{"id":162547,"date":"2023-03-06T10:01:13","date_gmt":"2023-03-06T10:01:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=162547"},"modified":"2023-03-06T10:01:19","modified_gmt":"2023-03-06T10:01:19","slug":"cosas-de-las-que-hay-que-hablar-antes-de-iniciar-una-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cosas-de-las-que-hay-que-hablar-antes-de-iniciar-una-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"7 conversaciones que debe mantener antes de iniciar una relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"
A decir verdad, si no prestas atenci\u00f3n a estos temas antes de iniciar una relaci\u00f3n, \u00e9sta quedar\u00e1 definitivamente sentenciada a muerte antes incluso de empezar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sabemos que la honestidad y la comunicaci\u00f3n abierta son la clave del \u00e9xito de toda relaci\u00f3n sana. Pero, \u00bfcu\u00e1les son los temas y preguntas reales en los que debes ser 100% honesto? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
First things first, don\u2019t be afraid to ask tough questions because if you don\u2019t, the whole course of your relationship might be altered, unfortunately, in the wrong way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Qui\u00e9n sabe, quiz\u00e1 esa conversaci\u00f3n pueda ser el comienzo de algo hermoso. As\u00ed que, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 no ir a por ello? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. \u00bfQu\u00e9 opinas sobre ahorrar o gastar dinero?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
You\u2019d be surprised, but money is the second leading cause of divorce. Why? Because a lot of people get uncomfortable talking about money as if it\u2019s some taboo topic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you don\u2019t discuss your money viewpoints early on, you\u2019re not going to figure out what you\u2019re not aligned on until it\u2019s too late.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
So talk about equal say in financial decisions no matter who makes more money. If the financial decision power isn\u2019t equal it\u2019s going to bring up feelings of resentment or inadequacy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Talk about short and long-term financial goals and make sure they\u2019re also aligned.<\/strong> \u00bfPiensan comprar una casa? \u00bfC\u00f3mo piensan jubilarse y c\u00f3mo ahorran para ello? \u00bfTienen deudas? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It might be too much to ask for this kind of information, but they\u2019re definitely an important aspect of a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. \u00bfC\u00f3mo ha cambiado en los \u00faltimos a\u00f1os?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Self-awareness is another important part of your relationship. Asking your potential partner how they\u2019ve changed in the last few years says a lot about them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A partner who\u2019s aware of their growth and feelings is a partner with whom you\u2019re going to have a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
El cambio es constante, y quienes son conscientes de sus defectos son los \u00fanicos que alg\u00fan d\u00eda podr\u00e1n convertirse en una versi\u00f3n mejor de s\u00ed mismos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Preguntarles por su pasado, sus defectos y su crecimiento te dar\u00e1 una idea clara de lo que puedes esperar de ellos como socios. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. \u00bfQu\u00e9 se considera trampa?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Watching porn? Liking other people\u2019s posts on Instagram? Commenting on a girl’s TikTok? Talking to your ex? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
What\u2019s considered cheating? And how does this impact your relationship?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
It’s not about what YOU feel you do is cheating. It’s about what your PARTNER feels about what you do with others. That\u2019s why defining what you count as cheating is one of the crucial parts before entering a relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cada uno tiene su propia definici\u00f3n de lo que se considera hacer trampas.<\/strong> Once you\u2019re done with this conversation, you should be on the same page in terms of what\u2019s considered cheating and what’s not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If this isn\u2019t the case, don\u2019t ever proceed with the relationship because it might end sooner than you think. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. \u00bfHay alg\u00fan secreto que debamos guardarnos?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Hay quien dice que la sinceridad es la mejor pol\u00edtica. Te acerca y te ayuda a conectar a un nivel emocional m\u00e1s profundo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Others will say that some secrets should never be revealed. So how can you know what\u2019s the right thing to do? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
De hecho, esta es de nuevo una decisi\u00f3n que deb\u00e9is tomar como pareja.<\/strong> Revelar tus secretos puede ayudarte a lograr una mayor intimidad, pero, por el contrario, tambi\u00e9n puede crear sentimientos de miedo y desconfianza constantes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
So what\u2019s the right thing to do? Comun\u00edquese abiertamente.<\/strong> Define tus l\u00edmites: \u00bfdebe haberlos y hasta d\u00f3nde deben llegar? \u00bfPuedes ocultar secretos a tu pareja que impliquen a tus padres o amigos? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you don\u2019t discuss these things with your partner, secrets might ruin every relationship you start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. \u00bfCambian tus expectativas sobre m\u00ed o sobre la relaci\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Salir con alguien es una cosa, pero tener una relaci\u00f3n comprometida y duradera es otra. Entonces, \u00bfc\u00f3mo cambia tu relaci\u00f3n despu\u00e9s de ser exclusiva? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Are you hanging out more? Are you each other’s primary emotional support? Are you each other\u2019s emergency contact?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Going official brings up a lot of these questions. Some people like the way things are in the talking stage, while others expect a more serious approach once you\u2019re official. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
And both of those options are okay, as long as you\u2019re on the same page. But how will you know if you don\u2019t discuss it, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
6. \u00bfCu\u00e1les son sus objetivos a largo plazo?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
El amor no es suficiente. El amor no es suficiente para que una relaci\u00f3n sana y comprometida a largo plazo funcione plenamente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
We\u2019ve been told our whole life that love is all you need and it\u2019s not true. VALORES, OBJETIVOS Y ESTILO DE VIDA. <\/strong>Esas son las cosas, adem\u00e1s del amor, que necesitas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s not just about what you want to do this weekend, but what you want to do with your life. Hablar de objetivos a largo plazo es como jugar una partida de ajedrez. <\/strong>You\u2019re both looking ahead, planning your moves, and strategizing for the future. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you talk about long-term goals, you\u2019re discussing the moves and strategies for your relationship. You\u2019re looking at the bigger picture and considering how to make sure that your relationship is successful and full of joy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sex. One of the most important parts of the relationship. When it\u2019s good, it\u2019s only like 20% of the relationship. When the sex is good, you don\u2019t care about it that much. You\u2019re not thinking about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pero cuando el sexo es malo, puede ocupar 80% porque tiene que ver mucho con tus sentimientos y tu deseo real de estar con esa persona. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sexual preferences and experience aren\u2019t crucial, but they are important. When you love someone, you will selflessly adapt to their preferences, but only to the extent that your comfort zone allows.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But what should you do when you have completely different preferences? And for one reason or another, you just can\u2019t adapt to them? Will the love fade? The emotional connection? Probably yes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
As\u00ed que habla de sexo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Don\u2019t Forget<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
I heard numerous stories of how people ended several years-long relationships because they didn\u2019t talk about the right things when they needed to and I\u2019m sure you don\u2019t want to be one of those couples. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
So what\u2019s the right thing to do? \u00a1HABLA!<\/strong> Talk about the important things. Sex, finances, self-awareness\u2026Those are all things that will become a problem later on if you haven\u2019t discussed them at the very beginning. But asking those questions isn\u2019t enough. Don\u2019t forget to bring honesty with you!<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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