{"id":16185,"date":"2020-07-12T11:31:19","date_gmt":"2020-07-12T11:31:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16185"},"modified":"2022-01-09T17:15:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T17:15:20","slug":"no-necesito-amor-mendigar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-necesito-amor-mendigar\/","title":{"rendered":"No Necesito Amor Por El Que Tengo Que Suplicar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pens\u00e9 que nunca tendr\u00eda el valor de decir esto, pero ya he tenido suficiente. He tenido suficiente de esta relaci\u00f3n, de tu casi amor y he tenido suficiente de ti.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for me to start putting myself first and it\u2019s time for me to stop begging for your love and attention. It\u2019s time for me to start respecting myself enough to finally tell you that I\u2019ve had it.<\/p>\n

Y esto es lo que me ayudar\u00e1 a profundizar en mi amor propio: Profundiza en tu autoestima y vive desde tu esencia<\/a><\/p>\n

Sabes, siempre me hiciste wonder why I wasn\u2019t enough<\/a> for you. I\u2019ve tried to meet your standards and I\u2019ve tried to be the woman you wanted me to be.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve tried changing my looks and my personality just for you to like me more, but now I know that there was nothing I could to make you love me.<\/p>\n

Fue doloroso para m\u00ed aceptarlo, pero la cruda verdad es que love cannot be forced and it\u2019s not love if you have to ask for it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

So I\u2019m here to tell you I don\u2019t need love I have to beg for.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need a relationship in which I have to prove that I am worthy of your love.<\/strong> Because, I know my value and I know I\u2019ve deserved your complete love.<\/p>\n

You just couldn\u2019t bring yourself to give it to me and that is your loss. I don\u2019t need a relationship in which I constantly have to wonder why I am not enough for your love.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a relationship in which I always have to chase you.<\/strong> Y eso era exactamente lo que estaba haciendo todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

I was chasing you to commit to me. I was chasing you to label our relationship. I was chasing you to put it on the next level\u2026<\/p>\n

And I was chasing you to love me. And that was the most humiliating thing I\u2019ve ever done.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need love I have to wait for.<\/strong> Me dejabas constantemente y volv\u00edas a m\u00ed cuando quer\u00edas. Pero, sab\u00edas que ten\u00edas a alguien que te esperaba cada vez que decid\u00edas volver.<\/p>\n

I thought that your coming back to me was proof of your love, but now I realize that you don\u2019t walk away from people you truly care for.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need a relationship in which I have to feel like I am pushing you to be with me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

With you, I was always the one initiating everything. I felt like there could pass days without us having a meaningful conversation and you wouldn\u2019t even notice.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a relationship in which I have to ask for you to like me.<\/strong> Cuando pienso en ello, nunca te gust\u00f3 mi verdadero yo.<\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan t\u00fa, siempre fui demasiado sensible, demasiado emocional y demasiado necesitada.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

And while I tried very hard to change those things about me so you could finally like my personality, I\u2019ve realized that this is who I am and that I don\u2019t need to change for anyone<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you had ever loved me, I wouldn\u2019t have to change the essence of my being for your sake. If you had ever loved me, you would have loved all of me.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need love in which I have to beg for your attention and affection.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Estas cosas deber\u00edan ser naturales en toda relaci\u00f3n, pero t\u00fa me hac\u00edas sentir que ganaba un premio cada vez que me dabas migajas de tu atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

I was never a priority for you, but you managed to convince me that this was the natural order of things. You\u2019ve managed to convince me that I had no right to ask for more.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need love in which I have to make excuses for you.<\/strong> It took me a long time before I realized that love shouldn\u2019t be like this.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Me negaba a aceptar que nunca podr\u00edas amarme como yo te amaba. Era m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil para m\u00ed inventarme siempre excusas para ti.<\/p>\n

In my head, you were this busy man who simply couldn\u2019t find time for me.<\/p>\n

Eras alguien que me quer\u00eda mucho, pero s\u00f3lo te costaba demostrarlo de la forma correcta. Cre\u00ed en tus mentiras porque quise.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda creer en tu amor por m\u00ed. Pero ahora s\u00e9 que nunca me amaste de verdad; s\u00f3lo amaste como yo te amaba<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need someone who doesn\u2019t need me back.<\/strong> Me di cuenta de que nunca hab\u00eda cambiado nada en tu vida. Nunca te afect\u00f3 si me quedaba o si me iba y eso fue lo que m\u00e1s me doli\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Quiero m\u00e1s y por fin soy lo suficientemente valiente para decirlo en voz alta. Por fin soy lo suficientemente valiente para alejarme de ti y nunca m\u00e1s <\/strong><\/p>\n

mirar atr\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Necesito un amor que lo consuma todo y que dure toda la vida. Necesito y merezco atenci\u00f3n y compasi\u00f3n. Quiero un hombre que me ame en mi peor momento.<\/p>\n

Merezco a alguien que me ame con todo su coraz\u00f3n. Quiero un chico que se interese por todo lo que tengo que decir, un hombre que nunca se eche atr\u00e1s en el momento en que las cosas se pongan feas.<\/p>\n

I want a man who will believe in me, even when I don\u2019t believe in myself, a man who will be the wind for my wings.<\/p>\n

Necesito un hombre<\/a> que me ayudar\u00e1 a alcanzar las estrellas, un hombre que ser\u00e1 mi mayor apoyo y mi fan n\u00famero uno.<\/p>\n

Quiero un chico que siempre me ponga en primer lugar y un chico que me quiera, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

I want love I won\u2019t have to beg for. And I know I will get it, sooner or later.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quiero el tipo de amor que merezco. Y s\u00e9 que este no es ese tipo de amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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I thought I would never have the guts to say this, but I\u2019ve had enough. I\u2019ve had enough of this relationship, of your almost love and I\u2019ve had enough of you. It\u2019s time for me to start putting myself first and it\u2019s time for me to stop begging for your love and attention. It\u2019s time…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":102639,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16185","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/I-Dont-Need-Love-I-Have-To-Beg-For.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16185","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16185"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16185\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102639"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16185"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16185"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16185"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}