your-opinion\">12. She doesn&#8217;t value your opinion<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/mother-in-law-and-daughter-in-law-are-arguing-1.jpg\" alt=\"suegra y nuera discuten\" class=\"wp-image-161577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/mother-in-law-and-daughter-in-law-are-arguing-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/mother-in-law-and-daughter-in-law-are-arguing-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/mother-in-law-and-daughter-in-law-are-arguing-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/mother-in-law-and-daughter-in-law-are-arguing-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/mother-in-law-and-daughter-in-law-are-arguing-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/mother-in-law-and-daughter-in-law-are-arguing-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/mother-in-law-and-daughter-in-law-are-arguing-1-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/mother-in-law-and-daughter-in-law-are-arguing-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many mothers-in-law may have a hard time recognizing their son or daughter\u2019s spouse as a valid individual in the family and, most of the time, won\u2019t even value their opinion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00f3lo creen en su relaci\u00f3n madre-hijo y nada m\u00e1s. Esto viene del hecho de que ella quiere desesperadamente tomar el control de su familia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aunque no exprese directamente su deseo de control, sus acciones pueden sugerirlo. Por ejemplo, si tu suegra no tiene en cuenta tu opini\u00f3n o la de los dem\u00e1s, es posible que tu suegra te diga que no.<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mis-suegros-me-tratan-como-a-un-extrano\/\"> te trata como a un extra\u00f1o<\/a>puede ser una se\u00f1al de que intenta mantener el control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-ways-to-deal-with-your-mother-in-law\">5 maneras de tratar a tu suegra<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/two-women-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"dos mujeres conversan sentadas en el sof\u00e1\" class=\"wp-image-161578\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/two-women-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/two-women-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/two-women-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/two-women-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/two-women-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/two-women-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/two-women-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/two-women-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Puede ser dif\u00edcil encontrar el equilibrio entre respetar y honrar a tu suegra y, al mismo tiempo, garantizar que se satisfagan tus necesidades.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Afortunadamente, algunas estrategias pueden ayudar. Aqu\u00ed tienes cinco maneras de tratar con tu suegra:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-communicate-openly\">1. Comunicarse abiertamente<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La comunicaci\u00f3n abierta es esencial en cualquier relaci\u00f3n, especialmente cuando se trata de problemas con tu suegra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It can be difficult to approach a tough conversation with someone who holds a special place in your spouse\u2019s heart. Still, open communication and honest dialogue can help you resolve any issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prep\u00e1rese para<strong> ser tan respetuoso y diplom\u00e1tico<\/strong> as possible and avoid personal attacks or criticism. Because remember how you\u2019ve been hurt when she says mean things about you. Do you really want to be just like her?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-set-boundaries\">2. Establecer l\u00edmites<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Una parte crucial de tratar con tu suegra es<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lista-de-limites-para-la-suegra-2\/\"> establecer l\u00edmites sanos<\/a>. Try to be clear about your expectations, what you want and don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Respect each other\u2019s space and privacy and try to convince her that she shouldn\u2019t take certain things personally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Talk about how you\u2019re two completely different people and have different perspectives on raising children. Let her know that she needs to respect that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-your-happiness-is-also-important\">3. Tu felicidad tambi\u00e9n es importante<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Una relaci\u00f3n dif\u00edcil con tu suegra puede ser una fuente importante de estr\u00e9s, sobre todo si viv\u00eds juntos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">El primer paso para preservar tu felicidad es tener<strong> a <\/strong><strong>frente unido<\/strong><strong> con su pareja<\/strong>. Esto significa que t\u00fa y tu pareja deb\u00e9is poneros de acuerdo sobre c\u00f3mo tratar a tu suegra, y nunca deb\u00e9is discrepar delante de ella.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The second step is to maintain healthy boundaries with your mother-in-law, as we\u2019ve already discussed. Set clear boundaries and warn her that you\u2019ll distance yourself from her if she doesn\u2019t respect them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-maintain-your-own-identity\">4. Mantener su propia identidad<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ante todo, recuerda que tu matrimonio es s\u00f3lo entre t\u00fa y tu c\u00f3nyuge, nadie m\u00e1s. Nunca debes sentirte presionada a cambiar tu identidad o a renunciar a qui\u00e9n eres solo para complacer a tu suegra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As\u00ed que intenta comunicarte abiertamente con tu pareja sobre tus problemas con su madre y ten claro qu\u00e9 comportamiento es aceptable e inaceptable por parte de tu suegra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If your spouse takes their mother\u2019s side during every argument, it\u2019s a warning sign that you\u2019re married to a mommy\u2019s boy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-seek-support-from-friends-or-family\">5. Buscar el apoyo de amigos o familiares<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Buscar el apoyo de amigos y familiares es importante a la hora de