{"id":162489,"date":"2023-03-05T22:18:12","date_gmt":"2023-03-05T22:18:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=162489"},"modified":"2023-03-05T22:18:17","modified_gmt":"2023-03-05T22:18:17","slug":"los-mayores-errores-en-las-citas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-mayores-errores-en-las-citas\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfEres culpable de cometer estos 10 errores?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It was just another Friday and I was getting ready for a date with a guy I\u2019ve been texting for a few days. The date went well (actually, surprisingly well contrary to previous dates) and I was looking forward to seeing him again.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>And then, right after a fifth date something changed. \u201cSURPRISE, SURPRISE!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He no longer called me or texted me from time to time just to see how I was doing and even when he did, everything seemed forced by his side. I knew that something wasn\u2019t right but I couldn\u2019t figure out what exactly was happening.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Al cabo de un tiempo, sus llamadas irregulares fueron sustituidas por la ausencia total de llamadas. Estaba sentada junto a mi tel\u00e9fono y pensaba en cometer uno de los mayores delitos en lo que a citas se refiere:<strong> envi\u00e1ndole mensajes por millon\u00e9sima vez s\u00f3lo para ser fantasma una y otra vez.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tras una larga sesi\u00f3n de cavilaciones, tuve una epifan\u00eda:<strong>&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Fui culpable de cometer uno de los mayores errores en las citas, conocido como esforzarse demasiado. <\/strong>(Vale, tambi\u00e9n fui culpable de actuar desesperadamente).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Are you guilty of making some of the biggest dating mistakes? It\u2019s time to find out!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-playing-unavailable-games-for-too-long\">1. Jugar durante demasiado tiempo a juegos no disponibles<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand.jpg\" alt=\"una chica pensativa est\u00e1 sentada con un tel\u00e9fono en la mano\" class=\"wp-image-162494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-thoughtful-girl-is-sitting-with-a-phone-in-her-hand-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I used to think that playing hard to get is a surefire method to grab the attention from someone you like. I thought playing unavailable games will let the other person know that I\u2019m not so easily impressed by suitors and that I&#8217;m a high value woman.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Bueno, jugar a juegos no disponibles est\u00e1 bien si s\u00f3lo ocurre durante un corto per\u00edodo de tiempo y si lo haces de la manera correcta <\/strong>(read: you don\u2019t overdo it). However, playing hard to get for too long is an absolute disaster and one of the biggest dating mistakes one can make.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00bfSe pregunta por qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because the other person will think that you were never interested in them in the first place and that you\u2019re only playing mind games. <strong>There are better ways to let others know that you\u2019re a high value woman\/man instead of playing unavailable games.<\/strong> Un ejemplo de ello es establecer tus l\u00edmites y ce\u00f1irte a ellos.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-trying-too-hard\">2. Esforzarse demasiado<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u00bfSiempre es usted el primero en llamar y enviar mensajes de texto?&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u00bfEres siempre t\u00fa quien les pide una cita?&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u00bfSientes que tienes que esforzarte demasiado para ganarte su atenci\u00f3n y hacerle saber lo mucho que te gusta?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re trying too hard to win their affection, there\u2019s a reason behind this phenomenon. <\/strong>Perhaps you think that you aren\u2019t worthy of love and you need to try hard to deserve it, which is often linked with childhood traumas and demands adequate therapy.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or they aren\u2019t really interested in you and you think that by trying too hard you will make them change their mind. If this is the case with you, here\u2019s what I have to tell you: <strong>Nunca y quiero decir NUNCA podr\u00e1s hacer que alguien se interese por ti o luche por ti esforz\u00e1ndote demasiado.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trying too hard to impress someone is linked with desperation and lack of self-love. So, instead of putting all your efforts into making someone like you, focus on falling in love with yourself and you\u2019ll start attracting the right people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-demanding-too-much\">3. Exigir demasiado<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine.jpg\" alt=\"una chica de pelo largo y casta\u00f1o se sienta con un hombre y hablan tomando vino\" class=\"wp-image-162495\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-with-long-brown-hair-sits-with-a-man-and-they-talk-over-wine-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Do you demand to have dinner\/drinks paid by them? Do you demand that they help you with anything you\u2019re going through at the moment? Do you demand that they do what you say?