{"id":16205,"date":"2020-03-12T12:57:56","date_gmt":"2020-03-12T12:57:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16205"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:35:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:35:53","slug":"7-maneras-de-mantener-el-interes-de-un-chico-ganador","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-maneras-de-mantener-el-interes-de-un-chico-ganador\/","title":{"rendered":"7 maneras de conquistar a un chico (y mantener su inter\u00e9s)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Seguramente estar\u00e1s pensando: para qu\u00e9 te vas a tomar la molestia de intentar conquistar a un chico, porque o le gustas o no le gustas.<\/p>\n

Como ya sabes y habr\u00e1s aprendido a estas alturas, las cosas nunca son tan f\u00e1ciles.<\/p>\n

Nothing is white or black and there is a big grey zone in which you just don’t know what to do.<\/p>\n

Well, actually that\u2019s the beauty of life. It would be extremely boring if you knew every time what to do.<\/p>\n

Si vivieras seg\u00fan las reglas y esas reglas trajeran exactamente los mismos resultados que te prometieron.<\/p>\n

The thrill would be gone and the chase wouldn\u2019t exist. And I think we could all agree that the chase is too good to be thrown away that easily.<\/p>\n

If a guy doesn\u2019t show he is interested in you right away, it doesn’t have to mean it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Maybe he\u2019s scared of approaching you, maybe he just got out of a terrible relationship.<\/p>\n

No obstante, sea cual sea el motivo de sus dudas, hay algunas formas de ayudarle a decidir qu\u00e9 hacer.<\/p>\n

Pero tengo que advertirte. Utilizar estas t\u00e1cticas puede ser muy \u00fatil, pero tambi\u00e9n muy perjudicial si las usas de la forma equivocada.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t push too hard or overdo things because you\u2019ll come across as a crazy stalker who doesn\u2019t let him breathe.<\/p>\n

Play this \u2018womanly\u2019 smart and with decency, and you\u2019ll get just the result you were hoping for.<\/p>\n

Sometimes you have to try a bit hard to get what you want and believe me, guys love to be chased, but they won\u2019t admit it.<\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed algunas maneras perseguir<\/a> a un chico sin que lo sepa y ganarte su coraz\u00f3n:<\/p>\n

1. Hacer preguntas<\/h2>\n

\"pareja
\nA nadie le gusta la gente que habla constantemente de s\u00ed misma. Vale, entiendo que est\u00e9s orgulloso de ti mismo, pero dale la oportunidad de preguntar antes de dec\u00edrselo.<\/p>\n

Y para hacer las cosas m\u00e1s interesantes, hazle preguntas sobre su trabajo o sus aficiones y muestra inter\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

It would be great if you actually are interested in what he does and if you\u2019re not, you should probably stay away from him because that relationship won’t have a bright future.<\/p>\n

2. Demu\u00e9strale que sois el uno para el otro<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

This is a bit sneaky and it borders with manipulation, but if you do it the right, \u2018sweet\u2019 way, you\u2019re definitely going to pull it off.<\/p>\n

Of course, I don\u2019t have to repeat that if you really don\u2019t think you want to spend the rest of your life with this person, don\u2019t manipulate him into thinking that you do.<\/p>\n

Si no est\u00e1 seguro de lo que quiere, d\u00e9jelo hasta que sepa exactamente qu\u00e9 hacer.<\/p>\n

Si de verdad cre\u00e9is que est\u00e1is hechos el uno para el otro, entablad una conversaci\u00f3n informal y llamar su atenci\u00f3n<\/a> mencionando cosas que teng\u00e1is en com\u00fan. No te las inventes, porque no tiene sentido.<\/p>\n

3. Nunca intentes cambiarle<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Many people make this mistake at the beginning of the relationship. They try to change the person they\u2019re with.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not talking about small changes that don\u2019t matter because you can live with them.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about big changes\u2014changes of his personality or the way he thinks.<\/p>\n

Ese tipo de pensamiento es t\u00f3xico para la relaci\u00f3n y si intentas hacerlo, \u00e9l podr\u00eda frustrarse y enfadarse, y t\u00fa te sentir\u00e1s terriblemente infeliz y decepcionada.<\/p>\n

Not to mention that your relationship will go down in flames, sooner or later. Either accept him for who he is, or don\u2019t bother to date him at all.<\/p>\n

4. Show him it\u2019s okay to be vulnerable<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo tienes que demostrarle que el espacio que te rodea es una zona segura en la que puede ser exactamente lo que es sin tener que fingir ni ponerse una m\u00e1scara de macho valiente, sino que ser\u00eda perfecto que tambi\u00e9n le mostraras tu lado vulnerable para que conf\u00ede en ti y en tus intenciones.<\/p>\n

Show him that you won’t judge him or nag him, but that you\u2019ll always tell him if you think he did something wrong\u2014but not to humiliate him, to help him.<\/p>\n

Mu\u00e9strale que tiene un hombro sobre el que llorar porque todo el mundo necesita uno. Todo el mundo llora.<\/p>\n

5. Hacerle re\u00edr<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

La risa lo cura todo. No hay nada mejor que esa sensaci\u00f3n positiva cuando te levantas por la ma\u00f1ana y el d\u00eda empieza entre risas o alguien te regala una sonrisa de camino al trabajo o al colegio.<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t that make your whole day? Tell him a stupid joke, embarrass yourself if you have to, but hazle re\u00edr<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Le har\u00e1 sentirse mejor y quedar\u00e1 grabado en su memoria, porque las cosas positivas son las que permanecen m\u00e1s tiempo en nuestra mente.<\/p>\n

6. Aceptar a sus amigos y familiares<\/h2>\n

\"Amigos<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t get to choose your family or your boyfriend\u2019s, and that\u2019s why the best thing you can do is make peace with the fact that they exist and there\u2019s nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t like his family, tough\u2014you have to put up with them, and if you do like them, then the problem solves itself.<\/p>\n

Y en cuanto a los amigos, tienes que entender que sus amigos estaban a su lado mucho antes de que t\u00fa entraras en escena.<\/p>\n

They are somewhat like family\u2014people he loves and respects. If you don\u2019t respect the people he does, then you automatically don’t respect him.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t like them, show him you can live with the fact he\u2019ll hang out with them and never forbid him to do so because if you do, it\u2019s over.<\/p>\n

And if you really like them, show him that as well, but don\u2019t do too far because he might even get a bit jealous if you try to establish too close of a relationship with his friends.<\/p>\n

7. Conseguir que cambie de opini\u00f3n sobre algo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Nothing will impress him more than this, especially if he is stubborn and doesn\u2019t want to listen to anybody\u2019s suggestions about anything.<\/p>\n

Todos tenemos cosas que nos gustan. \u00c9l tiene algo que le hace feliz y t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

Puede que tengas algunas cosas iguales o parecidas que te hacen feliz, pero no todo.<\/p>\n

Try to convince him to try your favorite food or watch your favorite show. Who knows\u2014maybe he will like it and you will really impress him.<\/p>\n

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