afrontar los problemas con la suegra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Los amigos y la familia pueden proporcionar un entorno seguro y libre de prejuicios para hablar de los problemas. Pueden ayudarte a entender mejor la situaci\u00f3n y aportar perspectivas diferentes, que pueden ayudarte a encontrar una soluci\u00f3n o a tomar mejores decisiones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Los amigos y la familia tambi\u00e9n pueden ofrecer <strong>apoyo emocional y ayuda para aliviar cualquier sentimiento de soledad<\/strong>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-role-of-in-laws-in-divorce\">El papel de los suegros en el divorcio<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Los suegros suelen ser una fuente importante de conflictos en los matrimonios e incluso pueden llevar al divorcio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aunque los suegros en s\u00ed no pretendan causar ning\u00fan da\u00f1o, su presencia y sus opiniones pueden crear tensiones entre las parejas y convertirse en una importante fuente de estr\u00e9s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En algunos casos, los suegros pueden ofrecer <strong>consejos o cr\u00edticas no solicitados<\/strong> sobre el matrimonio o sobre c\u00f3mo se comporta uno de los miembros de la pareja. Esto puede provocar sentimientos de resentimiento y hacer que las parejas duden de su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In other cases, in-laws may be overly involved in a couple\u2019s life, causing them to feel like they have no privacy. This can cause serious marital issues, where the only solution is to get a divorce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-impact-of-in-laws-on-marriages-how-many-end-in-divorce\">El impacto de los suegros en los matrimonios: \u00bfCu\u00e1ntos acaban en divorcio?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No hay pruebas emp\u00edricas que sugieran que los matrimonios con suegros tengan una tasa de divorcios m\u00e1s alta que los que no los tienen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sin embargo, los estudios han descubierto que <strong>las parejas con mayor nivel de conflicto entre parientes tienen m\u00e1s riesgo de divorcio<\/strong> que las parejas con niveles m\u00e1s bajos de conflicto familiar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Adem\u00e1s, las parejas que experimentan interacciones m\u00e1s negativas con sus suegros tienen m\u00e1s probabilidades de divorciarse que las que tienen interacciones m\u00e1s positivas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Overall, it\u2019s difficult to say that in-laws alone cause divorce, as this is a complex issue. However, research does suggest that couples with in-law conflict and negative interactions with their in-laws are more likely to divorce than those without such issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-can-a-marriage-survive-toxic-in-laws\">\u00bfPuede un matrimonio sobrevivir a unos suegros t\u00f3xicos?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Para muchas parejas, la realidad es tener que lidiar con suegros t\u00f3xicos, lo que puede poner a prueba sus matrimonios. <em>Pero, \u00bfpuede un matrimonio sobrevivir realmente a un <\/em><em>suegra t\u00f3xica<\/em><em> o <\/em><em>wife\u2019s father<\/em><em>?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Having to deal with toxic in-laws can be very stressful for a marriage. After all, it can be difficult for a couple to be happy and feel secure in their relationship when they\u2019re constantly dealing with negative and controlling behavior from their in-laws.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esto puede provocar tensiones y resentimientos entre la pareja, que es tambi\u00e9n una de las razones por las que muchos matrimonios acaban en divorcio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sin embargo, si establece l\u00edmites saludables o<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/distanciarse-de-los-suegros\/\"> distanciarse de los suegros t\u00f3xicos,<\/a> y si os quer\u00e9is de verdad, nada os impedir\u00e1 ser felices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-last-but-not-least\">Por \u00faltimo, pero no por ello menos importante<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En conclusi\u00f3n, la relaci\u00f3n entre las madres y sus suegros puede ser dif\u00edcil, y no gestionarla adecuadamente puede tener resultados desastrosos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now you know how mothers-in-law ruin marriages: lacking empathy, trying to control their child\u2019s life, and not respecting their spouse are the most common ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ambas partes deben reconocer las posibles \u00e1reas de tensi\u00f3n y esforzarse por mantener un di\u00e1logo abierto y respetuoso.Cuando se mantiene una comunicaci\u00f3n honesta y se muestra empat\u00eda y comprensi\u00f3n, la relaci\u00f3n con tu suegra y t\u00fa puede convertirse en una fuente de apoyo y amor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/How-Mothers-in-Law-Ruin-Marriages-The-Silent-Sabotage-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo las suegras arruinan los matrimonios El sabotaje silencioso Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-162127\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/How-Mothers-in-Law-Ruin-Marriages-The-Silent-Sabotage-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/How-Mothers-in-Law-Ruin-Marriages-The-Silent-Sabotage-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/How-Mothers-in-Law-Ruin-Marriages-The-Silent-Sabotage-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/How-Mothers-in-Law-Ruin-Marriages-The-Silent-Sabotage-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/How-Mothers-in-Law-Ruin-Marriages-The-Silent-Sabotage-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/How-Mothers-in-Law-Ruin-Marriages-The-Silent-Sabotage-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/How-Mothers-in-Law-Ruin-Marriages-The-Silent-Sabotage-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/How-Mothers-in-Law-Ruin-Marriages-The-Silent-Sabotage-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we look at marriages, we can easily conclude that they are relationships consisting of two people. But we all know how mothers-in-law ruin marriages. So, we can say that partners sometimes aren\u2019t the only participants in a marriage. For generations, mothers-in-law have been known to cause tension and conflict in marriages. 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