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Al igual que esforzarse demasiado, exigir demasiado es otro error en las citas. De hecho, <strong>esforzarse demasiado y exigir demasiado son dos extremos t\u00f3xicos y, como tales, deben evitarse.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep in mind that the person you\u2019re dating is not responsible for your happiness, finances, and well-being. <strong>They can help you with things if they want to but you shouldn\u2019t demand that they do things for you, especially if they aren\u2019t comfortable with doing so.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Exigir demasiado es la receta para una relaci\u00f3n infeliz y malsana en la que una persona exige y la otra se esfuerza por satisfacer sus necesidades a cambio de amor y afecto. \u00bfQuieres estar en una relaci\u00f3n as\u00ed? (Y yo que lo pensaba).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-thinking-you-have-to-have-instant-chemistry\">4. Pensar que hay que tener qu\u00edmica instant\u00e1nea<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Muchas personas piensan que deber\u00edan experimentar una qu\u00edmica intensa e instant\u00e1nea desde la primera cita. <strong>SORPRESA: <\/strong>Eso rara vez ocurre.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, when you don\u2019t experience that instant and strong chemistry everyone is talking about in real and virtual life, you might not be interested in dating them any longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s the thing with chemistry: <\/strong>Algunas personas experimentan una qu\u00edmica intensa en un primer encuentro, mientras que otras necesitan m\u00e1s tiempo para desarrollarla. La qu\u00edmica no es algo que ocurra siempre por defecto, sino que tambi\u00e9n puede ser un proceso.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Chemistry levels increase through eye contact, deep conversations, subtle touches, laughing and having a good time. So, thinking you have to have instant chemistry is nonsense and it shouldn\u2019t be a deal-breaker in dating.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-having-sex-too-soon\">5. Tener relaciones sexuales demasiado pronto<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Having casual sex with someone you don\u2019t consider being in a relationship with is a completely different thing. But having sex too soon with someone you see as a relationship material is, undoubtedly, one of the biggest dating mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Now, what exactly is \u2018too soon\u2019?<\/strong> There\u2019s this unwritten rule that having sex on a third date is absolutely acceptable. This isn\u2019t the case with everyone and, in my humble opinion, it shouldn\u2019t be. It takes time to get to know someone, so you shouldn\u2019t have sex for at least 5 weeks of getting-to-know-each-other.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, it all depends on how frequent your dates are. If you date once or twice a month, then the process of getting to know each other will be longer than usual. Here\u2019s another valuable advice:&nbsp; <strong>Forget about these numbers and unwritten rules but focus on how you feel about the person you\u2019re dating.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Have you built an emotional connection? Do you trust them and vice versa? Do you feel like you\u2019re ready to have sex with them or are you anxious about doing it too soon?&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Estas son las preguntas que debes hacerte antes de mantener relaciones sexuales con alguien que te gusta y ves como una pareja potencial.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Los 10 mejores fracasos en citas | Lo MEJOR de Cartoon Box | Recopilaci\u00f3n de dibujos animados divertidos\" width=\"720\" height=\"405\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/jzJDH0UIKsg?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-ignoring-red-flags\">6. Ignorar las se\u00f1ales de alarma<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una chica decepcionada se sienta junto a la ventana\" class=\"wp-image-162496\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-disappointed-girl-sits-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>When we like someone, we often ignore red flags and make excuses for their behavior. We do that because we\u2019re unwilling to admit to ourselves that they might not be that interested in us or we think that we can change their opinion.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ignorar las banderas rojas nunca ha tra\u00eddo nada bueno a nadie y es el mayor error en las citas.<\/strong> Al ignorar las cosas negativas que hace alguien con quien sales, en realidad te est\u00e1s perjudicando a ti mismo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Algunas de las mayores se\u00f1ales de alarma en las citas son las siguientes:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u2022 Second-guessing your feelings for them (which happens for a reason)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u2022 Being pressured to get physical before you\u2019re ready<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u2022 Ghosting<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u2022 Manipulations and mind games<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u2022 Jealousy issues<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u2022 Flaking out on plans, etc.