{"id":162469,"date":"2023-03-03T14:06:56","date_gmt":"2023-03-03T14:06:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=162469"},"modified":"2023-03-03T14:07:04","modified_gmt":"2023-03-03T14:07:04","slug":"por-que-las-citas-modernas-son-un-asco-para-los-hombres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-las-citas-modernas-son-un-asco-para-los-hombres\/","title":{"rendered":"Por qu\u00e9 las citas modernas son un asco para los hombres"},"content":{"rendered":"

Breadcrumbing, double-texting, people pretending they\u2019re single, using fake photos, GHOSTING\u2026<\/em> \u00bfCu\u00e1ntos de ustedes han experimentado alguna o todas estas cosas al menos una vez cuando se trata de citas modernas?<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I did, my friends did, my colleagues did, the friends of my friends did\u2026  <\/em>
<\/em>\u00bfQu\u00e9 nos dice esto?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se supon\u00eda que las aplicaciones de citas y las redes sociales iban a facilitarnos las citas. En lugar de eso, hicieron las cosas m\u00e1s COMPLICADAS y AGOTADORAS.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Each one of us goes through different dating challenges in accordance with our gender. Here\u2019s why modern dating sucks for men!  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 las citas modernas son un asco para los hombres? <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cOnline dating is like being a stand up comedian except that instead of boos or getting tomatoes thrown at you, you are greeted with radio silence. <\/em>Tienes que estar preparado con fotos que te muestren como una persona interesante, estar armado con frases ingeniosas, grandes chistes, buenas historias que contar, y te fantasmean una y otra vez.<\/em><\/strong> And all of this isn\u2019t for America\u2019s next top model. This is for your regular girl next door. This also reminds me of that LinkedIn post where someone ranted about how companies should expect you to go through five rounds of interviews if they aren\u2019t gonna pay like Google or Facebook does.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n(Publicado por u\/nouseforaname888<\/em> en Reddit)<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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U\/nouseforaname888, <\/em>we TOTALLY agree with you! It sucks to be armed with witty lines and great jokes only to realize that (some) girls don\u2019t give a damn about them. And there is more! Here are a few key points why modern dating sucks for men:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Es un asco pensar que las mujeres esperan demasiado de ti.  <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI need to have the hottest profile pic.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI need to impress women with hilarious jokes and great openers.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMy profile and texts shouldn\u2019t be boring but also I shouldn\u2019t be trying too hard.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Queridos hombres, \u00bfles suena familiar? Apuesto a que s\u00ed. Es una putada pensar que las mujeres esperan demasiado de ti porque es una forma segura de perder la cabeza a la hora de salir con alguien.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because of this, many men don\u2019t even dare to text some women out of fear that they\u2019ll be rejected by them. One can never enjoy dating when they\u2019re convinced that others expect too much from them, and that\u2019s why modern dating sucks!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Es un asco ser siempre el que inicia las cosas. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

We can argue about this all day long but there\u2019s this unwritten rule that men are supposed to text first, ask out first, and so on. Bueno, \u00a1es una mierda ser siempre el que inicia las cosas!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esta regla no escrita supone una gran carga y hace que las citas no sean tan agradables para los hombres. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Es un asco ser un fantasma. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Hombre<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

This one is connected with the previous one. Given that men are \u201csupposed to\u201d text first, they are at risk of being ghosted more than women. And yes, it TOTALLY sucks to be ghosted! Imag\u00ednate a un hombre que se ha pasado la mitad del d\u00eda tratando de encontrar a la mejor abridora de Tinder s\u00f3lo para ser fantasma.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not only once but over and over again (depending on how much time he invests in modern dating). I\u2019m sure that three to five ghosting is enough to shake your self-esteem and make you question your self-worth. That\u2019s why modern dating sucks so much! <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Apesta seguir escuchando que Todos los hombres son iguales<\/em>. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

And then, there\u2019s this famous sentence: All men are the same! Lord knows how many times a woman uttered it when she was disappointed in that one man who was either a narcissistic asshole or a manipulative player. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Noup, no todos los hombres son iguales ni todas las mujeres son iguales. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are still some good men out there and they don\u2019t enjoy being called \u201cthe same\u201d. Just because some of you, ladies, haven\u2019t met one, this doesn\u2019t mean that they don\u2019t exist. Let\u2019s not make this dating thing even harder than it is, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Es una mierda competir con otros hombres. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"un<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Many men won\u2019t admit this to themselves and others, but they have this inherent trait that forces them to compete with other men. Do they enjoy it? Some men do but the majority of them DON\u2019T. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Las redes sociales y las aplicaciones de citas han llevado esto a otro nivel. The competition between men has never been stronger thus making men feel like they\u2019ll never be good enough for a woman they like. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Siempre habr\u00e1 hombres que tengan m\u00e1s \u00e9xito o sean m\u00e1s guapos que otros y las citas modernas no tienen piedad a la hora de resaltarlo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

How can a man EVER feel confident about himself when he\u2019s virtually surrounded by thousands of other men ready to do anything to prove to themselves and to the world that they are more powerful, stronger, and so on?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Reunir el valor para deslizarte por los DM de la chica que te gusta nunca ha sido tan dif\u00edcil porque sabes que la competencia es despiadada. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Es un asco pasar de un extremo al otro. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Las citas modernas obligan a los hombres a actualizar constantemente sus planteamientos. Pasar de un extremo a otro se ha convertido en la nueva normalidad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tras ser repetidamente fantasma, un hombre se ve obligado a rebajar sus expectativas y conformarse con muy poco.<\/strong> A medida que baja su nivel de confianza, empieza a ver a las mujeres con otros ojos. Su nivel de exigencia disminuye considerablemente y teme equivocarse. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lamentablemente, cometer un error en el mundo moderno de las citas nunca ha sido tan f\u00e1cil porque los mensajes de texto son el principal medio de comunicaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Es un asco ser friendzoneado.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"la<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s the truth: Every single woman has friendzoned a guy at least once in her life. With modern dating, friendzoning has become even more popular. Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00a1Porque nunca ha sido tan f\u00e1cil friendzone alguien! <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you want to friendzone a guy, all you need to do is ignore his texts for a while and then let him know that you\u2019re only interested in being friends with him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bueno, apesta ser friendzoned. Todo hombre que ha sido friendzoned sabe que ser friendzoned es como ser puesto en la c\u00e1rcel y le dijo que estar bien con \u00e9l hasta que algo cambia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

En la mayor\u00eda de los casos, NADA cambia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfY sabes qu\u00e9 es lo que m\u00e1s apesta?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"pareja<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

All this pretending that modern dating is the best invention since sliced bread. I think it\u2019s high time for men to wake up and realize that modern dating brings more consequences than benefits to them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 sigues perdiendo el tiempo haciendo de comediante y arm\u00e1ndote de frases ingeniosas cuando las cosas PUEDEN y DEBEN ser m\u00e1s sencillas que eso?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Breadcrumbing, double-texting, people pretending they\u2019re single, using fake photos, GHOSTING\u2026 How many of you have experienced some or all of these things at least once when it comes to modern dating?  I did, my friends did, my colleagues did, the friends of my friends did\u2026  What does this say to us? Dating apps and social…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":162478,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-162469","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Heres-Why-Modern-Dating-Profoundly-SUCKS-For-Men-1-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162469","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=162469"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162469\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/162478"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=162469"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=162469"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=162469"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}