{"id":162555,"date":"2023-03-06T10:15:16","date_gmt":"2023-03-06T10:15:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=162555"},"modified":"2023-03-06T10:15:21","modified_gmt":"2023-03-06T10:15:21","slug":"por-que-el-vinculo-traumatico-es-tan-fuerte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-el-vinculo-traumatico-es-tan-fuerte\/","title":{"rendered":"5 impactantes razones por las que el v\u00ednculo traum\u00e1tico es tan fuerte"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 no te vas si es tan malo? Es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil decirlo que hacerlo, \u00bfverdad?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00bfTe has encontrado alguna vez en una relaci\u00f3n en la que hab\u00eda tantos altibajos pero al mismo tiempo tantos altibajos? \u00bfEstaban constantemente tirando y empujando al mismo tiempo? \u00bfEra como un c\u00edrculo vicioso?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s what trauma bond is. <strong>The attachment to someone who\u2019s destructive, manipulative and\/or abusive.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Only those who truly love someone, but sometimes feel like they\u2019re forced to hate them know how this bond can be strong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But why, why can\u2019t you just run away from a person that\u2019s obviously causing you pain?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-you-become-physiologically-addicted-to-abuse\">1. Te vuelves fisiol\u00f3gicamente adicto al abuso<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The reason why people become addicted to abuse is because of the body\u2019s natural response to trauma. When we experience a traumatic event, our bodies release hormones such as adrenaline and cortisol.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Estas hormonas pueden actuar como un agente adormecedor y pueden hacer que nos volvamos adictos a las endorfinas que se liberan durante la experiencia abusiva.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>El v\u00ednculo traum\u00e1tico puede ser tan fuerte que resulte dif\u00edcil romperlo, incluso cuando la v\u00edctima sabe que la relaci\u00f3n no es sana o es perjudicial. Esto se debe a que el cuerpo se ha acostumbrado tanto a la experiencia del abuso que lo anhela, aunque sea perjudicial.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-twitter wp-block-embed-twitter\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Trauma bonds are usually obsessive, uncontrollable and have an &quot;us against the world mentality&quot; <br>This makes it feel like an addiction cos there&#39;s codependency and fear of abandonment.<br><br>Toda esta familiaridad con la disfuncionalidad en la que crecimos hace que nos sintamos seguros.<\/p>- Maestro Aprendiz (@truekingmaker) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/truekingmaker\/status\/1625496904967802881?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" rel=\"noopener\">14 de febrero de 2023<\/a><\/blockquote><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-trauma-withdrawal-is-excruciating\">2. El s\u00edndrome de abstinencia es insoportable<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Adivinar. El primer s\u00edntoma y la raz\u00f3n m\u00e1s com\u00fan por la que las v\u00edctimas de traumas siempre vuelven. <strong>You start to wonder if you were the toxic person or if you are the one who\u2019s in the wrong.<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Resumiendo: te haces luz de gas a ti mismo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This withdrawal is always followed by guilty craving. You revisit their social media and if you catch some of their hints the first you\u2019ll do is text them. And then the whole cycle repeats itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-mirroring-and-future-faking\">3. Reflejo y falsificaci\u00f3n futura<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-beautiful-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-thoughtfully.jpg\" alt=\"una hermosa chica con el pelo recogido se sienta pensativa\" class=\"wp-image-162567\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-beautiful-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-thoughtfully.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-beautiful-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-thoughtfully-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-beautiful-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-thoughtfully-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-beautiful-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-thoughtfully-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-beautiful-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-thoughtfully-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-beautiful-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-thoughtfully-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-beautiful-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-thoughtfully-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-beautiful-girl-with-tied-hair-sits-thoughtfully-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>El espejismo y la falsificaci\u00f3n del futuro son juegos peligrosos que practican los maltratadores. Fingen ser el complemento perfecto de la v\u00edctima, absorbiendo una gran cantidad de informaci\u00f3n para crear una identidad falsa.