{"id":16263,"date":"2020-03-13T10:16:26","date_gmt":"2020-03-13T10:16:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16263"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:26:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:26:46","slug":"no-esperes-conocer-a-la-mujer-abandonada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-esperes-conocer-a-la-mujer-abandonada\/","title":{"rendered":"No esperes encontrarte con la misma mujer que dejaste atr\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lo que m\u00e1s me sorprende del amor es la gente que deja atr\u00e1s a otros, pensando que podr\u00e1 encontrarse con la misma persona que dej\u00f3 cuando vuelva. <\/span><\/p>\n

Siempre estaba ah\u00ed para ti. Dios, se esforzaba tanto por hacerte feliz. <\/span><\/p>\n

She did see you for who you really were but she always hoped that there was good somewhere there, living inside your soul. She thought that just by loving you, she\u2019d be able to make that good come to the surface. <\/span><\/p>\n

For so long, she was down just so you could be up. For so long, she didn\u2019t care about herself, she just cared about you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Durante mucho tiempo, descuid\u00f3 sus sentimientos para poder ocuparse de los tuyos. Hizo todo esto para demostrarte que la vida ten\u00eda otro lado, adem\u00e1s del oscuro que t\u00fa ve\u00edas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hizo todo esto porque cre\u00eda en el amor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pasara lo que pasara, hiciera lo que hiciera, casi todas sus batallas fueron in\u00fatiles. Cre\u00eda que luchaba por ti, pero en lugar de eso luchaba contra ti. <\/b><\/p>\n

Vendiste tu alma al diablo. No te importaba nadie m\u00e1s que t\u00fa mismo. <\/b><\/p>\n

T\u00fa eras tu propia prioridad y dejaste de creer en d\u00edas mejores hace mucho tiempo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca cre\u00edste de verdad en el amor, \u00bfverdad? Pero a\u00fan as\u00ed hiciste lo que pudiste tirando de tu <\/span>manipulador furtivo<\/span><\/a> trucos para que se enamore de ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Necesitabas a alguien que estuviera a tu lado, necesitabas una isla de escape, necesitabas a alguien que creyera en ti, as\u00ed que hiciste que se enamorara de ti. Pero no ten\u00edas intenci\u00f3n de corresponderle, \u00bfverdad? <\/span><\/p>\n

She waited for so long to see the love that she was giving to you returned back to her. And she could\u2019ve waited for a thousand years more and it still would have been in vain. <\/span><\/p>\n

Porque nunca fuiste de dar mucho. Todo lo que te importaba era tomar y tomar. Pensabas que te lo merec\u00edas todo. <\/span><\/p>\n

But boy, you didn\u2019t. You only got her kindness and love and attention because she believed you were worthy of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

It took her a while to see you actually weren\u2019t. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando te vio como realmente eras, se neg\u00f3 a creerlo. Cuando no mostrabas ning\u00fan rasgo de humanidad en ti, le echaba la culpa al momento. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pens\u00f3 que si se quedaba a tu lado s\u00f3lo un poco m\u00e1s, si luchaba m\u00e1s por ti, las cosas cambiar\u00edan. Cre\u00eda que hab\u00eda un momento para todo en este mundo y que vuestro momento juntos a\u00fan estaba por llegar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, era obvio: <\/span>el momento era oportuno<\/span><\/a>eras t\u00fa quien estaba equivocado.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dios, esta chica no quer\u00eda otra cosa que amarte y ser amada por ti. Quer\u00eda ese amor puro, el que da viento a tus alas y te hace sentir invencible. <\/b><\/p>\n

Pero lo que hizo tu amor fue demostrarle que estaba al pie del ca\u00f1\u00f3n. <\/b><\/p>\n

When you turned your back on her, she still felt this immense love toward you. I mean, it would be naive to think that once you were gone, she\u2019d be free of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nadie deja de amar as\u00ed como as\u00ed. Ella invirti\u00f3 tanto de su tiempo y puso tanto esfuerzo en ti que era imposible que siguiera adelante as\u00ed como as\u00ed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even though you were toxic, you were still loved by her. We don\u2019t choose to whom we give our heart to. Well, in most cases we can\u2019t. <\/b><\/p>\n

Simplemente nos enamoramos y luego luchamos con todo el bagaje que conlleva enamorarse si nos enamoramos del chico equivocado. <\/b><\/p>\n

Cuando te fuiste, ella estaba dolida. Todos sus sue\u00f1os y esperanzas se hicieron a\u00f1icos. Y se pregunt\u00f3 si todos sus esfuerzos hab\u00edan sido en vano. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se pregunt\u00f3 si todo su amor hab\u00eda sido en vano. \u00bfSe hab\u00eda entregado por completo al hombre equivocado?<\/span><\/p>\n

Por otro lado, te fuiste sin pens\u00e1rtelo dos veces. <\/span><\/p>\n

You left as if the woman you were leaving could be find around any corner. But soon, you\u2019ll see how mistaken you\u2019ve been.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nadie m\u00e1s que ella se esforzar\u00e1 tanto por ti. Ninguna otra te amar\u00e1 sin contenerse, tan desinteresadamente y con tanta facilidad. <\/b><\/p>\n

No other will put you on a pedestal and forget about herself. No other will care for you even when you don\u2019t deserve it. <\/b><\/p>\n

And then it will hit you. Then you\u2019ll realize what kind of a woman you had in your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sure, you\u2019ll try with plenty others but none of them will try as hard to make you happy as she did. <\/span><\/p>\n

Because none of them will be capable of loving you the way she did, and they won\u2019t be capable of loving you even on your darkest days. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando te des cuenta de todo esto, ser\u00e1 demasiado tarde. La mujer que dejaste atr\u00e1s se habr\u00e1 ido en cuanto desees que vuelva. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sure, she\u2019ll still be living and breathing but it won\u2019t be the same woman you left behind. <\/b><\/p>\n

She will no longer be naive. She will no longer allow herself to give all of her to someone who doesn\u2019t deserve her. She will no longer bend over backward for someone who gave her nothing in return. <\/span><\/p>\n

She won\u2019t be waiting for you, you know? She will have moved on by the time you realize what you had and lost. <\/span><\/p>\n

Porque las mujeres como ella lo dan todo hasta el punto de darse cuenta de que sus esfuerzos son en vano. Y una vez que se dan cuenta, una vez que ven sus errores, entran en raz\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

What strikes me the most are the people who leave others behind, thinking that they\u2019ll be able to meet the same person they left when they come back. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

The people left behind move on eventually. They learn from their mistakes. And once they do, there is no way in this world that they\u2019ll get back to the way they were before. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But you\u2019ll soon come to realize this on your own.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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What strikes me the most about love is the people who leave others behind, thinking that they\u2019ll be able to meet the same person they left when they come back. She was always there for you. God, she tried so hard just to make you happy. She did see you for who you really were…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":16267,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16263","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/saranny-him-576278-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16263","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16263"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16263\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16267"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16263"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16263"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16263"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}