{"id":16252,"date":"2020-03-13T09:16:53","date_gmt":"2020-03-13T09:16:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16252"},"modified":"2022-02-05T16:51:57","modified_gmt":"2022-02-05T16:51:57","slug":"7-senales-de-que-ya-no-merece-la-pena-luchar-por-una-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-senales-de-que-ya-no-merece-la-pena-luchar-por-una-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales de que ya no merece la pena luchar por tu relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Somos luchadores y apenas nos dejamos vencer si existe la m\u00e1s m\u00ednima esperanza de conseguirlo.<\/p>\n

Whether it’s keeping the relationship going, taking care of other people, saving ourself and our dreams, we are simply not quitters. But, sometimes, the best thing to do is to quit.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, there is no other way for us to save ourself in the end because even if we try hard, if we give everything we have, it\u2019s not enough.<\/p>\n

Some things are just not meant to work out. Relationships included. If you find yourself going in circles, fighting the same battles over and over again, maybe it\u2019s hora de irse<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still not sure if your relationship is worth fighting for any longer, check the list below that can help you make the decision that\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n

1. Tus peleas se repiten<\/span><\/h2>\n

Fighting is good and quite healthy for a relationship, if you figure out the problem in the end and you grow closer with every fight. But if you are constantly fighting about the same things and the things that are triggering them, that\u2019s a huge red flag that says you\u2019re not that good a match.<\/p>\n

You haven\u2019t figured out the way to discuss any issues and get past them and without that, you\u2019ll be stuck in the same place until someone finally snaps. It could be because you two are not on the same page because of emotional immaturity but regardless of the reason, this is always a major red flag.<\/p>\n

2. La comunicaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 desactivada<\/span><\/h2>\n

O en realidad nunca lo tuviste.<\/p>\n

When we fall in love with someone, it feels great. We are in the honeymoon phase and everything looks amazing and so perfect. We are getting to know each other, the passion is through the roof and we just can\u2019t get enough of each other. But what happens once the honeymoon phase is over?<\/p>\n

If you notice that communication is lacking and that you can\u2019t open up to each other, that could be a sign you\u2019re not ready for a relationship yet.<\/a><\/p>\n

O, si su comunicaci\u00f3n ha desaparecido de repente, su hombre podr\u00eda estar cerrado por alguna raz\u00f3n. Los hombres tienden a hacer esto cuando desenamorarse<\/a> but don\u2019t know how to approach it.<\/p>\n

3. Ya no os veis como iguales<\/span><\/h2>\n

What started off as an amazing relationship now seems like a give-and-take game. You are always the one who tries harder, the one who fights for the two of you, the one who gets hurt and the one who doesn\u2019t feel like she\u2019s good enough.<\/p>\n

If he makes you feel less worthy and like you\u2019re beneath him, that\u2019s just him playing games to boost his ego. He will strip you of your confidence so he can feel better about himself.<\/p>\n

True love is not about one person being better; it\u2019s about both of you striving together.<\/p>\n

4. No hay confianza<\/span><\/h2>\n

Trust is the most fundamental thing in a relationship. You can\u2019t have love without trust.<\/p>\n

If you suspect that he\u2019s cheating and he has given you a reason to do so or he already cheated but doesn\u2019t seem like changing his behavior afterward, it\u2019s time you put yourself first.<\/p>\n

If a man can\u2019t see your worth and constantly leaves you wondering if maybe you\u2019re not good enough, then he\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\n

A real man will never let his woman go to sleep thinking she\u2019s not enough. A real man will never give her a reason to doubt his loyalty in the first place.<\/p>\n

5. He can\u2019t seem to take the blame or see things from your perspective<\/span><\/h2>\n

Esta es una se\u00f1al de que es emocionalmente no disponible<\/a>. It\u2019s not that he doesn\u2019t want to, it\u2019s the fact that he is incapable of doing so. He sees himself as perfect, so how can he do something wrong?<\/p>\n

He will try to make you feel guilty for bringing up the issue and you will end up apologizing to him or feel like you\u2019re crazy for thinking such a thing. But your feelings, your gut, never lies.<\/p>\n

No one has the right to decide whether they hurt someone or not. If you hurt someone, it\u2019s up to you to acknowledge your mistake and apologize, even if it\u2019s accidental.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s incapable of even apologizing, that\u2019s not a person you want to have around, because he will never change.<\/p>\n

6. No hay respeto<\/span><\/h2>\n

If he doesn\u2019t respect your emotions, your opinion or you, you don\u2019t need to put up with that shit.<\/p>\n

You did not build yourself for him to take you for granted, for him to see you only as arm candy. There is no man who is worthy of your tears and your love, if he doesn\u2019t know how to appreciate you.<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that you deserve to be happy too. You deserve someone who will love and respect you. If he\u2019s not the one doing it, then he\u2019s not the one worth fighting for.<\/p>\n

7. You feel lonely even when you\u2019re together<\/span><\/h2>\n

The worst kind of loneliness is the one we feel next to the person we love. It\u2019s the kind of loneliness that tears you up from the inside, bruises your soul and breaks your heart every single day.<\/p>\n

If you feel lonely next to him but he doesn\u2019t seem to notice, leave. It just means he is too involved with himself to notice you\u2019re hurting.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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