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Estas promesas vac\u00edas crean falsas esperanzas para el futuro y atrapan a la v\u00edctima en una relaci\u00f3n ligada al trauma.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tienes una falsa sensaci\u00f3n de la conexi\u00f3n de la llama gemela por el reflejo. Una llama gemela es una conexi\u00f3n del alma entre dos personas que tienen un v\u00ednculo y una conexi\u00f3n intensos m\u00e1s all\u00e1 del mundo f\u00edsico.<strong> A menudo se considera una conexi\u00f3n de almas gemelas, pero a un nivel mucho m\u00e1s profundo.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pero la triste realidad es que todo esto es falso. S\u00f3lo han copiado tu comportamiento para que creas que tienes algo real.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-helplessness-and-fear-of-abandonment\">4. Indefensi\u00f3n y miedo al abandono<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you ever feel like you&#8217;re stuck in an unhealthy, yet so strong emotional attachment? Like you&#8217;re so scared of being abandoned that you feel helpless and you can&#8217;t break free? Well, that&#8217;s what a trauma bond is and it&#8217;s not easy to get out of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>It feels like you\u2019re superglued to each other and most often it\u2019s based on fear of abandonment and helplessness.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>El miedo a quedarse desamparado puede ser una idea aterradora, pero tambi\u00e9n puede dar lugar a una poderosa conexi\u00f3n entre dos personas. Ante el miedo, es probable que el individuo se aferre a la persona que le proporciona consuelo y apoyo, creando una sensaci\u00f3n de seguridad y protecci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Puede ser una ayuda inestimable para superar un acontecimiento traum\u00e1tico.<\/strong> &#8211; creating a strong bond that can help the individual cope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-sense-of-safety\">5. Sensaci\u00f3n de seguridad<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"una pareja de enamorados est\u00e1 sentada en el sof\u00e1 hablando\" class=\"wp-image-162569\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/a-loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-couch-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>La sensaci\u00f3n de seguridad que proporciona un v\u00ednculo traum\u00e1tico es una de las principales razones por las que estos v\u00ednculos pueden ser tan fuertes y dif\u00edciles de romper. Cuando las personas sufren un acontecimiento traum\u00e1tico, suelen sentirse inseguras en el mundo y pueden desarrollar problemas de confianza.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>La presencia de alguien que comprende su experiencia y ha pasado por la misma situaci\u00f3n puede proporcionar una sensaci\u00f3n de seguridad y consuelo.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cuando se comparte un v\u00ednculo profundo con alguien especial, puede ser dif\u00edcil separarse. Pero cuando te sientes seguro, puedes abrirte y compartir tus pensamientos y emociones m\u00e1s \u00edntimos.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This connection can be incredibly strong and can create an intense and unforgettable connection between two people and here\u2019s your reason why the trauma bond is so strong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-keep-in-mind\">Tenga en cuenta<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Los v\u00ednculos traum\u00e1ticos son una fuerza incre\u00edblemente poderosa que a menudo puede moldear nuestras vidas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aunque los v\u00ednculos traum\u00e1ticos pueden ser dif\u00edciles de superar y de los que es dif\u00edcil liberarse,<strong> comprender las fuerzas subyacentes del v\u00ednculo traum\u00e1tico y su impacto en nuestras vidas puede ser el principio de la curaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Todas estas razones mencionadas anteriormente pueden hacerte pensar que romper un v\u00ednculo traum\u00e1tico es imposible, pero con valor, resiliencia y las personas adecuadas a tu alrededor, \u00a1sin duda puedes conseguirlo!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why don\u2019t you just leave if it\u2019s that bad? Easier said than done, right?&nbsp; Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where there were so many highs but at the same time so many lows? Were they constantly pulling and pushing at the same time? And it felt like a vicious cycle? That\u2019s what&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":162565,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-162555","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/5-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Trauma-Bond-Is-So-Strong-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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