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s probable es que ignorar este tipo de cosas acabe en un desenga\u00f1o amoroso y muchas noches sin dormir. As\u00ed que hazte un favor y escucha a tu instinto.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-becoming-official-too-quickly\">7. Oficializarse demasiado r\u00e1pido<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Como he dicho en el signo anterior, se necesita tiempo para conocer a alguien, por lo que oficializar demasiado r\u00e1pido es algo que debes evitar. Por lo general, las parejas se oficializan tras 2-3 meses de noviazgo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sin embargo, cuando se trata de citas, nunca sugiero a nadie que se centre \u00fanicamente en los n\u00fameros. <strong>Some people will be ready to become official after 3 months of dating while others won\u2019t, and that\u2019s okay.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep in mind that it\u2019s always better to wait longer than ruin things by labeling your relationship too soon in case you aren&#8217;t certain about it. It\u2019s always better not to make a dating mistake than to make one, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-having-unrealistic-expectations\">8. Tener expectativas poco realistas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Nuestra perspectiva de las citas est\u00e1 muy influida por los medios de comunicaci\u00f3n (pel\u00edculas, canciones, revistas, etc.). Por ejemplo, cuando vemos algunos gestos grandilocuentes en las pel\u00edculas, esperamos lo mismo en la realidad.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, that\u2019s how we enter the realm of \u2018having unrealistic expectations\u2019 of our potential partner. We think that they should behave the certain way, and if they don\u2019t, they\u2019re not the right person for us.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The media and reality are two different concepts and it\u2019s high time we learn to differentiate between the two.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The media is trying to sell us the idea of what a perfect couple\u2019s life should look like and the reality just reminds us of its unpredictability and the need for compromises, flexibility, and patience.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you have unrealistic expectations, you become more prone to experiencing a syndrome called \u201csingle forever\u201d.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-asking-the-wrong-questions\">9. Hacer las preguntas equivocadas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"una chica y un hombre est\u00e1n sentados en la mesa de un restaurante y hablan\" class=\"wp-image-162497\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-girl-and-a-man-are-sitting-at-a-table-in-a-restaurant-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u00bfCu\u00e1l es su color favorito? \u00bfCu\u00e1l es su pel\u00edcula favorita?&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If these two questions are the only questions you ask your potential dates, then you\u2019re making another dating mistake called \u2018asking the wrong questions\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Para conocer mejor a alguien, hay que hacerle las preguntas adecuadas que revelar\u00e1n su personalidad, sus intenciones, sus planes de futuro, etc. <\/strong>Knowing their favorite color doesn\u2019t mean anything to you in the long run but knowing what they think about cheating may come in handy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Focus on asking deep and thoughtful questions that don\u2019t require one word replies but extensive replies that reflect their mindset and personality. Asking the right questions is a surefire way to build an emotional connection.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-comparing-everyone-to-your-former-partner\">10. Comparar a todo el mundo con su antigua pareja<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you have this (unhealthy) tendency to compare everyone to your former partner? If yes, then you\u2019re making a huge dating mistake.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Just because your current date doesn\u2019t enjoy playing video games or texting sessions like your ex, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should stop dating them. <\/strong>Lleva tiempo enamorarse de alguien y compararlo con tu ex pareja es un enfoque terrible cuando se trata de citas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Actually, it means that you haven\u2019t moved on and that\u2019s why you look for your ex\u2019s trademarks in others. If that is the case with you, then you should take a break from dating until you\u2019re ready to meet people without the need to compare them to your ex.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It was just another Friday and I was getting ready for a date with a guy I\u2019ve been texting for a few days. 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